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Darlene Wilson Obituary
Darlene Wilson of Warwick, formerly of Wallkill, passed into Gods hands on March 2, 2007. She was 45.
Darlene, a graduate of Wallkill High School, left the area to pursue her dream of becoming a Broadway performer at a young age. Her professional performing credits included: Broadway productions of: "Spamalot", "Chicago", "Sunset Boulevard", "CATS", and "Side Show". National Tours included: "A Chorus Line", "CATS", "42ND Street" & "This Was Burlesque". At Lincoln Center she performed in "The Pajama Game", "South Pacific", and the Encore Series Presentation of "No Strings" at City Center, along with numerous Regional theater credits.
Her associate choreographer credits included the Broadway Productions of "Monty Pythons, Spamalot", "Side Show", "The Scarlet Pimpernel", "Flower Drum Song", Radio City: "The Christmas Spectacular", and "Sinatra".
She taught and coached professionals and young students both locally and in New York City at C.A.P. 21 associated with N.Y. University and was guest teacher at both STEPS and Broadway Dance in New York City for the Master Theater Dance series.
Originally a student of Powers Dance Art Center and a member of Orange County Ballet Theater from 1971-1980, Darlene's dream came full circle when she purchased the studio, renaming it Broadway Dance Arts, located in Newburgh. She was proud to continue the professional quality inspired by Regis Powers and Merritt Thompson and was proud to be the new Artistic Director of the Orange County Ballet Theater.
She is survived by her beloved husband, Matt Zytko; mother and stepfather, Julie and James Williamson; grandmother, Jewel Lewis; sister, Michele Martucci; brother, Scott Wilson; stepsister, Diane Halstead; and nieces and nephews.
She was predeceased by her father, Philip Wilson.
Friends may call on Monday, March 5, 2007 from 5-9 p.m. at Brooks Funeral Home, 481 Gidney Ave., Newburgh.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. on Tuesday, March 6, at Our Lady of the Lake Church, Newburgh. Cremation will follow at Cedar Hill Crematory, Newburgh.
Donations may be made in her name to St. Jude's Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.
To send a personal condolence or for directions to the funeral home, please visit BrooksFH.com, or call 845-561-8300.
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Memories and Condolences
for Darlene Wilson
Jennifer (Jorgensen) Dempsey
January 11, 2021
This is an extremely belated condolence message, and I do hope it finds Darlene's family. Darlene was one of my best childhood friends. We met when my sister and I joined Powers Dance Studio. I simply adored Darlene. She used to come to Middletown to visit her grandmother, but invariably we ended up somewhere (either in the side yard outside her grandma's condo or in my living room) choreographing one dance or another! I absolutely remember all these years later some of the songs we chose and the dance routines we worked on together. Such fun! I loved visiting her family on Kings Drive; her mom Julie in particular was absolutely delightful and so kind to me. We used to go hang out and dance in her neighbor's gazebo across the street from her house. Darlene taught me to make my first grilled cheese sandwich in her kitchen! What a wonderful friend, and our mutual love of dance was such a special memory for me. We lost touch as we started high school and I stopped dancing... but I knew Darlene never would! I sure wish I'd thought to search the internet for her much sooner so that I could have reestablished contact with my wonderful friend Darlene. May her memories and fully lived life of kindness and joy and love of dance continue to sustain your family. Warmest regards, Jennifer (Jorgensen) Dempsey
Lee Saks
March 24, 2007
Dear Matt,
Rich, Shari, Marc, Jamie and I just heard about Darlene. Although we have not been in touch recently we are all grieving her loss. Shari says Darlene was her inspiration for dance. And she did it with the same heart Darlene did. Jamie and Marc are so sorry and can't believe their Scatamachina is gone. Rich and I are here for you, remembering your early days with Dar. Please know you're in our thoughts and prayers. We will attend Tuesday's Memorial service.
Lovingly, The Saks'
Kristen Behrendt
March 22, 2007
When I first met Darlene as she put me into Sunset Boulevard I was so struck by how I had met the kindest person in the world. Then I was blessed again to be a part of the Side Show family with her. She radiated love and light and everyone who was touched by her is very lucky. I hope her family can find comfort in knowing that light will never go away.
With Love,
Kristen Behrendt
Maureen (Flinton) Shauket
March 22, 2007
Scott,
I just read the newspaper article about Darlene, which was sent to me by my mother. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you and your family. I remember how close you and Darlene were in high school and what a wonderful relationship the two of you had. Darlene always had such grace and poise, your family should be proud of the impact she has had on others. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Inga Thrasher
March 9, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss,
The news of Darlene's passing has shocked and sadden me. She was such a beautiful and special person. I was lucky enough to work with her on a number of shows. She will be missed.
My prayers are with you.
Frank Padavano
March 6, 2007
My Deepest and Heartfelt Sympathy to the Family.
I attended Wallkill Schools with Darlene and she was always a fun-loving and happy person.
With Sincere Sympathy,
Eleanor Harris & Family
March 6, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the family of Darlene Wilson. Although we haven't been in touch in recent years, our memories of the past are
very vivid. Darlene has given her family so many beautiful memories.
We hope these will help sustain them during the painful days ahead
until "they are together again."
Marge Feduchka
March 6, 2007
My thoughts, prayers and heartfelt sympathy goes out to Darlene's entire family. I knew her as a young child as we grew up near each other on Mt. View Ave and I was a friend to her sister Michelle.
linda ely
March 6, 2007
DEAREST JULIE, MATT, MICHELLE, AND SCOTT,
I COULDN'T STAY, BUT I WANTED TO TELL YOU THAT IT WAS A BEAUTIFUL SERVICE.
I SENT THE BOOK LAST WEEK HAVING NO IDEA TODAY WOULD COME SO SOON. I JUST WANT TO SAY THAT I FEEL LIKE I MISSED OUT ON A TREMENDOUS OPPORTUNITY IN LIFE, AND THAT WAS TO KNOW DARLENE BETTER THAN I DID. I'VE ALWAYS ADMIRED HER SO MUCH, AND TODAY SHE WAS A HUGE INSPIRATION TO ME.
I BELIEVE IN HEAVEN, AND I KNOW SHE IS WITH ALL OF OUR ANGELS UP THERE. I REMEMBER HAVING SEVERAL CONVERSATIONS WITH UNCLE BUDDY, WHO WOULD ALWAYS TELL ME HE WAS GOING TO PARIDISE. DARLENE WILL BE WELL LOOKED AFTER.
LOVE, LINDA ELY
Jane Giaimo
March 6, 2007
My dear Julie and Jim and Family - I am so sorry for your loss. May God give you strength and may your dear memories ease your grief. Love and Prayers Jane Conklin Giaimo
Laura Franklin
March 5, 2007
To Darlene's Family,
I am deeply saddened by your loss. I am pleased to share with you that Darlene's and my paths intersected many times, and each time she was sweet, kind and thoughtful. She will be sorely missed.
Michelle Tomasello
March 5, 2007
To Darlene's Family,
My deepest and heartfelt sympathy goes out to you all. My thought's and prayers are with you at this time.
Barbara Affuso
March 5, 2007
Dear Julie, Jim & family-
Words cannot express our deepest sorrow for your loss- May your fond memories give you comfort & solace at this time- You are in our thoughts & prayers- Love-
Barbara & Donny
Gregg Petoff
March 5, 2007
Matt and Scott ,
I am deeply saddened by your loss , and hope you know that my heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow.
What an impact Darlene, Matt, and Scott have made in my life, just knowing such great people.
My Preyers are with you all .
Marian Van Deusen
March 5, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the family. I attended school with Darlene since grade school and she was always a friendly, warm and happy person.
Marian (Hall) Van Deusen
michelle millerick
March 5, 2007
I met Darlene when I made my Broadway debut in Side Show. I was young, nervous and overwhelmed, but Darlene went out of her way to make me feel welcome, confident, and to make things seem a bit less scary. Her warmth and talent stays with me today. My heartfelt condolences to all who have loved her.
Joann and Lou Miller
March 5, 2007
our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family
Chris Rainey
March 5, 2007
Matt,
So sorry to hear about your wife Darlene. Wow--she lived a full life in her 45 years!
I've appreciated the opportunity to work with you over the last year and a half. You've always been kind, helpful and diligent, despite what must have been a struggle at home that undoubtedly made our software projects seem relatively unimportant in the overall scheme of life.
My wife and children remember meeting you at Olive Garden a few weeks ago. We will pray for you with the hope that you will receive comfort and strength from God to help you in your time of need.
Bonnie Scandurra
March 5, 2007
Darlene was a very nice person
I will miss her so much. She will always be in my heart.
My deepest sympathy to her
Husband and to her Mother and Brother and Sister.
Leslie Hanes
March 4, 2007
Darlene touched so many people--many more than most people do in an long life time. I will always think of her as a sister and remember the wisdom she imparted to me. As she continues her journey the rest of us will have trouble letting go--we will miss you deeply. My heart goes out to all her family--my deepest sympathy.
Ron & Nancy Sikkema
March 4, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Tripp Hanson
March 4, 2007
Dear sweet friend, my Dar Dar...
Thank you! Thank you for sharing yourself with me. Your gifts are legion- and it would seem that no one who came into contact with you was left untouched. I'm no exception. You were above all- above the creativity, above the light and humor, above the deep and abiding friendship- you were a safe space for me; you were both a rock and a soft spot for me; you believed when I couldn't, and helped me across so many rough patches with grace, kindness, compassion. I only hope to become the human being you saw in me.
I love you deeply, and will miss you more than I can say- you're in my heart forever, sweet sweet Dar Dar.
To Matt and Julie,
Thank you for sharing your angel Darlene with us. I'm so so sorry...I know your hearts are broken; Case and I are here if you need us in any way...
Always-
Kyle Ducham
March 4, 2007
I've only known Darlene a short while, but she has enriched my life tremendously. Her genuine kindness and encouragement will remain with me forever, and I will always dance with her in my heart.
Kathy Martel-Sileno
March 4, 2007
Dearest Julie & family - I never knew Darlene but I certainly knew you and certainly knew the pride you showed whenever I asked... "how's you daughter?" You were always quick to share her latest accomplishments. My heart now breaks with you and I shall keep you all in my prayers. Stay strong and just know how many people care and love you - count me among them.
"Regret not for long that she's gone but rejoice forever that she was." With my sincere sympathy to all of the family.Kathy Martel-Sileno
Leslie Trayer Harvey
March 4, 2007
I
am so saddened by Darlene's illness and passing. In the broadway world
of cut throat competetiveness, Darlene was always encouraging, warm,
and supportive. Her loving energy will be missed. My heart goes out
to her family.
Alicia Keane
March 4, 2007
My prayers and deepest sympathy are with Darlene's family right now.
Yvonne (Rissmeyer) Sternemann
March 4, 2007
I graduated with Darlene and will always remember what a friendly, happy person she was. My deepest sympathy to her husband and family at this very difficult time.
Krista Marvin (Birch)
March 4, 2007
Matt, I'm so sorry for your loss. With deepest sympathy, Krista
Arleen (Burckley) Riess
March 4, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go out to Darlene's Family. I grew up with Darlene on Kings Drive. She was such a kind and beautiful person. She will deeply be missed in my heart. But I will treasure the childhood memories we had.
JoAnn Hunter
March 4, 2007
Dearest Darlene!
I consider myself lucky to have known you and to have had the pleasure of working with you.
And to the whole family, my deepest sympathies to you. As you know Darlene was one of the most loveliest ladies to grace this world. I will miss her!
Karen Mason
March 4, 2007
Darlene was one of the most generous, funny, intelligent, and totally gorgeous women on Broadway. Her spirit will be missed by everyone she touched. My husband and I send our love to Darlene's family. You were lucky to have someone so special in your lives. We all were.
Lia Martucci
March 3, 2007
Gods putting on a show, and needed a beautiful broadway star.
If I had just 2 more minutes with you, or had one last chance to talk to you, I'd start by saying thank you. You will always amaze me. Thank you for everything, and the million smile you brought to us all. All of our times shared will be truely missed. You will continue to be the spunkiest most gorgeous woman ever in these blue eyes of mine. You will never be forgotten. -Love you always, your babiest neice. :)
Kathy (Flynn) Muenz
March 3, 2007
My dear friend and kindred spirit---your light will be missed by all who knew you...the world is a tiny bit darker for your absence. My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family.
Molly Hamilton
March 3, 2007
My deepest heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you. Darlene was a beautiful person and will be missed dearly by all who were lucky enough to know her. I am so very very sorry for your loss.
anonymous
March 3, 2007
My heart goes out to you and your family during your time of loss. Darlene will always be watching over you..God took another angel..My deepest sympathy is with your family.
Jeanette Ryan-Tuthill
March 3, 2007
To Darlene's family..My heart felt condolences. I graduated with Darlene. I will always remember her warmth and her beautiful smile. She was so very graceful on stage. She certainly did not waste the gifts that God had given to her. She will live on in the hearts of those she taught and those who love her.
Jack & Kristen Boyle
March 3, 2007
Our thoughts & prayers are with you at this time.
Jeff & Marie Murphy
March 3, 2007
Jim & Julie,
Our hearts break for you and our prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Know that Darlene has had such a positive influence on so many young people, what a lasting tribute to her and to you. Please know we are here for you just give us a call.
Heather Wood (formerly Wilkie)
March 3, 2007
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Celeste Goodell
March 3, 2007
The world was her stage.... Rest in Peace my sweet, beautiful aunt. You will be sadly missed, and always loved.
Vicki & Amanda halvorsen
March 3, 2007
Julie and family,
Words cannot express the loss of Darlene. She was a wonderful person, always had a smile. She was a studio owner, a teacher, a mentor and also a friend to all. She could handle any situation and was loved by all. God now has a perfect angel in heaven watching down on us. You are in our thoughts and prayers and may god get you through this tough time. She will always be loved and sadly missed but never forgotten.
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