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Barbara Schaeffer Obituary

Barbara A. Schaeffer, 79, of Exeter Township, passed away January 11, 2023, in Reading Hospital. Her husband Larry L. Schaeffer Sr., passed away in 2011. Born in Reading, she was a daughter of the late Harry and Pauline (Dietrick) Hartman. She had been employed as a loom operator for the Allure Corporation and later took great pride in creating championship dog ribbons for the Rau Dog Shows, West Reading. Barbara was of the protestant faith. Barbara was a loving and very good mother, grandmother and great grandmother. Her family was everything to her, especially her children. She was always there for them and would do anything for them. She wasn't just their mother, she was their best friend. Barbara loved her dog and would never leave her side. She was a very energetic person who loved to talk and be with her friends. In her free time when she wasn't traveling, she loved to go on Facebook to keep in touch with friends. She also enjoyed knitting, making puzzles and diamond art. Barbara was full of life, energy and love. We are all honored to have her in our lives and her children are very honored to have her as their mother and best friend. She is survived by a daughter, Judith Meshok of Delaware, two sons: Larry L. Schaeffer Jr. of Laureldale and Gerald Eugene Schaeffer of Delaware. There is a sister, Sheila Hartman-Bowman of New York, five grandchildren: Shaun, Brenna, Serena, David and Jennifer and nine great-grandchildren. She was pre-deceased by a son, Kyle Schaeffer and by two brothers: Danny Hartman and Harry Hartman Jr. Friends and family may pay their condolences on Monday from 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM at the Gallman-Sonoski Funeral Home, Inc., 910 Chestnut St., Reading, PA 19602. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, please make contributions to the American Lung Assoc. at 55 W. Wacker Dr., Suite 1150, Chicago, IL 60601 or online at www.lung.org. Online condolences may be made at gallman-sonoskifuneralhome.com

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Published by Reading Eagle from Jan. 14 to Jan. 15, 2023.

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Judy

January 11, 2026

Good morning Mom today is 3 years and it doesn't feel like it it feels like just yesterday you left us and I miss you so much I will love you forever until we meet in Heaven
Love your daughter

Judy

January 3, 2026

Well Mom here it is 6:50 am on my birthday and I am missing your phone call but I know you are in Heaven thinking about me just as much as I am thinking of you I Love you and Miss you very much!!
Love
Your Daughter

Judy

May 12, 2025

Happy Mothers Day Mom I miss you so much I really wish you were here I miss talking to you sometimes a girl just needs her mom just for some quality talking and understanding I hope you have a wonderful day LOVE YOU SO MUCH

Love always, your son Jerry

May 11, 2025

Happy Mother's Day My Mother!!! You were a wonderful woman & an awesome Mother!!! Thank you for always being there for me!!! I will never forget you & I will always appreciate the great times we shared!!! I truly do miss you my Mother!!! I will always Love You & you will always be in my heart!!! Tell Pop, Kyle & Wendy I Love & Miss them as well!
Love you always & forever!!!
Your son Jerry

Love yous always,your son Jerry

April 12, 2025

Happy 65th Anniversary my mother & pop!!! If we could only turn back time & relive everything again, that would be amazing!!!
I know yous are walking through the feilds of flowers together in Heaven holding hands showing your love for each other having a big celebration for your anniversary with Kyle!!! Im honored to have you both as my parents! Yous are the greatest parents a son could ask for & I'm very proud & honored to be your son & I will always love you both & never forget you both & how much you's Love each other!!! Thank you's for everything you done for me & how you raised me!!! Some day the broken chain will be put back together again & we will all be connected together again!!!
Love you's always & forever!!!
You son Jerry

JUDITH A MESHOK

April 12, 2025

Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad it is 65 years today and I know you two Love each other as much as you did when you first met hopefully you are having a wonderful day in heaven and a big party later
Love you always and forever your daughter

Your son Jerry

February 16, 2025

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DEAREST MOTHER!!! I am so grateful, honored & thankful to have you as my mother & best friend!!! You are the most, amazing, wonderful mother a son could ask for!!! I know God made you a birthday cake & you are celebrating & having a wonderful day in Heaven with Pop, Kyle & Wendy! I miss you so very much!!!
LOVE YOU ALWAYS & FOREVER
YOUR SON JERRY

JUDY

February 16, 2025

HAPPY BIRTHDAY my Mother oh how I miss you hopefully you are having a wonderful time in heaven with Dad and Kyle have a great day Love you always and forever

Your daughter

Jerry Schaeffer

January 11, 2025

Hi my Mother, it's been 2 years since you went to the Kingdom of Heaven. It seems like yesterday you were here but forever since I seen you! I really miss you alot & visiting you & bringing you here staying with me & spending time with you & the phone calls every night hearing your voice tremendously! Say Hi to Pop, Kyle & Wendy for me. I really pray yous are all together having a wonderful time together! I am extremely honored to be your son & extremely honored you were my mother! I miss & Love you all with a whole alot of Love! God Bless you all & please be in peace!
Love you's now & forever!
Your son, Jerry

Jerry Schaeffer

December 25, 2024

Merry Christmas my Mother, Pop & Kyle. I know you's are all together now. I miss you all very much & I Love you's tremendously!

Love always & forever
Your son Jerry

Judy

December 25, 2024

Merry Christmas Mom I miss you Very Very much Love You Always and Forever
Your daughter

Love yous always,your son Jerry

November 28, 2024

Happy Thanksgiving my mother, pop, Kyle & Wendy! It's just not the same without yous! I miss you all very much & Love yous tremendously!!!
Love yous always
Your son Jerry

Judy

May 13, 2024

Happy Mothers Day mom I miss you more and more everyday especially today I love you forever

Your daughter

Jerry

May 12, 2024

Happy mothers day my mother!!! I miss you so much!!! I can see you walking through the fields of flowers in heaven holding pops & Kyle's hand!!! I love you very much!!!

Your son, Jerry

Judy

April 12, 2024

Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad I Love you and Miss you both so much have a wonderful day in Heaven and celebrate 64 years together

Love your daughter!!

Your son Jerry

February 16, 2024

Happy Birthday my Mother!!! I miss you and Love you very much!!!

Love you always
Your son Jerry

Judy

February 16, 2024

Happy 81st Birthday my mother hopefully you are having a big celebration in Heaven I Love you and Miss you very much I wish you were here to celebrate with you!!
Love you your daughter

Love always your son Jerry

January 11, 2024

My Mother, it's been a long hard year now without you. I think about you everyday! I miss you so very much! I miss talking to you every night listening to your voice and hearing you laugh. I miss visiting you and you visiting me! I know your not suffering anymore and your with Pop and Kyle in Heaven now. Tell everyone i said Hi. Thank you for everything you have done for me!! I Love you soo very much and always will!!! Someday we'll all be together again.

Judy

January 11, 2024

Hello Mom well here it is a new year and today is one year since you left us and boy do I wish you were here! I Miss you so much I missed your phone call on my birthday and that was really hard but I know you wished it from Heaven!!! I Love you so much Mom and I miss you even more!!!

Love your daughter

Judith Meshok

December 25, 2023

Merry Christmas Mom it was a lonely Christmas without you!!! I Miss you and Dad very much big hug and kiss from your daughter

Jerry Schaeffer

December 25, 2023

Merry Christmas my mother!!! I Love you and miss you very much!!!
Your son and best friend!!!

Judy

May 14, 2023

HAPPY Mothers Day Mom I miss you so much and I wish you were here so I could tell you just how much I Love you and what a wonderful mother you are you are a strong woman and I hope I can be half the woman you are! I Miss you so much you are always in my heart and I Love you forever and ever!!!
Love your Daughter

Jerry

April 12, 2023

Happy anniversary my mother and Pop.You're both together now dancing in heaven. Thankyou for being the best parents ever! I am very honored to have you as my parents and to be your son. I Love you both and miss you's tremendously.
Your son, Love always Jerry

Judy

April 12, 2023

Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad I Love you and Miss you so much you are the reason I have the marriage I have you showed me that marriage is a precious thing no matter what thru hard times and good times the Love you two have for one another is so inspiring I hope you two are dancing in Heaven today and everyday I Love you and Miss you both very much (Mom I miss the phone call wishing me a Happy Anniversary also today but I know you are thinking of me today as much as I am thinking of you I Love you so much) Love your Daughter

Your Daughter

April 10, 2023

HAPPY EASTER Mom I Love you and Miss you so much

JUDY

March 10, 2023

Hello my mother today you are celebrating with Kyle and I know you are happy I miss you and Love you very much enjoy your day with Kyle! Wish I was with you all

Jerry

February 24, 2023

I love you my mother! Miss you so much! Love always your son.

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