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Bernie
December 15, 2024
Thinking of my sister and sweet nieces and nephews on this anniversary. I can´t believe it has been 19 years. Sending lots of love and hugs to all. I love you all! Aaron .... You are missed! The world was better with you in it.
Shawn Shepard
December 17, 2023
Miss you, brother!
Bernadette Padberg
December 15, 2023
Today is the eighteenth anniversary of your passing, and it still hurts like it was yesterday. You were taken way too soon. We all miss you so much! Sending love to all that love our sweet Aaron!
Bonner Family
December 12, 2023
We will always remember how Aaron made us feel! Loved! His unconditional love for his family ,extended family and friends was apparent through his actions. He was someone who was always there to help in any way. He was a great listener and made us smile often. We love and miss you Aaron!
Bernie
December 15, 2022
It was right about this time you left us 17 years ago. I remember going to your home right after school, and I just had that feeling. That memory will be forever etched in my mind. You were taken way too soon, and it breaks my heart you never met your sweet grandchildren, and you missed seeing how wonderful your kids turned out. I love you and miss you so much!
Alice
December 12, 2022
Always will have this great man in my heart! I am reminded of him every time I see his beautiful family! They are such a blessing to me!
Bernadette Padberg
December 15, 2021
Thinking of my sweet brother in law, Aaron on the 16th anniversary of his passing. I will never forget his easy going personality, AMAZING laugh, helping hand, and love for ALL of his family and friends. He knew no strangers.
I am also thinking of my sister, Michelle and her five children along with their spouses and families, Mrs. Shepard, Aaron's siblings, his family and friends that were robbed of so many years and memories with him.
I love and miss Aaron so much! However, it is beautiful watching the legacy that he left behind.
Love,
Bernie
Bernadette Padberg
December 15, 2020
Remembering Aaron on the 15th anniversary of his passing. So sad that his sister Sheila passed away this year. Sending my thoughts and prayers to the whole Shepard family. May you find comfort in the memories you shared with them.
Alice Sosa-Bonner
December 13, 2020
Aaron this year I have had the privilege to spend time with your mom and sisters and I am inspired by the resilience, strength, courage, faith and hope I see in them! The Shepards are amazing! Thanks for continuing to bless me Aaron with your family as it continues to grow. Each and everyone of your children and grandchildren bring such joy in my life! Please give Sheila a big hug and kiss for me! Love and miss you! Until we meet again...
Bernadette Padberg
December 15, 2019
I can't believe another year has passed, and it has been 14 years. You are missed every day Aaron, but your legacy lives on. I can picture you at all your grandkids' events cheering them on. You would be so proud of your kids and grandkids!
Alice
December 12, 2019
As we approach the end of another year, I can't believe you went up to Heaven 14 years ago! I can vividly remember the day you took your last breath here on earth and your first and everlasting breath up in Heaven! I really miss you Aaron, but your spirit lives here in the hearts of all your family members.I feel your presence whenever I am with your 5 beautiful children. And that is so comforting to see you legacy live on! Until we hug again!
Love you Aaron.
Al
Bernadette Padberg
December 15, 2018
I am thinking of my sister Michelle and her beautiful family on the 13th anniversary of Aaron's passing.
Michelle... I know your 26 years together was not nearly enough time together.
My sweet nephews and nieces.... Aaron, Kyle, Michaela, Zach and Ashley..... Your dad is with you in everything you do. He looks down from heaven, and he is so proud of the adults you have become.
I am also thinking of Aaron's mother on this day for losing a child is unimaginable!
Aaron's brothers and sisters are also in my thoughts on this day.
May you all be comforted by the special times you shared together with Aaron!
Love,
Bernie
December 14, 2017
December 15, 2017
Dear Michelle, Aaron Jr., Kyle, Michaela, Zach, Ashley, Mrs. Shepard and Aaron's siblings,
I am thinking of all of you on the 12th anniversary of Aaron's passing. I know you miss him every day, but certain days are harder than others. May you all be comforted by all the wonderful memories you shared with him. Sending you extra hugs today.
Love,
Bernie
Sheila Ross
December 15, 2016
Been thinking of Aaron all week. This time of year is both happy and sad. I miss him lots. I am so grateful for Michelle and all the kids and grandkids, that they stay connected with us all. We had a great time this past weekend with the families and the memories.
December 15, 2016
December 15, 2016
Here it is the 11th Anniversary of Aaron's passing. I know we all think of Aaron often and the impact he made on everyone. My thoughts and prayers go out to Michelle, Aaron, Kyle, Michaela, Zach, and Ashley on this day. My thoughts are also with Mrs. Shepard and all of Aaron's siblings. May you be all be comforted by the happy, crazy and silly memories you have of him. Aaron was a wonderful man, and the good news is... Aaron's legacy will always live through Michelle, their children, his mom and his brothers and sisters, and his growing family (Theresa, Lucky and baby #2, Matt, Cameron, Wyatt, Brielle, Owen, Jesse, Harper, Jesse, Peyton and Baby #4.
I miss you Aaron, but I can still hear your great laugh!
Love,
Bernie
March 18, 2016
Happy birthday love! Talked to Ashley today and she said Jesse told her he missed his papa in heaven. Harper asked if they have birthday cake there? Mom and I went to church! I called Jim Aaron and he always says it's ok it is an honor to b called Aaron! You are always missed and thought of everyday!
Bernadette Padberg
December 15, 2015
Dear Michelle, Aaron, Kyle, Michaela, Zach, Ashley and your families, Eileen Shepard and the entire Shepard Family, and extended family,
A limb has fallen from the family tree
That says grieve not for me
Remember the BEST TIMES...
The laughter, the song
The good life I lived
While I was strong.
Dear Family and Friends,
As I remember Aaron on the 10th Anniversary of his passing...
Remember Me
To the living, I am gone
To the sorrowful, I will never return
To the angry, I was cheated
But to the happy, I am at peace
And to the faithful, I have never left.
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard
So, as you stand upon the shore
Gazing at a beautiful sea...
-Always remember me
As you look upon a flower
And admire its simplicity
-Always remember me
Remember me in your heart, your thoughts
And your memories of the times we loved,
The times we cried, the times we fought
And the times we laughed.
For if you always think of me,
I will never have gone.
Dear Aaron,
On this 10th Anniversary of your passing, I can still feel your love and hear your laughter. I can see so much of you in your five beautiful children and eight grandchildren. You are always with Michelle, Aaron, Kyle, Michaela, Zach and Shorty, your grandchildren, your mom, brothers and sisters, extended family and so many other relatives and friends. I hope you are showing Katie the ropes in heaven. I am sure you both are keeping all the referees in lines.
You will always be with us Aaron!
Love,
Bernie
Alice Bonner
June 6, 2015
When I think of you living in paradise with our Lord and Savior, I smile knowing that I will see you and others I miss so dearly again. In this crazy chaotic world I am hopeful because I have a God who will take me home to be reunited with you and others. I look forward to that glorious day of celebration! Until then, I will continue to pray for those loved ones who do not know Christ as their Savior to be saved so that our family reunion will be complete! I love and miss you Aaron.
Joe Pirronello
April 17, 2015
Thinking of you my friend, I will never forget you.
January 12, 2015
Today 1-12-15 it started off raining as our day was!! What a day!! It has been 35 years since the day we said "I do"!. Who knew where we would
be today !! It has been 9 years since you have been gone and at times seems like yesterday. The things we would of changed , but no matter what we we decided it would be together and to be together!!!!
We have children and grandchildren that have
"something" that reminds us all or some of our family of you! It's is your eyes " those Shepard eyes" , the way that you ran ,which Wyatt runs the same way, the nicknames that only u could of thought of and stayed in my mUind "Alyssa brows" , "Wanker"", "Shorty", "My lil' big man", "Wylie Kylie" ,"GODSON." And so many more!!! You are thought of in my life everyday! Because of you we are all blessed to of had you in our life!! I can't tell you how much I miss you but I can tell you how blessed I was to have had you in my life !!!! I cannot of imagined my life without you. As Maria said it was always said "Michelle and Aaron " as if it was 1 word. We were one as God wanted us to be !!
December 15, 2014
December 15, 2014
Dear Aaron,
Nine years have passed since we said good-bye to you, and many things have changed. The one thing that has remained the same is our love for you. I miss you today and every day.
Love,
Bernzie
December 15, 2014
December 15, 2014
Dear Aaron,
Nine years have passed and so many things have changed. One thing that has remained the same is our love for you. I miss you today and every day.
Love,
Bernzie
June 15, 2014
It 's Father's Day. You are soooooo........ Missed!!!!!!!!
January 9, 2014
Aaron...
There are things in life we don't want to happen, but have to accept:
Things we don't want to know, but have to learn, and
People we can't live without, but have to let go.
You are with us in everything we do!!!
Love,
Bernie
December 17, 2013
Another beautiful full moon.....You are and will always be my heart and soul,,,,,,Till the next time we see each other, memories and dreams I am blessed with....
December 17, 2013
So good to come together at church in rememberance of you Aaron. We could feel your presence. We will always remember your fun-loving, easy-going zest for life. Mark and Alice
sheila ross
December 16, 2013
8yrs have have passed ... and still I think of you all the time.
RIP little brother
Bernadette Padberg
December 15, 2013
December 15th, 2013
Dear Michelle, Aaron, Kyle, Michaela, Zach Ashley,
I am thinking of all of you guys on this day. I can't believe it has been eight years.
Michelle – Aaron loved and adored you. You guys certainly brought out the best in each other. Your fun loving relationship was enjoyable to be around.
A,K,M,Z,A -Your dad loved you very much, and he was very proud of each and every one of you. He would be very proud of the young men and women you have become. I know I am.
On this day and every day, I hope the special memories you shared with him bring comfort to you when you feel pain and sorrow. I love you guys to the moon and back a million times.
Aaron – I love you and miss you today and every day! I hope you're keeping all those referees in line up in heaven.
XOXO Bernie??
December 16, 2012
I don't understand why, but Connor sometimes reminds me of you, Aaron. I've even called him Aaron a few times. I think about you, dad, Raymond, Mike, Clem, Kevin, John ...
sheila shepard ross
December 15, 2012
RIP little brother
sheila shepard ross
December 15, 2012
RIP in peace little brother. Thinking of you always, but especially this day.
Love ya and miss ya
Bernadette Padberg
December 14, 2012
December 15, 2012
On the seventh anniversary of the passing of Aaron, I hope you are all comforted by the wonderful memories you shared with him. He was a gentle giant and will be remembered for many of his wonderful qualities . What stands out most was his love for his family. Aaron...the world is a better place because of you.
I love you and miss you
XOXO Bernie
Shepard Family,
I am thinking of each and every one of you on this day.
November 23, 2012
I remember 7 years ago today, we started to tear the roof off our home and re-roof!!(Aaron style). I was on the roof, you were yelling at me to get down! You said you were coming up, I grabbed the ladder so you couldn't....You were so mad at me but mainly because you wanted to help and couldn't! You were never use to watching other people work. Mark,Aaron,Kyle,Zach and Lee were the finishers.Poor Mark with all those boys!! You were on the porch listening at them argue and just grin, as only you could! Thanksgiving is the day I remember realizing you wouldn't be with me for that much longer.You are soooo missed!!!!I think of you all the time. I talk about you all the time. I see you all the time through our children, our grandchildren and all your brothers and sisters...We were and are so very blessed. I thank God for the many wonderful years we had, yet too, too short.I can't wait to see you and pops again when it's time.I whisper in their ears almost everytime I see them GRANDPA LOVES YOU from the minute they are born!!! I always will tooo my love!!!
Alice Sosa-Bonner
November 22, 2012
Thankful to a God that gives us life eternal so I can see you again Aaron. Miss you!
November 14, 2012
Well Aaron, you are now a grandfather to 7 beautiful babes! Amazing!!! Today is your sweet daughter Michaela's 28th??? Birthday. I know she can feel your presence on her special day. Really miss getting your bear hugs. Love Al
Shorty :-)
November 10, 2012
Thinking of him tonight... and always really. I love when people ask me why I named my daughter Harper because it gives me a chance to tell them for my daddy. Jesse, my son, has his eyes. I am so thankful for these reminders of him everyday. I cry every time I read this guest book but I love seeing all the comments to remind me of how blessed I was to have such an amazing dad and family. Thanks to those who comment and visit when thinking of him.
sheila shepard ross
December 15, 2011
Remembering my little brother today. Mass with mom, and a toast to Aaron tonight with my sisters. You are always with us Aaron, in everything we do. We love and miss you.
December 14, 2011
To my Heavenly Angel Aaron,
Six years ago today you left us, and my heart remains full of sadness and sorrow. I miss you immensely!
Your legacy will continue to live on through your five kids and your grandchildren...Lucky, Cameron, Wyatt, Brielle, Harper and Jesse. Whenever I see them, I am quickly reminded of you. Wyatt is a spitting image of you. You would have been the greatest grandpa!!! I know you are in heaven taking care of all the little munchins!
I love you Aaron and miss you very much!!!
XOXOXO Bernie
Alice
June 3, 2011
Dear Aaron, You are a grandfather for the 4th time now. as you know, she is beautiful! I look at her and can't help but be a little sad, celebrating a part of life without you here. I just have to remember, when I hug her, I am also hugging a part of you. I really miss you Aaron.
Tim McDowell
May 27, 2011
Aaron,
I was searching for old friends from grade school in San Diego and found this link to you. I was sure it was the wrong Aaron until I read the comments and recognized the names of some of those who loved you so much.
I am sorry to have missed knowing you as a man. You were an incredible inspiration to so many and will live on in the hearts of your family and friends as an example of how it should be to live as a brother, husband, father and friend.
It's been probably forty years since I saw you, but I will remember you always as the man you became. God Bless You and keep you.
Alice Sosa-Bonner
March 20, 2011
We surely miss you- especially during the family celebrations. One day..... until then I will always be comforted by your dear, kind smile.
Shawn Albert Shepard
March 20, 2011
Hey Aaron. Been thinking about you. Remember outrunning that flashflood in Cougar Canyon and walking out because the hillside collapse on the road.
March 18, 2011
Thinking of you on your birthday. We miss you!
Love,
Bernie
Sheila Shepard
March 18, 2011
just thinking of you on your birthday little brother
December 17, 2010
I imagine you smiling up there as you look upon the beautiful legacy of your family - Your wife, your children and all your grand-children. I pray that they will continue to glorify God so that they may see His Glory up in Heaven with you someday.We miss you immensely. My comfort comes from knowing we will see you again. Until then, each summer breeze I feel will be the embracing warmth of your kind,loving spirit.
Alice Sosa-Bonner
December 15, 2010
I have never written in this guest book in honor of Aaron, but I can tell you I read it a many times a year and thank God for it!!! There is toooo much to say about him as you all know....We all miss Aaron DEEPLY!!!!! I can say is there has been no-one like him in my or in any of our lives..... they definitely broke the mold after him...and we all agree how he has touched sooooo many lives!!Aaron, your legacy is living on and all your childrens',children will know you and of you as they already do!!! YOU ARE MY SPECIAL ANGEL and I thank God for you.....
Cindy Hyland
December 15, 2010
shelia i cant believe aaron has been gone already for 5yrs. it is so hard to believe.growing up and going to school with him for so many yrs it was quite a shock to find out he had passed. i never knew he was married and had a family but seeing that now i can see he was a very fun loving family man. he is truly missed and will always be thought of.
Sheila Shepard
December 15, 2010
5 years have passed and yet sometimes it seems like just yesterday you were here with us. We miss you bro, your memory lives on.
December 15, 2010
Dear Michelle and the Shepard Family,
I am thinking about you on this day and hoping that each special memory you have of Aaron helps to comfort you. As you know, the world is a better place because of Aaron. He touched the hearts of many people, and he was loved a lot.
Take care!
Love,
Bernie
12-15-10
Sheila Shepard
December 22, 2009
Every year I come back to this site and reread the entries everyone has made with their remembrances of Aaron. So loved, always remembered. I love you little brother and miss you so much.
Alice Sosa-Bonner
December 18, 2009
Every time I see and spend time with any member of the Shepard Family, I can't help but think of Aaron Sr. He left such a legacy of love and goodness in his family. And I imagine his smiling eyes beaming with pride as he sees the addition of the little ones. I will continue to pray for the Shepard family to have a relationship that grows stronger with Jesus Christ each day.May they seek the comfort ,peace and grace only you can give them during their times of sorrow.
Bernadette Padberg
December 15, 2009
Dear Aaron,
I can't believe four years ago today you left us. Your memory lives on through the family. I was blessed to have such a wonderful brother in law. I love you and miss you!
Love,
Bernie
Bernie Padberg
December 15, 2006
December 15, 2006
Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.
Dear Michelle, Aaron, Kyle, Michaela, Zach, Ashley, Shepard Family, and Friends,
I will always remember Aaron's:
-commitment to Michelle and his family
-dedication to his job
-helping hand
-caring heart
-hearty laughter
-bright smile
-courage
Dear Aaron,
I will always remember all the wonderful memories that I shared with you. I wish I could hug you one more time and tell you just how much I love you and how much you mean to me.
Love,
Bernie
MARK SHEPARD
December 5, 2006
It has been almost one year since my brother Aaron has left us. Reading through this Guest Book for Aaron I can tell he touched the hearts of more people than he will ever realize. As I go through the Holidays they do not feel the same as they did when Aaron was around. We all miss Aaron very much. I am glad there is something like this guest book to read , it is good to know and really does help to know so many people love Aaron as much as my Family and I do. Thank You to all of you for your kind words. And to the Union-Tribune
PS GO CHARGERS right Aaron?
Brian Britt
March 7, 2006
Aaron, Father, Provider, Protector, Giving, Laughing, Caring, a good willed man, those are the words that come to mind when thinking of you, Yet I am speechless and blown away,
We saw you in October you convinced us you would be ok, then you were gone; I cried, I prayed It's hard to believe it is true.
Some day we will meet again and talk about family and friends spend time just catch up.
A heart felt sorrow to Mitchelle and the kids, all the brothers and sisters Moms and Dads. Aaron will be truly missed.
Heavan has gained a luminous soul and a friend I will always remember as true.
Brian
Jerry Mills
March 3, 2006
Wow--just ran into Michelle today and found out Aaron had passed so quickly. What the??? was all we could think. A good man who did a lot of good for the children of Santee. Peace and comfort to all of the family is our wish. Jerry & Julie Mills
Joe Pirronello
March 1, 2006
Michelle and family
Lord you have taken Aaron from us.We need your help to understand that it was your will,and we cannot understand you plan.I ask why...I could give an endless list of people that I would have picked ahead of him.
Aaron and I moved away from our homes for the first time together-no money,motorcycles for transportation and helping Shawn out by moving in with him,lol. Never have I met someone so easy going. I have so many good times-we would just take off -wild and free-cruise Pasadina-Mickey Thompson Off Road Races,the time your truck caught fire at my dads house, when you and Brian wrecked the station wagon- on the inside!!.lol.all the things you do when your young and single. I'll never forget on 33rd street when he told me he was in Love-to Michele, I didn't think it was possible-nobody can tie down Aaron-but when I was standing at the alter as Best Man-I believed.
So I pray in Jesus Name help us to deal with this loss of a sweet dear- friend, father,son and husband.
Love you always Aaron... Joe Pirronello
PS Aaaaarrrroon clean the pool.
Cheryl Britt
February 24, 2006
Michelle and Family,
Brian and I were very grateful to see you and Aaron in October, just before his passing. He was so full of life and hope! It's a sad time when Cancer strikes. I lost my sister Sandra to cancer in 2002, and more recently, my sister Teri. She was taken from us in January of 2006. No words can replace what we have lost. My heart is broken.I am so sorry for your loss, Michelle! You have a wonderful family to lean on, my heart goes out to all of you! Our days at Hoover High, and NH are very fond memories. I think about them often. Aaron is always in those thoughts! We had such fun, always and adventure! Call me anytime, Michelle. I always like hearing from you! Love, Cheryl.
David Maas
February 23, 2006
"Aaarrrrrrron" !
Thats how your dad called you :)
My Brother "Mickey" & I ( and all his dear friends from "NH" )reffered to you as "DONK" !
You we're ( are ) a special friend.
Because you we're : Unconditional
of what you gave & asked for.
although its been 20+yrs or so since we last saw each other, I knew at the day of your wedding to Michelle you would live happily forever. And so you did !
Comfort to your family,
Godspeed to you, old Friend.
David Maas
Louis Lopez
February 9, 2006
I am so sorry to hear that Aaron has temporarily left us. Last time we saw each other was when Aaron was coaching Little Aaron's game. I stopped by to say hi @ the Santee house, and I spoke with Michelle. I seeked him out at the game.
I met Aaron @ Wilson Jr. High. We all used to go to his house & the Britt's house "waiting for something to come up". He was the first one to break away and settle down amongst the guys that we hung out with. He knew that he had the "right girl", because he chased her down and brought her back to marry her. We all loved Michelle, and thought that she was a great choice for him to settle down with. He was married for 26 years. I can still remember his Bachelor party, it was wild and untamed. I recently spoke with Brian Britt, and we talked about it. We all enjoyed ourselves. He had a great wedding.
It is sad to say that we all did not stay in touch as we would have liked to. Over time, it seems that we all went our separate ways. But one thing, we do not forget our friends. Aaron was truly a good friend, he would do things for me without having to ask twice. He was very kind hearted, hard working, and independent. He got me my first job as a plumber's helper. I took over his job @ The Plumber Man. It really stuck me when I heard of his death from Mr. Britt.
My condolences to Michelle, the kids, and the rest of the Shepard family.
Wishing you the best,
Louis Lopez
Kim Heene
January 16, 2006
My Friend Michelley,
What a shock the initial news was and the ultimate result seemed so unbelieveable. Far too soon, too young, too much going for him with such a wonderful wife, kids and family.
My heart just went out for Aaron, you and the kids and the rest of your family from the very moment of the news. Your sister kept me informed from the beginning and I kept hoping and hoping for the best and a recovery for Aaron.
Though I had only been around Aaron on occasion over the years since the Bonner parties in high school and college, I always admired your relationship and family as it grew and grew.
In a conversation I had with Aaron while out to dinner with you guys just a few weeks prior, we talked about his ideas and dreams of Idaho, real estate and owning his own business. He was still looking forward to his dreams and I was so in awe of that.
I'm happy and thankful you had such a wonderful man as your husband and father of your kids. And my little Bernie, as she put it, had such a great Brother-In-Law and a great home and family for her kids to be with. I know he was so much to so many even outside your immediate and extended family.
I hope all the beautiful and happy memories you all have of your life with him will comfort you during this time. What a great man, such a good man, brave, caring, generous, hard working and self sacrificing all the way until the end. If there were only more people out there like Aaron Shepard the world would be a better place.
Michelle, you're such an amazing wife, mother, daughter, sister and friend. You continue to deserve so much. My love, friendship and help is here for you.
Love, Kimbee
Bernadette Padberg
January 16, 2006
At a time like this, there is a sorrow for which no heart could ever be prepared. I would like to express my deepest sympathy to Aaron's large and ever growing family:
Michelle, his supportive and loving wife
His five chidren: Aaron Jr., Kyle, Michaela, Zach, and Ashley (Shorty)
His parents, Al and Eileen,
His brothers and sisters: Shawn, Mark,Michael,Sheila, Therese, and Jeanette
And to all of his: in-laws, nieces and nephews, and friends throughout the years.
Since Aaron was diagnosed with cancer in August, his motto was "Git r done!" While others asked me what his prognosis was, Aaron was determined to be the survivor. Never did I hear him question, "Why me?" He was optimistic and hopeful about his prognosis. Aaron has taught me how to be optimistic and hopeful through the toughest of times.
Through his battle, he was hospitalized several times with a blood infection and a blood clot in his arm. It seemed everything that could go wrong, did go wrong, but Aaron continued to fight his difficult battle. He never gave in to his cancer. Aaron has taught me the true was meaning of courage, and never give up despite your odds.
He was sent home on December 9th, with the most dreadful news... "There is nothing else we can do for you." While others cried on his shoulder, he said, "It is what it is, and you have to accept it." Aaron continued to put his own feelings and emotions aside and console others right to the end.
Aaron's last months, reflected the way he lived his whole life... optimistic, hopeful, and courageous. In his last days, he continued to put others before him. One day, he hopped off his chair to meet his friend John for coffee. On another occasion when he got his sudden burst of energy, he went shopping with his brother Mark and nephew Chad. He went shopping for a gift for his wife. He never ceased to amaze me.
No one can understand why those we love leave this earth too soon, before we are ready to say good-bye. Although Aaron lived but a short time, he loved deeply and was loved by many. His spirit will live on forever through Michelle, Aaron Jr., Kyle, Michaela, Zach,
Ashley, and all the people that knew and loved him. The impact of Aaron's life will leave behind an influence for goodness that will reach the lives of many others.
Michael Bonner
January 13, 2006
Dear Aunt MIchelle,
I Pray that you will stop thinking about the death of Uncle Aaron. Aaron was a good uncle to me and said funny things to cheer me up. I hope yiou feel better about this tragedy. I love you!
Shawn Padberg
January 13, 2006
Dear Aunt Michelle, Aaron Jr., Kyle, Michaela, Zach, and Ashley,
Uncle Aaron was always there for his family. I will always remember how Uncle Aaron used to call me silly names. I loved him so much, and I will always remember him.
Love,
Shawn
Stephen Bonner
January 12, 2006
I am very sorry about what has happened. I know it has been very tough. But, you can pull through this hardship if you stick together as a close family. And keep in mind, everyone will be able to see Uncle Aaron in heaven!
Christian Bonner
January 12, 2006
Dear Aunt Michelle,
I'm sorry you are super, super, super sad on your wedding anniversary. I know how you feel because I have been this way,too. I pray you won't be sad anymore. I love you Aunt Michelle.
Love, Christian
P.S. I told my mom what to write because I can't write big words- only small words.
Alice Sosa-Bonner
January 12, 2006
On this day 26 years ago, God united the most beautiful couple ever- Aaron and Michele! And although you are not physically together today, God has made sure this sweet union will be eternal. The physical separation is temporary, for the spiritual bond will connect you once again up in Heaven.The pain and emptiness is unbearable at times for you Michele -especially on this 26th wedding anniversary. I will pray that God wraps His arms around you to comfort you and lift you up when you are feeling so down. May the unforgettable memories you and Aaron shared sustain you today as you wait for that wondrous reunion in Heaven. The Shepard circle can never be broken, it has just stretched to Heaven. I love you Shepards!
Alice Sosa-Bonner
January 11, 2006
Miracles Do happen! And Yes, God Answers Prayer! I was in Washington when I found out the devastating news on that Sat. August 6th. And everyday I got down on my knees and prayed fervently for a miracle from God."God, please heal Aaron completely."I prayed over and over again. And as the days passed, despite his determination to beat this thing. Aaron got weaker and struggled to breathe. I asked "Why him? Why now?" And despite my diminishing hope, I continued to ask for that miracle. When Aaron died,my six year old ,Christian, asked, "What happened mommy? Why didn't God make Uncle Aaron better? That's what we were praying for right?" And at first I didn't see it, but God had answered my prayer. You see, six days before Aaron died, he accepted Jesus into his heart. I smiled at my son and replied, "God did answer our prayers honey. He healed Uncle Aaron spiritually. Now he will live forever in Heaven." And Christian enthusiastically answered, "That's even better!" Thank you God for your perfect timing and your miracle of love! I love you Shepards!
Alice
Alice Sosa-Bonner
January 11, 2006
Miracles Do happen! And Yes, God Answers Prayer! I was in Washington when I found out the devastating news on that Sat. August 6th. And everyday I got down on my knees and prayed fervently for a miracle from God."God, please heal Aaron completely."I prayed over and over again. And as the days passed, despite his determination to beat this thing. Aaron got weaker and struggled to breathe. I asked "Why him? Why now?" And despite my diminishing hope, I continued to ask for that miracle. When Aaron died,my six year old ,Christian, asked, "What happened mommy? Why didn't God make Uncle Aaron better? That's what we were praying for right?" And at first I didn't see it, but God had answered my prayer. You see, six days before Aaron died, he accepted Jesus into his heart. I smiled at my son and replied, "God did answer our prayers honey. He healed Uncle Aaron spiritually. Now he will live forever in Heaven." And Christian enthusiastically answered, "That's even better! Isn't it mommy?" And I said, "It sure is." Thank you God for your perfect timing and your miracle of love! I love you Shepards!
Alice
Bonnie Nager
January 9, 2006
Dear Michelle and family,
I am so shocked and saddened by this news. We will always remember those awesome Waldo soccer days. All the good times will live forever in our memories.
God bless you and your loved ones. Take comfort in the love of family and friends...those near and far.
Bonnie Nager & family
Mike Usher
January 9, 2006
Michelle and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know what a great husband, father and friend Aaron was. He touched so many lives and it was in only a positive way.
I first had the honor of knowing your family in the spring of 1998 when Zach join my soccer team. I remember Aaron being at almost every game Zach played and supporting EVERY player on the field, not just Zach.
My first impression of your family is my lasting one: a family full of love and energy. You are always on the move...going many dorections at once...but always had the time to be with each other and support each other. I always enjoyed the times when I visited your home. I always thought yours was a model of what a family should be like. The last time I saw you was at Zach's graduation and you all were so proud.
I know you miss Aaron every minute, but be assured he is still at your side, making sure all is well with his beloved family.
I will always be proud to have known Aaron and all of the Shepard family. I am honored that God had our paths cross, if only for a short period.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mike
(I would love to hear from you, if you feel so inclined)
Margaret Yount
January 5, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Aaron. I read many memories in the guest book and saw in these memories, Aaron as he was in life-happy and loving his family.
Jon Zimmerly
December 31, 2005
Dear Shepard Family...
I am dearly saddened to hear of your loss...My memories of your family go back many years from when I went to elementary school with kyle and michaela, until Jr. High when Michelle chapparoned our east coast trip to Washington and New York. In my eyes, the legacy of Aaron Shepard will live on through the wonderful family he created, and I send my thoughts and prayers to you all in this trying time...
Rebecca Daniels
December 29, 2005
I just heard, I am deeply sorry. I loved Aaron very much. Becki
Melanie Wetton
December 24, 2005
Dearest Shepard family,
I'm so sorry for you loss. At lease he is in a better place now. My prayers are with you and god bless.
Love,
Mel
Maria Barbantini
December 24, 2005
I was emotionally unable to deliver this at the service held on Tuesday. I had it prepared but unlike many of the other brave and strong individuals that were able to step up and address those present, I just did not have the courage nor the emotional stamina to get up and say these words in public. So, with that being said, I thought I would at least try and express my thoughts through this guest book.
How Will We Remember Aaron?
I am an auxiliary Shepard family member. I became a member of this family when I married Aaron’s brother Michael back in 1987. I consider myself very fortunate because although my personal memories will be short compared to those that grew up with and around Aaron, I can reminisce about those childhood memories whenever the family sits and talks about the old times on Edna Place.
I can be a part of that childhood when the family talks about those wild years when the Shepard boys, Shawn, Mark, Michael, and Aaron were young and experiencing life as young men… times of drinking at the beach, or those wild bachelor parties, sneaking out the upstairs window, or jumping off the roof.
I can experience some of that childhood when I hear the sisters in this family, Sheila, Therese, and Jeanette talk about their experiences as being girls in this large family and their experiences growing up with their four brothers. Their stories are many as well and as sisters, their recollection of these youthful events are a little different!
How will we remember Aaron?
We will remember him when we think of Al and Eileen, Aaron’s parents. It was their love that brought Aaron into this world, and it was their love that watched over him as he left this world. Right there by his side…..until the end.
How will we remember Aaron?
We will remember Aaron when we think of Michelle, the love of his life. Just think, whenever you say the name Aaron, you can’t help but add the name Michelle. You might not speak it out loud, but your mind will say it for you. It’s just natural. It’s just the way it is. Aaron and Michelle go together, it’s that simple. They had one of the most unique and loving marriages that radiated love, giving, understanding, and compassion. When you think of Michelle you will always remember Aaron. It was her love that watched over him as he left this world. Right there by his side…..until the end.
How will we remember Aaron?
We will remember Aaron every time you think of or see any of his five wonderful and beautiful children.
Aaron Jr., or Little Aaron as he is sometimes called, isn’t little at all. But he is a near duplicate of his father. He will carry his Fathers legacy into the future. He carries the compassion of his father, the spirit of his father, the passion for life of his father. It was his love that watched over him as he left this world. Right there by his side…..until the end.
Then there is Kyle. Kyle, to his all of his Aunt’s anyway, is the best competition out there against Brad Pitt. Kyle has the handsomeness of his father and the beauty of his mother. His style and ease combined with a big heart and loving character sets him apart. It is his love that will carry on the memory of his father Aaron. It was his love that watched over him as he left this world. Right there by his side…..until the end.
Michaela is nothing short of a beautiful princess. A princess born of royalty. The royal union of her father Aaron and mother Michelle. She has the most unique combination of both maturity of someone far greater in years and the innocence of a young child. Her calm and warm personality can melt steel. It was her love that watched over him as he left this world. Right there by his side…..until the end.
Then there is Zachary, the fourth child and third son. Okay, if you ever need someone to scare the holy bejesus out of someone, call up Zach and have him come with you. This young man is BIG. But in spite of his size, he is a compassionate, kind, tender young man. I suspect he learned a lot of that from his Dad. It was his love that watched over him as he left this world. Right there by his side…..until the end.
And Dear Ashley…... She will always be known as the baby but I am here to tell you that she is far from that. A very beautiful young lady, with the stamina of a rock. If you want someone by your side that can take the heat for you, that can run that mile for you, that can bear a burden for you, call this young lady. It was her love that watched over him as he left this world. Right there by his side…..until the end.
How will we remember Aaron?
Think passion for life, think uncompromising, think giving, think fun, think strong, think beautiful, think understanding, think family, and think buuuufet!
We know that Aaron is watching over all of us; his beautiful wife, his wonderful and blessed children, his loving parents, his companion brothers, and his endearing sisters. Aaron’s spirit will live on in all of us.
Aaron is up in heaven playing the sports that he loved, is being followed by all the children that are looking for a strong leader and guide, working hard on fixing the things needing repair up there in heaven, and sending his grace and style down to earth to those that need a helping hand.
Maria Barbantini
Michael & Cindy Parente
December 24, 2005
our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family -
peace of heart and mind.
love,
Mike&Cindy Parente & Family
Shellie Nakagaki
December 23, 2005
Dear Michelle and Family,
I lived across the street from CC
and was fortunate to meet you and your family.
What a beautiful family.
When Aaron spoke it was usauly about his family and how proud of his family he was. I worked with him as well, in his office are the most beautiful photos of you and your children. You could clearly see the love he had for all of you.
What a wonderful gift in it's self.
I have all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Shellie
Team Lopez
December 21, 2005
Dearest Shepard Family - You don't know us, but Aaron has been in our prayers daily. Our son Garrett is recovering from a transplant to treat leukemia. The battle with cancer is a familiar one. If Aaron was anything like his sister Jeanette, our dear friend, then he was incredible and full of love and life. We will continue to pray for all of you to be at peace with Aaron's passing, and for you to know that he will never have to struggle or suffer again. Our thoughts and prayers to you, Team Lopez (Chris, Carol, Brianne, Garrett, Josh and Gabby)
Steve & Cindi Kane
December 21, 2005
Cindi and I were very sad to hear of Aaron's death. He will surely be missed. Our condolences to the Shepard family.
DENNIS AND LINDA WENZL
December 20, 2005
Michelle and Family,
We were so saddened to hear of Aarons passing. There was never a sporting event or any event that you and/or Aaron where not there, and so proud I might add. Take comfort in the fact that you raised wonderful, beautiful children together. There is no greater acomplishment. The Shephards have always been the "pride of Santee". There were not too many people who don't know who you are. That says something about your family's character. Take comfort in your memories AND each other.
God Bless,
Dennis, Linda, Jake and Ben Wenzl
shawna sanders
December 20, 2005
To the Shepard family, our hearts go out to you! We have lived across the street from you for five years, and have watched all the kids grow. Aaron always waving and saying hi to all of us. Always so friendly! I remember when we moved in, we were told the Shepards are the "sweethearts" on the street. It's so true! Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. Thinking of you.
Shawna, Renea, and Shannon
Candice White
December 20, 2005
To the Shepards:
My love and thoughts are with the one and only Shepards. I have known the Shepards since junior year of high school and have shared many memories with all of the family members. What a gorgeous and wonderful family you have. He is in heaven shining down on us while being in a happy place. What a wonderful husband and father they have. At good ole' Denny's, Aaron Sr would be there sitting on a barstool hanging out with his lovely wife for hours. My deepest sympathy is with your family. A loved one that has finished their life on earth is not gone, there life has just began. They are still with us in spirt. That you must beleive. I do promise he hears you when you speak, I will say he loves you no matter the distance, and I will not lie; he is waiting to greet you someday.
With all my love,
Candice White
Kera Warehime
December 20, 2005
My brother is a good friend of the Shepard family and thats how i got to know Aaron. My deepest sympathy is with the Shepard Family. Im sure if my brother was home he would be by everyones side.
LYNN LAHITTE
December 20, 2005
Michelle and Family,
My sister and I would like to express our deepest sympathy to you and all of the Shepard family. We spent many years at the Shepard house mostly with Sheila but being such a close-knit family, everone was friends. We both have many happy memories hanging out with everyone, swimming, going to the beach or whatever was happening.I remember Aaron being such a fun loving and wonderful person. We send our deepest thoughts and prayers to you at this time. Think of all the happy and wonderful times you had . He will be missed.
Love, Lynn Lahitte and Jean Patacsil
(Lynn & Jean Fay)
Scott Caraveo
December 20, 2005
My deepest sympathies go out to the Shepard family. I have known your family for many years, since Kyle and I played all-stars together as 12 year olds. In that time I grew to know Aaron as a constant fan of our sporting events, and a great dad. He will be missed by all. To Aaron, Kyle, Michaela, Zack, Ashley, Michelle, and the rest of your extended family - you are in my prayers.
Dan Lovin
December 19, 2005
To the entire Shepard Family, Debbie and I offer our sincere condolences for your loss.
As so many have written in this guest book, Aaron was to us the best of what a family man should be. Always there with a smile, encouraging word, devotion, patience, and love.
For Christmas in 2001, Michaela brought our family a plate she made with our picture on it and the words "Family is Forever". This is from the child of Aaron and Michelle Shepard.
Aaron, your legacy will live on through your wonderful family. Our family feels privileged to have known you.
Michelle, again our deepest sympathies for your loss and if we can help you in any way please don't hesitate to call. 619.562.7559
The Lovin's
Heather Habina
December 19, 2005
Sending my love and prayers to all of the Shepard family. I have been lucky enough to know the Shepard’s and Aaron for most of my life. Growing up I was always envious of what a loving and caring family you are. You have such a strong foundation of love and generosity that Aaron and Michelle set for everyone. Aaron will be missed my many and his memories will live on forever in my heart and many others. I love you all and hope that you use the strength of love that Aaron taught to get through this hard time. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Heather
shelley dove
December 19, 2005
We only knew Ashley. Our older 4 kids new of your other children. What an awsome family. I told Ashley she had to have great parents because she was so good in every way. My son adores Ashley and I always treasured the time she would spend with him as a role model and friend. Your hearts will hurt and your loss is deep. Please know you touched people you hadn't even known, through your kids. Our hope is you will find peace and find a new way to go on. We wish we could have met both of you.
Sincerely, the Doves
Alyssa Padberg
December 19, 2005
Hey Aunt Michelle,
I just wanted to tell you that I love you. I want you to know that you've been like a second mom to me. Thank you for putting up with me and letting me stay at your house sometimes. I love you. I'll never forget how it used to be at you house when everyone was around and how you and Uncle Aaron would introduce me to cruel and unusual punishments such as pinching underneath the soft skin of the arms or poking in the sides. My personal favorite was the crab bites that Uncle Aaron would love to give me. Thank you for giving me a place that was a second home and being the greatest second parents of all time. I LOVE YOU!!!!!
Tami Ivko
December 19, 2005
To all the Shepherd Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Aaron was a wonderful man with a heart of gold. His smile will be forever in my memory. I remember going to the house (quite often many years back) and being amazed that even with so many kids running around he was always so patient and easygoing. Your home has always been a very loving place where everyone always feels welcome and at ease. I know that Aaron is in a wonderful place now and is watching over all the people that he loved. And I am sure smiling that beautiful smile of his.
Kelly Rutherford
December 19, 2005
Shepard family,
Im so, so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Aaron very well, but when i did go over to the Shepard house Aaron, and the rest of the family always welcomed me with open arms...You guys have an amazing family, and will pull through this. He's flying with the angels now, looking down on each one of you. You're are all in my thoughts and prayers...
Charlie Philpot
December 19, 2005
Our deepest sympathies and prayers to the Shepard family.When I think of Santana sports one of the foremost families in Santee is the Shepards and the support your Dad always gave. He will be missed but not forgotten. Love& prayers Charlie & Pat Philpot
Lynn Ford
December 19, 2005
Michelle & Family,
Please accept my deepest condolences over Aaron's passing. I keep thinking of what a beautiful, loving family you have, and how many wonderful memories of Aaron you will each carry within your hearts, forever keeping him near to you. Please don't hesitate to call if there is anything at all we can do.
All our love,
Lynn, James, & Kristina
Diane Philpot & Brett Rudrude
December 19, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Shepard family. We are terribly sorry for your loss. Aaron touched so many lives and will be missed by all.
With Deepest Sympathy and God Bless.
Farmers Insurance - The Jasak Agency
December 19, 2005
Michelle and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Bob. Sondra, Holly and Sue
Maria Harvey
December 19, 2005
With our deepest sympathy....to let you know that we are thinking of you in this time of sorrow. Although I wasn't fortunate enough to know the whole Shepard family, Mikaela you were always one of my favorites when it came to Heather's friends. Nathan, Damon, Tim and I are all sending you lots of prayers and well wishes.
Love ya!
Melanie Giannelli
December 19, 2005
I know it has been a long time since I have talked to or seen you guys, but news travels fast. And I just wanted to send my warmest wishes, and deepest sympathy.
James Kober
December 19, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers are extended to both the immediate family and surrounding family, I grew up with everyone and today is a sad time for all.
Andrew Barbantini
December 19, 2005
"And this is the will of Him who sent Me, that everyone who sees the Son and believes in Him may have everlasting life; and I will raise him up at the last day"
JOHN 6:40 (NKJV)
"O death, where is thy sting? O grave where is thy victory?"
1 CORINTHIANS 15:55 (KJV)
I feel your pain...I have suffered in the same way. My heart wishes to join you in offering up this sorrowful time to the Lord for the glory of His name. May He send His Spirit to comfort you and bring you healing.
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