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Judy Bryant
September 26, 2005
Dear Heather, I miss you and will always remember you at every girls night. I can't believe it is one year. We are looking at your picture right now. I'll drink a glass of merlot to your memory.
And, I'll light the candle you gave me. Love, Judy
Tony Asano
January 29, 2005
Dearest Heather,
We had been searching for you for quite some time. Only until today that we heard of the news from your old room mate Jason. We are deeply saddened because you were truly the most awesome stylist with the biggest heart and most heartfelt welcome everytime I came for my appointment. We will always love and remember you! I know you are with all the angels in heaven; bet they're happy now that they'll look twice as beautiful because the have an awesome stylist always available!
We Love You Always,
Tony, Leonor and Family
Peggy Fainelli
November 10, 2004
Dearest Heather:
I called you last Sunday night to see how you were doing. I was shocked and saddened to hear what Brent had to say when he answered your cell phone. I hope you realize just how much you mean to me. The things we shared in our many candid conversations were so very special. One of the reasons I hated leaving San Diego was that I knew I would never find someone as talented as you with a salon where one could have "lap visits" from Hercules and Leo. You always made me feel so beautiful - both inside and out. I'm so thankful we kept in touch after I saw you this past May. It was so nice to finally meet Gary that day, and I will always cherish my last huge hug from you when I left.
"Into each life some tears must fall; our hearts may sometimes break, and sorrows come to one and all, for all must give and take. God never leaves us hopeless; he listens to each prayer, and when we're filled with peacefulness, an Angel has been there.
Heather, you were a real "Earth Angel" to so many people. I hope you took your appointment book - I feel better now knowing I'll be able to make my standing "5 week appointments" with you some day.
I love and miss you! I know you're in the comfort of God's and your grandmother's arms.
Cordelia Mendoza
November 7, 2004
Oh, sweet, beautiful Heather, how to put it all in words? I feel honored to have been your client and friend and I will always remember our lively conversations, your realistic attitude and your special skill for remembering details of other peoples lives! You lived and laughed hard, felt deeply, and loved passionately. Right now I feel confident there's an angel watching over us, an angel with golden locks of hair and a radiant smile that shines down on all of us.
Cordelia
Karen & Alyssa Lammers
October 27, 2004
Dear Heather and family,
We were deeply saddened when we heard the news about Heather. We only knew her a little over a year but she was such an inspiration for myself and my 12 year old daughter, Alyssa. She always made us laugh and really think about what's important. We will always remember her smile and miss the special "lessons" she had with Alyssa, as well as her wonderful hair designing. We will miss her always. May you find comfort in knowing that her wonderful spirit will live forever in our hearts and heaven above.
Lovingly,
Karen and Alyssa Lammers
Christina Hoeffs
October 15, 2004
Heather,
I know you never realized how important you were to so many. You had so much value and worth, a beautiful person inside and out. I will miss my four-hour appointments in which we laughed and cried together. I will always remember the things we talked about, the values and what is important in life. I will miss you so very much, your smile, the 80's music, the star gossip and latest trends, not to mention when you loved to give me "Rock Star" hair. I will miss everything, fun times and serious times. I am sorry you were hurting but I do understand. I will think of you always and remember your soul in heaven. I am blessed to have had you in my life all these years. Rest in peace my dear friend.
Christina
Caryn Harris
October 12, 2004
Dear Heather,
I pray that you have found peace and comfort in heaven. You were a good person with a big heart. I always appreciated your hair salon talents and our conversations about love and life.
You will be missed Heather.
Your client and friend,
Caryn
Beverly Twitty
October 11, 2004
Dear Heather,
I spoke with your brother today and received the news. I can only pray that you are at peace now and that your troubles have passed.
You rescued me and my hair 4 years ago when I was a lost transplant from the east coast. Your interest in my life, thoughts and opinions were always appreciated and proved your caring for others. I will truly miss our conversations and having either Leo or Hercules on my lap while you did my hair.
Please know that your talents were appreciated. The kindness that you showed my boys when I unexpectedly had to to bring them to an appointment meant a lot to me and you especially touched Miles with your interest in his life.
Gary, Heather loved you deeply and so much wanted a life with you and a family. I hope you find comfort knowing that she is finally with her loving God and grandmother.
I will miss you Heather.
Beverly Twitty, client and friend
Gary Cawthon
October 5, 2004
Heather... ... You were bigger than life. I pray you finally Get It. I know Heaven's an even better place with you in it. I'm a better person for having known and loved you.
-Gary-
Jim Wehking
October 5, 2004
Cindy, Both Bonita and I are Praying for you. May God bless and shine his light on you in this time of your loss. We are both so sorry.--- JIM
Brian Rizzi
October 5, 2004
Heather, For the few years you were cutting my hair and we became good friends, I am lucky for and will always cherish. I will remember you as a good, funloving, bighearted, open and inviting person. A woman who made connections with people's souls. You did with mine during that time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.
christa turner
October 2, 2004
Heather, you will be missed and you have touched many lives. You were always seeking answers which I hope you have now found. I know in my heart of hearts that you have.
Susan McMilliln
October 2, 2004
My dearest Heather-
I just read the paper today and learned of your passing. I will miss you terribly. We always had the best talks and I cherished your wisdom and your lively spirit. I know you are with God and your much loved Grandma. I'm sure Leo and Herc miss you but are happy and safe with Gary. They are turely the children you always longed to have. I only met you once Gary and it was so evident you made her so happy. I met you once also Cindy; at Heathers, and I'm sure you know she will be missed by all. God Bless her whole family.
Joan Smith
October 1, 2004
Dear Gary & Family,
I just recently learned of Heather's
passing. I am so very sorry for your loss. Heather had been doing my hair for several years. I will
miss her greatly. We had many
personal conversations together.
I admired her boldness and independence. She spoke her mind and did not care what others thought
about her views. I know you are
suffering a great loss. She had
very strong faith and I'm sure she
is very her beloved grandmother now.
God Bless you.
Joan Smith
Kathy Norman
September 30, 2004
Dear Brad,
Mike and I are so very sorry for the loss of your daughter Heather. May your love and memories of her help you through this difficult time. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We love ya Brad!!
Mike and Kathy Norman
Laurie Michelson
September 28, 2004
Dearest Brad,
I want you to know that I am so blessed by the love and care you've given me over all the years we've known each other. I can still see your sweet face and feel your warm hug when you came to support me when my mom died. I only hope I can give back to you now in your time of need. I know you're already in God's hands and that your faith will see you through. Also, please know that I will be there if you need ANYTHING. I'm honored to be in your life and to share any burden with you. Your life and your courage during adversity and sadness are something I always look to when I struggle myself. I can believe in God's power to comfort and to give peace because I could see it in your eyes on Saturday. God Bless you and your family, and especially your dear daughter, Heather. I love you.
Laurie
Karen Amato
September 26, 2004
Dear Heather, You will be missed in our neighborhood. In ways you were like a sister.I'm happy atleast I saw you before you left,you looked so pretty. Prayers for you, Gary, and your family. God Bless. Karen A.
Roz Hirst
September 25, 2004
Dear Cindy, You are in my heart and prayers. I am sorry about your loss.
Sincerely, Roz Hirst
Allison Yost
September 25, 2004
Gary, I only met you once with Heather. I wanted to let you know how sad it was to hear the news. Heather and I had a few "deep" meaningful talks, and I hope that I always left her feeling "up" and encouraged. We, the neighbors and myself, expected Heather to just be another one of the "gals" in the neighborhood, enjoying our girls nights. She only made it to one. I have a picture of all of us and will bring it down to you when the time is right. I still can't believe she is gone, but never to be forgotten. May God rest her soul.
Allison Yost
Angela DePalo
September 25, 2004
Dear Heather,
How I will miss you and our lively conversations! I don't think you fully realized the wisdom you possessed. May happy memories replace the sadness in your family's heart!
With heartfelt condolences to your family...
Mike Costa
September 24, 2004
Heather...we will miss you as you take your place in God's kingdom, looking back on how many people you touched with your light. Knowing you, the Lord's hair is already the best it has ever looked.
We are better people for having known you...
Muriel Baron
September 24, 2004
Brad and Family--
My heart and prayers go out to you as you endure your loss. Remember that God is very near to you.
Muriel
Cora Costa
September 24, 2004
May god bless you and your family. You will be missed by many.
Holly Hurwitz
September 24, 2004
Dear Cindy,
I am so very sorry for your loss.
My thoughts of sympathy go out to you and your family...Love Holly
Indy Newsom
September 24, 2004
Dear Gary and Family.
Words can not express the sorrow that I am feeling for you at this time. Heather was such a bright light in my life--I just loved seeing her and sharing with her during my salon visits. I always thought of her often and her funny statements. Please take care of Hercules and Leo--I do know that she loved her pets.
God Bless.
Bonnie Tarantino
September 24, 2004
Dear Cindy,
My heart is breaking for you and your family. I will always remember Heather's wonderful smile and personality. I feel certain that my Mom was waiting for her in heaven with outstretched arms, welcoming her home to "the great bethel on high". Our love and prayers are with you. Bonnie and family
Ronda Tillman
September 24, 2004
Dear Gary,
There aren't words to express how sorry we are. You and Heather's family are in our thoughts and prayers.
With Love, Friendship & Deepest Sympathy,
Ronda & Chuck Tillman
Marianne Nelson
September 23, 2004
Dear Cindy - Our hearts go out to you and your family. The loss of Heather is such a shock-we (since losing Jason) understand the turmoil of feelings you are going through and you are in our prayers. Take it EASY on yourself-5 minutes at a time-I will never forget Heather bootin it down the soccer field! Our Love-Ed and Marianne Nelson
Bill & Diane Keltner
September 23, 2004
Heather: How you will be missed by the Keltner family is beyond words. You were always one of my all time favorite Bobbysox players & friend. Love Always Bill,Diane,Beth & Shanna.
Kathie & Stephen Monroy
September 22, 2004
Dear Brad (Nino), Cindy and Brother Brent,
How you all will miss your Heath-o-Annie. So many great memories to hold dear.....the sad times will fade away forever.
I know how much you love your daughter and sister......and now, Heather knows how much God loves her too.
We are so sorry for your loss and send our most sincere sympathies to you and your families.
Love, Kathie and Stevie
Katia Bayardi
September 22, 2004
Dear Heather:
Thank you for all the love that you showed me when I moved to San Diego from Mexico. You were so sweet , friendly and nice with me. I enjoyed the times we had together. I thank God for having allowed me to know you. I am praying for you and I hope that you are at peace. With love, your neighbor Katia. @->----
Frank Constantino
September 22, 2004
Cindy,
My Sympathy and prayers are with you and Ray.
Frankie
Barbara & Jim Jenkins
September 22, 2004
Cindy, Brent & Family
We both send our most sincere condolances and sympathy to all who supported Heather. Our hearts are with you in this difficult time.
Karen Bond
September 22, 2004
Dearest Heather,
You were so loved by all who knew you. Your energy, talent and humor made each day an event when it included you. During the past nine years you had become a much loved member of my family. Your wisdom helped raised my two teenagers. You touched each of us to our very soul.
The world will miss your light.
May God bless Gary and your family.
love, Karen
Stefanie Dussault
September 22, 2004
"Mojo Queen"
The world is a much less colorful place without you in it, and your absence is felt as deeply as the profound impression you made on so many.
You lived your life on your own terms, and so, I suppose, it could be no different in the end. You were a whirlwind of passion and a vibrant storm of enthusiasm in your quest for meaning. I hope you have found it… and are at peace.
Know that you are loved, and that you will be missed.
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The Unknown Shore (by Elizabeth Clark Hardy)
Sometime at evening when the tide is low,
I shall slip my mooring and sail away,
With no response to the friendly hail
Of kindred craft in the busy bay.
In the quiet hush of the twilight pale,
When the night stoops down to embrace the day,
And the voices call and the waters flow;
Sometime at eve when the tide is low,
I shall slip my mooring and sail away.
Through purple shadows that darkly trail
O'er the ebbing tide of the unknown sea,
I shall fare me away with a dip of sail
And a ripple of water to tell the tale
Of a lonely voyager sailing away
To mystic isles where at anchor lay
The craft of those who have gone before
O'er the unknown sea to the unknown shore
A few who have watched me sail away
Will miss my craft from the busy bay;
Some loving souls that my heart holds dear,
In silent sorrow will drop a tear,
But, I shall have peacefully furled my sail
In moorings sheltered from storm and gale,
And greet family and friends who have gone before
O'er the unknown sea to the unknown shore.
Terry Hall
September 22, 2004
Cindy, Ray and family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss of Heather. My Sympathy and Prayers to you and your family.
Terry
Kendra Gaines
September 22, 2004
Cindy,
Val Collins is a dear friend and co-worker. I feel as if I know you through her and want to extend my sincere sympathy and prayers. I know you're surrounded by love and friendship and hope that you're comforted by these in some small way.
Sincerely,
Deborah Clem
September 22, 2004
Dearest Heather-
This world will be less humorous without you. In one word Heather, you can be accurately described as FABULOUS.
Your energy was like a beacon of blinding light that invigorated your surroundings within a mile radius. Be in peace Heather, and know that you are loved here on this earth.
Deborah Clem
Valerie Aiello
September 22, 2004
Dear Dee,
I am so sorry about your loss. I will keep Heather and your family in my prayers.
Love & God bless you,
Valerie
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