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Meliney Marcheselle Obituary

SOUTHINGTON - Meliney (Riccio) Marcheselle, 85, of the Plantsville section of Southington, passed away Monday, Oct. 9, 2017, at the Salmon Brook Center in Glastonbury. She was the (love of his life) wife of the recently deceased Leonard Marcheselle. Meliney was always by Leonard's side whether cheering him on or helping in any way she could to enable him to contribute his time and effort to various community organizations. Theirs was a beautiful marriage and you can be sure Meliney could not be on this earth long without her soul mate.

She was born May 30, 1932, in West Hartford, the daughter of five children of the late Fiorino and Emilia (Scoppetta) Riccio. She had retired from the Southington Board of Education. She had been a parishioner of St. Aloysius church and was a charter member of the Emblem Club 527.

She is survived by her three daughters and their husbands of which she was very proud, Meliney and James Schulz, of Glastonbury, LynnMarie and Richard Lopatosky, of Southington, and Leanne and Dr. Thomas Pazik, of Greeley, Colo. She also leaves six grandchildren that she so loved, Sara and Alexander Walker, John Schulz, Amylynne and Christian Moore, Bethany and Sgt. first class, Justin Mottoshiski, Laura and Tanner Kinde, Dr. Alicia, and Nick Huckaby; and three great-grandchildren, Raegan Moore, Jackson Moore, and Tyce Kinde. Also left to mourn her, loving older sister and brother-in-law, Ellen and Tony DeTuccio, of Newington; sister-in-law, Jean LaVigne, of East Hartford; and many nieces, nephews; and special friends, notably John and Diana Porrini, the best neighbors, ever!

Meliney's family would like to extend special thanks to the following people who took great care of her and enabled her to live comfortably at home during the past three difficult years: Dr. Alkesh Patel, of Southington, Companions and Homemakers awesome aides, Iris Delgado, Annmarie Pascal and Ann Marie Durand, the caring hospice support team at Hartford Healthcare at Home, Jeff, Alissa, Brian, Debbie, Jane and Cecilia, and finally, from Franciscan Ever There Care, sweet, kind, Nina Caro, and the aide that became part of the family and is truly an angel on this earth, Charmaine Rattray.

A Memorial Mass will be held Saturday, Oct. 28, at 10 a.m. at St. Aloysius Church, 255 Burritt St., Plantsville. Burial will be held at 12 p.m. at the Veteran's Cemetery in Middletown. Calling hours will be Friday 4 to 7 p.m. at the DellaVecchia Funeral Home, 211 N. Main St., Southington. Donation may be made in her memory to Bread for Life, P.O. Box 925, Southington, CT 06489. For online condolences, and directions please visit www.dellavecchiafh.com.

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Published by The Record-Journal on Oct. 22, 2017.

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Mike macdonald

May 24, 2025

So sorry to hear.of your mom and dads.passing. they were so supportive of us always.. just know they.arenin a better.place...hope all is well with you and your family.. Mike

Iris Delgado

October 30, 2017

I have a broken heart, Mrs. Marcheselle and Mr. Marcheselle today are two more angels in heaven. Melanie and Leonard were very nice to me while I gave my health care to Mrs. Marcheselle. I had a lot of affection for both of them. A wonderful family that I met in those months. I send my condolences to the whole family and may God strengthen the whole family. I'm sorry for your loss.

Pam Koncki

October 26, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Wishing you the comfort of happy memories.

Cheryl Ciraldo

October 19, 2017

There is such pain in my heart for the passing of Meliney and Leonard. They were such a big part of my childhood. I spent many happy hours with them. Leonard coming across the street with his 3 girls singing "Sweet pea come out and play with me". And hours talking with Mel. Spending all the holidays together. We were all part of the Heath Street Family. My love to "Little" Mel, Lynn and Leanne. The pain of your loss never goes away, it just lessens . You never get over this loss, you get through it.

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