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Gary O'Mara Obituary

Gary John O'Mara passed away on Tuesday, 5/31, after a long illness. He is survived by his children, Lauren O'Connors and Daniel & Shannon O'Mara, grandsons Collin, Kieran & Finn O'Connors, brothers Keith & Robert O'Mara, & sister Joan O'Mara. Also remembered by his former spouse of 29 years, Mary O'Mara. A native New Yorker with a great sense of humor, Gary earned his Bachelor's degree from UC Santa Cruz, and he was a Hastings School of the Law graduate. As a long term employee for the CA Department of Industrial Relations, Gary had a passion for his profession and he was well respected by his colleagues. His family will be gathering on Sunday, 6/12, for a private goodbye. Donations can be made in his name to Hastings College of the Law Foundation - http://opportunity.uchastings.edu/ways-to-give/.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Jun. 9, 2016.

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Keith

June 4, 2025

We had a Great Tine in NY

Keith

June 4, 2025

Joan O'Mara

June 3, 2025

I miss you. I always will.
Danny is visiting tomorrow.

Joan O'Mara

June 3, 2024

You must be so proud of all the kids.

Joan

June 3, 2023

You are missed, very much missed. It was heart warming to see you at Shannon's wedding.

Joan O'Mara

June 3, 2022

I still miss you very much.

Joan O'Mara

May 26, 2021

Your memory brings a smile. Thanks for the visit in my dream this moring.
Oh, and BTW, good looking out- it is very much appreciated!!!

Joan O'Mara

May 31, 2020

I still miss you, I have a Teddy Bear that Shannon made from your shirts. I guess the loss of you will always be hard for me. Your Children and Grandchildren and a real credit to you ( and Freddy). I chuckle to think of the two of you hanging out now. Good night. The world is in a state of utter chaos. I hope we can hang out in a dream and I can tell you all about it.

Joan O'Mara

December 24, 2019

You are in my heart and in my soul, you will be my friend as I grow old.

Joan O'Mara

August 15, 2019

I think of you every day.

Joan O'Mara

May 29, 2019

It doesn't get easier.You are sorely missed. However I am still laughing at " Missouri loves company".

Joan O'Mara

January 1, 2019

Happy New Year n the stars.
Robert and I went to see Seth McFarlane last night. Stewie, Peter, and Quagmire where signing to us. I thought I heard you laughing.

Joan O'Mara

May 31, 2018

I think of you always, but especially today.
Peace, eternal peace.

Joan O'Mara

February 23, 2018

There are angels in the mist and you are now one of them.

Joan O'Mara

January 18, 2018

February is coming. That is going to be rough for a while.

Joan O'Mara

December 25, 2017

Merry Christmas. Missing you never stops. Once In The Highlands.

Joan O'Mara

December 12, 2017

Thank you Matthew. His humor and kindness are sorely missed. You kind thoughts are greatly appreciated.

Matthew Landa

December 11, 2017

I learned of Gary's passing after thinking of the old neighborhood in the late 1960's. I went to elementary school with Gary and recollect his kindness and humor. I'm pleased he is at peace and with the angels.

Joan O'Mara

October 29, 2017

Still

Harrison Yee

July 23, 2017

Just found out that you past away last year.
I will always remember the times we had growing up in the Smith Projects.
RIP

Joan O'Mara

July 2, 2017

Brigadoon.

Joan O'Mara

May 26, 2017

I know you are at peace and that is a comfort. I miss you always.

April 15, 2017

It has been a year since we last spoke. As you know I speak to via the cosmic long distance line. You were my first best friend and you are a part of me.

Joan O'Mara

March 17, 2017

Happy St Patrick's Day. I hope the road rose to meet you.

Joan O'Mara

March 16, 2017

So much about the new is hysterically funny. Today it was like getting hit in the face with a bag of nickels when I realized I could not call you tonight to laugh about it. Expletives deleted.

Joan O'Mara

December 3, 2016

I still miss you. The universe is never going to close in enough to make it hurt less.

Joan O'Mara

October 9, 2016

Garcelynn was born into the family on October 3rd 2016.That is in keeping with your therory of one comes and one goes. I miss you awful. I think of you everyday.

Joan O'Mara

September 19, 2016

I saw my brother Gary in an early morning dream. He was in good spirits. I told him he was dead and he took well. Then I watched the news and Jimmy Kimmel and James Gorden were singing Boom Boom into my heart. That was Gary's nick name. I went off to a happy day knowing he is not far away. heart emoticon

Frank Dickey

August 3, 2016

I worked with Gary as one of his investigators for a period of over four years at DIR. I feel it was a privilege and an honor to have worked with Gary. He was the guru and "Yoda" of public works law in California. Gary had a wicked sense of humor and was loyal to a fault. Gary was a dedicated public servant and always cared for the "little guy". I have many found memories of Gary and he will forever be in my heart. Gary RIP.

Joan O'Mara

July 25, 2016

I get great comfort from these post. Thank you all.

Sarah Cohen

July 24, 2016

Gary was my closest colleague at DIR. We talked on the phone daily for years as we sorted through all the public works matters that landed on our collective plate. Everybody wanted a piece of him because he was fun to be around and knew the law backwards and forwards. He also had a real world savvy and sense of humor that made his perspective on things pretty unique. An avid reader, an astute observer of politics, Gary was the most interesting person in the room. And what a big heart Gary had - cared deeply and was loyal to a fault. Old school gentleman, they don't make 'em like that anymore. I miss him and will never forget him.

Shirley

July 7, 2016

I will always remember his passionate work for the law; he applied a real sense of justice to it. I immensely enjoyed his Underground Economy presentations that were intelligently organized and straightforward. Public Works will not be the same without you.

Joan O'Mara

July 6, 2016

You must have loved the Memorial the DIR had for you! I know I did. But I could skip the Missouri that got us there.

Sherry

June 16, 2016

Rest in peace Gary. You will be missed. You are one of a kind - prayers for your family

Jim Missler

June 13, 2016

Gary, You were always a class guy. It was a pleasure working with you.
Rest in peace and prayers for your family.

June 12, 2016

Rest in peace. MISS YOU gary

Robert

June 12, 2016

Gary
Rest in peace Miss you!

Nancy Jane O'Mara Hohmann

June 10, 2016

Gary rest in peace in the arms of angels. Prayers for your family. Love Nancy Jane

Joan O'Mara

June 10, 2016

In your last voice mail message to me you said "I will be here" and indeed you always will be here in my heart forever.

Keith O'Mara

June 10, 2016

Rest in Peace my little brother. You may have been younger than me but I Always looked up to you. I'll miss you. Love Keith

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