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THOMAS KITSON Obituary



Montgomery, NY

Tommy Kitson died unexpectedly at home on June 7, 2010 answering God's call to join Him in Paradise.

He leaves Marianne, his beloved wife, (nee Byman) to whom he was "the nicest guy she ever knew," and his loving children, Danny and Kellie. He is also survived by his father, Thomas and his brother, Joseph, plus many close relatives and friends.

He was predeceased by his mother, Elizabeth and his brother, Stephen.

Tommy served courageously with the Marines in Vietnam, enlisting when he was 17. He survived multiple battle-inflicted injuries and over a year's convalescence in veteran's hospitals. For this, he was awarded the Purple Heart and numerous military awards.

In 2007, after 30 years of service, he retired from the U.S. Postal Service in Suffern. Before moving to Montgomery in 1997, he was an active member of the American Legion, V.F.W. and D.A.V.

For all who knew Tommy, he was simply and first a good man. A man of his word who would stand with you resolutely in your need and happily celebrate in your good times. No one will be more dearly missed and never forgotten. The most important thing in life to Tom was his family, followed by his love for the Yankees, and for all the fish he caught and then gave another chance.

Visiting hours will be Friday, June 11, from 2-4 & 7-9 p.m. at the Overhiser Funeral Home, 78 Union St. Montgomery, NY 12549.

A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday, June 12, at 11 a.m. at Holy Name of Mary Church, 89 Union St., Montgomery. Following will be interment at the Orange County Veterans Cemetery, 111 Craigville Rd., Goshen, NY.

Arrangements by Millspaugh Funeral Directors; 845-778-3200.

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Published by Times Herald-Record from Jun. 9 to Jun. 10, 2010.

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Clare Shanahan Shanley

June 17, 2010

So very sad to hear that my childhood friend has passed. We were good friends all through Tolentine Grammar School, and all through the years, I have always cherished those memories and remembered our friendship with great love. He was one of a kind. May God Bless his family now. He shall always be in my thoughts and prayers.

Kevin Fitzgerald

June 16, 2010

Sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. I can still remember seeing him at Lujack's every day before school. He was a good Tolentine guy and he'll always be remembered as a friend.

dan ferry

June 16, 2010

very sorry to hear of tommys passing -i have only fond memories of Tommy and we had that connection as i was a navy corpsman in nam -but Tommy was a lucky man to survive his wounds -his time would come much later in life -i will toast tommy for what a great guy he was and a stand up citizen /soldier to the end.
dan ferry -semperfi

Karen Owens

June 12, 2010

To a great guy, I have many memories of you from our early days in the Bronx..Rest in peace Tommy

John Donnelly

June 12, 2010

Tommy, we grew up and entered the United States Marine Corps together. Many years were spent valuing your friendship in the Bronx. Arriving on Parris Island we graduated from 'boot camp' with our other brother Johnny B. We all set off for our tours in Vietnam, where each one of us were wounded in combat. I reached out to you a couple of years ago and discovered how great you were doing. I'm glad I had that chance to speak with you before your passing. I love you and always admired and respected your courage and loving heart. I will miss you, always. Until we meet again. SEMPER FIDELIS MARINE! John Donnelly--Key Largo, FL

Linda Stephens

June 11, 2010

Tommy, you will be missed. You were such a nice guy and neighbor.To his family: Im so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy

Linda Johnston Singh

June 9, 2010

Thomas, I still remember so clearly when you went to Vietnam and I was singing the Marine song walking to St. Nicks, praying you would be ok
Heaven's gain is our loss. Love you and miss you. Love your cousin Linda and family

Anna Johnston

June 9, 2010

We love and miss you, Thomas.
Love, Aunt Anna and Family

June 9, 2010

Kellie I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in our prayers. Chris Citriniti (from Stony Ford Ins.)

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