James "Jimmy" McPherson

James McPherson Obituary

McPHERSON, James
''Jimmy'' (Cady)
Born Nov. 8, 1955. Died on April 3, 2004. Memorial service on Saturday, April 17 at 9:30 AM at Sylvan Cemetery, Auburn Blvd., Citrus Heights.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from Apr. 15 to Apr. 16, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
for James McPherson

6 Entries

Sherri Colvin

August 12, 2004

To James ~

I know I don't have the ability with writing and words as you always had, but I am going to try to put into words the wonderful man you were.

First, you are the love of my life. That is not just a phrase, but for me the ultimate truth. You were also my best friend for over 25 years. You taught me so many things. We laughed and cried together, we took care of each other. We had love for each other, that connot be explained, but WE knew and still do. I could go on forever about what we had together, but that is not why I am writing this. I want to write about the person you were, and the differences you made in so many peoples lives in just the 48 years you were with us.

You were a boy that grew into a man at a very young age. You always told me you knew you wouldn't have the time here on earth that other people may have, so you had to grow up fast.

You were a responsible and loving Son and always cared if your Mother was happy or sad. You were there for her whenever she needed you and tried to make her life as good as possible, no matter what the cost to you.

You were a loving Brother to your Sisters and Brother. You told me that when you were all young you all knew everything was OK if you were all together. As you all grew up, you took your Brother into your home and tried to be the best Brother and Father figure you could be. He was always important to you. Your Sisters always knew that if they needed a place to stay or just someone to talk to, they could come to you, and you would make time for them. If any of them got into trouble, you were there for them and always loved them.

You had Aunts and Uncles that were always included in your life. Their visits were always welcome. Two of your Aunts were more like Sisters to you. Growing up you always stuck together. Even when you painted each other different colors, you never lost that love for one another, and I'm sure you never will. You brought one of your Uncles into your own business. You worked together for years, and embraced him the same as your Aunt, whom you loved so very much. Since your Uncle has now passed on too, your Aunt and I are sure you were there to greet him and the two of you are sitting back and watching over all of us now.

You talked about all the things you learned from your Dad. That is were you got your organizing system from. It drove me nuts! In later years, you helped him all you could, but most of all you loved him.

You have Nieces and Nephews that you always enjoyed doing things for. You hadn't been able to spend a lot of time with them the last few years, but they are in your heart always, I know.

You have had so many friends, I know I can't begin to recall them all. You simply made a difference to so many people and their lives. During one of your darkest times, when closing down your own bakery, you helped friends start their own pie shop, when they didn't know how to make a pie one, you were there to offer your help and consequently they did very well. I know of another long time friend (family) that was your neighbor for years, the two of you worked on some kind of project all the time. I don't know who learned what from whom, but together you got it done. Then, there was a friend you met when he came to work for Joe many years ago. The two of you debated and argued about everything, but you always were able to remain friends. Also, there was the friend you became close to just a few years ago. You tried to teach him to see the snow on the fence. I don't know if you accomplished it, but one thing I know for sure, the two of you shared the love of music. He misses you every day!

I was talking with one of your Uncles one day. He said to me, that he knew what kind of man you were, because he could never recall a single person who didn't love you.

Then we come to your two Sons, who love and respect you like no other. You taught them so many things. I think the most important thing you showed them was what a man really is, and they are living up to it. You gave them the knowledge they needed to find strength and confidence within themselves. I know you are proud of them for the men they are today. I remember one of the last few things you said "tell the boys I love them".

You also have two Daughter-In-Laws and three Granddaughters. They all love you and miss you. Your Granddaughters, in fact, wish you were here baking cookies for them, of course. Although they know you're in heaven baking cookies for the angels now. I should also mention, they are looking out for your goofy dog. He misses you terribly too, but is getting pretty attached to one of your Sisters (she spoils him).

These are just a few of whom you made a difference to in their lives. I could go on, but too many to count. In short, you are and will be missed in this world!

During all the years you were caring for so many others, you were still accomplishing amazing things for yourself. You lived on your own and supported yourself at a very young age. You owned your own business before you were 21 years old. You were an excellent baker, decorator, pastry chief and ran the business too. You were also a good cook. I know, you cooked for me as well as for others for many years and we all loved it and came back for more.

You could fix anything from coo-coo clocks and coffee pots, to over hauling engines or rewiring the entire house. You made costumes for friends and family when they needed them. You built bicycles, rocking horses, racecars and anything else you could for your Nieces and Nephews. You were interested and well read on many different subjects, everything from the Dead Sea Scrolls to Elvis Presley, and everything in between.

I am so thankful to have had you in my life and for all the love and care you have given me through all the years. You have been the other half of me for so long, I am lost and not whole without you. I miss you every minute of every day. I will always love you.

Wait for me on the other side, please. We will be together again one day.

Loving you,

Your Princess

Bob Taylor

April 26, 2004

April 26, 2004

To a very special man among men.

I really did not know how much your precense in my life affected my day to day living.6 years of growing freindship and rescept for each other was only the tip.You are and will always be one to be admired.Never would you complain or ask for special treatment, when if it was me !!!!!! I do truly Love you James, as my Brother in law,freind, and next to Sherri you both made my life so much better.Your convictions, strong belifes, and moral standings were unmatched. I only wish I could have had time to really know you James as only one person does Sherri !! You touched my inner soul James as only my brother Ed did. I will miss you more than I think even you knew.Wait for me on the other side with brother Ed and all. I will do my honest best to help and support my bested Freind in life and the absolute love of your life, Sherri

Always and Forever my promise!

How am I ever going to see the snow on the fence??? Help!!!!!!

B.O.B.

Angie Reay

April 23, 2004

James,

He was one of the smartest men I've ever had the privilege of knowing. You will be missed more then you'll ever know. Even tho we haven't seen each other for a long time, I still have a lot of love for you.

Your friend

Angie

SAMANTHA NORMAN

April 18, 2004

you were a great uncle and i will miss you very much but i am glad you are not in any more pian.i love you alot uncle jimmy

suzie poppa

April 16, 2004

I have a lot of memories of the two of us growing up.but the one that stands out the most is chasing bobins down K St. mall. A few years latter for Christmas he made me a ornament out of those bobins.I will miss you.

Nina Phillips

April 15, 2004

I love you uncle Jimmy I hope you are at peace now. I love having good memories or you. Love your niece Nina

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