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April 24, 2017
I'm very sorry for your loss. We are not meant to bury our children. I apologize for this request, but I'm wondering if Eric's father John went to Hobart college? I was his Freshman roommate and am trying to contact him. I came across an obituary from 2012 and am not sure if this is the same person.
Thank you very much
Jim Sterling
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Sue and John Burnett
March 30, 2017
Kathy and Family, We are so sorry and sad. This is a terrible disease. You are in our thought and prayers.
Patricia Wedding
March 28, 2017
Thank you for your candid honesty in the obituary, which I read in full. I work in the field of addiction recovery and appreciated that you did not gloss over the horrid disease of addiction and that you remembered all of the very fine qualities of Eric, who I never had the pleasure to meet.
God bless each and every one of your family as you struggle through this tragic loss.
Patricia Wedding, addiction counselor
Rick Cower
March 28, 2017
Kathy
I was so sorry to here about the loss of your son. When you spoke of him you always lite up. There are truly no words I can say to ease the pain your feeling.
Remember all the good times you shared as a family with him.
With time the pain will ease and you will cherish all the wonderful times you had together.
V. Holbert
March 28, 2017
I came across this and it touched me so much. I am so sorry for your loss. Such a beautiful memorial
Randy Fello
March 22, 2017
Very sad to hear this news. I will pray that you find peace.
Best,
Randy Fello
Anonymous
March 20, 2017
I wanted to share that your obituary touched me in a meaningful way in case that brings you small comfort. My son at 24 is in a residential rehab program. Yet I know the statistics. Your advice for always loving will be taken. No regrets on that at least. You're a great mother. And you had a great son. God bless.
Tom & Jan Hranek
March 20, 2017
Dear Cousin Kathy,
The obituary you wrote is one of the most moving, powerful witnesses to helping us understand such horrible tragedy and everything that led to Eric's early and untimely death. What you wrote will help many come to grips with the horrors of medically induced addiction, and hopefully will curb the excess use of opiod prescriptions. Our nation is in an over-prescribed crisis and your candid explanation may, hopefully will, help to curb this epidemic. May God truly bless you and hold Eric in His abundant mercy!
BTW, Deacon Tom Picciano, who is our Endwell Rotary President this year, expects to share your powerful obituary about Eric at tomorrow's Rotary meeting at Brothers 2 at noon. It is a tragic account that needs to be heard and understood.
With our love and prayers!
Tom & Jan Hranek
from one mom to another
March 20, 2017
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of you son. I can't imagine your pain. What a wonderful tribute to your son. T
hank you for reminding me that no matter what, you love them. My son is also an addict, and tonight there is a meeting. It has been a long day and all I want to do is rest, but after reading the obituary for your son, I have picked up our fight again in honor of your son. Thank you for your courage and strength to write such a loving obituary and encouraging me to carry on our fight. May you rest well tonight knowing his fight is over, and find the strength to start the new fight of living without him.
Bill Pendlebury
March 20, 2017
Kathy,,,,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss,,,, so sad but in a better place,,, my deepest and most heartfelt condolences,,,,,,,,,
Bill
March 20, 2017
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 119:76.
Jessica Demkovich
March 19, 2017
I watched Eric grow up with my brothers, Matt and James, and we are all beyond heartbroken to hear this news. Having lost James to the same addiction in '06, please know my entire family has your family in our hearts. Eric was a beautiful soul and so much more. Much love and sympathy to your family, Jessica Demkovich (Rogers) and family
Al Chechatka
March 19, 2017
Kathy,
It has been a very long time...I babysat Eric when he was an infant in the summer of 1982. I can't imagine the pain of the loss you must be feeling. What you wrote was so heartfelt and beautiful seeing the beauty of your son.
I volunteer work in the field of addiction at a few rehab places here in South Florida, listening to stories of struggle and have such empathy and compassion to those struggling with addiction. How so many start the same way as Eric, from injury where opiates are prescribed and become addicted. It is such a horrible horrible disease my heart and prayers go out to your family as well as Eric's friends.
March 19, 2017
I am so very sorry for the loss of your loved one Eric. There is nothing that can be said to remove the pain you're feeling, but may you find some comfort in knowing that our pain doesn't go unnoticed by our Heavenly Father. He is close to the broken hearted. May the good memories you have bring your heart peace.
March 19, 2017
I did not know Eric - however I thank you very much for sharing his history. It may help many others.
Joyce Gioia
Shelley Shelp
March 18, 2017
Kathy, so, so sorry, my heartfelt condolences and prayers for you and your family.
Julia
March 18, 2017
I'm sorry for your loss. I too lost a son to heroin last summer. God Bless
Rich Fabian
March 18, 2017
Kathy,
What a beautiful tribute to your son. My heart breaks for you and your family. Please know that I am thinking of you and sending tons of positive energy your way, Find comfort in the happy memories. All my love
Rich
Betty Havel
March 18, 2017
My Dear Kathy and girls,
So sad Eric had to leave this earth so early. My love and sympathy to you all. Betty
Anonymous Anonymous
March 18, 2017
My sincere condolences from our family to yours.Can't think of the words other brave to have put such a loving tribute to your son.I believe it hit home with so many others.Our deep,deep love dissappear because of situations be they sad or tragic.We have a son that fights that difficult battle every day.I have been through dealing with O D,s in which I thought I was holding his precious being for the last time As tears roll down.my face I try to remember the son I knew prior to this.We will never stop loving him dearly and now is when he needs us more than ever thank you once again for your loving,powerful words regarding this score on our community
Philip and Debra Moore
March 18, 2017
We share in your grief, as our son Adam died 6 yrs. ago, robbed of his wonderful life by addiction from injury. It isn't right, and it isn't fair. Our family wants Erics Family to know that you are not alone. May God Bless all of you during this difficult time.
Martha Neer
March 18, 2017
Thinking of you and praying for your family Kathy.
March 18, 2017
My name is Fran G, I did not know Eric or his family, but I know about addiction and the horrific pain it causes to all that are touched by it. I would like to extend my sincerest and heartfelt condolences to Eric's family, and pray that Eric is at Peace and rejoicing in Heaven.
Patty Nirchi
March 18, 2017
Dear Kathy and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
You will never forget, but you will cope for each other. Love and memories never die.
Keeping you in my prayers. Patty Nirchi
marlene rohe
March 18, 2017
To the Pinto Family.
May God Bless you all. He has already as I know the pain you have endured fighting his addiction. May he have eternal life in Heaven . I too Lost my son Brandon to this horrible addiction. God Bless you all.
Steve Pilarcek
March 18, 2017
Kathy & Family,
May God bestow His comfort to you all at this difficult time. May Eric rest in peace.
Natasha Malle
March 18, 2017
To all who knew and loved Eric,
Deeply saddened to hear of his passing. I thank you for such an honest ,beautiful tribute to him. I myself have a brother who has suffered from heroin addiction. I can not imagine what you are going through but pray you can find peace in all the loving memories you have of him. My favorite memories of Eric were coming home from school and there's Eric in my pool or eating in my kitchen, he would say what your mom said I'm always welcome and he was. What a wonderful person. He will be missed so much!
Ronnie Z
March 17, 2017
Loyal, Intelligent, Generous, Funny, Positive, Real, Talented, Athletic, Unique.
These are the words that come to my mind well remembering Eric. In life there are leaders and followers, Eric was always a leader. He really took initiative to live life to its fullest, and make his friends do the same. Im thankful for Eric's loyalty as a friend, and greatful the for memories we share. If you were near Eric then you had a smile on your face, he will be missed.
You will live on with us all.
Tom & Janet Hranek
March 17, 2017
Our deepest sympathy. God rest his soul and have mercy on us all.
Jamie Russo
March 17, 2017
Kathy, it took a lot of courage to write such a beautiful tribute to your son....this isn't the way it is supposed to happen. Our beautiful children are not supposed to be in Gods hands before us. Wishing you strength to get thru this and peace and love in the coming years. May his memory bring a smile to your heart! I'm so deeply sorry!
March 17, 2017
Oh my God Kathy, this is horrific news. We are so sorry to learn of Eric's passing. Having two boys his age we can not even begin to imagine what heartache you are dealing with! Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you each and every day as you cope with this huge loss. There can be no greater loss than a child. We are so very sorry!
Love,
Dale and Sharon Leighton
March 17, 2017
So very sorry for your loss. Amazing family. Thank you, despite your grief you bring the heroin epidemic that is taking so many of your children to reality. God bless.
Jason Demkovich
March 17, 2017
I did not know Eric all that well but have talked to him through the years growing up in Endicott. I too have a niece that is struggling with the same addiction. We can only hope that she will find the strength to overcome this horrific disease. I personally thank you for your heartfelt honesty writing Eric's obituary. May god give you and your family the much needed strength to be strong each and every day. Rest in peace Eric!
Fred Vasconi
March 17, 2017
Dear Kathy and Family, my heart is saddened by your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
John 14:1-3
March 17, 2017
Kathy, So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Judy (Sbarra) Wahila
Elizabeth Schwartz
March 17, 2017
To Eric and Pinto Family, Another taken by herion, my prayers are with you. We lost our son to herion last August, but Love never ends.
Steve Mooney
March 17, 2017
Rest In Peace my friend. I will always remember the good times. You lived life on your terms and made a lot of people happy along the way. You were the best friend anyone could ask for and always brought a smile to those around you. I hope you're looking down on us with a grin on your face and jamming out to some Blues on your air guitar. Love you my friend, you will be missed.
March 17, 2017
Dear Kathy, Nicole and Mellisa
Our daughter Amy (Sawicki) Mann just called to let us know about Eric. We were very saddened by your loss. Our deepest sympathies and prayers to you and your family.
Jim and Nancy Sawicki, Bear, Delaware
Mayor John Bertoni
March 17, 2017
To Kathy and Family,we share in your loss of Eric and thoughts and prayers to you all and To Eric .Know I and so many will always be with you now and forever.
Kip Cerasaro
March 17, 2017
I have many great memories growing up with Eric. I'll never forget him. My sincere condolences.
Mary Outman. (Kocak)
March 17, 2017
Kathy, family and Irene. Thinking of you all at this time of sorrow. You have my deepest sympathy. What a beautiful tribute to him. Kathy, your son left your life , but will never leave your heart. Do not think of the loss..... Remember the LOVE. Much love,
March 17, 2017
You don't know me but I have a beautiful nephew who is a heroin addict and is attempting recovery for what sems the 25th time. I pray for your family and the loss of your beautiful boy, Eric. I am also a nurse and have been witness to the addiction process. It is an awful thing and I pray that we find better resources and increased awareness and losing the stigma that comes with addiction. May God bless you and your family and may Eric rest in his arms.
Joann Bertoni-Richards
March 17, 2017
Kathy and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. What a beautiful tribute to Eric, I am praying you have the strength to have peace. God Bless.
corky clark
March 17, 2017
you dont know me but we sadly are the same, we have a group of Angel Moms that hold each other up & there is Compassionate Friends when you are ready if you would like we have hands to hold yours! I'm so sorry to your family & you his Mom,such a beautiful boy & words for those needing help! Corky Clark ,Bing NY
Barbara Midwinter
March 17, 2017
To Eric's loved ones: I did not know Eric but I want to say how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Like cancer, I think we can all also say we know someone struggling with addiction. Thank you for being so candid with Eric's struggles but his legacy is what an awesome person he apparently was and how he touched other's lives with his unique ways. It breaks my heart when I hear of yet another young life taken because of the stronghold drugs have on a person. Prayers go out to all of you.
Nicole Morgan
March 17, 2017
Kathy, Nicole, Melissa & Family...My Heart Breaks For You All...So Sorry To Hear Of Eric's Passing. My Deepest Condolences...I Will Always Cherish Our Childhood Memories. God Rest His Soul
Mandy and Dave Lefcheck
March 17, 2017
Kathy and family,
So very sorry for the loss of Eric. What a beautiful and honest tribute to him. May the love of family and friends and your beautiful memories help you find peace. Rest in peace Eric.
Mandy and Dave Lefcheck
March 17, 2017
My condolences, never met him but I feel for family and friends. Such a young soul!
March 17, 2017
I would like to express sincere condolences to the family and loved ones of Eric. I did not know him at all, but know a few who were suffering in the way he was, including my children's father who has been gone for 3 years. God bless you and be with you now and always in the future when you think of and miss your loved one who sadly lost the battle he was fighting. You are in my prayers.
Rick Rando
March 17, 2017
Kathy and all,
Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your beloved Eric and for the heroic, honest, and heartfelt obituary. My prayers are with you.
Pete Cieri
March 17, 2017
RIP Eric.
It was an honor to have known you.
Bruce Pipher
March 16, 2017
Otto buddy I will miss you.
Penny Stringfield
March 16, 2017
I lost my son to this same battle two years ago. Bless you for your honesty and bravery. This is how we fight the battle and lift the stigma. Eric sounds like an amazing human being...love and blessings to all of you
Peg
March 16, 2017
I am saddened to see another life taken by this awful disease. I grieve for you and with you. I am also proud of the obituary being honest and brave , as it should be <3 Thank-you for sharing your love and sorrow......may Eric Rest in Peace ~ my deepest sympathy to all that knew Eric.
Matt Daly
March 16, 2017
Pinto family,
Sorry for your loss Eric was a great guy and will be greatly missed. He had a natural presence and was just a joy to be around. I recall him clearly from high school and am saddened by his passing. He will be missed by all who were fortunate enough to have gotten the pleasure of getting to know him.
March 16, 2017
So sorry for you lost of Eric.
Beautiful tribute to him
rick Whatman
March 16, 2017
My prayers to the family and friends. Eric you will always be missed in my eyes! you were one of the kids that always cared for others and always made everyone smile. The guy that would help anyone out anytime Fly high bro!
Bruce Pipher
March 16, 2017
Otto Buddy, I will never forget you.
March 16, 2017
To Eric's family
God bless you. It is a horrible disease. I have it in my own family. We, as a family, have been fighting it for years. I will keep Eric and you in my prayers. He doesn't have to fight any longer. He is in Gods hands now, watching over you. My heart breaks for you.
Margaret
Joanne Werner
March 16, 2017
Kathy, Melissa and Nicole-
I am totally stunned at the loss of Eric. I remember babysitting him in the summer and boy was he a handful at times!! But lots of fun!! We played football in your backyard and I fell against the fence and had to get stitches in my chin!! Fun memory!! I'm soo sorry!! May you have great, goofy, fun, precious memories as I do to get you through this difficult time. Sending my deepest sympathies and love!!
Kathy & Joel Gorgrant
March 16, 2017
Dear Kathy, we are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son Eric. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May Eric Rest In Peace and may you find comfort in cherished memories.
A Community Member
March 16, 2017
I didn't know Eric but I know this disease. I have seen too many children fall victim to it. My heart goes out to all the people who loved Eric. Thank you for sharing his story in such a beautiful, touching and loving way.
Kim Collins
March 16, 2017
Our deepest sympathy goes out to your entire family. May God bring you peace and comfort. Prayers are with each of you.
~Kimmy Massar Collins
March 16, 2017
Kathy and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May peace be with you.
- Terry Smith
Vikki Gigante
March 16, 2017
Kathy and family
We are so sorry for your loss and wish you God's blessings at this time and always.
Theresa and Vikki Gigante
Mary Patrick
Anonymous
March 16, 2017
To Eric's brave family,
Thank you for being so eloquent about your son's struggle. I am praying your words reach all the other parents that don't know what to do next. Love is the only thing we can do.
May the love you have for Eric carry you through all the difficult days. Praying your love for him reaches the heavens and shines on forever.
Jessica Fitts
March 16, 2017
So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.-Jessica (Cornick) Fitts
March 16, 2017
Dear Kathy, Melissa and Nicole, There are no words to convey how sorry I am for your loss. May you all find comfort in your many loving memories of Eric. Keeping you all in my prayers and sending you love and hugs at this difficult time.
Francine (Lambrinos) and Steve Floody
Loudon, Tennessee
Mary Lou Keenan
March 16, 2017
Kathy, Nicole, & Melissa
May the love of family and friends help you thru this sad time.
March 16, 2017
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
A Stranger who cares
March 16, 2017
My Thoughts, Prayers and deepest condolences to the Mother, Siblings, Family and Friends on the loss of your beloved Eric.
I never met Eric or his family and I would like to thank your for your honesty as to his struggles with a dependency that's unrelenting!
I was touched by the eulogy written for him and it is very clear he was a wonderful person and much loved!
Please let the Promises of Our Heavenly Father sustain you through this unimaginable difficult time and comfort you until you greet your beloved Eric again....your son Eric is "Safe in the Arms of Our Loving Savior"
March 16, 2017
Thank you for sharing all of this. My heart goes out to all of you and breaks for Eric's addiction. Bless you.
Eileen Buckingham
March 16, 2017
Dear Kathy and family, so sorry to hear of the loss of your son, heartfelt sympathy to all of you, I am babysitting in Atlanta since my retirement and am unable to attend services but know you are in my thoughts and prayers, Take care, Sincerely,Eileen Buckingham
Ray S
March 16, 2017
I never knew Eric but I have a son going through the same battle . Thank you for the words of encouragement. So sorry for your loss . I bet he was a great person and son.
Andrea Cole
March 16, 2017
Kathy, I am so sorry. You are a wonderful person and even more wonderful mother. My prayers go out to you and the girls. Stay strong.
Andrea Esposito Cole
March 16, 2017
I did not know your son nor do I know you but this is the most inspiring obituary I have ever read. May it resonate with those who are struggling with drug addiction. Thank you.
Aly Pasquale
March 16, 2017
Thinking of all of you during this sad time.
Lisa Darrow
March 16, 2017
Kathy & family,
We are so sorry to hear about Eric's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. So sad...
Mike & Lisa Darrow & family
Kathy Stacconi-Ciaravino
March 16, 2017
There are no words. My heart breaks for Kathy, Melissa and Nicole and all of the family. There are those of us fortunate enough to not be touched directly by addiction...but we all know someone who has been. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May Eric rest in peace.
Barbara and Charles Gance
March 16, 2017
Kathy and family, we are so very sorry to learn that Eric lost his battle. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May special memories bring smiles to your face.
Sue Misulich-Miller
March 16, 2017
Kathy I am so sorry to hear about your son... you are in my thoughts and prayers
Vicki Monticello
March 16, 2017
Kathy, Melissa, and Nicole, Please know I'm thinking of you and you're in my prayers. Beautifully written tribute to Eric.
All my love, Vicki
Cathy Magee
March 16, 2017
Kathy and family,
Will always remember when Mike and Eric met when we lived next door, they had many hours of fun, playing ball and being boys !!!! that's how we will remember him, may he rest in peace.
Cathy&Mike Magee
March 16, 2017
To the Family,
I have fond memories of Eric my family is so very sorry for your loss.
Carol Pipher Mueller
Kathleen Lubert
March 16, 2017
Kathy and JohnSo sorry for you loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Kathleen
March 16, 2017
Kathy, My heart goes out to you at this difficult time. You are in my prayers.
Suzy Esposito Hamlin
Dave Schneider
March 16, 2017
RIP Eric. You will be missed by many.
Patti
March 16, 2017
I don't know this family, but may God help you through this rough time and may you find less sadness knowing that your son, brother, friend is at rest now. God Bless
March 16, 2017
Kathy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this most difficult time. I hope the good memories of Eric will help you through.
Denise(Diack)Mancini
Lisa Hulse
March 16, 2017
So sorry for your loss.
Anna Opie Rotach
March 16, 2017
Nicole and Melissa, I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
March 16, 2017
Dear Kathy, Nicole, Melissa and families,
My heart goes out to all of you at this very sad time. I will always remember Eric as the fine young man I knew. Love, Becky Diorio
gary bowen
March 16, 2017
So sorry for your loss, may the lord be with you and your family in this time of need.
David & Tricia Alamo
March 16, 2017
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Eric. Many memories of the wonderful person he was come flooding back and we will always treasure them.
David and I are in Rochester babysitting our grandchildren for a week. Know that we would be there if we could.
Our thoughts, prayers and love are coming your way.
Love you all.
Maia Henson
March 16, 2017
Kathy, Melissa, Kathy and Family,
My deepest sympathy to you at this very difficult time. I am sending prayers, hugs and Love to you all.
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