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Victoria Marugg
November 1, 2020
Over the years, Ruth shared many tales of her very full and colorful life, in Chicago, Winnetka, Queens, Boston, Providence, San Francisco, Aviano, Berkeley, Portola Valley, Susanville, and Cloverdale. Many places, but with Ruth, her life was about the people connections. So many, and so well-remembered. In 2006 we were able to connect with many of the alumni of Portola Valley School. She also held fast to her friendships in "Libraryland" and the children's book publishers by remaining active in the American Library Association. I diligently tried to contact all who knew her, but I know I missed many. Just before Ruth passed, in a short voice recording, she bid farewell to her dear friends and profusely thanked all those "who made my life worthwhile." I sent that recording to all I whose contact info. I had, but I know that so many were not on that list. If you are one of those folk, please feel free to contact me, at [email protected] . We can share stories and perhaps even photographs. You'll remember' she was handy with a camera. Nancy Wayenberg Brown, it was your note that inspired me to write this. I'm hoping you may take a second look
Nancy Wayenberg Brown
October 31, 2020
I just found out about Ruth's passing. She was one of my teachers in Aviano, Italy. She was a very good teacher and one of those that one never forgets. She became friends with our family and was often over to eat pizza with us when Mom made pizza on Sat. evening. She and a couple other teachers and a librarian were friends with my older sister who worked summers at the base library when not in college. So we saw a lot of Ruth. Blessings to you.
February 18, 2018
Dear Victoria,
Thank you for getting back to me. I'd love to be included in the Portola Valley School events. I'm at [email protected]; please send me your email address so I can get on the list.
Thanks,
Kathy Sauber Jones
Sally Dodge
August 9, 2016
I was very sad to read about Dr. Gordon's passing
She was my 7th grade teacher in Portola Valley and she was definitely one of my favorite teachers.
One fun memory of her. She came to have dinner with me and my parents at our home and she brought me a new pet, a Hamster!
I am sorry I wasn't able to keep in touch with her over the years. My condolences to her wife Viki and the rest of her family.
August 1, 2016
I'm sorry, Vik. I know what it is to lose a spouse of long standing. My thoughts are with you. Bill H.
Beverly Forman
August 1, 2016
Dear Viki Marrugg,
Though I never had the honor of meeting Ruth, I know how much she meant to you and to those around her. You and the entire community have lost a friend and an advocate for a better world.
Wishing you comfort and peace with your many fond memories of such a strong and caring partner.
Take care.
Kathy Comfort
July 30, 2016
I first met Dr. Ruth 38 years ago when she visited my class at Cedar Mill School in Susanville, CA. I was teaching seriously cognitively challenged students at the time and surprised that she would come to my classroom. I remember her as always being inclusive of all students, full of energy, and always smiling. I also recall her as having a great sense of humor.
When I saw her picture in the Press Democrat this week, I was a bit confused. I thought she looked familiarbut this is Sonoma County, not Lassen. As I read through the notice, I realized it was the same Dr. Ruth that visited my classroom so many years ago. Dr. Ruth and her partner also came to my house in Clear Creek for dinner. My husband is a writer and an artist and it was a wonderful evening with great conversations about writers and artists and art.
I send my love and deepest sympathies to her wife, Vicky, and to her family, and friends.
Kathleen Jones
July 28, 2016
Dear Ms. Marugg,
I was so sad to hear of Ruth Gordon's passing. Over the years when I've stopped to reflect on the teachers who influenced and inspired me, Miss Gordon was at the top of my list. I'd thought about looking her up on a few occasions, but without success.
She was my 8th grade teacher at Portola Valley School 1960-'61. (Though I can't find a class photo of that year, I think your brother Steven was in that class too, as I found his picture in my freshman class in the Woodside HS yearbook.)
We had just moved to Portola Valley in my 8th grade year, a hard year to break into formed social groups, and Miss Gordon was always kind and encouraging. I found it especially interesting that her obituary credited her with teaching Nobel Laureate Roger Kornberg how to diagram sentences...that's one of my fond memories of her. She invited me to stay after school, and went over and over the process until I'd gotten it. She also refused to let me write another book report on Nancy Drew, insisting that I expand my literary horizons. Thank you Miss Gordon!
And for years afterward, I could still recite the entire choral reading she wrote for our promotion ceremony that began: "STOP! On a bone-dry dessert do you hear the sound of water...slowly dripping down?" I wonder if it's printed in one of her poetry anthologies?
I'm especially sad that I wasn't aware that she'd worked in the Kenilworth Junior High School library; I wonder if we crossed paths while my children attended there, 1991 - 1994? I would have been so excited to see her and thank her in person.
Please accept my most sincere condolences for your loss. If there is to be a memorial service, I would very much appreciate hearing about it.
Very truly yours,
Kathleen Sauber Jones
Nan Perrott
July 28, 2016
Viki, Feeling sorrow for you and in awe of Ruth's long and accomplished life. Glad she had you in her life. We send you love and hugs and want to connect with you. Nan and Pat
Patricia Hogan
July 28, 2016
I am so sorry to learn that Ruth has died. She was such a strong articulate supporter of many causes and she always urged her friends to join her in advocacy. I will treasure her memory and remember how she gave me the strength to speak out in Council at ALA. Her wit and her great heart were so special. I was blessed to know her and she gave me the great gift at the end of a message, a good by. I will treasure that as I treasure being one of the people who received her message. Please accept my condolences and thank you Vicki for sending the message. With love and in sadness Pat Hogan
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