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Duncan Trueman Obituary

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Rev. Dr. Duncan Trueman, a resident of Warwick, NY, passed away on March 9, 2010 at Valley Hospital, Ridgewood, NJ. He was 85.

The son of Duncan Thomas and Harriette Webster Trueman, he was born on December 30, 1924 in Whitestone, NY.

A graduate of Hofstra University and Drew University School of Theology, he was appointed by the New York Conference of the Methodist Church to service churches in Livingston Manor, Parksville, Beaverkill, and Lew Beach in Sullivan County, and Goshen and New Milford in Orange County. He later received his degree in Education and his doctorate in Ministry. His ministry spanned a period of 55 years.

He taught at the Warwick School for Boys and then at Mid-Orange Correctional Facility, where he held the positions of Education Director, Education Supervisor and finally as Deputy Superintendent of Programs. He retired after 20 years.

A veteran of World War II, he proudly served with the 106th Infantry Division, First Army in the European theater. He landed on Utah Beach on D-Day and fought in the Battle of the Bulge. He was a recipient of the Combat Infantry Badge. He became Chaplain of the 106th Infantry Division, delivering memorial addresses across the country. He was also a member of the National Battle of the Bulge Association, serving as president of the local chapter in Orange County. He was a member of the V.F.W. In retirement, he devoted time to counseling veterans and in particular, those suffering from Post Stress Trauma.

Survivors include his beloved wife and helpmate of 62 years, Grace of Warwick; his beloved son, Steven and his fianceé, Joy; beloved daughter, Anna Trueman of San Anselmo, CA; sister, Harriette Hart of Tampa, FL; brother-in-law, The Rev. Robert Reiners and his wife, Elizabeth; his sister-in-law, Margaret Reiners; many nieces and nephews who were dear to him.

The family will be present to receive friends on Friday, March 12, from 2-4 and 6-9 p.m. at Warwick United Methodist Church, 135 Forrester Ave., Warwick, NY.

A celebration of his life will be held at 10 a.m. on Saturday, March 13, at Warwick United Methodist Church, followed by interment in Warwick Cemetery, with military honors.

In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be sent to the New Milford United Methodist Church Building Fund, PO Box 137, New Milford, NY 10959.

Arrangements are under the direction of Lazear-Smith & Vander Plaat Memorial Home, 17 Oakland Avenue, Warwick, NY 10990. To send an online condolence, see www.lsvpmemorialhome.com.

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Published by Times Herald-Record on Mar. 11, 2010.

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Erik Staub

June 7, 2023

I met Duncan Trueman in 1970 as a 21 year old rookie teacher at the Warwick School for Boys. He impressed me immediately as a dedicated,competent and caring man with integrity and strength. I am sorry for your loss but he left the world a better place

Lori, Ed & Crystal Phillips

March 13, 2010

Dear Grace & Family, we are so sorry to hear about Rev. Trueman. He was a great man. He was an inspiration to everyone he touched. We are so blessed to have known him. He will be missed greatly. I wish we could of been there with you at this time of need. Know you are in our hearts. Love & miss you Lori, Ed & Crystal Phillips (Lareiene & Mike's daughter)

Heather, Eddie & Christopher Koziola

March 12, 2010

My prayers are with the Trueman family at this time.

Rev. Trueman was an inspiration to all he met. He will be greatly missed.

Oh how I can imagine how happy he is standing at the feet of God.

A A

March 12, 2010

Im so sorry to hear of Rev. Trueman's passing. My thoughts and prayer go out to his family during this time. He was truly a very special man, and Im so glad I had the opportunity to have met him. God Bless

March 11, 2010

Duncan Trueman was a great man. I am a better man for having known him. At my very best, I could only hope to be 1% of the friend, father, uncle, brother, husband, patriot, Christian, and American that he was. Choruses of trumpets must have played beyond the reach of human ears welcoming a man after God's own heart, home to heaven. I will certainly miss his wise words, kind voice, smile, stories, and wonderful sense of humor. Uncle Duncan, I pray that you will stay near in my heart forever. God Bless You. I look forward to seeing you again.

March 11, 2010

i am so sorry for your loss--he was a wonderful pastor and human being. He will be missed by all who knew him. Your family will be in my prayers. Terry STAGE

Thornton & Kathy Land

March 11, 2010

Grace and family,
Kathy and I are very sorry to hear of Duncan's passing. He was a significant influence in our lives including performing our marriage ceremony which took place almost 28 years ago.
While we love living in Maine, it does sometimes present logistical difficulties like now since we are so far away.
We regret that we will be unable to attend the services however we will be making a gift to the Building Fund in his honor.
Please accept our sincere condolences at this difficult time.
Thornton and Kathy Land

kitti cody

March 11, 2010

I can't remember a time that he wasn't in my life .He was there for the good times and he helped us through all the bad times we couldn't have done it without you Rev.Trueman I will carry you in my heart forever.You and Mrs.Trueman are family we love you and will miss you.Love ,the Cody family

March 11, 2010

All our heartfelt condolensces to the entire Trueman Family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Though we feel such sorrow in Duncan's passing, we must think of the rejoicing in heaven as Duncan was welcomed by all those who loved him so and went before him. Our selfishness wants him here with us, because he was our strength and he looked after us and guided us through the Father's word. But he still will, he's just in a better place to do so now. With the faith Duncan taught us to have, in sure and certain promise of God's word, we WILL meet again! Until then, farewell with our love, Donna, Kevin, Kristen and Carli

Daniel Farley

March 11, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Rev. Trueman's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. God bless you.

March 11, 2010

A time to rejoice as we know Duncan is in the arms of our Lord and Savior. He was always an inspiration and a wonderful pastor, a great leader and friend. I cherish the memories of his being our pastor at Goshen throughout our youth. To Grace, "Judy", Steve and Joy, my heartfelt sympathy.You will be in our thoughts, prayers and hearts always.

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