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Alfredo Silva Obituary
Alfredo Barajas Silva, 35, of Calexico died Sept. 15. He was born in Chula Vista and served in the Army.
Survivors include his wife, Cecilia Silva; daughter, Mariel; mother, Teresa Barajas; stepfather, Miguel Barajas; sister, Gabriela Barajas; brothers, Miguel, Daniel and Jose; and grandparents, Amparo and Asuncion Barajas.
Services: private.
Arrangements: Humphrey Mortuary.
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for Alfredo Silva
Charles Gili
January 28, 2019
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Silva Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Alfredo B. Silva US Army Staff Sergeant.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families, friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
November 17, 2014
We are still grateful for his sacrifice.
November 17, 2014
To the family and friends of Sgt. Alfredo Silva, please be aware that although many years have passed, our family is still grateful for his sacrifice.
Peggy Childers
September 15, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Alfredo B. Silva:
Please accept my remembrance of Alfredo on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
September 15, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Alfredo B. Silva:
Remembering Alfredo on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Peggy Childers
September 15, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Alfredo B. Silva:
Alfredo gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
June 1, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
In Memory of Alfredo ~ (Debra Estep)
September 16, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Alfredo, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
May 9, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Silva!
August 1, 2007
If this person can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his/her family to honor him/her. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guest book for the rest of my life, but I promised LE RON A. WILSON (a dear friend KIA 7/6/07, 18yrs old) that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 23, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Silva and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Ruthanne Williams
May 18, 2007
My name is Ruthanne Williams & I have a quilt that was made in Sgt. Silva's honor for his wife & daughter. My part in this is to verify a delivery address. The program is called Home of the Brave Quilt Project. Please ask Cecilia to email me.
Isaac Silva
March 28, 2007
To the family os Sgt Silva,
My name is Isaac H. Silva. I had the priveledge to meet Alfredo one night after doing our training in El Paso to go to Iraq. I remember sitting on the couch watching Sunday nighty football, and here comes this guy with the name SILVA on his BDU uniform. I only introduced myself as... "Man... another Silva" And he reckognized that I was also a Silva. Soon we would realize that we only lived less than 20 minutes from each other in the Imperial Valley. We tried to make any connection as to if we were primos of some kind, but our attempts failed. I never did make it over to Iraq, because I too ad lost a loved one to the war in Iraq. My little brother Cpl Erik H Silva as KIA April 3rd of 2003. So for only one night I had met Alfredo, we would never meet again. What a lasting impression i got from someone who could have been my cousin, but will forever be my brother. My sympathy goes out to the Silva family.....
Elizabeth Fagan
November 11, 2006
To Mrs. Silva, My son Thaddeus Moore was a member othe the 184th in Baghdad. He still speaks of your husband with high regard. He was not assigned on the mission where your husband died, and he is still regretful that he was not with your husband when he died. Your husband made the ultimate sacrifice, which is partly your sacrifice, too. His sacrifice is so important. This is why we live in freedom. He is not forgotten. He is in the arms of God. May God bless you and your daughter with your beautiful lives as you move forward. In the peace of Christ, sincerely, Elizabeth
Garnet Jenkins
September 15, 2006
Remembering Sgt. Alfredo B. Silva, on the anniversary of the day he gave his life for our country, with a Multitude of Thanks for his Service and Dedication to our Country and for Freedom.
May Alfredo rest in God's Loving Care and know that he will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
May God's Grace and Comfort, continue to be with his family.
From the sister of a Fallen young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam. KIA~1967.
Those we love remain with us, for love itself lives on...
And cherished memories never fade, Because a loved one's gone....
Those we love can never be, more than a thought apart....
For as long as there is memory, They'll live on in the heart.
ROBYN GARSIDE
June 24, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR DAUGHTER. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Marco Esparza
May 25, 2006
I met Alfredo when we played Softball in Tijuana, he was a very bright young guy who was very dedicated to all the things he did.
I remembered him as a good friend and a good teammate. Wherever you are Boy, God bless your soul and I see you whenever the Great One takes me.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 14, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Silva family in the loss of Alfredo. I did not know Alfredo, but my heart is broken and I am sadden for your loss of such a fine young man and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Ivan Barajas
January 15, 2006
Hey Alfredo i'd rather call you boy but i miss you everyday and i wish you were here con el cecy and mariel they miss you very much and they are very sad. God just 1 more month and you would have been here why couldnt god wait but he needed you but i'm happy for you because you are with your sister and father. I'm proud of you and I'm glad that you were my hero I love you boy
-bye-
Ivan Barajas
Quint & Tracy Seckler
November 4, 2005
It was seventeen years ago when my wife and I taught at Calexico High School. There was a young man whom we will never forget and of whom we have spoken of often over the years. "Alfie" Silva was a wonderful young man with a heart of gold. We were terribly saddened to hear of his death and would like to pass on our sincere condolences to his family and friends. Please know that he touched the lives of many. His smile and positive attitude will never be forgotten by us. We truly enjoyed watching him in the classroom as well as on the football field and basketball court. He was a great leader of his teams and of his school. God bless him and his family.
Sincerely, Quint & Tracy Seckler
Emidio Alferez
October 25, 2005
I am sorry for the lost of Sgt.Silva I had the privilege to work with him in San Diego.He was an amazing coworker who will be miss. The world is a biter place without him.My family prayers go out to your family and may God help you relief for your lost.
Yolanda Novela
October 6, 2005
I'm so sorry for your loss. My boyfriend was in Iraq in 2004. My prayers go out to the family.
Richard Trejo
September 25, 2005
my prayers go out the the family on the death of a father ,brother , and a son. nothing could be said on what his death ment only the life that he lead and the people that he touched . he is with god now and looking down at all of us as we think of his life . he will always be in the hearts and minds of all his friends and family
Laurie Sahagun
September 23, 2005
I am the niece of Danny and Patricia Sahagun. My thoughts are with all of you in this time of sorrow.
Virginia Williams
September 23, 2005
Even though we have never met, I wanted to share a poem with you.
You see I lost my only son when he was one month away from his 22nd birthday. That was in 1980. I know the pain and the sorrow that you feel.
I know in time the awful hurting inside of you will heal. I know right now it’s hard to Imagine that life can even go on. I can’t imagine anything worse then losing a child.
I am a Christian and I know that God’s strength saw me and my husband through. There were many days we just didn’t want to go on, but He was always there to help us.
I hope you will not take offence by receiving this. I only mean it to help and
let you know that I care. I will keep you in my prayers.
May God bless you in a very special way, as He took a very special person from this world to be with Him. I thank God every day for men like your son who are willing to fight for our freedom and the freedom of oppressed nations. I know Alfredo has made a difference in every life he has touched. God bless everyone in his family.
Remember, John 3:16 says “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should nor perish but have everlasting life.”
At Death of a Child
“I’ll lend you for a little while
A child of mine,” He said.
“For you to love the while he lives
And mourn when he is dead.
It may be six or seven years, or
Twenty two or three,
But will you ’til I call him back,
Take care of him for Me?
He’ll bring his charms to gladden you,
And should his days be brief,
You’ll have his lovely memories
As solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.
I’ve looked this wide world over
In my search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd life’s lane,
I have selected you.
Now will you give all your love,
Nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate me when I come to call
To take him back again?”
I fancy that I heard them say,
“Dear Lord, Thy will be done.
For all the joy this child shall bring,
The risk of grief we’ll run;
We’ll shelter him with tenderness,
We’ll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we’ve known
Forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for him,
Much sooner then we’ve planned,
We’ll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand.”
-Edgar Albert Guest
Eileen Sahagun
September 21, 2005
I am the niece of Danny and Patricia Sahagun. They spoke of Alfredo with such high regard. I am incredibly sorry for your loss. He will always be a remarkable soldier fighting for freedom.
Kimberly Salas
September 21, 2005
My husband is also in Baghdad, Iraq with the 184, he served with Alfredo and admired him very much, he is so saddened by this great loss. Our family is sending love and prayers to the Silva family. I was fortunate enough to meet Sgt. Silva last year at the airport when I was picking up my husband for Christmas, shortly before the guys deployed to Iraq. He was so kind and I remember tears in my eyes when I saw Alfredo with his family. He loved his wife and children so much. I hope they can find peace and comfort knowing how much he loved them.
Grace Marques-Schmehl
September 21, 2005
My husband is in Baghdad serving with C co. 1-184 Inf.. Our family's thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Silva family. We are so sorry for your loss.
Oscar & Coffee Larkin
September 21, 2005
To the family of Mr Silva, my condolences to you.We lost our love one in April 05 so I can feel your pain. May god bless you all
Jose Caudillo
September 21, 2005
God Bless He Who Is A Peace Keeper. From Spc.4 Caudillo 1/184 ASSLT.
Eileen and Bill Jeker
September 20, 2005
Our sincere deepest condolences are extended to the family of another fallen hero from two very grateful Americans. Alfredo, may you rest in peace.
Kyle McManus
September 20, 2005
I work w/ Alfredo's cousin and felt like he was a part of our office. Cindy would often talk about him and is so proud of her cousin. Your sacrifice goes beyond words and I am so sorry for your loss. I can only hope you feel a sense pride and honor during this difficult period.
Charrisa Alves
September 20, 2005
I am so very sorry for your loss. My husband is out of the same unit in modesto, ca. There are no words that can make your pain any less, so i will just say thank you to your family and husband for sacrificing so much for our country. Your family will be in my prays. God Bless you. Charrisa Alves
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