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Barbara Caffese Obituary

Stockton, CA

Barbara Anne Caffese

January 24, 1948 - May 6, 2009

Barbara Anne Caffese, 61, passed away May 6 at St. Joseph's Medical Center, in the company of her loving family.

Barbara was born in Stockton on January 24, 1948 and raised in Tracy by her parents, Guy and Dorothy Scott. She graduated from Tracy High School in 1966. Four years later, at the age of 22, Barbara married Gary Caffese, of Stockton, in 1970 at St. Luke's Church in Stockton. Their reception was held at the Italian-Athletic Club.

Barbara, who loved to travel, worked at Segale Travel Service in Stockton until the birth of her first child, daughter Michelle. She gave birth to a second daughter, Marie, four years after her first. Barbara also worked at Macy's in Stockton and at the University of the Pacific School of Pharmacy and Health Sciences. Barbara loved to work with the diverse graduate students from the School of Pharmacy, and befriended many.

An enthusiastic and inexhaustible shopper, Barbara made friends wherever she went. She was a loving wife, devoted mother and precious Nonna to her grandchildren. Barbara was a member of the Native Daughters of the Golden West. She loved spending time with her family and friends.

Barbara was preceded in death by her parents. She is survived by her husband of 39 years, Gary; daughter Michelle Dal Porto and her husband, Richard Dal Porto; grandchildren Chiara and Rocco Dal Porto; and daughter Marie Burkin-Caffese and her husband, Christian Burkin.

Visitation will be held from 3 p.m. to 7 p.m. Monday, May 11th at the Evergreen Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, off Harney Lane in Lodi. A Catholic rosary and funeral will be held 10 a.m. Tuesday May 12th at St. Michael's Catholic Church in Stockton. Monsignor Richard Ryan will administer the service. Donations in Barbara's memory can be made to the American Diabetes Association at www.diabetes.org

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Published by The Record from May 9 to May 11, 2009.

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Cynthia vanderschel

September 15, 2020

She was my best friend and will be always .

Camillo & Joanne Leventini

May 28, 2009

Dear Gary, Michelle, and Marie, Words cannot describe the loss that we feel since Barbara has left. She will forever remain in our hearts & memories. In Sympathy & Love,

Angela Gibson

May 12, 2009

Dearest Michelle and Marie,
Please accept my deepest and heartfelt condolences on the loss of your dear mother, Barbara. I remember her well, the challenges she faced with dignity and grace, her quiet strength, and her lovely, lovely soul. You girls are quiet, strong, and grounded because of her.
I will keep you, your families and your dad in my thoughts and prayers.

VIRGIL CELLE

May 11, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Bob Morris

May 11, 2009

Marie & Christian,
I am so sorry to learn of your mother's passing. Please, accept my deepest condolences. I pray the Lord grant you strength and comfort.

AnnMarie Dell'Aringa

May 11, 2009

Gary, Michelle, Marie and families,
I was so very sorry to learn of Barbara's passing. May God wrap his loving arms around all of you at this most difficult time and give you peace and comfort.
Fondly,
AnnMarie, David & Anthony

Dionne Cole-Brooks

May 10, 2009

You are in our hearts and prayers at this time. I remember the fun times at your house when we were at St. Lukes. I enjoyed your mom very much.She will be missed.

Lolly & Melinda Gomez

May 10, 2009

Gary, Marie, Michelle, Please accept our sincere sympathy's. Barbara, a wonderful Lady, Wife, Mother and a great Friend. She will be missed. May God grant her peace.
And may God Bless you and keep you well during this time of sorrow.

May 9, 2009

Gary and family...I haven't been in touch since we saw You and Barbara at Aunt Wilma's funeral several years ago. We are so sorry to hear of her passing, and i know you and your family miss her dearly. Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. Cousin Jack Kettering, Fremont, Calif.

Aunt Shirley

May 9, 2009

Rest in Peace,Barb....It seems like only yesterday,that Scotty and Louise presented their daughter to the family...I can still see her in my mind's eye...Love

Steven Mahan

May 9, 2009

We were all saddened to hear of Barbara's passing. Our condolences to all of the family.

Laura Mignacco and The Mahan Family

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