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John Raffealli Obituary

John Louis Raffealli

November 27, 1946

March 30, 2014

John died peacefully, at home with his wife and daughter at his side, on Sunday, March 30.

He was born in Union City, New Jersey to Irene Giovannettone and Louis Raffealli. He was educated at Holy Family School in Union City from kindergarten through high school. In 1968, he graduated from Fordham University in New York City, with a degree in secondary education.

After college he joined VISTA (Volunteers In Service To America), where he met fellow VISTA volunteer Sandy Pearce from Reno. They were married and lived in Oklahoma City for ten years where they had their only child, Lydia. John taught junior high for 10 years in Oklahoma City. He was a well-loved teacher and basketball coach who mentored many students and remained in touch with several throughout his life.

In 1979 John and Sandy moved to Reno where John joined his father-in-law, Bill Pearce, in the car business. John worked at Bill Pearce Motors for 35 years, managing and growing the business. Upon the death of Bill Pearce, he became the dealer of all five of the franchises included in the business. He was always proud of his employees and measured his success by their success.

Preferring to remain in the background, John encouraged his wife Sandy to join the business and become the spokesperson. Later he brought his daughter and son-in-law, Matthew Meyer, into the business.

As a team, John and Sandy continued the Pearce/VISTA philosophy of sharing their good fortune with the community. John's proudest community achievement was creating the Car Giveaway Drawing for graduating seniors with perfect attendance. Throughout the five years of the car giveaway program, Washoe County has seen steady growth in perfect attendance of seniors. John was always impressed and proud of the fine young people who qualified for the annual drawing. He has encouraged support of many other community organizations including the Boys and Girls Club of Truckee Meadows, Discovery Museum for Children, Reno Philharmonic Association, Nevada Museum of Art, Reno Rodeo Foundation and the Nevada Women's Fund.

Although John retained his New Jersey accent and demeanor he loved his home in the west and could usually be seen in jeans, western shirt, cowboy hat and boots: all hat, no cattle and proud of it.

John is survived by his wife Sandy, daughter Lydia Meyer, her husband Matt, grandchildren David, Ryan and Susanna and nieces Clarissa and Jane Pearce.

The family expresses their gratitude for the outstanding care John experienced throughout his almost four years of treatment for cancer, particularly their rock, Dr. Steven Schiff, and his staff; Drs. David Gandara and Kenneth Yoneda from the University of California, Davis Cancer Center; and Dr. Ron Smith in Reno. John was a veteran of four clinical trials which he hoped would help others in the future.

In lieu of flowers the family suggests a donation to the Boys and Girls Club of Truckee Meadows or a charity of your choice.

A reception celebrating John's life will be held on Friday, April 11, 3:00 p.m. at the Grove, 95 Foothill Road.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Reno Gazette Journal and Lyon County News Leader from Apr. 5 to Apr. 9, 2014.

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April 12, 2014

I am so sadden to hear the news of John's passing. I will always remember his smiling face-but most of all I will remember you and your special smile! Your friendly grocery checker, Dianne Dandrea

Scott Artemis

April 11, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with Sandy, Lydia and the entire family. God bless you.

April 9, 2014

To the Raffealli family. We are very sorry for your loss, it is not easy to go through this difficult time but the love and care from others and especially from God help us to endure! 1 John 4:8 says that "God is love", so he will help you in your time of need.

April 9, 2014

Lydia,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Cynthia & Charles Osborn

Vert and Regina Smith

April 8, 2014

Dear Sandy. We were very saddened to hear about John's passing. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers.

Greg and Becky Martinelli

April 8, 2014

Sandy and family, we are so sorry for your loss. Power of prayer is what gives us our strength to get through times like this. We hope you find some comfort in knowing there are two more people helping to ease your sorrow.

Bill Chrystal

April 8, 2014

Sandy & Lydia,

I enjoyed "Jersey John" a great deal during my time in Reno. You are in my prayers.

Janet Franceschini

April 7, 2014

Rest in peace with our heavenly Father. I pray for comfort and peace for Sandy and her dear family.

Enjoying POPS on the river-2013-

April 7, 2014

Peter Di Grazia

April 6, 2014

Sandy, Sue and I read about John with great saddness and wish to express our condolences. Thinking of you and your family at this time and hope you will call if there is anything we can help with. I think of your folks often.

April 6, 2014

Sandy, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Lans & Linda Levitt

Mike Maeva

April 5, 2014

Sandy, my prayers, and my thoughts are with you and your family. My deepest condolences. God Bless.

April 5, 2014

So sorry to hear about John's passing. Sending our prayers and love your way, Sandy, Lydia and family. Praying God's perfect peace for you, His arms to enfold you, and His love to sustain you through the minutes, hours,and days ahead. None of us can know your grief so hopefully our words of intended comfort will help to ease some of your pain. God bless, Jo and Duane Matheus

April 5, 2014

Sending our sincere condolences and prayers for comfort to Sandy,Lydia and family.May God hold you and keep you during this most difficult time.
Leonel and Michelle Sanchez

Peppermint Patty

April 5, 2014

Miss you chuckie!

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