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Eric Widmer Obituary

Eric Widmer

Simsbury, CT - Dr. Eric G. Widmer (January 16, 1940 - January 18, 2025)

Renowned leader in global education, historian and beloved citizen of the world, Dr. Eric Widmer died at his home in Simsbury, CT on The Ethel Walker School campus, where his wife Dr. Meera Viswanathan serves as head of school, after a year-long battle with cancer, surrounded by family. He was celebrated for his scholarship, visionary leadership, and his enduring humanity.

He grew up in Storrs, CT, where his mother founded the School of Nursing at the University of Connecticut, and became its first Dean. In 1953, Eric's education blossomed, first at Deerfield Academy as an outstanding student and athlete; at Williams College, as a star running back and lacrosse player as well as president of his class and the student council; and finally, Harvard University, where he received a Ph.D. in History and Far Eastern Languages under famed sinologist John King Fairbank. He subsequently joined the faculty at Brown University where he taught Chinese and Inner Asian History with Harvard publishing his monograph, The Russian Ecclesiastical Mission in Peking During the 18th Century, a work still read today by historians around the world and in diplomatic circles. At Brown, he served in a number of academic and administrative capacities over twenty-five years, including many years as a legendary Dean of Student Life and then Dean of Admission and Financial Aid.

Following his time at Brown as professor and dean, it was his great honor to serve as 54th Headmaster at his alma mater Deerfield Academy from 1994-2006, the first alumnus to do so. While for many, that would have been the peak of a career, he then was asked by His Majesty King Abdullah II to become the founding head of school at King's Academy, which today is an internationally prominent boarding and day school in Madaba, Jordan. In addition, he served as a trustee on numerous boards around the world, including: Robert College in Istanbul, Turkey (which his great-grandfather Cyrus Hamlin founded in 1863); The American Community School in Beirut, Lebanon; ASSIST; Global Connections; and the Kingston Congregational Church in Kingston, Rhode Island.

His passions ranged broadly from education to athletics, languages, joke-telling, classical music, and writing in diverse genres ranging from history to memoir to penning school songs and limericks, all of these laced with his customary quiet wit and sense of irony. These include The Founding of King's Academy: A Jordanian Memoir and Nursing a Life: A Remembrance of Carolyn Ladd Widmer, 1902-1991. His perennial admonitions to students were ones he heard at Deerfield from Headmaster Frank Boyden, who always reminded the students to "be worthy of your heritage" and to "finish up strong." And so Eric was, and so he did.

He is survived by his wife Meera; his former wife, Dr. Ellen Widmer; his brother Michael and his wife Jeanne; his beloved sons, Ted, and Matt and his partner Lisa Miller; as well as his grandchild Freddy and their husband Stephen Eesley.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Eric's name to The Olive Branch Fund to support scholarships to King's Academy for Palestinian students from Gaza: https://www.kingsacademy.edu.jo/giving/the-olive-branch-education-fund-for-gaza/donate-olive-branch-fund-check-wire-transfer

A funeral service will be held on March 1, 2025 at 1 pm at Kingston Congregational Church in Kingston, RI as well as celebrations of his life to be held at The Ethel Walker School in April, King's Academy in May, and Deerfield Academy in June for each of those communities to be able to honor his memory and many accomplishments. Please visit Eric's Book of Memories at www.vincentfuneralhome.com for online tributes.

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Published by The Recorder on Feb. 22, 2025.

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James Cohen, Class of 1960 at Deerfield

May 25, 2025

A scholar, athlete, writer, humorist, leader and passionate person dedicated to authenticity and the unremitting love of his family, friends and students, his mark as a kind and compassionate person will remain indelible at each of the places where he served in so many important capacities, including his memorable leadership as Deerield's 54th headmaster. His twelve-year stint at Deerfield offers just one significant example of a remarkable human being that was commited by example to scholarship and humble caring for his students, colleagues, family and friends. He was a genuine and generous person in each and every diverse role of his life--one to admire and inspire.

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Janet Twal

February 24, 2025

"With heavy hearts, we say goodbye to Dr. Eric Widmer, a truly kind and compassionate leader. Dr. Eric was not only an exceptional professional but also a friend and mentor to many of us. His unwavering support, generosity, and genuine care for others made him a pillar of in our workplace and a positive influence in our lives. He treated everyone with respect and kindness, always going the extra mile to help others. His legacy of integrity, warmth, and dedication will never be forgotten, and we are grateful for the privilege of working alongside such a remarkable man. May he rest in peace, knowing that his impact will continue to be felt in lives he touched. RIP Sir. Widmer Love you

Lillian Lim

February 23, 2025

I met Professor Widmer when I was an undergraduate student at Brown University. He was very kind and supportive of the then newly formed Asian American Student Association. His legacy includes thousands of students inspired by his civility and scholarship. My condolences. Lillian Lim, CA Superior Court Judge, retired

Fadi Rizeq

February 23, 2025

We were privileged to get to know Eric as a great leader, intellect, and delightful man during our two son´s time at kingsacademy Grateful for that. We send our sincerest condolences to Meera, his sons, and all his family.
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Mary Ellen Mackin

February 23, 2025

Dr Widmer´s obituary, in its own right, is a worthy read. I do remember his years at Deerfield, and his ground-breaking appointment by King Abdullah. What an amazing life, and appreciation to his family for sharing this.

Jenny Hammond

February 21, 2025

I only met him a few times during my 14 years at DA, as I arrived after his tenure there. Eric was such a lovely, kind person. My first time hearing him speak was when he was addressing the students and sharing his story of how he came to Deerfield from the "other part of Connecticut". His openness and vulnerability from the stage was truly engaging and endearing. The last time we met was at his Reunion, helping get photos into his PPT presentation on educational leadership & global education. Truly wonderful. Miss Viz and family: my deepest sympathy for your loss.

Joan Taylor and Bill Wilmot

February 21, 2025

We were privileged to get to know Eric as a great leader, intellect, and delightful man during our two son´s time at Deerfield Academy. Grateful for that. We send our sincerest condolences to Meera, his sons, and all his family. The Wilmot & Taylor family.

Ed Shanahan

February 20, 2025

And there goes one brilliant educator and an honorable and memorable human being. Not many like him. His gifts will indeed be savored for generations of teachers, students, and colleagues. I personally will miss him, but will hold him close in my heart! Thank you, dear friend!

John L. Hines

February 19, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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