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Gary Stocking Obituary

MERIDEN - Gary Joseph Stocking Sr., 72, loving husband of Charlain (Seitz) Stocking for 54 years, died on Wednesday, Aug. 16, 2017, at MidState Medical Center surrounded by his loving family.

Born in Meriden on October 17, 1944, he was the son of the late Robert and Florence Stocking. He had resided in Meriden all of his life and had graduated from Wilcox Technical School, class of 1962. Mr. Stocking was employed by Yankee Gas for over 30 years. Gary was a devoted, loving husband and father, with a quick wit that would always lift your spirit. He was an avid fan of the Boston Red Sox, Bruins, Celtics, and New York Giants. He enjoyed most being with his family and friends vacationing in Florida and Rhode Island. He was a life member of the Meriden Elks Lodge 35, a member of the New Departure Fish and Game Club, and he also coached football.

Besides his wife Charlain, he is survived by two sons, Gary Stocking Jr., and his wife, Susan, and Keith Stocking and his wife, Michele; several grandchildren; one great-grandson; two brothers, Robert Stocking and Dennis Stocking; and a sister-in-law, Joanne Stocking. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his daughter, Sheri Stocking; and a brother, Allan Stocking Sr.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a funeral service to be held on Monday, Aug. 21, at 11:15 am from the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden and at 11:30 am at the Immanuel Lutheran Church, 164 Hanover St., Meriden. Burial will be private. Family and friends may call at the funeral home on Sunday, Aug. 20, from 2 to 5 p.m. and on Monday morning prior to the service from 10 to 11 a.m. Donations in his memory can be made to the Immanuel Lutheran Church or The Scleroderma Foundation 300 Rosewood Drive, Suite 105 Danvers, MA 01923. For online condolences please visit jferryfh.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Record-Journal on Aug. 18, 2017.

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Rose Nash

August 12, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Jay Reale

August 26, 2017

Charlain, I was sad to hear of Gary's passing. Although it's been many years, I still have wonderful memories of you and him coming to the house. Gary was a great guy, and a lot of fun. I especially remember that laugh of his. May god bless him, you and your entire family.

Rich Brandl

August 25, 2017

So sorry for your loss Gary.

August 23, 2017

Dear Charlain, It's hard to believe that Gary has passed. I hold such fond memories of him and I working as lineman for the old CL&P. Although we haven't seen each other in a long time, I never forgot him and how very funny he was and how he got me through many tough days. I loved working with him and was very sorry to see him leave the line dept. I.m very sorry for your loss and I know he will be missed. Sincerely, Gene Diorio

Kathy Nagel

August 22, 2017

Chaplain, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear husband. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Kathy Nagel

August 20, 2017

So sorry for your loss.
Prayers and love to your family.
Pam and Dave Borselle❤❤

Tom and Susan Mullany

August 20, 2017

Sorry to hear about Gary. We will keep your family in our thoughts.

Lori-Ann Stocking

August 19, 2017

I'm so sorry for your loss. Uncle Gary was a wonderful man and will always hold a special place in my heart. Keeping all the family in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless!

Don McCann

August 19, 2017

Keith and family, our condolences to you and your family. A sad time but so many memories to draw upon to get you through. Our fathers are all we are and all we want to become like. God is holding him close.
Don and Sue McCann

Joseph (John) Charpentier

August 19, 2017

my sincere sympathy on your lost. He was a great person. may god take him in his kingdom where he will be in great hands.
Joe and Mariette Charpentier

Mr & Mrs Marquez Marquez

August 18, 2017

To the Stocking

The Marquez family is sorry for your loss, may the Lord give you strength in the myth of these rough times. Gary was our landlord at 44 & 46 Prescott street, for almost 8 years. Prayers going out for comfort & strength.

Maryann Leonard

August 18, 2017

Dear Charlain,
My sincere condolences to you and your family. Know that you are all in my prayers.
Maryann leonard

john FAZZ

August 18, 2017

Gary will be missed by many...you are in my prayers..

Rose and Maurice Bourgoin

August 18, 2017

Dear Charlain and family,
Maurice and I send our sympathy and also sending prayers to make it easier to go on each day without him. We will see you soon

Judith Tumblin

August 18, 2017

Please accept my sincere condolences to the family of Gary Stocking. He was a kind & loving man, husband & father. His passing will be sorely missed by all.
God Bless you all!
Judith & Earle Tumblin
Laurens, SC 29360

Esther Keene

August 18, 2017

My deepest sympathy to you Charlain and your family

Beverly Sperry

August 18, 2017

Charlain,Gary Jr. & Keith and family
My deepest sympathy goes out to you. So sorry for your lost of Gary Sr. Sending prays your way

Beverly Sperry
ALex Zadrick

Linda Mesite

August 18, 2017

Sorry to hear about Gary he was a great guy.

RON AND DOLORES (BUSA) LARIVIERE

August 18, 2017

CHARLAIN AND FAMILY...SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR LOVED ONE

Helen Fretz

August 18, 2017

Chaplain and family.
So sorry for your loss
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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