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Preston A. "Bud" Gaylord Jr.

1927 - 2023

Preston A. "Bud" Gaylord Jr. obituary, 1927-2023, Salt Lake City, UT

BORN

1927

DIED

2023

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Starks Funeral Parlor

3651 South 900 East

Salt Lake City, Utah

Preston Gaylord Obituary

Preston Arms "Bud" Gaylord, Jr

1927 ~ 2023

Preston Arms ("Bud") Gaylord, Jr., age 95, danced and offered a classic toast at a granddaughter's wedding on December 31, but he died a month later, on February 1, 2023, of complications from pneumonia. He and his wife of 41 years, Claire Sullivan Gaylord, and their families are forever grateful for the extraordinary life he was able to lead, partly due to the attentive care of his doctors and modern medicine.

An avid outdoorsman, Bud was a hunter, trapper, fisherman, and lover of downhill skiing since the days when leather boots were held to wooden skis with a leather thong. He taught his children, grandchildren, and many friends the "ready pole" method of skiing up until his 80s. This retirement from skiing allowed him to focus on the next travel adventure and build and share his lifetime of legendary good character. Bud will be remembered for his fun-loving, optimistic attitude about life, being gentle with his words, and being slow to be judgmental. He was gregarious, filled with common sense, and had an excellent memory that he shared with charming and wise stories that helped shape the lives of family, friends, and neighbors; who were close to him.

Born December 17, 1927, in Sodus, New York, to Preston Arms Gaylord ("Tweet") and Marion Osborne. He had twin brothers who predeceased him, Willis T. Gaylord III ("Bill") and Edward Osborne Gaylord ("Ted").

In the first half of his life, he was a fruit grower who owned and managed hundreds of acres of trees at historical Preston Farms in Sodus. After he and his wife of 25 years, Mary Ellen Shumway, became original partners in Snowbird Resort, they moved their family to Salt Lake City to build and start the first full-service hotel at Snowbird, the Cliff Lodge. His roots in Western New York and the Adirondack Mountains remained deep; he and Claire clung to them even though they always considered their move to Utah the best thing for their families.

Bud was the father to 12 children, grandfather to 24, and great-grandfather to 8, all of whom survive him and cherish the time they had together.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Tuesday, February 7, 2023, from 6:00 - 8:00 PM at Starks Funeral Parlor, 3651 South 900 East. Guests are encouraged to use the parking and entrance on the north side of the building. Please visit www.Starksfuneral.com to view an extended version of the obituary and share memories and photos with Bud's family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Feb. 2 to Feb. 8, 2023.

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Ann Eisenhut

November 9, 2024

I have wonderful memories of Bud and his whole family. I remember him and his family so well at McCauley mt. In Old Forge NY. May peace be with his family.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Kitty Liddle

Planted Trees

Genia Fuller

February 22, 2023

Thank you for the many wonderful things you did throughout your life. Cliff Lodge was a favorite! RIP sir! You will be missed

carrie Excavating bouwens

February 9, 2023

Great life with all the kids.
I remember baby sitting for all of them. A great house and a great family.
So glad we were related .
A lot of good memories.
Have one grandson named Preston

Joni Dykstra

February 7, 2023

Bud and the entire Gaylord family are legendary. I had the privilege to know most, work for and with a few and ski with many. What a great family with such a marvelous figurehead who lead a full life with such gusto! A big loss for all, especially Claire. No doubt his send off is grand.
Joni Dykstra

Yosh Yoshimura

February 7, 2023

My heartfelt sympathy to the Gaylord family. I have such fond memories of Bud coming to my Rehab office to ask about getting in shape for his next adventure. I loved his enthusiasm and his joy for life. He will be deeply missed. I´m sorry I won´t be able to attend Bud´s celebration of life. I´m currently in BC but plan to make a few turns in his memory. Hugs to you all.

Jim Fowler

February 7, 2023

Claire and family, You and Bud were great friends and Bud will be dearly missed..Ute and I send our deepest sympathy and wish him"Fair winds and following seas " on this his last and most important voyage.Rear Admiral Jim Fowler,USN(ret)
Jim Fowler

Tammy Heavner

February 6, 2023

Hi ! Sending our Love from Lincolnton NC
Tammy Heavner
Steve & Ashe Leigh Brusso & Family

Grove of 100 Memorial Trees

Ashley Powell and Dave Hansen

Planted Trees

John R. Saurer

February 6, 2023

Dear Peter and family - my sympathy to you all during this sad time.

Bud (and Mary Ellen) were larger than life to me - a young kid, best friend with Peter, during the early Cliff Lodge and Bluebird Circle days in Salt Lake City (circa 1974-80).

Great memories of skiing the Tram, beloved dogs (Zeus and Buckets), watching your older siblings navigate school and life. They were wonderful and indelible times. Thank you.

Love to everyone, JR

Jim Barrett

February 5, 2023

I grew up in the town of Williamson,NY and every one knew of the Gaylord farm.I had the privilege to work for Bud and Mary Ellen at the Cliff Lodge at Snow Bird. One of the best jobs ever. I WILL MISS Bud

Sherri Green Pflibsen

February 5, 2023

Bud´s love for his family with a true zest for life´s adventures was contagious. Thank you for the adventure of teaching me to drive The Bus.

Scott Meiklejohn

February 5, 2023

Bud´s energy and enthusiasms (plural) were special, and he always made you feel like he was glad to see you. Early Cliff days - the best. Holding great memories - rest in peace, Bud

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Scott and Annie Allan

Planted Trees

Scott Allan

February 4, 2023

Buddy, you were the best and I was grateful to have shared a few great holidays and celebrations with you. You were an inspiration.

Bob hot rod Rohr

February 4, 2023

What a wonderful memory I have working with Bud and the clan at the Cliff. He had a unique talent making everyone feel welcome and comfortable at the lodge.
Godspeed Bud Gaylord

Patsy A. Washburn

February 4, 2023

Buddy was my niece Marti's father-in-law. I didn't know him, but respect the fine job he did in raising Mark. He had a wonderful life. May he rest in peace.

Bold & Bright - A Florist Original

Catherine et Michel Poletti

Sent Flowers

Dave and Patty Woods (Patterson)

February 4, 2023

Although not living with the Gaylords, I grew up with them. So many happy memories of weekends in Sodus and their camp in the Adirondacks. Just a wonderful family, with Bud as the head. He will surely be missed by his children and grandchildren.

Faithful Blessings Bouquet - VASE INCLUDED

Mike Lindsay

Sent Flowers

Elena Hadjicharalambous

February 3, 2023

I had the very great pleasure knowing Bud and his amazing wife, Claire. It was an honor to take care of him and his amazing family. His zest for life was infectious, and he truly is a role model for me. To know him is to love him.

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Rees and Barb Davis

Sent Flowers

Mike Lindsay

February 3, 2023

Claire
You and Bud are both amazing people. truly as good as it gets. I´m so glad you had each other to share life with.
Salvo and I express our love and wish you great strength and continued happiness in the times to come.
Bud was a treasure always to be remembered.

Mike and Salvo

Patrick Hogle

February 3, 2023

Bud was a beautiful, loving and kind person. He was friends with my father and after we lost him, Bud went out of his way to show me and my family so much love. I will never forget his kindness, and I know my dad and Bud are up there right now sharing stories.
Thank you Bud, and I will miss you.

Alan Seyboldt / Clair Optical Co.

February 3, 2023

Claire, our sincere love goes out to you and your family at this time. Bud was a friend to many people and a humble Utah icon. I first met Bud in my office almost 30 years ago to the very day. When Bud was in my office, he would often engage others in the office waiting room with friendly conversations. I am a better person knowing your family and especially Bud.

Rhonda & James Voos

February 3, 2023

A joy-filled life, lived to the fullest! Such a memorable man!

Wes Doyle

February 3, 2023

I remember Bud from my childhood. He being a pleasant man with a huge smile. I am saddened at his passing. My Condolences to his Family.. He will be missed.. but not forgotten.

Lizee Shumway

February 3, 2023

Uncle Bud "Buddy" will always be a larger than life presence in my and and my Siblings lives. Memories from the Adirondack League Club to Snowbird and of course Sodus and Rochester, NY! He was such an amazing father, friend, brother in-law and Uncle! He will be missed but always in all of our hearts!
Yesterday I took several runs at Sun Valley in his honor!

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