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BARRETT, DR., JOHN T., of Medway Place in Providence passed away peacefully at home on January 26, 2010, in his 93rd year, surrounded by his loving family. He is survived by Mary Eyre Sisson Barrett 'Puss', his wife of 68 1/2 years.

He was born June 11, 1917, in Lewisville, Indiana, the son of Ruth (Telfer) and the Rev. Maurice E. Barrett, who served for many years as the minister of Washington Park Methodist Church in Providence.

He graduated from Classical High School, Brown University and Boston University Medical School. He served in the Army Medical Corps during WW II in the European Theatre and again during the Korean Conflict.

He was in the private practice of pediatrics at 122 Waterman St. from 1949-1990, in association with Dr. Henry Utter, Dr. Wilson Utter, Dr. Robert Lord, Jr., and Dr. Judith Shaw.

While a student, he authored a paper entitled 'The Smallpox Inoculation Controversy in Puritan New England,' for which he was awarded the Sir William Osler Medal, the first such medal presented by the American Association for the History of Medicine. He received the W.W. Keen Award for distinguished service to the Brown Medical School.

He served as the Rhode Island Chairman of the March of Dimes campaign in 1957 to end polio and for that service was recognized by Brown Medical School along with Dr. Jonas Salk in 1982. He helped establish the Program in Medical Education which later became the Brown Medical School and was a Clinical Professor of Pediatrics from its earliest days.

He simultaneously served as Pediatrician-in-Chief at the RI Hospital and at the Lying-In (Women's and Infants') Hospital.

In middle age he took up golf and became a master of the short game. Fellow competitors will remember him rolling in ridiculous putts to extend or win matches with pipe clenched between his teeth. For many years he served a summer stint as camp doctor at Cragged Mountain Farm in Freedom NH. He was the school doctor for Lincoln and Moses Brown Schools.

He was especially proud of his summer garden at the family cottage in Hope RI, where he kept the tables full with zucchini, tomatoes, and pole beans. He enjoyed giving away his homegrown pumpkins inscribed with the recipients' initials. He and Puss were formidable bridge players and he remained active in the ACBL until the last days of his life.

He was 'ever true to Brown' and served as President of Class of 1939, often hosting gatherings at his home. He rarely missed attending, or later in life listening to, the football games. He was a member of the Friday Night Medical Club, the Hope Club, and Agawam Hunt.

He will be remembered for his unflappable manner and a subtle sense of humor. His family has been blessed by his patriarchy and we know that he is a rare man who will live in our hearts forever.

Besides his wife, he leaves his children and their spouses. William S. Barrett of Freedom NH and his children, Joshua and Jameson; John T. Jr. and Jane W.A. Barrett of Rehoboth and their four children, Abigail B. Bloom, Emily G., John T. IIII, and Eliza W. Barrett; Charles S. and Allison K. Barrett of Providence and Coventry and their children, Amy and CB Barrett; Margaret B. and Steve Holzman of Hurley NY and their children, Sarah H. Kelly and David Holzman; Elizabeth B. and Dennis Johnson of Nevada City CA and their children, Elisha and Miriam Johnson. He is survived by 6 great grandchildren. He also leaves nephews Tim and Rob Barrett; Larry, Bob and Stuart Rider and niece Susan Rider Rittling. He was brother of the late Robert Barrett.

His family will receive friends on Friday at Bethany Home, 111 S. Angell St, Providence, from 5 to 7pm. A memorial service will be held on Saturday at 11 AM in the Friends Meeting House, 99 Morris Ave, Providence. Donations in his memory may be made to Hasbro Children's Hospital, Development Office, Box H, Providence, RI 02901 and will be deeply appreciated. Condolences may be left at monahandrabblesherman.com

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Published by The Providence Journal on Jan. 27, 2010.

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cheryl evenson

February 8, 2010

i am very sorry to hear about your dads' passing from this life. I know he was loved by you and my sympathy to you elizabeth and all your family. "does it take a death to learn what a life is worth?"

Patricia Mancone Paquette

February 2, 2010

The best man, the best person, the best doctor. It has been over 20 years since I've last had contact with Dr. Barrett and it seems like yesterday. He was the pediatrician for me and my nine brothers and sisters and up until he retired he was the pediatrician for my own two boys. I have missed him but have never forgotten his kindness, gentleness and love he shared with my family. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family.

January 31, 2010

Dear Margie and family,

I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I know that your memories will be a blessing.

Sincerely,

Susan, Mark, Greg and Jonny Gatti

Kathy (Thomas) Ramsey

January 31, 2010

Ahhhh, the wonderful tributes to the marvelous Dr. Barrett.
I cannot claim him as my pediatrician, but I can claim him as the camp Dr. at Cragged Mountain Farm, Freedom NH.
First knowing his children, Charlie, Margie, Betsy and Bill was a complete WOW. Instant and long time love of them has ensued ever since. It is a tribute to the man, a man larger than life, a man with humor that echoed from the mountains, that his children would be so special. I will add Allie to the list, for she too became a member of the family.
I know he will be missed in a huge way...I can only offer my sympathy and prayers. It does not seem enough for such a magnificent man.
To his children and Puss consider yourself huggged. I so wish i could do more.

January 30, 2010

The imprint he left on all with whom he came in contact is immeasurable. Colleages,patients and friends will always carry a part of Dr. Barrett with us.

I will miss the encouragement and advice he gave me over the years.

I will miss seeing him sitting in his car watching the Brown football games.

My condolences to the Barrett family and my thanks for sharing John with all of us.

V.A.D'Alessandro M.D.

Norma Rosciti Ponte

January 29, 2010

My deepest sympathy to the Barrett family on such a great loss of such a wonderful man. I was 17 the day I walked into his office with a new baby. He never judged me and took me under his wing to do his best to help me become a new mother. Through my next two babies, after my life became normal he was always there. He was an angel in my families life and we will never forget him.

January 29, 2010

We are thinking of you all..you're in our prayers...and may your memories be your comfort.
Sean and Roberta

Debbie Walsh

January 29, 2010

I would like to extend my sympathy to the Barrett family. I worked for Dr. Utter and came to know Dr. Barrett quite well. He was such a wonderful person and I feel very lucky to have known him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Becky Selle Johanson

January 28, 2010

I am just smiling at the fond memories and the insights of familiar strangers as I don't know most of you.
I must have been in my early teens when in the last house visit from him, he informed my mother that I had the "kissing disease" ! Neither I but especially my mother liked the sound of that. Luckily for me he smoothed things over before he left!
Margie and I reconnected these last few years and by that I have had the pleasure of spending some time at Medway that I am so thankful for. Thank you Barrett Family for the shared times!

Joanne Wilkinson

January 28, 2010

Dr. Barrett was my pediatrician and my earliest mentor as I entered a career in medicine. He gave me a summer job in his office and was a steady, reassuring presence through Christmas cards and letters as I went through med school. When I graduated, he gave me a line drawing that had hung in his office, and I have treasured it ever since. I teach medical students at his alma mater now and refer often to his physical exam techniques (like telling his little patients to 'blow out the light' of the otoscope). I will miss him so much. He was larger than life and will be remembered by so many.

Marc Wyzansky

January 28, 2010

Dr. Barrett was my pediatrician and was the best Dr. I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. He was a great man and set the bar for other to atttempt to attain. My condolences to the family.

Jenny Kane

January 28, 2010

Dear Barrett Family
I was so sorry to hear of Dr. Barrett's passing, I too like many who have expressed their memories, remember Dr Barrett and how wonderful he was. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Sincerely
Jenny (Binyon) Kane

Tom Blais

January 28, 2010

I remember Dr. Barrett showing up at our house and checking out my three brothers, sister and me in the 1960s. Those were the days of house calls and his visits were a memorable event. I also remember him at Cragged Mountain Farm as well as the rest of Barrett clan. He had a great sense of humor and was very kind. Dr. John Barrett was a legend in his own time.

Stephanie Henry

January 28, 2010

What a gift to children (and parents) Dr. Barrett was! My mother adored him. Dr. Barrett finally had to tell her I couldn't be his patient anymore when I was in college. I went for my last visit with him and ran into a girl from high school with her daughter! He had to tell her it was time for me to go to someone else.

I still think the cure for poison ivy is white shoe polish just like he told us. The memories of Flora, throwing socks, sitting on that (tiny) exam table with (big) Dr. Barrett in the old office, getting to pick out a lollipop are ones many of us will always treasure. He was truly the gold standard in pediatric care.
My brothers, sister and I wll always remember him with fondness. Please know you are all in our thoughts as we all mourn the passing of this kind and gentle man.

Margaret Goodnow

January 28, 2010

To Dr.Barrett's Family,
Kind words is all I have for Dr.Barrett and how he helped so much during a difficult time in my daughters life when she was diagnosed with juvenile diabetes at the age of 13. He was sent a letter of commendation from Dr.Priscilla White of Joslin Clinic in Boston as to the tight control he had kept her sugar levels. Whenever I would call the office with a number of questions, both he and Flora would take the time necessary to help me through whatever the situation was when I called. I will always keep him in my prayers, because special people like that are very hard to find.

Judy Tomaselli

January 28, 2010

Dear Barrett Family, we are so sorry for your loss of John. It is a loss for us and many, many others also.He had such a great subtle sense of humor and terrific intuition with children(and their parents).Our fond memories of him will last our lifetimes...Judy (Hannan)Tomaselli, Chris and Al

Abbey Barrett

January 28, 2010

Thank you for all of your wonderful memories - it has been a joy to read them.

The memorial service has been moved to Moses Brown School's Sinclair Room (250 Lloyd Avenue) at 11:00 AM on Saturday.

Janet Folkman

January 28, 2010

My tribute to your husband and father is very simple. Any person who you can have a comfortable first experience with albeit teacher, doctor, dentist etc etc etc will forever influence how you feel about the profession. I have never feared going to the doctor because going to Dr Barrett was wonderful! I loved Flora, I loved the smell of the office, the creaky wooden floors, the play room and oh yeah those lollipops. What I loved the most? Our family went through a difficult time in the late '60's and my mother could confide in him. Although I was a child and didn't really understand everything, I did feel his compassion, his genuineness and somehow when we left, we all felt better. Rest well Dr Barrett and for all of you, hold in your heart your own memories while we add ours to his tribute.

Lee Goyette

January 28, 2010

Dear Barrett Family,
I am saddened to learn of Dr. Barrett's passing. He was my pediatrician for as long as I can remember, and surely for quite some time before. My memory of him and his nurse, Flora, is quite strong and wonderful. In fact, I have found myself thinking of him on occasion, usually when I'm on the receiving end of a thrown pair of socks. And I don't catch socks any better today at almost 60 than I did back then.

I am sorry for your loss. He was the very model of a warm and caring man. That he also practiced medicine made him that much more special.

"Sally" Ruggieri Cacchiotti

January 27, 2010

In March, it will be 47 years ago that Doctor Barrett named me. I was a patient of Doctor Barrett; as were my children before his retirement, the year my son was born.

On my first visit (with my twin brother) to Doctor Barrett all those years ago: He took one look at me and said to my mother...her name doesn't suit her...call her Sally.

I cried buckets when he retired and more so today, in learning of his passing. My one regret: Is when he broke the news of his impending retirement to me; I was so upset that I failed to take a photo of he and my infant son together at the hospital...had the camera, but was so shaken, I didn't get the shot. Therefore, my daughter has a Doctor Barrett treasure in her scrapbook that my son doesn't.

God broke the mold when he made our beloved Doctor Barrett. I remember him sitting at the edge of my bed holding my hand to comfort me during a house call (so unheard of today). I'm probably in his personal journal as the patient who had poison ivy the most. How this very patient man put up with me...I'll never know.

I met Mrs. Barrett a couple of times and I must say that behind every good man is a lovely woman. He so often spoke of his sweet Mary and their children during visits. Doctor Barrett and I corresponded frequently and he penned me a Christmas card and lovely letter every year without fail. He knew every member of my huge extended family by name. He was doctor to the whole blooming bunch of us!!

He was well respected and greatly loved by all. Let's not forget the infamous "Flo" who worked with Doctor Barrett for years...she knew a great boss when she had one...smart lady.

To Mrs. Barrett and Family...I thank you for sharing such a dedicated family man with the rest of us. It couldn't have been easy. I am forever indebted to you for such a sacrifice and ever so grateful. For it is not often, that one single human being can so selflessly and humbly touch the lives of so many people.

To Doctor Barrett...there will never be another like you. You were a very special person, whom we all loved and trusted. May heaven be all that you expected and then some. Rest in Peace...with Love and much heartfelt gratitude...Sally

Laurie Leonard-McKenna

January 27, 2010

Dear Barrett Family, Dr Barrett was our family pediatrician and a great confidant into our adult years. He always made time for his patients and was probably the last of the "house call" doctors. He will always have a place in my heart.

Susan Kochanek

January 27, 2010

Doctor Barrett was so close to our family we have three children and he was always there for us, I could call him anytime night or day he always responded I was a new mom and seem to call for everything,but he always returned call to me and made me calm down and said everything will be fine. The great square pops were the best, he made sure i always got one along with the kids. My family will miss him our deepiest sympathy the Kochanek Family , Dennis, Susan, Dennis Jr., Brain and Dawn and everyone at Adaptitive Mobility of Seekonk

January 27, 2010

Dear Charlie and Family,

My whole family (and Dr. Barrett took care of us all in a marvelous manner!)
has so many fond memories of Dr. Barrett.

We are so sorry for your tremendous loss but know that he's up there handing out lollipops and chocolate, once again.

Charlie, we've had lots of fun conversations over the years about the Church Family episodes with Dr. Barrett!!

We were blessed to have him in our lives.....not sure he felt that way about our clan of 7!!!!

The Church Family

Kathryn Carberry

January 27, 2010

Doctor Barrett was so dear to our family. He was my pediatrician from late 1951 to the mid 1960's. He was great and kind to all even when he had to chase me around the room to give me a shot. I remember the pipe tobacco smell , root beer lollipops and he even made house calls back in those days. His patience and excellence in care shone through and I feel most fortunate to have had him in my early years. Please accept my condolences upon the loss of dear Doctor Barrett. I cared for him. My sister Sue and I send our sympathies for your loss. He was a wonderful doctor. God bless.

Myrna Hagenburg

January 27, 2010

Dear Charlie,Alison and your family,

I am saddened to read the new about your Dad. He was a wonderful man. My sincerest sympathies to you and your family.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Sincerely,
Myrna J. Hagenburg

Carol Satterthwaite (Banigan)

January 27, 2010

I remember Dr. Barrett as my pediatrician back in the 1950's. I am now 63. He was a wonderful man and very gentle with a certain way of calming your fears. I even remember him coming to our home when we were ill, bringing the lollipops with the tools wrapped around them. One time I begged him not to give me a shot and he promised he would not. lol. He sent his nurse in. When I told him he had not told me the truth, he replied,""I" didn't give it to you did I? I kept my word"'. I never forgot that. He was very clever.

January 27, 2010

Doctor Barrett set the standard for care of children. I will always keep him close to my heart and remember how he cared for me as my pediatrician. I will remember his gentle way, his laughter, and the square lollipops he kept in the top drawer of his desk.

Beverly Tucker

January 27, 2010

Dear Dr.Barrett's Family:
I have so many fond memories of dear Dr.B, he also saved my life as a juvenile diabetic and all the trials that went along with having that ailment, but I to remember the special drawer of lollipops and he would only let me have one IF I promised not to eat it until I had a low blood sugar. He also pierced my ears for me as a young teenager and he also wanted to know if I wanted my nose pierced too, he was such a funny person and put children at ease when they had an appointment. Hard to find a wonderful warm hearted doctor like that these days, he was a special person and left a warm place in my heart. RIP Dr.Barrett
Beverly (Goodnow) Tucker

Christine Spaziano

January 27, 2010

Dear Barrett Family,

Your father was our family pediatrician from my birth in 1976 until his retirement in 1990. He was an amazing man that did not have drive through appointments. I can remember waiting for long spans of time in the waiting room to see him. My mother would explain he was seeing other children. I didn't understand then, how unique he was. Of course, I didn't mind waiting. He did have the best indoor play area.

Your father always remembered what we spoke about from one appointment to the next. From how I was doing in school to what boy I had a crush on. No matter how much of a pain in the neck I was when getting a shot ot throat culture, he never got angry and always gave me one of his gourmet lollipops.

People in all professions could have taken lessons from your father. If they did, the world would be a much better place.

Sincerely,
Christine Spaziano

January 27, 2010

Dear Mary, Margie and family, we were so sorry to recieve such sad news. This wonderful man took care of three generations of our family and many relatives...I am greatful that I ( Connie) was able to see him again in Oct. When I stayed there for the Lincoln 1969 reunion. John's sense of humor remained fully intact, as always.we will miss him so very much. Margie, will be in touch...Love to you all, Constance Dean & Grace (Sandy) Dean DelleFemine

Susan Haug

January 27, 2010

Dr. Barrett delivered me on March 18, 1953. He was our family doctor all of our lives-he gave us shots and then lollipops! There were always chocolates in his waiting room! He was the BEST of the BEST for children in those days! I also attended Cragged Mountain Farm camp in the 1960's-Iloved it. What a fortunate childhood I had then. Susan Haug formerly of 33 Arnold Street Providence, R.I. now living near Orlando, Fla.

January 27, 2010

Dr. Barrett was my children's pediatrician. They are now in their 30's. He was an extremely kind and patient man, who made the children comfortable and not afraid to go see him. May he rest in peace. We are sorry for your loss.

Belle Calenda

January 27, 2010

Dear Mary, MY condolences go to you and your family on the loss of your beloved husband, I have special memories from all our days with the Medical Society Auxiliary activities. Belle Calenda

Karen Pounds

January 27, 2010

My thoughts and condolences go to the whole extended family of Dr. Barrett. I will always remember that your father saved my life as an infant with multiple allergies and illnesses. I remember with fondness the drawer in his office desk with the lollipops. i remember his house visits and the comfort he brought. I am amazed at his legacy that he has left but not in the least bit surprised by his truely giving spirit and talents. Thank you for letting me share my memories of your husband, Dad, grandfather, and great-grandfather. And thank you for sharing him with all of his patients. Karen Goyette Pounds

January 27, 2010

Dear John and Charlie and all of your family,
Your Father was a sweetheart that took wonderful care of our chirldren, for which we are very grateful.
Very sorry for your loss.
David Cross

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