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for Charles Oakes
Asa and Joy Lockhart
July 13, 2007
Joy and I only met Chuck one time, but the humor and wit noted in other entries was certainly evident that day. To Jody and his family, we extend our sympathy.
alise higgins
July 9, 2007
chuck is one of those energies that no matter how far away he might be from you - even in another space - he is right there with you when you need to hear his words, when he lends a sympathetic ear, when he puts himself out there for you to be you, and when he makes you laugh so hard you pee your pants. my thoughts and prayers to your family chuck.
Barbara and Jim Hayden
July 9, 2007
The Hayden's were fortunate enough to go on the Mediterrean Cruise with Chuck and Jody two years ago and will always remember Chuck's wit and fun-loving spirit. The friendship continued through email jokes. Our deepest condolences to Jody and to all of Chuck's family.
Marshall Baker
July 9, 2007
I've known Chuck and Jody since the "DC Days"........Chuck was always quck with a quote, fast with a joke, and a genuine person to be with - either at dinner or just to chat over a drink. He will be missed mightily
Gino Tabet
July 9, 2007
My deepest sympathies to Jody and to all of Chuck's family. I knew Chuck from Jody. Chuck was a great man. God rest his soul.
Jose Woo
July 5, 2007
I met Chuck and Jody when they first moved to San Diego. "Chuckster" was witty, kind, and a GREAT listener. He was Jody's rock, and they complemented each other greatly. Chuck and Jody were lucky to have each other and were lucky enough to know it. Children speak volumes about their parents and Chuck's daughters were ladies through and through. I am honored I had the privilege to meet him, I am a better person for it. Thank You Chuck and Godspeed!
Bernie Oakes
July 3, 2007
The Passing Parade:
Charles, was named after his maternal grandfather, Charles Wittwer. He inherited many of the traits of his grandfather and enjoyed traveling, being with friends, and watching the growth and development of his daughters with great love and pride. The pioneering spirit of his grandparents (They participated in the great Oklahoma land opening) was evident in my brother. He designed and built the family home at 7200 Peninsula Drive and was at his finest when "pioneering" new residence designs and seeing the concept through to completion.
Charles was my brother and continuing the march in this parade of life will not be the same without him. He will be sorely missed.
Bernie & Billie
Roxy Roberson
July 2, 2007
To Those I Love
If I should ever leave you,
Whom I love
To go along the silent way. . .
Grieve not.
Nor speak of me with tears.
But laugh and talk of me
As if I were beside you there.
(I'd come. . .I'd come,
Could I but find a way!
But would not tears and
And grief be barriers?)
And when you hear a song
Or see a bird I loved,
Please do not let the thought of me
Be sad. . .for I am loving you
Just as I always have. . .
You were so good to me!
There are so many things
I wanted still to do. . .
So many things I wanted to say
to you. . . Remember that
I did not fear. . . It was
Just leaving you
That was so hard to face.
We cannot see beyond. . .
But this I know:
I loved you so. . .
'twas heaven here with you!
Judy Oakes
July 1, 2007
What wonderful memories of Chuck and Traverse City and our home on Peninsula Dr. He was a treasured friend, a good father, and will be missed alot.
Carlos Gonzales & Family
June 30, 2007
Our deepest and most heart felt condolences to you Jody and all those that were close to and loved Chuck. He was unalloyed delight.
Yizzie Foster-Nolan
June 29, 2007
Jody,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during what must be a very difficult time for you. Chuck was a great person who always had a smile for you and had great stories to share. Chuck will certainly be missed but not forgotten as his memory will live on forever with you, his family and friends. Our sympathies to Jody and Chuck's family. Love, Yizzie, Sean and Will
Richard Black
June 29, 2007
Having summered near "TC" we instantly hit it off with both Jody & Chuck when we met them in San Diego. Chuck, we love you! Richard and Sergio, Mexico
Penny Paulley
June 29, 2007
Dear Bernie, I met Charles years ago with your mom and my mom. He was talented and fun and a very nice guy.....much like you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I miss seeing you. Take care Love, Penny
Jackie, Pat and Caz Popiela
June 29, 2007
Our heartfelt sympathies to Jody, Melissa and Courtney. We have only known Chuck a short time, but the times we shared were joyful and memorable. He made it feel like we were instant family, with his great smile, welcoming hugs and wonderful sense of humor! He certainly knew how to hold court! We will miss him greatly.
Ray and Rita Astani
June 29, 2007
We feel fortunate that we had the opportunity to get to know and spend time with Chuck. His hospitality will never be forgotten. He was a wonderful person and a pleasure to be around. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of his family and friends.
Ray Ponce
June 29, 2007
p.s. My dearest Chuck, please give a hug to my beloved Philippe!
Ray Ponce'
June 29, 2007
I dont know where I would be had not had the support of Chuck and Jody 2 1/2 years ago. They supported me through a very difficult time in my life. When I got word of Chuck' s passing my heart was broken. What a beautiful and radiant human being, his lovelight will be missed! My condolences to Jody and to Chuck's immediate and extended family.
David Murphy
June 28, 2007
Chuck was one of our dearest friends. We will cherish the fond memories, especially the trips we took together. We will miss all of his crazy stories and funny emails. He was a true friend.
Love,
Dave and Mike
Jim Groya
June 28, 2007
It seemed like yesterday (not 28 years ago) when I first met Chuck and Jody at 7200 Peninsula Dr. in Traverse City. We shared many cocktails, laughs and stories the four years I shared that same address! I feel like I lost a relative not just a friend! My deepest sympathies to Jody and to all of Chuck's family! He truly was a beautiful person whom I admired and looked up to! He will be missed!
Jim Groya
Don & Carole LaRuffa
June 28, 2007
Chuck was a good friend and we shared many enjoyable interactions with him and our family. All of our children have fond memories of Chuck as they were growing up.
We will remember him often.
Barbara Durbin
June 28, 2007
Chuck was my Uncle and provided me with a life time of laughter,love, jokes and memories. His heart was always open, his generosity abundant and his list of friends endless. He will remain a cherrished person in my life always. My heartfelt sympathy to Jody, Courtney, Melissa, Bernie, judy and all who loved him.
Barbara
Experiencing the magic of Macchu Picchu
June 28, 2007
Jody Locke
June 28, 2007
It is hard to believe that I have lost my best friend, my confidant, my coach and my mentor. I just hope you are in a happier place with a double Scotch and a cigarette.
Melissa Oakes Pariseau
June 28, 2007
Love ya, mean it!
Mel
John Steve Adler
June 28, 2007
My sincerest condolences to the family and friends of Chuck. I was a classmate in Traverse City and remember him well. I always thought of Chuck when I passed the home he designed for his mother on the peninsula.
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