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Barbara Ashbaugh Obituary

WW II Vet, Social Worker, Pilgrim Church Founder
Barbara Ashbaugh passed away peacefully at her home on Tuesday, December 7. She consistently shared her insights and her love with family and friends, remaining alert until the end. Barbara Jane Lincoln was born January 30, 1913 in Lowell, Massachusetts to
the Rev. C. Arthur and Ethel Lincoln. She was the second of four sisters; Marjorie L. Bittner (who preceded her in death in 2005), Ruth L. Kaye, and Margaret L. Bates. One brother, Richard, tragically drowned as a child in 1926.
She graduated from the University of North Carolina Woman's College in Greensboro NC, earned a Masters in Social Work from University of Pittsburgh in 1937, and launched her career as a social worker in Baltimore and North Carolina.
In 1943 Barbara joined the Red Cross, assigned to the 25th General Hospital unit in Europe. After the war, she came to San Francisco to rehabilitate GIs who had been liberated from Japanese POW camps. She also volunteered for service on several "bride ships" carrying European brides of American GIs across the Atlantic. In 1946, her last bride ship tour on the USAT Edmund Alexander ended abruptly when the 46,000-ton ship exploded four hours from Bremerhaven, nearly capsizing it. She spent a long night in a lifeboat on the North Sea before being rescued.
Barbara came to Redding in 1947 as Chief Social Worker for the VA. She met Lowell W. Ashbaugh at a Little Theater party in April 1948, and gave him a ride home. He "forgot" his umbrella in her car; she returned it the next day. They married on September 3 and had three sons: Roger Williams (1949), Lowell Lincoln (1950), and John Barton (1952).
Together, they helped organize the Pilgrim Congregational Church in 1957. Frank Lloyd Wright designed the church just before his death in 1959. Barbara always raised a strong voice for respecting Wright's plans for the site.
Barbara returned to her profession as a State psychiatric social worker, supervising Community Mental Health Services from 1965 through her retirement in 1978. She also helped found the County Mental Health Department in 1965.
The Ashbaughs hosted AFS student Roel Koster of the Netherlands in 1969-70, whom Barbara called her "Dutch son." Barbara is survived by her two sisters, three sons and their wives, nine grandchildren, and one great-grandchild on the way. The family is indebted to her physician, Harry Daniell, and to her caregiver for nearly two years, Wanda Buckley.
Contributions in Barbara's memory may be made to The Building Fund for Pilgrim Congregational Church, PO Box 993183., Redding, CA 96099. All are invited to celebrate her life of service and devotion at the church on Saturday, January 15 at 11 a.m.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Redding Record Searchlight on Dec. 19, 2010.

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The Warren family - Stryker, Happy, Bunny and Henry

Cornelia (Bunny) Warren-Lincoln

January 14, 2011

Please accept my deepest condolences during this sad time. My mother, Happy Warren, spoke often, and with great feeling, about what a wonderful woman your mother was. They shared a deep and abiding commitment to public service,education and devoted themselves to helping others. Now there are two special women to remember with respect and love.

Bob Shanbrom

January 12, 2011

I'm so sorry for your loss, John. I know your mother from the well-spoken, kindly son she raised. Best to you and your family in these difficult times.

David Palin

January 9, 2011

She inspired me to become a conscientious objector. Thank you for the guidance, Mrs. Ashbaugh.

amena roalman

January 8, 2011

Dear John
I am so sorry for your loss. God bless her! Life goes on and we must move on!
V/R
amena

John Ashbaugh

January 8, 2011

Thanks to all who have signed this guest book so far. Please add your thoughts about Mom as you are moved.

Lowell and I have been up in Redding for the past 24+ hours getting things ready for the memorial service next week (Saturday, Jan. 15). All of us 0 Roger, Lowell, and me (and our wives and children) look forward to seeing all of Mom's friends who can share in this service at Pilgrim Church on that day. And if you cannot attend, please feel free to leave your entry here. Thanks!

David Anderson

January 8, 2011

I am one of the many people touched by her life. I will always remember Barbara's warmth, intelligence and awareness of others. My condolences to everyone...

December 28, 2010

December 28, 2010

Barbara Ashbaugh was a completely loving person. She had admirable qualities that are rare. She shone out from the crowd like a bright light. She was important in my step-mother's life and I am thankful, so very thankful, for what she brought to her. I am grateful to have known her.

Diann Shadwell Stevens, Sacramento, CA

Karina Cantu Chapman

December 22, 2010

I remember visiting Mrs. Ashbaugh as a kid, and she gave us tea and apple pie ice cream, which I had never had before. How odd that just a week or so ago, I saw some apple pie ice cream, and instantly thought of Mrs. Ashbaugh. I just had to buy it.

She was such a wonderful person, and the community is so much the poorer for her loss.

Alan Cantu

December 22, 2010

I'll miss "Mrs. Ashbaugh." I knew her from when I was just a little kid growing up in Redding. She was the last of the families that were there as I grew up on Bonnie Drive.

She was always so friendly, warm, asking how everything was with me, etc... It was always a joy to go visit her, and especially see her at the Christmas Eve service every year. This year's Christmas Eve service won't be the same without her smiling face. I will be there on the 15th to share in the celebration of her life.

Sylvia Cantu

December 22, 2010

I'm so sad, I can barely stand it. She was the first person to meet me when my parents brought me home as a baby, and she has been there throughout my life. I'll miss her so much. See you guys in January.

Karin Lightfoot

December 20, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. We will be there to honor her memory.
Barbara was a remarkable woman and did indeed touch many lives. I am grateful I had the opportunity to know her. She leaves a legacy of hard work, compassion, service and faith.

John Ashbaugh

December 19, 2010

My brothers and I want to be sure that everyone is welcomed to Pilgrim Church to help share stories and memories of our mother. She touched many, many lives and we hope that if she touched yours, you can set aside part of your Saturday on the King holiday weekend to join us.

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