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Charles Gray Obituary

Mr. Charles W. (Char-boy) Gray, of 529 Railroad Ave., Wakefield, Va., answered the Master's call on Sunday morning, June 21, 2009, at Southside Regional Medical Center, Petersburg, Va. He was born in Southampton County, Va., on Jan. 31, 1947, to the late Henry and Elsie Gray.

He confessed Christ at an early age and was baptized at the Union Hill United Church of Christ, Sedley, Va., where he was a lifelong member, serving in the Male Chorus.

Charles was a gentle, kind and loving man who always had an open door to his home, helping anyone who was in need. He was a 1968 graduate of Central High School, Sussex, Va. Immediately after graduation, he joined the United States Marine Corps serving his country in Vietnam for three years. He continued to serve his country for an additional 13 years in the reserves. He graduated from Virginia State (College) University in 1978. Charles retired from the Sussex County Sheriff's Department as sergeant with 19 years of service on March 31, 2003. He was a member of the Wakefield Town Council. He was preceded in death by his sisters, Alice Gay, Carrie Brown and Paige Gray. On June 9, 1973, he was joined in holy matrimony to Linda Ellis.

Charles leaves to cherish his loving memory, wife of 56 years, Linda E. Gray; two daughters, Rita Mason and Cecila Holloman (Marcus) of Wakefield, Va.; one son, Charles A. Gray of Wakefield, Va.; six grandchildren, DeAnthony Mason, Ronlesha Jones, DeAndaz Gray, CeAshija Rawlings, Darryl Rawlings Jr. and CaeShaun Gray; godson, Dontae Stith; three sisters, Thelma Bain, Lora Bailey (Herbert) and Dorothy Gay (Fred) of Wakefield, Va.; two brothers, Joe Gray (Eunice) of Petersburg, Va., and Robert Gray (Cassandra) of Stone Mountain, Ga.; one uncle, Sammuel Hilliard of Wakefield, Va.; foster children, Nikkita Sumler and Shannon Johnson; six sisters-in-law, Christine Ricks, Marie Brock, Barbara Hill, Diann Sumler, Evon White (Melvin) of Surry, Va., and devoted Arlene Stith (Windell) of Southampton, Va.; two brothers-in-law, Mervin Ellis (Jeannie) of Wakefield, Va., and Leroy Ellis (Vera) of Queens, N.Y.; many nieces and nephews, among them one devoted nephew, Sterling Gray; and cousins, other relatives and friends.

Funeral services will be conducted at 3 p.m. Saturday from the Union Hill United Church of Christ, Sedley, the Rev. Roy Stokes officiating. Interment will be in the church cemetery. Relatives and friends will kindly assemble at the above residence at 1:45 p.m. The remains will rest at the church at 1:30 p.m.

Remains rest at the Tuckers Funeral Home, 415 Halifax St., Petersburg. A.A. Tucker, funeral director.

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Published by The Progress-Index from Jun. 22 to Jun. 24, 2009.

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June 26, 2009

To my uncle and one of my true heroes. It is pretty hard for me to even express how I feel. You gave me word of advice the first time I left home to come to war. And it is because of this war I am not able to be there for my family. Uncle Chuck meant the world to me he took all us camping gave us young men advise on life. He also served in a war made it home to raise a family and teach all of us men how to be men. I will miss him dearly this lost has touched me here in Iraq. To my family I wish I could be there and I love you all. You are with me in my prayers.

SGT Marvett O. White
US Army

Marvett White

June 26, 2009

To my uncle and one of my true heroes. It is pretty hard for me to even express how I feel. You gave me word of advice the first time I left home to come to war. And it is because of this war I am not able to be there for my family. Uncle Chuck meant the world to me he took all us camping gave us young men advise on life. He also served in a war made it home to raise a family and teach all of us men how to be men. I will miss him dearly this lost has touched me here in Iraq. To my family I wish I could be there and I love you all. You are with me in my prayers.

SGT Marvett O. White
US Army

June 26, 2009

We were sorry to hear of your loss. May God continue to carry, hold and keep you through your time of sorrow. You are in our prayers.


Dwight & Marion Hamlin

Bertha & Tyrone Gray

June 25, 2009

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. Blessed are the merciful, For they shall obtain mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see GOD."
Char-Boy,we will miss your pure heart and your contagious smile.
May the GOD of grace, comfort and mercy be with the family.

Sandra Ellis

June 25, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Celestine Winnegan

June 25, 2009

My Thoughts And Prayers Are With You And Your Family In Your Time Of Grief.May Your Memories Of Char-Boy Bring You All Comfort.May God Bless You And Your Family In This Time Of Sorrow.God Wouldn't Put More On You Than You Could Handle.No Bond Is As Great As That Between A Parent And Child. So Ce-Ce If You Need Anything Please Let Me Know.(Nucky)

Edith Parham Melton

June 25, 2009

My sincere condolences to the Gray family. I was a classmate of Charles in the 1968 Graduating Class from Central High School. He was a very caring and nice person. I am saddened to hear of his passing. May God send His love, grace and mercy to the family in your time of deepest need.

Monann Davis-Sanders, Anjellica Davis, Aaryn Davis and A'Kiah Sanders

June 24, 2009

May God continue to keep you in his arms at this time. Ronlesha and DeAnthony, the kids and I are thinking about you and praying for you at this time. If you need us just call.

Sandy Pond

June 23, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the Gray family at this difficult time. May GOD bless you as you take this sad journey. Rita if there is anything you and your family may need,dont hesitate to call.

KENDRA THOMPSON

June 23, 2009

I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR WHAT HAPPENED TO CHARLES A.K.A BIG DADDY.HE WILL BE DEEPLY MISS I SEEN MY SYMPATHY.HE WAS A GREAT MAN AND FATHER

June 23, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Always remember God knows best. May he bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Please do not be unhappy just because he's out of sight, always remember he's with you morning, noon, and night. CJ,Toccara,and T'Asijah

Rodney & Kimberly Ellis

June 23, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Lisa Rodgester Henry

June 22, 2009

I was so saddened to hear of Charles passing, my dad worked with him at the sheriffs office for years. Such a wonderful person. Always willing to go the extra mile for someone, may God bless each and everyone of you at this time in your lives. Keep your faith and know that you have a wonderful guardian angel watching over you.

Kathy Royall

June 22, 2009

On behalf of the Spinal Cord injury and disorders outpatient clinic at the VAMC in Richmond,Va please accept our deepest sympathy at the passing of Mr. Gray. He will be missed.

Sussex County Dept of Social Services

June 22, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Dennis & Joyce Holmes

June 22, 2009

To the Family,
We were deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your husband, father, brother and our "Uncle Charlie". He was such a wonderful person always greeting with with a smile. Uncle Charlie will be greatly missed. Keep your eyes lifted to the hills from whence cometh your help. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

SHERIFF RAYMOND BELL

June 22, 2009

MAY GODS RICH BLESSING BE WITH YOU AND,
YOURS DURING THIS TIME I,PRAY THAT GOD
WILL POUR OUT MANY BLESSIING UPON YOUR
FAMILY MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

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