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David Buchman Obituary

David Louis Buchman

1951-2022

Salt Lake City, UT—David Louis "Buck" Buchman, left us peacefully on Sunday, June 12, 2022, after a hard battle with leukemia and a bone marrow transplant. He was surrounded by loved ones.

David was born February 15, 1951, in Salt Lake City, Utah, to Howard Moss "Mickey" Buchman and Margaret Priscilla Templeton. David lost his father when he was just nine years old. He and his sister, Ann, were raised by a hard-working single mother, with the support of his paternal grandparents, Louis Buchman and Ann Omega "Nana" Wolfe, and an incredible group of friends from the neighborhood. He loved playing baseball, football, and doing other outdoor activities with his neighborhood friends. He attended Bonneville Elementary, Clayton Middle School, East High School, and the University of Utah, where he enjoyed living at the Sigma Chi house. He kept close friends from each of these schools throughout his life. From Little League games to river rafting trips and ski weekends, Dave lived for time with his friends.

An avid reader, his living room and bedside tables were littered with books, magazines, and newspapers, and he loved to discuss and share with anyone who would listen. Sunday dinners with his mother and wife were often spent comparing favorite New Yorker cartoons, laughing long into the evening. Once he surprised his daughter with a skirt he bought for her, saying "I read in the Times Style section that this is really hip." Christmas shopping always included a trip to The King's English where he could peruse the books for hours, and he always wanted to talk about the last novel he read.

He was a great cook, often trying out new recipes he had seen in cooking magazines or on television. Not satisfied with keeping his techniques to himself, he was a notorious backseat driver in the kitchen.

His work in the trust departments at First Security Bank and Wells Fargo gave him the opportunity to work with many local non-profit organizations and enrich the lives of countless Utahns. Dave's work supported and grew organizations in the arts (including Utah Symphony, Utah Opera and Ballet West), and education and healthcare (including Guadalupe School, the University of Utah Colleges of Nursing, Social Sciences and Health Sciences). He thoroughly enjoyed his work with KUER and the Natural History Museum of Utah, especially the capital campaign for the new building.

David was an unusual convert to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Raised in Utah by a Jewish father, and a Protestant mother, he said "I had knowledge about religion that was a mile wide and an inch deep." He joined in 1990, and was sealed to his family in the Salt Lake Temple in 1999. In his role as a youth Sunday School teacher and leader, he interjected humanity, humor, and perspective that endeared him to teenagers in the neighborhood.

Hobbies, work and service aside, it was his life at home that brought David his greatest joy. This month he would have celebrated his 43rd anniversary with his best friend and wife, Linda Henderson Buchman. He supported her in so many ways, from packing her school lunch and brainstorming school program ideas with her, to projects around the yard. He was a proud and supportive father of two beautiful daughters - Lauren Buchman (Dave Morrissey) and Carly Watts (Dustin Watts). The most common phrase he uttered was, "How did I get so lucky to have the most beautiful girls?" When they were younger, much of his free time was spent cheering them on, or yelling at referees, from the sidelines of their soccer games. As they grew older, he offered advice and mentorship for their relationships, careers, and finances. He loved his newest role as "Papa" to Maxwell and Cecelia Watts; flying kites, sledding, singing silly songs, and taking Max on special outings. He was looking forward to skiing with them.

His final year was difficult, but he was supported through it with the help and love of his family, friends, neighbors, home aides- Eseta and Sela- and the staff of Huntsman hematology/oncology and bone marrow transplant unit. He often said that his nurses and aides were the best and that he loved them.

Dave's dry sense of humor endeared him to most, while admittedly offending a few. His stories, conversations, curiosity to understand and connect with others made him unforgettable. To say he was loved and will be missed is an understatement.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you share your favorite story about David, and donations be made to Huntsman Cancer Institute, Leukemia And Lymphoma Society, or The Natural History Museum of Utah, in his memory. A celebration of life will be held at a later date.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Jun. 18 to Jun. 26, 2022.

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Mark Neisler

November 21, 2022

All honor to his name.

Chip Spencer

July 27, 2022

I met Dave when I pledged Sigma Chi in 1971. I always enjoyed talking with him. After returning to Utah, I would run into him at Harmons. We would chat for a couple minutes. I'll always remember him fondly. I was surprised to read that he had joined the LDS Church. I am pleased for him. All the best to his family. I pray that you will have all of the blessings you need and want.

Nancy Holt Monson

July 22, 2022

Dear Linda,
I was out of the country in June and just read about Dave's passing. (Even though I knew Dave in high school, I knew you before him with our St. Paul youth conference escapades when we were in junior high.) Sending my thoughts and sympathy to you and your family. He was a good man.
Nancy (Holt) Monson

Rocky Anderson

July 22, 2022

Linda and family - I'm so sorry for your loss. As you may know, Dave was my little brother in Sigma Chi. We spent a lot of time together during those years and I always got such a kick out of him. What a unique person! He was always well informed and had plenty to say, often humorously stated, about just about everything and everyone.
I loved running into Dave around town and wish I'd seen more of him in recent years. It's hard to believe he's gone. I know how much he loved his family and friends. My best wishes - Rocky

Bob B.

June 26, 2022

Condolences to your loved ones. Hope to see you on the other side. You were a good man.

Mark Williams

June 24, 2022

Dave and I were somewhat unlikely buddies. We met during my second quarter at the U in the winter of 1969. Dave and I were drawn together mainly through our mutual love of music. We lost track of each other when I went away for 2 years, but reconnected at summer school on my first day back from my mission. He informed me that the Grateful Dead and New Riders of the Purple Sage were playing that night at the Salt Palace. He took it upon himself to reintroduce me to civilian/secular life. And he succeeded. We shared a great concert. Over the years, I would bump into him downtown on the streets and we would invariably spend more time than we both should have, given our professional responsibilities, catching up and talking about politics, religion, and music. Dave was a bright, insightful, acerbic, and thoroughly unique human being. I'm sorry I lost track of him these last years. Sending my heart-felt condolences for your loss.

Robert Friedman

June 22, 2022

I´m saddened to read of Dave´s passing. Although Dave was younger, we grew up together in the same neighborhood and both went to the same elementary school and later became fraternity brothers. I don´t think anyone loved Sigma Chi more than Dave. Condolences and wishes of comfort to Dave´s wife, Linda, and their family for their difficult loss. In Hoc Dave and God be with you.

Bob Gillespie

June 21, 2022

This is a fine remembrance of Buchman's life. We became friends in 1972 at the Sigma Chi fraternity and he was the reason I stayed. I was honored to have him as a groomsman at my wedding and proud to stand with him at his. I've been impressed the last year as he fought this disease and its constant complications, harder than imaginable, with grace and seeming fearlessness. When we spoke, even recently, he'd never fail to redirect the conversation to my family and how they are. To say I valued his friendship is an understatement and the world is a better place because of his humor, confidence, and willingness to help. I'm going to miss our conversations but will always remember the times we had "growing up". Condolences and prayers are with Linda, the girls, grandkids and Ann during this time.

Todd Fuller

June 20, 2022

Linda and family - Sending heartfelt condolences. Dave was a great friend I met while working at First Security and Wells Fargo. We had great times together talking politics, sports, and life in general. I will miss him greatly.

Becky Youkstetter

June 20, 2022

I had the pleasure of working with David through KUER and Guadalupe School. What a kind and generous man he was. The Utah nonprofit world is better and stronger because of Buchman.

My husband Seth was one of his lucky providers at Huntsman. We both loved him and send our condolences to Linda and his daughters.

David Cannon

June 19, 2022

So sorry to see this. He was such a part of our youth! He spent many days at our home. My brother Bobby and Dave were very tight. My condolences to his family! In hoc, David Cannon

Linda J Eddington

June 19, 2022

My Dear Friend. You are in my heart. I hope you can find peace and comfort in the days ahead. I love you and your cute girls.

Jim lewis

June 19, 2022

I really liked the obituary - captured Dave in many ways. I've known Dave since 1970; we spent our college years together as fraternity brothers. I considered him like a brother. Though I didn't have as much contact with him in recent years as I would have liked, I always considered him a great friend. A tremendous guy -- great and proud family man; wonderful (though sometimes biting) sense of humor; and wise observer of people and current events. Always good and entertaining company. My condolences to Linda and the family - he will be deeply missed by many.

Mary Anne Aadnesen

June 19, 2022

David and I literally grew up together as close family friends. We lost touch but our memories live on. My condolences to Ann, his sister and Linda, his wife and his children and grandchildren. God bless all of you in these sad times.

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