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Thomas Duffy Obituary

Thomas J. Duffy

Charlotte, NC - Duffy, Thomas J. - 61 of Charlotte North Carolina, passed away on Tuesday, December 24, 2019 after an extended illness. Tom is predeceased by his Parents, Jim and Louise Duffy. He is survived by his brothers: Paul, Jim (Laurie) and David. He was a graduate of Binghamton Central High School. Tom spent most his adult life in Charlotte where he managed multiple jewelry stores and became a huge fan of the Carolina Panthers. He was greatly loved and will always be in our thoughts.

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin from Dec. 26 to Dec. 29, 2019.

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Susan Furr

April 20, 2020

I just found out about Toms passing. So sorry for your loss. My family loved Tom so much. His laughter and sweet spirit will be missed by all. He will be in our hearts forever. Love Susan

James Duffy

January 10, 2020

Uncle Tommy always brought laughter and joy around him. I will always remember Tommy's ability to effortlessly find the humor in any situation. He was a great man who's absence will be felt with immense hardship. I love you uncle Tommy, hope to share a cold one in the afterlife. Cheers.

Nicole Duffy

January 1, 2020

Uncle Tommy was a great uncle. He was always there with humor and a few infamous tricks up his sleeve. He was always down to earth and loved his family. He will be greatly missed by all that had the pleasure of knowing and loving him.

Ray Insley

December 31, 2019

Sad news to hear at Christmas time. Rest In Peace Tommy. Reserve the rest of the gang a tennis court, some stoggies and plenty of alcohol there in heaven. We'll party when we get there.

Ray Insley

Domenic Emilio

December 31, 2019

My memories of Tom are from West Junior high school! He was a friend ,he was a smiling face always!, he was a great basketball player(man could he hit that jumper from the corner or what!)He was my friend a long time ago. Yep we lost touch, but today I want his family to know, he touched my life also! So sorry for your loss! God bless,Tom Duffy! My old friend!!!!!

December 30, 2019

Paul, Jimmy & David.
I am so very sorry to hear about Tommy. I will always remember Tom and the fun times of our youth.

Marty Giblin, Melbourne FL

Karen Duffy

December 30, 2019

Contact me Paul, Please. Thanks, Karen

Karen Duffy

December 30, 2019

Paul, Jimmie and David,
So sorry to hear about Tommy. I loved him very much. RIP honey. Love, Your sister-in-law Karen.

Nancy Mastry

December 30, 2019

I have to admit I had a pretty big crush on Tommy so many years ago & often thought about him over the past 40 years. Tommy had sparkle in his eyes, a great sense of humor with a wonderful laugh. I will always smile when I think of him, may he rest in peace. Nancy (Punako) Mastry - Vinton, VA

Mark Gunther

December 29, 2019

Paul. So sorry for your loss
God speed

Joe Steiner

December 29, 2019

Paul and family please accept my sincere condolences in Tommy's passing. We spent many funny afternoons at my place on Margaret Street after he mowed your Aunts' lawns. Rest in peace my friend.

December 29, 2019

So sorry for your loss Paul, it's been a hard year for you. I'm glad I got to see you once again. Take care Cynthia Sutliff

Allen. Mattison

December 29, 2019

I met Tom in 1995 and we became the best of friends word's cannot express how much he will be missed.He would go out of his way to help you God be with you and rest in peace

PAUL DUFFY

December 29, 2019

I was there in the beginning I was there at the end love you brother

Cindi Stone

December 29, 2019

Tommy, I was only around you a few times however , know we would have been great friends . Rest well and know you are Loved. Cindi

Denise Vorobel

December 29, 2019

Jimmy and Laurie
I am so sorry for your loss.
You are in my thoughts and prayers

Gary Hoch

December 28, 2019

Tommy was a great guy. Always happy with a smile on his face. Sorry about your loss.
Gary Hoch LA California

Andy Norris

December 28, 2019

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family Tom will be greatly missed I'm glad you said he was a friend of mine.

Cathy Tyson

December 28, 2019

Rick and I send our sincere condolences and will be keeping the entire Duffy Family in our thoughts and prayers.

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