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A.J. Stewart Obituary

Maj. Gen. A.J. Stewart, who had an illustrious 32-year military career, most recently as the commander of Air Force Personnel Center, died Sunday, March 9, 2014. He was 55.

Gen. Stewart lost his battle with brain cancer, which he fought for more than two years. He wrote openly about his battle in a highly publicized commentary "never saw this coming: lessons learned in trying times," published March 12, 2012.

During his career, the general was driven to create a better Air Force for all airmen. His passion for military service, integrity and excellence was reflected in his daily actions. He often remarked that his steadfast commitment to serve was ignited every time he looked at the American flag.

A beloved military leader and sought-after speaker, Gen. Stewart captured the hearts and minds of his audiences with his vivid stories and candid references about the military, his career and life lessons.

Gen. Stewart began his military career as an Air Force academy cadet, graduating in 1981 and going on to become a mobility pilot, flying the KC-135 Stratotanker and the C-17 Globemaster, among others. He logged more than 3,000 flying hours, according to his Air Force biography.

Throughout his career, Gen. Stewart commanded an air refueling squadron, an operations group and a flying training wing. He flew air refueling missions in support of the U.S.-led invasion of Grenada in 1983 and deployed to Southwest Asia in support of Saudi Arabia during the Iran and Iraq war in 1985. He also deployed as Combined Air Operations Center director of Mobility Forces in support of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan.

In June 2008, he came to JBSA-Randolph and took command of Air Force Recruiting Service, Air Education and Training Command, where he was responsible for more than 2,600 airmen and civilians in more than 1,200 recruiting offices across the United States and abroad.

Gen. Stewart epitomized the recruiting spirit as he frequently lauded the Air Force's emphasis on quality of character and quality of effort.

"If you want to be a part of something special, if you want to go as far as you can possibly go in an unconstrained environment, there's nothing else like it. It's a phenomenal service," said the general of the Air Force in 2011.

In August 2010, General Stewart took over as commander of AFPC, where he oversaw 10 subordinate units and more than 3,600 personnel responsible for operations of airmen and their family members.

Gen. Stewart commanded AFPC at a time when significant personnel initiatives were under way. Those included the transforming personnel services delivery for the total force, merging three commands into a single integrated organization and managing the force to meet congressionally mandated end strength.

The general believed in being fit, healthy and strong. He was an active member of the Air Force Cycling Team and rode with the team in 2011 and 2012 at RAGBRAI, Register's Annual Great Bike Ride Across Iowa. However, his true passion was golfing. He golfed every weekend and often found solace from a difficult day on the links in the early evenings.

His military honors and decorations include the Distinguished Service Medal, Legion of Merit and Defense Meritorious Service medal.

Gen. Stewart was born March 6, 1959, in rural Dinwiddie County, Va., and was raised in Baltimore by a single mother who checked his homework each night, kept books in the house and attended parent-teacher meetings, he said in an Air Force video in December 2011.

Growing up with a working mother and three sisters, he found male role models through the Big Brothers Big Sisters program. Later in life, he became an advocate for that program, frequently remarking on the positive impact BBBS had on his early life.

According to Gen. Stewart, his life changed at age 16 when an Air Force Academy recruiting team visited his high school. He knew from that day forward, he wanted to serve his country as an airman.

"We have the world's most respected and feared Air Force. The secret to our success is not in our hardware or software, but it is our airmen," said the general in 2010.

Stewart is survived by: his wife, Areetha Carter-Stewart; two sons, Brian Vincent Stewart and John Calvin Stewart II; his mother, Sandra Stewart; his stepmother, Lillian Stewart; and four sisters: Gwen Williamson, Dawn Stewart, Tracy Stewart and Lisa Campbell.

He is preceded in death by his father, John C. Stewart.

A celebration of his life will be held at 9:45 a.m. on March 24, 2014, with a military flyover at the Community Bible Church, 2477 N. Loop 1604 East, San Antonio, Texas.

In lieu of cards and flowers, donations in Gen. Stewart's memory may be made to the American Brain Tumor Association at http://hope.abta.org/goto/AJStewart.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Progress-Index on Mar. 16, 2014.

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Raymond Morgan

March 29, 2014

Maj.Gen.A.J.Stewart was a great person in everything that he done.I didn't get the chance to spend a lot of time with him, but we did email each other sometimes. May God continue to Bless the Stewart family.
With Love Benji

March 26, 2014

May you rest in peace. Your Mother was so proud of you.My deepest sorrow to his wife and children. Roberta Burton

L. PALMER

March 21, 2014

Be encouraged, Stewart family. To be absent in body is to be present with the Lord.

Michael Donavon

March 21, 2014

My sincere condolences to the Stewart family. I never met General Stewart but would have considered it a great honor to have done so. I read about the General in the Air Force Times, today. Being familiar with Dinwiddie County, Va., and having flown for many years out of the Petersburg/Dinwiddie airport, I felt a special connection with the General. I am retired from the USAF; my son is also retired from the USAF. I would have loved to have been able to meet and speak with General Stewart - God bless all of the Stewart family.

Teresa Farley

March 21, 2014

Buddy, you will always be remembered as the kind gentle soul I knew as a child. May God bring you peace and blessings to your family.

Teresa Farley

Peyton Farley

March 20, 2014

God
open up your skies,
I'm sending you a good friend of mine

Phil and Shirley Smith

March 19, 2014

Bud...a final, fond, respectful, loving salute. To the family... Prayers of comfort and support. Love always!

Ray Mims

March 19, 2014

MG Stewart; a superb leader and remarkable commander, an awesome man and very gifted speaker. We thank God for blessing us with such a great man. Continued blessings to the Stewart family.

Edward Jolly

March 18, 2014

General Stewart, may God Bless you and your family.

CMSgt Jolly (Ret)

Shirley Browder

March 17, 2014

God is our present help in our time of need. Just trust in God because He will never leave you, nor forsake you,and remember God only takes the best.

Della McGuire

March 17, 2014

Sir you lived a full and wonderful life GOD gave you all he planned for you

Jennifer Zevgolis-Harvey

March 17, 2014

Thank you for your service and dedication. Praise the Lord as Heaven has gained a Soldier! May GOD be with the Stewart family and acquaintances in this time of need-
Jennifer Zevgolis-Harvey

phyllis Wyche-Grandison

March 17, 2014

After school kids come until their parents get off work.I really wanted them to meet you..So today when schools out ,I let read about you...RIP my friend Buddy...

Gloria Harris

March 17, 2014

2nd Timothy 4:7 I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith

Angel Hill

March 17, 2014

I would like to express my deepest condolences to the Stewart family. I will keep you in prayer.

Kerry Macaitis

March 16, 2014

Rest in peace, Sir. Heaven must have needed you. One great leader. You fought a good fight. God Bless.

Diane Matthews

March 16, 2014

God needed a soldier with a great heart. He knew that A.J. would be that man! I will Keep your family in prayer.

Melvin & Ruth Wilson

March 16, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Wayne Stacey

March 16, 2014

General rest in peace.

From a Marine

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