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Derek Maner Obituary

Derek Benton Maner, age 28, of Raleigh passed away on Sunday, February 17, 2019 in the arms of his loving wife at Duke University Medical Center after a five year war with cancer. A Celebration of Life will be held at 11:00 am on Thursday, February 21, 2019 at the Davidson Funeral Home Chapel in Lexington. At Derek's request, the family asks that you not wear black rather orange or blue, which were his favorite colors. The family will receive friends from 6:00 pm until 8:00 pm on Wednesday at the Funeral Home. Derek was born in Rowan County on August 16, 1990 and the world was forever changed. Derek has touched the lives of countless people with his giving spirit and his loving soul. He was a drafter for Lindsay Precast and enjoyed playing music every chance he got. Derek will be forever missed and held closely in the hearts of his family and friends forevermore. Surviving are his loving wife, Carrie Nicole Maner of the home; his father, Randy Wayne Maner of Jackson Springs; his brother, Randy Maner Jr. of Jackson Springs; his sister, Heather Taylor (Kenneth) of Asheville; three nephews, Kase Maner, Zachary Taylor and Seth Taylor; one niece, Kaylee Maner; a special friend much like a brother, Eric Jones (Emma King); and a host of close friends that supported him during these tough times. The family would like to extend a special thanks to the healthcare staff at the Duke University Medical Center for their support and compassionate care during the past few years. Memorials may be directed to http://www.gofundme.com/officer-carrie-maner Online condolences may be made at www.davidsonfuneralhome.net

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Published by Salisbury Post on Feb. 19, 2019.

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February 26, 2019

So sorry to hear of the loss of your love you. May your prayers bring the comfort you need in this difficult time. Be confident that God is moved with compassion and understands your grief.
May Psalm 121 also bring you comfort.

Debi Meredith

February 23, 2019

I knew Derek from elementary school thru High School. He was friends with my son and I worked at Morgan and East. He was a good friend and a good Christian. I enjoyed watching him grow from a little boy to a fine young man, he will be missed but God has gained another soul to watch down on us.

Randy Maner

February 22, 2019

I was so Blessed to be Derek's father. I cherish every moment I ever spent with him. I watched him suffer greatly the last 5 years, but never complained. Instead he chose to live life to the fullest. He was an inspiration to all that knew him and will be for me until my last breath. My son may your Halo glow as bright as your eyes did and your jolly laugh ring out in Heaven like a trumpet of joy. May your beautiful smile be the first ray of early morning sunshine. Love forever.......

April Dean

February 21, 2019

I didnt have the honor of knowing this young man but I followed his 5 yr journey on FB. I never missed a post. He was definitely a fighter. It amazed me the attitude and zest for life he still had knowing he had cancer. I pray for strength and peace for you all during this hard time.

Catherine Cain

February 21, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Derek Goral

February 21, 2019

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Sandra Messer

February 20, 2019

Derek set a standard for humanity. He was always, always smiling...even on really long, hard days during his ongoing treatment. Derek impacted me and my son with his positive approach to life. Carrie and Derek personified the meaning of unconditional love. Carrie know my love is with you and the family.

Patty Carter

February 20, 2019

My heartfelt condolences go out to you Carrie and the Maner family.

February 20, 2019

When I first met Derek, he was a young boy. I remember his beautiful blonde hair, and him always having a smile that was contagious on his face. Looking at his pictures through this journey, he has kept that same smile from his childhood.
I pray that right now you all find peace in knowing that he is no longer suffering, and that he has been an inspiration to so many others fighting a similar fight.
May God wrap you in His grace during this difficult time.
R.I.P.
Julie Holmes

February 20, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. May our loving God be with you during this difficult time and May you find comfort in His word the bible, because he cares for you..1Peter 5:6,7

Dennis Leonard

February 19, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss and will be praying for you Carrie and the family. I worked with Derek at Lindsay and I enjoyed his sense of humor. He will be missed.

S Wrenn

February 19, 2019

Rip Derek

Joquetta Perez

February 19, 2019

I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS OF YOUR HUSBAND MY HEART HURTS SO MUCH FOR YOU AND FAMILY AND FRIENDS. I PRAY GOD GIVES YOU COMFORT AND STRENGTH..THIS IS VERY HEART BREAKING..MAY GOD BLESS AND COMFORT AND KEEP YOU SAFE.

David Guy

February 19, 2019

May God bless Derek through his grace and mercy. Our hearts go out to his family and friends who loved him dearly. Derek will always live in the hearts of those who loved and knew him. My family's heart and prayers are with you. Lord, bless this young soul into your house.

Teresa and Jack Peterson

February 19, 2019

So very sorry for your loss of a dear love one. Charlie F. Sides and All families of Lexington, Welcome, NC.

Karyn Ahern

February 19, 2019

Carrie and Derek's Family, I am so sorry for the loss of Derek, he was an inspiration to me. I know he will be watching over you all always. My thoughts and prayers are with Carrie, his Family and Friends. God bless you all.

Monika & James Bigsby

February 19, 2019

While we did not know him, we have followed Derek's story through friends of friends on Facebook. He was a brave man. So very sorry for your loss.

February 19, 2019

Thinking of you Heather. Prayers to you and your family. So sorry for your loss.

Cone

February 19, 2019

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

James Watts

February 19, 2019

Randy and family. I'm so sorry for your loss of your son Derek. May God's grace sustain you and family.

Rayma Reno

February 18, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kim Brown

February 18, 2019

Derek did touch the hearts of many with his determination and forever smile. Me and my family kept up with his journey.
We admire you Carrie for always being by his side, even though we know the the struggle was hard at times. He will be so missed. He will be remembered by the fight to live he had. The love he had for life, family, friends, and the ever so giving heart he had to help others. No one couldve done that alone. Carrie you helped him. You stayed strong. It will get hard at times, but as you said, you will meet again. He had such wonderful family and friends who supported him anc surrounded him with love.
Love and prayers to you Carrie as well as the family, and many close friends.

Levonne Miller

February 18, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

albert harris

February 18, 2019

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Tonita Lopes

February 18, 2019

RIP Derek prayers for your wife and family

Tammy Moose

February 18, 2019

Prayers of Peace and Love to you!

The Julians

February 18, 2019

Derek lived his life as all people should. He was the type of person whom you'd meet for the first time and he'd act like an old friend. Derek was a beacon of hope and strength for those battling cancer or other ailments with his infectious smile and sense of humor. He inspired others through music and unwavering optimism despite such a grim diagnosis. He loved his wife Carrie with a passion. Although he is gone, his spirt will always live on through his loved ones, friends and people who admired him.

Susan Rinehardt

February 18, 2019

God has gained a bright angel

Susan Rinehardt

February 18, 2019

So sorry for your loss I met him only once and it was at fair grounds in Salisbury at a benefit for Derek with the wayward reason band

Lisa York

February 18, 2019

I'm so sorry for your loss. I will not tell you with time it gets easier because I still don't believe it. Just take minute by minute. He will always be watching down on you and guiding you through this life.

Sandy Shelton

February 18, 2019

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.He fought the fight and didnt go gently into the dark night. RIP

Renee Leonard

February 18, 2019

Derek was the best son in law a mother could have ever asked for. He was a true inspiration to so many. He was and always will be my hero. #derekstrong

Freddie & Connie Mayo

February 18, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Glenda and mike Carlisle

February 18, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.praying for all of yall .

Marty Lefler

February 18, 2019

My "nephew" was definitely a very strong, determined, creative and talented young man. He was a joy to so many people! Heaven got a good one!!! I love you

Angela Martin

February 18, 2019

I'm so sorry for your loss. I've known Carrie since she was a little girl and I want to thank Derek for being such a wonderful, loving soulmate to her. She's a beautiful person inside and out and he was a perfect match for her. Fly high Derek, in the arms of the angels.

Philip Tabor

February 18, 2019

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

We always enjoyed Derek for the short moments he spent at CrossFit Coordinate. His joy and resilience will forever be a part of us.
Love
Philip and Holly Tabor
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Bob and Teresa Wise

February 18, 2019

We have loved and known Derek his whole life. Much love and prayers for the whole family. He will truly be missed ❤

Brian Rogers

February 18, 2019

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Some of the best times of my life

VICKIE ADSMZ

February 18, 2019

Carrie, all I can say is that I love you with all my heart....Im so sorry life has delt you this hand....I know you are stong. The next hand will be better for you. So sorry for your pain...wish I could carry it for your....I love you....

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