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Stephen Desposito Obituary

DESPOSITO, STEPHEN A., 57, a retired Teacher and Principal, died Friday. Husband of Joyce (Adams) Desposito.

Son of Roslyn and the late Stephen A. Desposito. Survived by two daughters, Jennifer L. Bartley of Pembroke, VA and Lisa M. Phaneuf of Newport, RI; granddaughters Hannah & Elyn Bartley and brother Michael E. Desposito of NC.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Saturday, September 20th at 10:00 AM in Christ the King Church, 180 Old North Rd., Kingston. Burial will be private. The Stephen A. Desposito Memorial Scholarship for Aspiring Teachers has been established. In lieu of flowers, please make donations payable to 'URI Foundation/Stephen A. Desposito', c/o URI Foundation, PO Box 1700, Kingston, RI 02881. averystortifuneralhome.com for guestbook and condolences.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Sep. 7, 2008.

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Karin Zell

May 8, 2009

I was so sad to hear the news of Mr. D's passing. Some of my youngest memories include him and the Desposito family. Nursery school, your annual Christmas party (with Santa Claus), playdates with my "twin" Jen, Mr. D's voice and laugh, and on to Jr. High. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. May you find comfort in your own memories and in knowing how many lives he touched in his short life.
Warm regards,
Karin Zell

Bob and Sue Maxey

January 25, 2009

Dear Joyce and Family,
We were shocked to see in the URI alumni magazine that Steve had passed away. Steve was a great guy and we enjoyed sharing our college experiences with him. We have read with great interest the many wonderful things people have said about him in the guest book. He must have been a wonderful administrator and family man. We are thinking of you and your daughters at this difficult time. Take care of each other.

Sarah (Hawksley) Schofield

October 26, 2008

So sorry for your loss. Mr. D was a big part of my life both as my neighbor and as the V.P at SK. I can not count how many times I was in his office with him saying, hand to head, "Hawksley, Hawksley, Hawksley..." I can speak for my entire family (Hawksley and Henley) when I say that his loss has been felt and he will be missed, however his impact remains
Recently, I was gathered around a fire pit with some of my cousins and the news of Mr. D's passing came up. Some of us had not heard the news but all of us had a story ro share of his trying to set us straight, something funny he did, his booming voice and how he tried to help us. He put so much energy into guiding (sometimes having to give a push and yell) us in the right direction.
I am very sad for his daughters, wife and grandchildren. Be strong, cry when you have to and laugh because he would want you to.
Sarah (Hawksley) Schofield

Maura McGowan McQueeney

October 16, 2008

Dear Joyce, Jen and Lisa,
What respect and deep affection I/we had/have for Steve. I remember his faithful presence at the 8pm Sunday Masses at Christ the King in the '70s. Who would have known then that my own son and daughter would someday be guided and loved by Mr D as that is what he did for all his students. We are so sorry for your loss and the loss this represents for all of us
With great admiration for a wonderfully lived life....
Maura,Matt and Heather McQueeney

Diane Weinreich-Perez

September 28, 2008

Mr. D. was my jr. high teacher over 30 years ago and I always remembered how fun his classes were. My condolences to his family for he will be missed.

Dorene Phillips

September 20, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Becky Bennett

September 20, 2008

Dear Joyce,
What a beautiful mass today! I wish I could have stayed to hug you and tell you how very sorry I am. I was so enraptured by the music, the sermon, the sighting of old college friends, the sight of your daughters. I am so blessed to have known you and Steve and to have had the opportunity to be present today.
Please call me,
Becky

Kelly Noble

September 20, 2008

There was nothing like the summer days growing up that I used to spend with my mother and Mr. D during Project Jump at South Kingstown Junior High. He joked that by the time I would go through the program as an incoming seventh grader, he would let me get up and give all his speeches about how "the junior high is not a place to fool around."

He will be sadly missed by all.

E Escher

September 20, 2008

Desposito Family,

Please except my deepest condolences on your loss. Steve was a positive force. He had a particular energy of peace and a unique ability to make you believe in him and yourself. I am grateful to have known Steve and will remember some of his philosophies for life. A colleague of mine told me that Steve believed the passage of time was the solution to all problems. We will always miss him, but time will help to heal the heavy sadness you feel today.

Meryl Moore

September 19, 2008

Dear Desposito Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Steve at Portsmouth Middle School and was truly inspired by his energy, his affection for his students and staff, his tireless humor and his ever positive outlook. No one could quiet an auditorium packed with noisy middle schoolers with more speed or grace than Steve. It is obvious from the letters in this album that he left a strong legacy and will not be forgotten. I hope you can find some comfort in knowing how many lives he touched.

Kathy Arent

September 19, 2008

Dear Desposito Family,
I'm so sad to hear about Steve's death. I worked with him for several years at the Portsmouth Middle School. Steve was a great principal, a great boss, and a great friend. He was always so professional and treated us all with tremendous respect for the work we do. I opened a new department under Steve's leadership, and he was always there asking me what I needed to make it all work - so supportive. We all miss him. You are in my prayers and thoughts.
With deepest sympathy,

Kathy

Linda and Howard Zell

September 19, 2008

Dear Joyce, Jenn, Lisa and family:
We were shocked to hear of your very sad loss. Steve will be missed by all of us. We have wonderful fond memories of the many years we spent together in South County and now send you our heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathy. May many fond memories of the Santa Claus days, co-op school and much more help you through this tough time. Linda and Howard Zell and family

Kayla Carpenzano

September 18, 2008

Desposito Family,

Mr. Desposito was my middle school principal and I truly admired him. He was always there when I wanted to talk about something, always open to ideas, and always supporting my education in every way he could. He made my years at Portsmouth Middle School some of the most memorable years of my life.

Karen Madison

September 18, 2008

To the Desposito Family
My deepest sympathy to you at this time of sadness. I was shocked to hear of Mr. D's passing. He was a good man and always showed he cared. I am truly sorry for your loss

Pat Scott-Cobb

September 17, 2008

Dear Jennifer and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. While I did not know your father, it is obvious he was a great man and that you possess his strengths. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Michael Barclay de Tolly

September 15, 2008

Dear Desposito family- I worked with Steve for 7 years as a faculty member at the Portsmouth Middle School. He was an inspiration to me- he treated people with dignity and genuine warmth, he knew how to "reach" our children, he was knowledgeable and communicated so well, and he had a deep understanding of the importance of arts in our students' education. Steve's door was always open no matter how busy he was- he had a big heart and made you feel welcome. I considered him a friend and I share your grief.
My thoughts are with you,
Michael

Shellie Parkinson

September 14, 2008

To the Despisitos,

I am so sorry to hear that your Dad and Husband, Mr. D to the rest of us, has passed. There are so many great memories that bring a smile to my face when I think of him. I guess the hundreds of hours on the soccer field with Lisa and him on the sidelines (usually in his lucky red windbreaker and cutoff shorts) shouting out encouragement top the list. Those were some great times and they certainly would have not been the same without him there. He helped me to believe in myself as not only a soccer player or student at SKJHS, but as a person. His sincere and caring nature always showed through to his students and his players.

I am thinking of you all and sending along thoughts and prayers of sympathy and strength.

Jill Brunson

September 14, 2008

Dear Desposito Family,

Mr D had a tremendous impact on everyone around him especially his students! Always caring, forever patient.
His deeds will not be forgot. The skills he gave his students and memories will live on.

One thing that stood out the most about Mr. D to me is he never gave up on his more difficult students even though they fought his help, his persistence and dedication to them and their education never wavered.

Years later I went back to SK Jr. High and wanted to share with Mr. D my accomplishments in life for if it were not for his persistence and (walking me to my classes to ensure I went), I would not be the person am today.

Mr D, Thank you for believing in me.

Becky Bennett-Graves

September 14, 2008

Dear Joyce,
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember the days when we all 'hung out"; when Steve would hold Jeremy as an infant-not something most men would feel comfortable doing. Steve was always a kind, loving, up-beat guy to family and friends.
I am not surprised to read about the positive affect he had on so many people's lives.
My deepest condolences to you and the girls.

Becky

The Ujifusa-Ryan Family

September 14, 2008

Dear Desposito Family: Please accept our deepest sympathies for your loss. Mr. D was a great teacher and administrator. We consider ourselves very lucky to have had our children at PMS while he was principal there. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
J. Mark Ryan, Linda Ujifusa and children (John, Katie and Jamie Ryan)

Laurie Finnegan

September 13, 2008

To the Desposito Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Steve was an inspiration to so many students and teachers at SKJH and CCMS. Having worked with Steve in South Kingstown, I saw him influence the lives of many young people in very positive ways. He was energetic and enthusiastic about teaching and learning and was a person of great integrity. Steve valued education and I know that his legacy will live on in the many lives that he touched as an educator.

Joan StClair

September 12, 2008

Dear Joyce and Family,
I learned of the sad news from Anna C. and I was thougherly shocked and sad. Please know that all my Angels and Prayers are with you all. Joyce you inturdused me to all the Angels. my arch Angel is Camael. www.AngelHaven.com.
Know our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Joan and Tom

Mary Turcotte-Sawyer

September 12, 2008

Joyce, Jennifer, and Lisa,
My deepest sorrow for your lose. I have not seen Mr D in a very long time but have wonderful memories of him as a teacher and coach. He always had such a positive attitude and encouraged all of his "kids" to be the best that they could be. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Mary (Turcotte) Sawyer

Jenny Nuuttila

September 12, 2008

Dear Jenn and the entire Despisito Family-

I just wanted to offer my condolences for the loss of "Mr. D." As I read the other enteries I was struck with how many lives he had touched in so many different fashions. I think his true gift might have been to reach each individual in a way he/she could relate. What is truly amazing is that was his community face, how much more of that you his family must have witnessed and been allowed to share.

Though I grieve for a upstanding community member my heart goes out to you his daughters, wife and family who I am sure his passing has left such a void. My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.

Lorrie Burns

September 12, 2008

Dear Lisa,
Our sympathy goes out to you and your family. Your Dad was a wonderful leader with a super personality. He was loved by many and will be missed in the Portsmouth community. Our oldest son Reid has fond memories of him as principal at PMS and of going with him to Elmhurst one day to speak to the upcoming fifth graders.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Lorrie, Tim, Reid, Kyle and Lila Burns

Marc Klaiman

September 11, 2008

Dear Joyce, Jennifer, and Lisa,
Steve told my many times to call him Steve, but he will always be Mr. D! Having known him in school and out I remember many lessons he taught me all these years later. Mr. D's legacy will live in all the lives he has touched. Our thoughts and prayers are with you! Marc, Amy and Wil Klaiman

Amanda Lynn Raitano

September 11, 2008

To the Desposito Family,

I have always had a great respect for teachers, but now as a educator working with teens and supervising teachers, I appreciate the educational leaders who had a positive influence in my life even more now than ever.

I remember Mr. D's little office at SKJH where we had a discussion about taking 1/2 year or full year of typing when I entered high school. This may seem as a trivial thing to remember, but I use that story to explain certain points/circumstances to my students. Now, who would have guessed that 20 years later, as I finish my Dissertation in Education, I would rely so much on those typing skills! I realize the tangent I am getting on is somewhat long-winded, but the point is that someone has to be pretty special for a student to remember a conversation about typing. I also remember how he would lead Student Council meetings, respecting our thoughts and ideas...and who can forget selling soda outside of his office at school dances - something he always helped out with.

It is unfortunate the world has lost a great educator, but I am sure his presence will live on in his students who are now (or will become) involved in the field of Education. God Bless - prayers and thoughts are with your entire family.

Eric Kittell

September 11, 2008

Joyce,I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I was in Mr.D's 7th grade class. Ecology I believe. It was his first year teaching. He was great, everybody liked him. He was fun , fair, and I really enjoyed his class. My sincerest condolences to you Joyce, & your daughters, & entire family. He was a great person !! God Bless

JOYCE MacManus

September 11, 2008

Dear Joyce
I feel blessed to have known Steve. I know that he and his gentle wisdom are close to you even now and will always be....not so far away.

maryanne (weinreich) robinson

September 11, 2008

i first met mr. d in 1973 when i was in sk junior high in his first year teaching. both of my sisters also had him. i think all of us had a crush on him lol he was such a great teacher. my son and daughter also had him in school. my family will sorely miss him. my condolences to u and your family.

Bob Murphy

September 10, 2008

To the Desposito family - I was a year behind Steve at URI and Sigma Chi and he was a very positive influence to me back then. He helped get me through some rough spots and I never forgot him. I am very sorry the passing of Steve. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

Debbie Reisert

September 10, 2008

Dear Desposito family I would just like to express my deepest sympothy to you. Mr.D was my AP at ccms he was nothing but a kind hearted man and will be deeply missed.

Mary-Anne DiBlasio

September 10, 2008

joyce... and family... i am so very sorry for your loss... i still cannot believe it to be true... joyce, i am here for you. your karuna sister, always... be well. mary-anne

Nelia Almeida

September 10, 2008

Dear Lisa and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Mr. Desposito was such a positive force in all the lives that he touched. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Barbara Kemper & Family

September 10, 2008

Dear Lisa and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your Father's passing. Mr. Desposito was the first person we spoke with as Kayla entered PMS. His words of wisdom and guidance supported us throughout her years at PMS. He truly impacted Kayla's life and it was no surprise to later discover that Lisa was his daughter!
You are in our thoughts and prayers at this very sad and difficult time.

Jordan Sleeper

September 10, 2008

Dear Desposito Family,
I am greatly sorry for your loss. Mr. D was the greatest principal I ever had. I'll never forget what an amazing man he was and the impact he made on all of our lives. He will be missed.

Melinda Soliwoda

September 10, 2008

To the Desposito Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I had the pleasure of working for Mr. D at the Middle School and his words of wisdom, his kindness, and his passion for students not only impacted me as an educator, but as a person. He had a unique ability to inspire all those he connected with; I am fortunate enough to have been one of those people. He will truly be missed.
With deepest sympathy,
Melinda

Cheryl Kearns

September 10, 2008

Dear Lisa & Family - When sadness fills the heart, its hard to express your thoughts into words. But I will try my best. I am so thankful that my children had the opportunity to know your dad during their years at PMS. He will be greatly missed. You are a very special friend and my prayers are with you & your family during this trying time. You are in our thoughts & hearts.

Tom, Cheryl, Gage & Teagan

Gary/Vickie Bartley

September 9, 2008

Dear Joyce, Jenn, Lisa and Families,
(We have only known Steve since our son Travis met and married Joyce and Steve's daughter Jennifer), but reading the entries in this guest book is as heartwarming as Steve was. These entries are truly a testimony to the generosity and love of life and family that Joyce and Steve have contributed to so many people.We are so very sorry for for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers daily. We pray that your memories will bring peace to your hearts.

Jamie Kirschner

September 9, 2008

Dear Desposito Family, I can't tell you how sorry I am to hear of your loss. Mr. Desposito was one of the nicest people among the PMS staff that I came across in my four years there. I can remember very well the inspirational speeches he gave to the school in the Little Theatre, many of which have inspired me to pursue a career in education. He was a role model to many including myself and I will always remember his positive outlook on all the students that walked his halls. As I have through highschool and into my freshman year in college, i will always follow his example of kindness.

Arianna Almeida

September 9, 2008

Mr. Desposito was an amazing person. I knew him when i was in middle school and he was never without a smile on his face. When Mr. Amaral shaved his head he stood there and laughed. I will always remember him that way.

marina pereira

September 9, 2008

A Reminiscence

YES, thou art gone! and never more
Thy sunny smile shall gladden me;
But I may pass the old church door,
And pace the floor that covers thee.

May stand upon the cold, damp stone,
And think that, frozen, lies below
The lightest heart that I have known,
The kindest I shall ever know.

Yet, though I cannot see thee more,
'Tis still a comfort to have seen;
And though thy transient life is o'er,
'Tis sweet to think that thou hast been;

To think a soul so near divine,
Within a form so angel fair,
United to a heart like thine,
Has gladdened once our humble sphere.

By Anne Bronte
The Poetry Foundation

Marty Conrad

September 9, 2008

Dear Joyce and family,
We loved "Mr. D." as a teacher, disciplinarian, babysitter and such a wonderful person! Our blended family gained valuable life lessons from Steve and we think of him lovingly when we bring those skills into action. All of the Conrad-Thunberg family is so saddened by your loss of Steve and we will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy, Bobby, Sue, Casey Conrad
Kate, Jenn and Rob (who we lost 15 years ago) Marty and Dr. Bob

Rob and Jean Lehane & family

September 9, 2008

To the Family of Stephen Desposito: Our children were blessed to have Mr. Desposito as their Principal at Portsmouth Middle School. We are so sorry for your loss. He was always proud of the students at the Middle School, visiting their classrooms and encouraging them. He truly cared. Please know that he and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,

Lisa Dias

September 9, 2008

Dear Lisa and family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Mr. D. was a wonderful man, he always went above and beyond for his students. He will always be remembered..My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Cathy Vieira

September 9, 2008

Dear Lisa and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad was a kind person, easily to see where you get your personality from. Please know that you and your entire family have been in my thoughts and prayers. May all your memories bring you peace. Cathy

Lisa Josephson

September 9, 2008

To the Desposito Family,

Stephen touched many lives through his years of dedication in education. I first met "Mr. D" as a student when he was my V.P. at CCMS. Later I worked under his leadership both as a V.P. and as a Principal. Lastly, I had the pleasure of working with Stephen again as he helped guide student teachers through U.R.I. As you already know, he was a truly dedicated educator who always cared for the underdog and inspired many.
With Deepest Sympathy,

John Freeman

September 8, 2008

Steve was a brother Sigma Chi at the University of Rhode Island. He was part of the pledge class of '73 made up of 28 terrific guys. Steve was an officer and a huge contributor to the fraternity.

I am glad to have known Steve and that I had the opportunity to share these memorable years with him.

My best to his family.

John W Freeman
Sigma Chi - class of '73

Mary Harper

September 8, 2008

To the Desposito Family,
My family and I were so deeply saddened to hear of your loss. After dinner tonight we talked about the story he told the incoming fifth graders. He said that the first day in a new school was like first entering a chilly pool. At first you only put your feet in and then slowly you jump in all the way and then you love it so much you don't want to get out. He really knew how to relate to the students in a way that made each one feel special. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Susan Lewis

September 8, 2008

Mr. Desposito was a wonderful man and he will be missed. He was always patient and understanding with his students. My son always spoke fondly of him... even though he spent a few days of discipline in his office. That only speaks to Mr. Desposito's character that a child in a situation of discipline would only have the best things to say about his principal. Again... he has been and will continue to be missed.

Cathy Huling

September 8, 2008

To the Desposito family, Our sincere condolences to the whole family, in your time of loss. He seems to be a real nice man, and a good principal too. Sincerely, Cathy Huling and family

Lisa Freeman

September 8, 2008

To the Desposito Family,
Please accept our most sincere sympathy for your loss. Both of my children, now in High School and College, always talked fondly of Mr. Desposito as their Principal, and have expressed their sadness with his passing.
In this most difficult time, please know that your loved one was in turn loved by many.

The Popovici Family

September 8, 2008

It was a priviledge to have Mr. Desposito in our lives. His kindness and concern for our family and all those whom he touched is evident by the many fine examples of respectful children in upper grades and beyond.

Rosanne Keeler

September 8, 2008

Our thoughts are with you. I remember what a caring principal he was to our children in Portsmouth Middle School.
May you know comfort.

Beverly Mankofsky

September 8, 2008

For Joyce, Lisa, Jen, and family,

My heartfelt sympathy to all of you - Steve was an amazing, charismatic personality in our school and his positive focus impacted everyone. Isn't it wonderful how one single person can touch so many lives ... I will miss him. Take care of each other. Love, Bev Mankofsky

Lori MacDonald

September 8, 2008

Dear Desposito Family,

My family and I were very sad to hear of Steve's passing. 3 of our 4 children were blessed to have him as the principal at PMS. He was a kind and giving person to all his students and will be greatly missed. Please know that your family is in our prayers.

Karen Johnson

September 8, 2008

To Mr. Desposito's Family:
My daughter was truly lucky to have him as a principal while she attended Portsmouth Middle School. Please know we are deeply sorry for your loss.
The Johnson Family
(Karen, Russell, Rebecca & Kenny)

Dean Maxwell

September 8, 2008

Joyce - I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll always remember Steve as a high energy, positive person. Our year and a half together as roommates at URI will always be a fond memory.

Dean Maxwell

Colleen Pilat

September 8, 2008

To Mr. Desposito's family: So sad and sorry to hear of your loss... God must have needed an angel. How fortunate we were to know him while at Portsmouth Middle School. Please take care and we will keep him in our prayers...
The Pilat Family.

Georgianna Murphy

September 8, 2008

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Pam Mead

September 8, 2008

Dear Lisa and family:
We were so sorry to learn of your loss. Please know we are thinking of you all.

Pam Mead and the staff at Kingston Free Library

Carol Anderheggen

September 8, 2008

To Joyce and daughters: Please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of your husband and father. Steve possessed that rare combination of heart and intelligence in working with adults and children. He enabled me to flourish at SKJHS for many years and for that I will always be grateful.

Claire Dalrymple

September 8, 2008

Dear Jennifer,
My heart goes out to you and your family with my sincere condolances. Your father has left this world too soon and I know he will be sorely missed.

Woody Euart

September 8, 2008

The Despositio Family, I'm very sorry to hear of Steve's passing. Steve was a loyal Sigma Chi brother and a good friend to so many of the guys connected with the fraternity. Although I had not seen him in many years, I still have fond memories of our pledge class '73 and years at URI. I'm sure you and your extended family have many memories to cherish. Woody Euart

Erin Brosius

September 8, 2008

Dear Jennifer and family: I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Although I didn't know your father well, he seemed to be such a dear person and you are a dear friend to me. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Love, Erin, Mike, and Zachary

Mike Goleman

September 8, 2008

Mike Desposito & Famliy, Our love thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time in the passing of Stephen your brother., Manytimes words are not comforting at the time of a lost loved one, we share that moment of quiteness with you and our love will for ever linger in your hearts. My god continue to love you and the family and hold you in his comfort. Mike & Cindy Goleman

John Fratiello

September 7, 2008

I was very sorry to learn of Steve's passing. I remember him as a very professional and dedicated teacher and assistant principal at SK Jr. High. I enjoyed working with him and always felt he was the glue that held the school together. John Fratiello

Toby Kimball

September 7, 2008

Joyce... Steve's legacy and memory is so strong in those who he touched. His early days teaching me ecology in HIS pond were followed by my student teaching while he was VP, some shared work while he was principal at CC and then just seeing him here and there and always marvelling at his wisdom.

He was a man, educator, leader and friend. I will surely never do him justice except to say he was one in a million and will be surely missed because of the contributions he made to all our lives and careers in education.

Marjorie Levesque and Family

September 7, 2008

To the Desposito Family
Please acept our deepest sympathies on your loss.
Steve was a great guy and wonderful Principal. He will be very much missed by all.

Patricia Wallach

September 7, 2008

Dear Joyce:I am so sad to hear of the loss of your Stephen.He was one of those endearing patients who "stayed". with me My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Pat Wallach

Bonnie Cipriani

September 7, 2008

It is with deep sadness and heavy heart that our family comes together during this time of great loss. Stephen's devotion to family and dedication to education was apparent on so many levels. Simply put, Stephen lived life with enormous
purpose.
Joyce, Jennifer, Lisa and family, may the Lord's spirit comfort and sustain you during these saddest of times.

With heartfelt sympathy
Bonnie and Todd Cipriani
Nicole, Leslie, and Tom

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