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JoEllen Bonse Obituary

New York City, NY

JoEllen Ridley Bonse passed away in Mount Sinai Hospital, New York City, NY on Monday, March 23, 2009. She is very happy and peacefully with our Heavenly Father now.

JoEllen is my wonderful wife because she always cared for people, making quilts, scrapbooking, sewing and handicrafts. Her talent was hand crafts by gift of God. I will never forget she made more than 300 quilts for new babies in hospitals, about 20 hats for persons who are cancer patients in Westchester Medical Clinic, sewed a prom dress for deaf student who was very poor, making Miss Deaf New York pageant banners for Empire State Association of the Deaf and others. Most people love my wife. We miss her. God bless her. We will meet her again someday.

She was born in Artesia, CA. She graduated from California School for the Deaf at Riverside in 1977. She attended Riverside City Community College where she studied in Home Economics.

She served as a missionary in Chicago, IL, Fresno, CA, and Denver, CO for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. JoEllen and Vernon got married in Los Angeles Temple on February 15, 1986. She was employed at IBM and Austine School for the Deaf in Vermont and other employers. She was a member of Mid-Hudson Valley Club of the Deaf, Mid-Hudson Valley Civic Association of the Deaf on behalf of Empire State Association of the Deaf Board of Sign Language Resources Inc., and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.

Jacqueline Ridley, her mother, lives in Las Vegas NV; her sister, Joy Farais and husband live in California. She predeceased by her father and brother passed away in 2001.

JoEllen's memorial service will be held at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, 485 Mt. Airy Rd., New Windsor, NY on Saturday, March 28, at 11 a.m.; 845-564-6785. If you cannot attend JoEllen's memorial service, please send letters to Vernon Bonse, 835 Blooming Grove Tpk., Apt 300, New Windsor, NY, 12553 or contact 845-764-8382 and also e-mail to ASLVERNcom. Always Love all my heart, Vernon.

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Published by Times Herald-Record on Mar. 27, 2009.

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Robert & Deborah Greener

April 23, 2009

JoEllen was a great friend to many and her smiling face will be missed by all who knew her. Vernon, your dedication to each other as a couple was very special and we pray that in time your pain can be replaced by all the wonderful memories.

Kathie Betts, Sr.

April 8, 2009

My husband Wayne,SR and I are so sorry to hear about your loss.. JoEllen. She was such a beautiful person. God bless her:)! Our biggest hugs to Vernon

Amy Loren kids Green

March 31, 2009

heard about your loss, wanted you to know you were in our thought . God got her now she's flying her wings singing in sign.god bless JO.

Jean Caldarella-Ivey

March 29, 2009

I am sorry for your loss loved one. And God blessing to Jo Ellen..

Gregory Warren

March 29, 2009

Our thoughts are with you, Vernon. I intended to attend Jo's funeral yesterday because it was the right time to afford to fly to NY. However, I realized that time to arrange to reserve the flight seat was short time between your annoucement of Jo passing away last Wednesday and funeral day yesterday. Next time I visit you, Vernon, in NY when I visit my parents, we can attend her burial ground or shelter of cermated ash in NY(?). What I never forget with Jo was that you, Vernon, brought her to visit to see me at John and Bernadette's party when we visited my parents' 50 anniverary party in 2004 or reunion of 1976 in 2000 (I hardly remember; is this the right dates?). It was rare and special visit because Jo was simply cared others as well as us. God's love, peace and comfort are with you. Love, Greg Warren

Cheryl Vigliotti

March 29, 2009

We are sorry for your loss and pray for those who mourn God Bless us all


Cheryl Kushner-Vigliotti and My husband Bobby
Family and Friend Michelle Gatto (1975)

Michelle Gatto ( Floride)
Cheryl and Bobby(CAPE COD Mass)

Eileen M & George Doone

March 29, 2009

JO ELLEN IS REAL SPECIAL PERSON I LOVE HER VERY MUCH WE ARE SAD TO HEAR OF HER DEATH WE PRAY THAT U WILL EXPERIENCE GODS LOVE AND COMFORT AND REST PEACE

Mary Jane Fertig

March 28, 2009

Jo Ellen was a special person and we are sad to hear of her death. We are praying that you will experience God's love, comfort and peace during this difficult time.
Mary Jane and Rick Fertig

Suzanne/John Schuler

March 27, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

John & Kathy Braue Jr. & Family

March 27, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Rae Y

March 27, 2009

Vernon, It's clear Jo Ellen was dearly loved by many. It's such a sad time for the whole community. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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