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Fred Raineri
February 11, 2011
So sorry to here about Tom, I grew up on the same block as Tom and we hung out as kids. I have a picture of our cub scout softball team with Tom on my dresser.
Lynn (Regalia) Rode
February 11, 2011
What a wonderful video tribute to Tom...I remember his smiling face so well! My condolences to your whole family.
sandie demarta mcclary
February 10, 2011
My memories of 'Moose' are from long ago when we all hung out in high school. Tom, Jeff and Joanne (my oldest 'forever' friend) all coming out their front door together, to cross the street and hang out at the gate before school ... then later at Moose's Deli .. Good time's! His life was way to short. I am so sad and truly sorry for your loss. Sandie Demarta McClary
February 9, 2011
Tom's tribute video is posted here-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=weiWb43GXVU
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Jill Ryan
February 9, 2011
~Dear Margaret, I would like to express my deepest sympathy for the loss of Tom. I hope that your wonderful memories of him will bring you comfort and peace at this diffcult time. I am thinking of you and your family and praying for you.
Karen Sherrill
February 8, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. I met Tom & Margaret through softball in Rohnert Park. I have so many fond memories of the time I spent with them. What a wonderful family. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Bob Benjamin
February 5, 2011
To Tom's family, I will always remember
Tom, I thank god for such a great friend.
I will miss him, until the day comes when we see each other again.
With deepest sympathy,
Bob Benjamin.
Summer Morgan
February 4, 2011
Tom was my coach the first season i started playing softball in 2007. Margaret was on the team. They made me feel so comfortable. He was very encouraging. He had a way of doing things that made you see how much he loved the sport. Which in turn made me wanna pay attention cause he might know something i wanna learn!~~~~~ He only coached me that one season but he made sure to keep an eye on my game to give me encouragement when i needed or some quick advise or even a high five for a job well done! He bonded with my husband gene behind the back stop. Joking and laughing! Poking fun at us ladys!~~~~ He was one of a kind! He will be greatly missed. I will think of him every time i'm at the ball park. There's no replacing him! I'm glad he is not hurting any more. May he rest in peace!
Shelly Caalim
February 4, 2011
We will miss you Moose. Mike and Shelly Caalim.
Dorene Colclough
February 4, 2011
Tom (Moose) you will be missed. Now may you rest in peace. Shannon & Logan my heart goes out to you.
Love Cousin Dorene & Danny
Michele Espinoza
February 4, 2011
When I first moved to Rohnert Park a friend talked me into playing in a womens softball league as a way to make some new friends. One of the first people I met was Tom. What an incredibly friendly, encouraging, all around great guy. I so looked forward to those nights with him and Margaret and the gang. Just wonderful people. Thank you Tom, you will be so missed by all of us at S-park and beyond.
Shannon Cavanaugh
February 3, 2011
You were the greatest dad a girl could ever ask for. You will live forever in my heart. Logan & I will make sure to tell Taliyah when she gets older how much her Papa loved her. I love you Daddy.
Katy McCoy
February 3, 2011
Margaret and family, I am sorry to hear about your loss. Please let me know if I can do anything.
Roesners
February 2, 2011
We will miss you Tom. Loved that laugh.

Life Lives on Through Memories - D& J
Dan & Jan Kelley
February 2, 2011
Dan & I got to know Tom and Margaret through many years of softball. We loved watching Tom, whether as a player or a coach. You could just see him enjoy the game and his friends. He was always supportive and shared his knowledge to help others grow and learn to enjoy the game. His eyes just sparkled when he was playing ball. You saw that same sparkle whenever he talked about or was around his family. Tom, we'll miss you out there. You'll be hard to replace. Love Dan & Jan Kelley
Bill Halverson
February 2, 2011
I have worked with Tom for over 20years and played Poker with him for a very long time. I think of him as family and will miss him. Shannon & Logan Stevie wish you peace in knowing he is without pain. If you need anything please let us know.
Denise Grimmer
February 1, 2011
I am an old friend of Tom's, I was in his wedding to his first wife Sue. I have many great memories of Moose from a very long time ago. He was a really sweet guy. So sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Gigi (Denise Giusti Grimmer)
Lori Colclough
February 1, 2011
Cousins are the 1st friends of your life. Cousins are there as childhood friends. No one will ever understand your crazy family like your cousins....even if you don't talk much lately.
Jerry Bullard
February 1, 2011
Tom always had an extremely positive attitude and outlook towards life, regardless of his circumstances. He was truly inspirational. You will be missed, friend.
Barbara Gurganus
February 1, 2011
Dear Shannon, Logan and the Cavanaugh Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love from the Gurganus and Colclough Families.
Molly Wandrey
February 1, 2011
You will be greatly missed. We love you TC
Ana Banana
February 1, 2011
To Shannon and family, my heart goes out to all of you and may you find healing in God. Tom is in a far better place than anyone of us can ever imagine. God bless you all with lots of love and peace.
Lynn Regalia (Rode)
February 1, 2011
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
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