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Gary Caffese Obituary

Gary Lee Caffese

Nov. 22, 1947 - Nov. 7, 2016

Gary Lee Caffese, 68, passed away peacefully in the morning on Nov. 7 at St. Joseph's

Medical Center in Stockton.

Born on Nov. 22, 1947, to

Angelo Caffese and Mary Lagomarsino, Gary graduated from St. Mary's High School in 1966 and began farming, continuing a family tradition that began when his paternal grandfather, Giuseppe, immigrated to the United States from Sestri Levante, Italy in 1895.

Gary married Barbara Anne Scott in 1970, at St. Luke's Church, in Stockton. Gary worked hard to provide for his

family. Over the course of five decades, he built a flourishing

career in agriculture, of which he was extremely proud.

A devoted husband, loving father and doting nonno, he was equally proud of his family, and raised his daughters to be strong, hard-working and determined women. He was a true steward of the land, and spent his free time hunting and fishing.

Gary was preceded in death by his father, his wife, and his sister Carol. He is survived by his mother; his brother, Robert; his sister Teresa; his daughter

Michelle Caffese Dal Porto and her husband, Richard Dal Porto; his daughter Marie Burkin Caffese and her husband,

Christian Burkin; and his grandchildren, Chiara, Rocco and Luciana Dal Porto, and Magnus Burkin.

A viewing will be held today, Nov. 9, from 3 to 8 p.m., at

Evergreen Chapel, Cherokee Memorial Park, on Harney Lane at Highway 99, Lodi.

A Rosary and Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Thursday, Nov. 10, at 10 a.m., at St.

Michael Catholic Church, 5882 N. Ashley Lane, Stockton.

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Published by The Record from Nov. 9 to Nov. 10, 2016.

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Greg Bianchini

November 4, 2019

I deeply miss Gary who was one of my closest friends for most of my life. I know Gary is now resting peacefully without any pain and suffering.

Rick Perry and Family

November 15, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Caffese family. I was honored to have spent time with Gary throughout my youth duck hunting with Gary and the members of the Delta King Duck Club.Gary was the first person I knew to fly a kite for duck hunting. One day he showed up with a kite with swirls on the side he called the "mezmorizer". we all laughed but it worked. Gary was one of a kind and will be truly missed.

Richard Bozzano

November 11, 2016

My deepest condolences tothe Caffese family...A friend and good neighbor. We will miss him.'

Greg & Lori Bianchini

November 9, 2016

I was a close friend of Gary since we entered 1st grade at St Gertrude's and continued on to St. Mary's until graduation. We spent endless hours hunting and fishing together.
We continued our close relationship for several years by Gary supporting my winemaking endeavor and supplying premium grapes for our winery.
I miss him dearly.
Greg Bianchini
Bianchini Cellars
Volcano, Ca

Frank Tenente

November 9, 2016

I was proud to know Garry we had some nice conversations over the years. My shop was by the 8 mile property and we did work for the Caffese brothers . We enjoyed hunting & fishing stories and Garry will be surely missed by all. Frank Tenente

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