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Jerry Erkelens Obituary
1947-2025
Salt Lake City, UT-'Jerry' John Gerald Erkelens, Jr. passed away at home on January 9, 2025, surrounded by four generations of loving family. Jerry fought a long battle with the effects of Agent Orange-exposure from his time as a combat medic in Vietnam where he earned two Purple Hearts, and was nominated for a Silver Star. He was 77.
Jerry is survived by his wife, Janet, who has been with him since 9th grade, his three daughters, Marnie, Jenny, and Robyn, his grandchildren Victoria, Gracie, Johnny and Ruby and great grandchildren Emmett and Vivian.
Jerry was one of a kind. A force of nature. Incredibly intelligent, endlessly curious, successful, well-read and well-loved. He had the courage to do just about anything and never hesitated to try. He was a respected appraiser of fine art and antiques, an expert on Mormon history, and a talented carpenter who spent countless hours in his wood shop. He and Janet renovated their historic home in Paris, Idaho creating an idyllic haven and gathering place for family and friends. The world feels smaller without him.
In his own words, here is his final message: "Well, folks, it's been fun and I've enjoyed every minute, but this is the big it. I'm off to the great beyond. Drinks with Churchill, Hemingway, and my brother Tom are next. Janet, me love, you made it all worth it. On to the next adventure!"
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Memories and Condolences
for Jerry Erkelens
Bonnie Phillips
January 21, 2025
Dear Jerry was such a principled human being. His kindness, knowledge and openness to all will be remembered in our hearts. Jerry's contribution to life on planet Earth has been outstanding. Our sincere sympathy and condolences to his dear family.
Jon Huish
January 18, 2025
I worked with Jerry at the PO for many years he always had a smile on his face and something interesting to talk about a really nice guy.
Ron and Judy Olsen Larsen
January 15, 2025
Hillcrest HIgh Class of
'65 Reunion a few years
ago was the last time we
saw our classmates.
I saw Janet, but didn't
get to talk to her.
Your love for each other
will continue through
the ages.
Christy Flinders-Tedesco
January 14, 2025
Dearest Janet, it's been so many years, but I remember you and I remember Jerry. What a fun wonderful couple. I remember you both from our Butler neighborhood, Butler Ward, and all the way through high school. You were always so darling and friendly and you and Jerry were a match made on heaven. I'm so sorry you he has left you and your family for a time, but he would never really leave your side. You will feel his spirit until you are reunited on the other side. My thoughts and prayers are with you
J
January 14, 2025
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Buckwheat
January 12, 2025
I credit Jerry for me being the person I am today. He helped me in ways he didn't even know. Love you my friend
Stacia Sidlow
January 12, 2025
Sending you all so much love and healing vibes. How lucky you were to have that absolute force of nature in your lives-Jerry was a legend. I know he loved you all fiercely. He was truly one of a kind, and I'm lucky to have witnessed his magic. The world feels a little less fun without him in it physically.
A Grateful Citizen
January 12, 2025
Thank you Sir, for your Service to our country.
Mary Jane Shipley
January 11, 2025
Janet, I send my sympathy to you and yours.
Jerry was the first person I talked to over the back fence after moving to the Avenues. He sure gave Agent Orange a long tough fight. May you find comfort in all that he brought to this world.
Pam Crowther
January 11, 2025
Janet, I am so sorry to read of the passing of your husband Jerry. My sincere condolences to you and your family at this time of loss
Chuck Argyle
January 11, 2025
Thank you for your service. Rip! We lost way to many young men over there.
Dan Heath
January 10, 2025
Jerry: It's been so many years since we last saw you. I can't tell you the number of times we said we needed to reconnect. You are still in out heart and thoughts, and we do so regret losing touch more than can be said. Travel well, Dan and Ann Heath
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