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Kylin Kotek Obituary

STURGIS - Kylin James Kotek, 13, Sturgis, died Sunday, Jan. 10, 2010, as the result of an automobile accident. Kylin was born May 14, 1996, at Spearfish to Carla Wallace and Danny Kotek. Kylin was a very active boy. He participated in AAU wrestling, basketball, Boy Scouts, Junior League Bowling, and the Epi Center. He was active in school and liked anything that was fun. He had recently completed a fly fishing course and enjoyed all types of fishing and going to his grandparents and spending time with them. Kylin was a very social person who enjoyed playing Xbox with his friends. Kylin completed the South Dakota Huntsafe program and the National Bow Hunters Safety Course. He liked to hunt and shoot. Survivors include his mother, Carla Wallace (Marlan Larson), Sturgis; his father, Danny Kotek, Belle Fourche; brothers, Cory Kotek, Sturgis, and Corey (Julie) Larson, Clark; sisters, Kelsie Kotek, Raymond, Wash., and Kristi (Jared) West, Campobello, S.C.; paternal grandparents, Norma Leddy (Wayne Tracy), Belle Fourche, and Skip Kotek, Long Beach, Wash.; maternal grandparents, Louise Cain, Shadehill, and Robert (Donna) Wallace, Lemmon; maternal great-grandparents, Hanna and George Iversen, Murdo; uncles, Kurt (Carolyn) Wallace, Arlington, Larry (Lisa) Leddy, Newcastle, Wyo., Troy Kotek, Vancouver, Wash., and Casey (Christi) Creighton, Greenbrier, Ark.; aunts, Michelle (Michael) Goolsby, St. Louis, Mont., Melissa (Danny) Slutz, Belle Fourche, and Lucynda (Mike) Sanders, Spearfish; as well as numerous cousins, nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his grandparents, James "Jack" Cain, Gladys and Robert Wallace, Robert Lensegrav, Joe and Katy Kotek, and Julie and Alfred Olson. Visitation will be from 3 p.m. to 9 p.m. Friday, Jan. 15, at the Kinkade Funeral Chapel, with the family present from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. Funeral services will be at 11 a.m. Saturday, Jan. 16, at the Grace Lutheran Church, with the Rev. Michael Fox, the Rev. Jeff Otterman and the Rev. Dwight Peterson officiating. Burial will follow at the Bear Butte Cemetery. A memorial has been established. Condolences may be sent to the family at www.kinkadefunerals.com.

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Published by Rapid City Journal on Jan. 14, 2010.

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Mary Collins

January 16, 2010

Carla, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Even though we have lost contact through the years, I just want you to know that my thoughts are with you at this extremely difficult time. It sounds like Kylin was very active and enjoyed life! You are in my prayers.

January 15, 2010

Carla,

We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are will you.

Jubal and Joan Pillen

January 15, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time.

Mike and Vicki Bradley
Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

Connie Erlacher

January 14, 2010

Sorry for your loss. Your family and extended family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Shirley Harris

January 14, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. May the Lord give you peace in your hearts.

Jodi Scherr

January 14, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.Im very sorry for your loss!

January 14, 2010

Danny and family iam so sorry to here of your lost in our harts and prayers

Charity And Dusy JOhanneson Belle Fourch

January 14, 2010

Carla,Louise,Kurt,Bob families...My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad time ...Just remember he is with God looking down and is your angle now...It will take time to heal the hurt but let God help you through this...I know and if there is anything i can do please call me ...May God be with you all now and the coming days...Cory i pray for you also...let God help to....lu all a friend Cherylene Jonas

Dave, Donna, Sean Natchke

January 14, 2010

Danny, Carla, & Cory, We hold many memories of all of you when we were neighbors. Three years ago we were going through the same hurt, anguish & sorrow you are now. Know that the void will never go away but time has a way of making you look at the memories with more of a smile than what you are able to now. We are only a phone call a way. It helps to talk. Kylin was & always will be a very special boy. Always hold on to that.

Ben Braaten

January 14, 2010

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Lindsey Penny

January 14, 2010

Carla and family your in our deepest thoughts in prayers at this difficult time.
God Bless

Brenda Robison

January 14, 2010

CArla and Family - You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Brenda Rook Robison

Misty Little

January 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this difficult time.If there is anything at all you need please don't hesitate to ask. Delighted to have known Kylin, he was a great kid to have around with Alec.He will be missed but not forgotten. We love you all.
James,Misty,Cody,Alec,& Kian Little

Chrissy Brown

January 14, 2010

Carla my thoughts and prayers are with you and Cory and Danny too. If I can do anything please call on me.

LaVonne Lawrence

January 14, 2010

Norma and family,
My thoughts are with you.

Cindy Hetzel

January 14, 2010

Sorry to hear of your loss. You probably don't remember me but I run the Sugar Shack. I see Kylin's grandparents often at the shop. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Love to all Cindy and John

Ed & LaVonne Rook

January 14, 2010

Carla,Louise,Kurt,Bob & Families:Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time. I can't imagine losing a child & my heart goes out to you. We love you.
Ed & LaVonne & Families

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