Blenda Ontiveros
September 20, 1940-March 11, 2023
MOLINE-Blenda Lou Crummer was born in Freeport, Illinois to George and Hulda Crummer on September 20, 1940. She grew up on a farm in Stevenson County with her sister Donna. They studied together in a one-room school house through the 8th grade and then attended Freeport High School where she thrived, to no one's surprise, in the drama club all four years. Her summers were fondly spent traveling with her parents and other family members throughout the United States. After high school, Blenda enrolled in Lutheran Hospital School of Nursing in Moline in 1958. It was there while during a night with dorm mates that she met the love of her life Bob Ontiveros. They were married 18 months later. Soon after they bought their first house on 25th Avenue in Rock Island where they welcomed their sons Chris and then Gregg.
Her and Bob raised their two red headed boys in Rock Island and Blenda helped Bob establish his career as a traveling salesman. In 1974 they together started Bi- State Packaging where Blenda was the bookkeeper and office manager. Collecting money due was not an easy job but Blenda was a natural, chasing down companies big and small for payment. Bob could sell to everyone and Blenda was vigilant about accounts receivable. They were a great team & Bi-State Packaging grew into what is now Group O that employs thousands in numerous cities in the USA and Mexico. She instilled a culture of excellence and integrity that still endures today.
In 1984 Blenda retired to fulltime socialite, philanthropist, golfer and bridge player. They purchased a place in Longboat Key, or La La Land as Blenda lovingly called it, to spend their winters. Both in Florida and Illinois she excelled at golf, landing two Hole in Ones and winning several member/guest championships. She was the most accomplished golfer in the family to the chagrin of both her boys, especially Chris. She greatly enjoyed all of her friendships from Short Hills and Longboat Key club.
Blenda loved more than anything her travels far and wide that she did with Bob. They traveled to every continent but she was most fond of Istanbul, Angkor Wat and Kenya. It was in Kenya that Blenda found her muse for her extensive collection of art and artifacts. Her love of Africa extended to her financial support for Niabi zoo including the giraffe, rhino and zebra areas.
Blenda enjoyed time with her family including her grandchildren and more recently great grandchildren. Blenda loved her Hawkeyes, wine, chocolate, and spending time at the Christian Science Reading Room (aka the Isle of Capri).
Blenda passed away on March 11, 2023 and was reunited with the love of her life, Bob. She is survived by her sister Donna (Marv) Beyer, sons Christopher (Pamela), Gregg, grandchildren Maria, Allie, Dana, Will, Josie and Kendall, and great-grandchildren Emma, Stella and Anna. There will be a service for family and close friends at Trimble Funeral Home in Moline on March 21st from 2-4 p.m..
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David Johnson
March 8, 2025
Blenda and Bob are truly missed
John and Pat Dellos
March 19, 2023
Our deepest sympathies to family and friends. We have wonderful memories of many good times from the old days. What an amazing couple, they will be missed.
Ronald Mulder
March 17, 2023
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Ontiveros family. Blenda will be missed. She and Bob were assets to everyone in the Quad Cities.
Ron and Sandy Mulder
Mike Plunkett
March 17, 2023
So sorry to learn of Blenda´s passing. We were close friends for decades . God bless her family . They will miss her.
Mike and Kathy Plunkett
Bob Love
March 17, 2023
We will miss Blenda´s great smile and hearty fun laugh. Love you Gregg & Chris...Bob, Lisa & Gianni
Joann Love & Family
March 17, 2023
Thank your for being a great family friend and always a lot of fun to be around. Our thoughts are with you. Love, Joann, Tom, Mary & Bob
Jim Peterson
March 14, 2023
Wonderful friends and Highcliff neighbors. It was to our benefit to have them as friends - world class people! Condolences to the boys (I lost Jan last May)
Jean Dasso and family
March 14, 2023
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. We will remember all the fun times together.
George Kutsunis
March 13, 2023
My sympathy to the family. May her memory be eternal
Thomasa Shadden
March 13, 2023
I am so sorry for your loss but take confort knowing she is now with your Dad. Your parents were an amazing couple in our community may they RIP
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