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Vincent DeFabio Obituary

Vincent R. "Vinnie 6", "Shanango Kid" DeFabio, of New Windsor, a retired Civil Service Engineer at West Point, entered into rest on Thursday, February 15, 2007, at the Kaplan Family Hospice Residence, surrounded by his loving family. He was 82.

Son of the late Nicolo and Florence DeMarco DeFabio, he was born March 8, 1924 in Cedar Cliff, N.Y.

He married Rose Crudele DeFabio on March 3, 1946 in Sacred Heart Church, Newburgh, who survives at home.

Vincent was a parishioner of Sacred Heart Church in Newburgh. He proudly served in the U.S. Army during World War II as a Sergeant with the 1st Armored Division. He received an honorable discharge and earned the European Theatre Medal, Good Conduct Medal, ETO, ATO, and a Purple Heart. He was a member of American Legion Post #1796, New Windsor, Disabled American Veterans, and was an actor and musician with the Senior Starlight Players in Florida.

In addition to his loving wife of 60 years, Rose, he is survived by his daughters, Florence Aruza and her husband, Albert of Newburgh, and Doreen D'Ambrosio and her husband, Carmine of New Windsor; brother, Nicholas DeFabio of Beacon; grandchildren: Richard Chiaramonte and his wife, Jodie of Newburgh, Vincent Chiaramonte of Florida, Anthony Tinelli of Minnesota, Danielle Tinelli of New York City, Christine Aruza of New York City and Amanda Aruza of Newburgh, Carmine (Drew) D'Ambrosio of Nyack, Brian D'Ambrosio of Montana, and Jennifer Walsh and her husband, Tom of White Plains; great-grandchildren, Matthew Chiaramonte of Florida, and Taylor Rose Chiaramonte of Newburgh; many nieces, nephews, cousins; and by all those who loved and laughed with him.

He was predeceased by his brothers, Joseph and William DeFabio.

Visitation will be held from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. on Sunday, February 18, at Brooks Funeral Home, 481 Gidney Ave., Newburgh.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 9:30 a.m. on Monday, February 19 at Sacred Heart Church, Newburgh. A Committal Service will immediately follow in Cedar Hill Mausoleum Chapel, Newburgh. Cremation will take place at Cedar Hill Crematory, Newburgh.

The family extends their grateful appreciation to the Oncology Department at Castle Point: Dr. Kinkabhala, Dr. Mishra and Dr. Prabhu, and to the staff at the Kaplan Family Hospice Residence, who so wonderfully cared for Vincent.

In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Vincent may be made to the Hospice of Orange (Kaplan Family Hospice Residence), 800 Stony Brook Ct., Newburgh, NY 12550.

To send a personal condolence or for directions to the funeral home, please visit BrooksFH.com, or call 845-561-8300.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Herald-Record on Feb. 17, 2007.

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Nina Ponesse Petro

February 21, 2007

Rosie:

I was so sorry to hear of the loss... I love your family, and you and Vinnie were always family to us. We remember fondly some of the times at Friar Tuck's with the Couples Club, and how we were allowed to tag along. Vinnie was a sweet man, always a friendly greeting, and you always felt better having been with him.

The world is a little less happy without him.

I remember you fondly and will keep you in my prayers. Bob and I both extend our condolences.

NYDIA RODRIGUEZ

February 20, 2007

I FOUND TODAY ABOUT THIS BAD NEWS.
REFLEXION:HE IS IN PEACE,NO SUFFERING ANYMORE.HE HAD A GOOD LIFE AND A WONDERFUL FAMILY.
IAM REALLY SORRY MYSELF,NOT TO KNOW HIM AND ALL OF YOU BEFORE.
GOD BLESS HIM AND ALL OF YOU.

NYDIA FEBUS RODRIGUEZ ONCOLOGY NURSE CP AND THE STAFF.

Pamela Smith

February 20, 2007

I would like to express my deepest sympathy at this time of loss to you and your family. Know that my prayers are with you and your family at your time of need. CPVA staff nurse.

Marie Petro

February 19, 2007

Dear Rose and your beautiful family,

I'm so sorry to read that Vinnie has passed. The world will miss his happy-go-lucky ways and his beautiful smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorry.

Love Marie

George Maria Silverman

February 18, 2007

Dear Flo and family
Our prayers are with you. We will miss Vinnie with his ability to make us smile and play beautiful music to make us happy. we are so sorry we can not be with you through this difficult time. love to you, George & Maria S.

Charlotte & Alex Zayas

February 17, 2007

Dear Rose, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We remember Vince fondly from The Couples Club. He had such a great sense of humor and was so talented. God Bless you.

Phyllis Tibby

February 17, 2007

Dear Flo and family,

I have to smile when I think about your Dad. He made everyone laugh no matter what! I know that Paul has a wonderful man for company in heaven. The fish stories will be outstanding. Just remember, there is no more pain, no more discomfort, only peace. He has gone home. I am so sorry that I could not be there to offer more support. Love you!

ralph & gayle ruggiero

February 17, 2007

aunt rosie & family,
We loved Uncle Vinnie so much,had a lot of laughs.He will be in our hearts and thoughts all through are lives.

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