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John Russell "Russ" Deterding Jr.

John Russell "Russ" Deterding Jr. obituary

John Deterding Obituary

Passed away on August 18, 2015, at the age of 85. A native of Carmichael, Russ graduated from Sacramento High School and St. Mary's College of Moraga. Russ led Marines in combat during the Korean War as a Marine Corps officer. In 1968, Russ was president of the Sutter Club. Russ also served as president of the Camellia Festival Association, the Sutter Hospital Research Foundation, and the Children's Receiving Home. In addition, he served as director of Sacramento Rotary, the Red Cross and the CYO, Foreman of the Sacramento Grand Jury, Regent of St. Mary's College and was a founding parishioner of Our Lady of the Assumption Parish. Russ was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Lou Ann Compton Deterding and his parents John (Dick) and Josephine Deterding. He is survived by his daughters, Donna Deterding, Josephine Hobbs (John), Peggy Bunting (Dwight), Paula Deterding and sons, John Deterding, Pete Deterding (Diane), and Richard Deterding (Carrie). He leaves behind 24 grandchildren and 4 great-grandchildren. A rosary will be recited at 10:30 a.m. Saturday, August 22 at Our Lady of the Assumption Church in Carmichael, followed by a memorial mass at 11:00 a.m. with Msgr. James Kidder officiating. Remembrances may be made in Russ's memory to St. Vincent de Paul, Our Lady of the Assumption or to the charity of your choice.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Aug. 20, 2015.

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Mike Mahoney

October 3, 2015

I very much enjoyed my time with Russ and his family

Stephen Bowes

September 15, 2015

He was a friend and trusted confidant I will miss hims he was more like family

Teri Girard

August 29, 2015

I was so sorry to hear of the passing of this wonderful man. He was one of the kindest people I have ever met. He will be greatly missed.

Jerry Hussar

August 26, 2015

Russ gave me my first job after moving to Sacramento. He and Lou Ann were two of the kindest people I've had the pleasure of knowing. The memories are many...and the love is deep! Love to all the children.

Mandy Zumwalt

August 24, 2015

Sorry to hear of his passing. He was my grandfather's cousin (Bob McDonell). Thought and prayers to his family.

Joe Pask

August 24, 2015

Will always cherish the memories. Russ is one of the finest men I had ever the privilege to meet. Knowing Russ and Lou Ann are together again gives me great peace. Love to the Deterding Family, you are all in my heart and prayers.

Col (US Army ret) Jack and Christine Smith

August 23, 2015

Peggy and Gracie, please know our hearts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I know your Father/Grandfather was a very special man in your lives and you will miss him so much; BUT, also know you both are very deep in your faith and strongly rely on Jesus to help you through your grief. May God bless you and keep you, may His countenance shine upon you and give you His peace. God bless and love you both. Christine and Jack Smith

August 21, 2015

My Dearest "Fred"...I shall miss you on earth until we meet again in Heaven...Love Always & Forever, "Lucy" (AKA: Adele)

Pat Gossett

August 21, 2015

Russ touched so many lives. He so loved his family. We will miss him at 9:30 Sunday mass, but I believe that he will always be with us.

Teresa Boron Irwin

August 21, 2015

Dear Deterring family, I am so sorry and saddened for your loss. I just learned of it this morning. It seems like just yesterday I was talking to him at Atria. I really enjoyed talking to him and I will always remember him happy and smiling...God bless you all. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Peter Hedges

August 21, 2015

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Russ. He had a great sense of humor and was a kind man. The Hedges family sends their condolences to the entire Deterding clan. He leaves behind a great family.

Christine Alsweet

August 20, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you Donna and your family in this difficult time.

Terry McDermott

August 20, 2015

My "cousin" Russ was my inspiration,
He stood tall, defended our nation.
He had an awesome zest for life,
He now sits with Jesus, and Lou Ann, his wife.
Wonderful children they did raise,
Oh, how I long for those old days.
Russ was always an encourager to me,
He would listen but never let me be.
My daughter, Shannon, he took under his wing,
One day they will once again sing.
I think of Josephine and the McDermott clan,
Irish blood clearly ran through this man.
His love for His God a blessing to me,
Through Russ I saw Jesus,His Blood and the tree.
He was a man full of grace,
Truly no one can take his place
Blessed beyond measure that our paths did cross,
I shed a tear for my loss.
My pal Russ, simply the best,
Better than all the rest.

August 20, 2015

Well Done Russ! Well Done!

lucy farnsworth

August 20, 2015

So sorry to read about his death. A lot of memories of OLA and going to school with kids.

Becky Farina

August 20, 2015

Treasure the memories. I will be keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. You definitely have angels watching over you.

Randy & Karen Presley

August 20, 2015

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Ilene Lerner

August 20, 2015

Sending the family my heartfelt condolences. I am hoping that all your wonderful memories help you through this difficult time. With love and hugs,

Joanne Bertolucci Kelley

August 20, 2015

Donna and family,
Your dad was such a sweet man. I got to see him last year at my dad's funeral. I know it isn't easy but our thought and prayers are with you all.

Joan Medeiros

August 20, 2015

I know how much he was cherished by his family. Peace be with you all.

Rose Hall

August 20, 2015

I had the honor and privilege of meeting Russ Deterding at the Senior Living Community where I worked and he lived. He was truly one of the kindest people I have ever met and I can say without a doubt that he had more visitors than anyone else, always surrounded by his loving family, his old friends and all the new friends he made on a daily basis. I only worked 3 nights per week, but Russ always made sure to come by the front office after dinner to say goodnight and to sing, Rosie you are my posy, which he told me was an Al Jolson song. He was very proud that he served our country, even more proud of every single member of his family and always expressed how blessed he was to have them. It is difficult to lose a family member or friend, but I can imagine him now with his beloved wife and mother of his children up in heaven. Rest in Peace, dear Russ! I will never forget you or your kindness.

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