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Raymond Parnas Obituary


PARNAS, Raymond Irvin

Mar. 28, 1937 - Jan. 1, 2009

Raymond Parnas, son of Milton and Evelyn, died on January 1, 2009, after suffering a stroke three days earlier. Mr. Parnas, born in St. Louis, received his undergraduate and J.D. law degree from Washington University in St. Louis. He received his Masters and S.J.D, the highest law degree awarded, from the University of Wisconsin. He spent over 30 years teaching law at U.C. Davis, with a focus on criminal procedure, juvenile justice and family law. He was very popular with his students, who often went on to become lifelong friends. Professor Parnas was considered to be an innovative teacher who often staged mock crimes in his classroom to foster discussion and divergent thinking. He co-authored the Determinate Sentencing Law which reformed the manner in which criminals were sentenced to prison. Professor Parnas also co-authored several law text books that continue to be used in law schools across the country today. Throughout his life Raymond's hobbies included gardening, playing cards with his friends and family, golfing, and reading. Mr. Parnas was an especially skilled rose gardener, maintaining over 80 bushes in his own yard, pruning roses at McKinley Park and having written and published articles on their care and variety. He will be remembered as a devoted husband and father, always putting family first. His love and caring for his family and friends had no boundaries. Raymond is predeceased by his beloved wife Sharon Epstein who passed away in June of 2008. Together they enjoyed peaceful visits to their Cabin near Lake Tahoe, traveling all over the world, and most of all, having their extended family around them, especially for Thanksgiving and Passover. They were active members of Mosaic Law Congregation, contributing countless hours to the synagogue's gift shop. After Sharon's death, Raymond was instrumental in recruiting greater support for the daily synagogue prayers.

He is survived by his two sons Andrew and Daniel, grandchildren Lindsey and Ryan, his brother Neal and wife Raquel, his stepsons Sheldon (Lisa), Daniel and Norman (Karen) and their children Samantha, Leo and Sam.

Services will be held on Monday, January 5, at 1:00 p.m. at Home of Peace Cemetery Chapel, 6200 Stockton Boulevard (corner of El Parisio and Stockton), Sacramento CA 95824. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Sacramento Rose Society and/or Murray Bachman Minyan Fund at Mosaic Law Congregation.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from Jan. 4 to Jan. 5, 2009.

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JulieAnna Anastassatos

January 22, 2009

I am one of Ray's former students who had become a lifelong friend. He was a tremendously influential mentor to me and a dear friend. I just learned of his passing while casually looking through a UC Davis Alumni Newsletter that was e-mailed to me today. I'm so sad...I cannot express it! I was just reading his last letter to me the other day, when he wrote to tell me of Sharon's passing. We spoke this past Fall and his heart was so obviously broken. I felt deeply for his pain. Ray and Sharon reached out to my husband and me when I was in law school (I graduated in 1993) and for years afterward. They were a sweet couple who modeled deep love and respect for each other. I will never forget our interactions. I'm grateful to have known them both. And I'm so sorry for your loss. When last we spoke, we talked about Heaven. Ever curious, Ray wanted to know how my Christian faith informed my beliefs and hope. It was a lovely conversation, and I'd hoped to have more in the future. I regret that I became caught up in life and never called him again. I pray he got my Christmas card, on which I told him again how much I appreciated him. Please feel free to contact me.

(Elizabeth) Loving Rose

January 13, 2009

I met Ray this summer on his visit to St Louis. I know that he was hurting terribly from losing Sharon and hope that he has found the peace and the answers he was looking for.

Multnomah Falls, OR summer 2006 visit

Riley Atkins

January 9, 2009

Andy, Dan, Sheldon, Daniel, and Norman, you remain in our thoughts daily as we grieve the loss of your Dad. We will always love, remember and miss him. Will be in contact with you all again soon, Riley & Marci Atkins

Joe Babich

January 8, 2009

Dear Andy,

I was sorry to learn of your father's passing. I enjoyed reading about his distinguished career in the law and know you were very proud of his accomplishments. Monica and I send our condolences.

Joe Babich

Eric Kloss

January 8, 2009

From talking to Ray about baseball cards to stacking wood to taking care of Shlomo, he has contributed greatly to my childhood memories. He and Sharon will be deeply missed.

Robert Howke

January 4, 2009

To the Family of Ray and Sharon
We were so saddened to hear of the passing of Ray. It seems almost like yesterday that Sharon Left us. They were such a great part of Sciots with the dinners,decorations and just being part of the Sciot's Family.always involved in our activities.
Bob And Edna Howke
Cabin 4
Sciots Tract

alan foster

January 4, 2009

The Parnas family:
I own a cabin up where Ray and Sharon had theirs and was very sorry to hear about his passing.He and Sharon are together again-I know he missed her dearly. It was great to have known the two of them and I sincerely offer my deepest sympathy and send my condolences to all of you. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all.

sincerely
Alan Foster
Cabin#33
Sciots Tract

Kathy Lewin

January 4, 2009

To the family of Ray Parnas -
I will always remember Ray and Sharon for their contributions to the
camp. Ray got our defibrulators for
emergency heart patients and Sharon was the undisupted "Bean Feed" Queen! They also took the
prize for the best table decorations
at the Fourth of July Picnics!
They were well loved and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers
are with you at this time.
Kathy Spearman Lewin Lot 47-Sciots

Scott Keith

January 4, 2009

Dan and Andy - My heart goes out to you both. I cherish the memories of playing golf with your dad.

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