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DOWLING, JOHN JOSEPH August 26, 1921 to Sept. 9, 2006 John Joseph Dowling passed away peacefully, surrounded by his family, on September 9, 2006 at the age of 85. He was born August 26, 1921 in Waterbury, CT to John and Hannah Dowling of County Kerry Ireland. John served twenty-four and a half years in the United States Navy, with tours of duty on the USS Walke, USS Detroit, USS General Anderson, USS Hamul and others. He provided service during WWII and Korea. In January of 1943, while stationed at his gun position on the USS Detroit, John was swept overboard by a huge wave into the Bering Sea. He thought that this was the end; his life would come to a close in the freezing waters. However, this was not to be. The USS Indianapolis was cruising in the Detroit's wake. They had picked up the Detroit's radio call for a sailor overboard. As the Indianapolis approached John, its seamen shouted for him to catch a line they threw. In spite of freezing fingers and rough sea, John was able to grab it and hold onto it as he was hauled toward the Indianapolis's hull. The relief and excitement for a successful save could only be matched by the humor of John's understated reply to their expression of concern. He said, "I'm okay!" just before collapsing in a faint on the deck. After retirement from active duty in the Navy, John joined the Naval Fleet Reserve and worked as a systems analyst at North Island Naval Base in Coronado. John was a founder and active member of St. Columba Parish in San Diego. He was a member of the men's club, seniors club, and operated the kitchen for many years during Bingo and Friday fish fry. John was also a member of the World War II Memorial Association in Washington, DC, Ancient Order of Hibernians, Knights of Columbus, Veterans of Foreign Wars-Post 3788, American Legion, The ARC of San Diego, Special Olympics of Southern California, and Seniors' Coffee Time at Tang and Chun's donut shop. John is preceded in death by sons, John Joseph and Michael Patrick. He is survived by wife Frances, children, Dolores (Brian McPherson), Patrick (Theresa), and Maureen; daughter-in-law Ann Sofi Dowling; grandchildren, Ylva (Karl Boske), Robin, Sheena, Briana, Colin Dowling, Erin Kipple and Jamie McPherson; great-grandchildren Klara and Fabian Boske. John summed up his philosophy on life in the following way, "I am not looking for riches or fame, but to live a simple life, to treat others well, to love and be loved." That he did, that he was. Though he has passed from our time, his loving and generous spirit is timeless and remains in our hearts. A Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Saturday, September 16, 2006 at 11:00 a.m., St. Columba Parish, 3327 Glencolum Drive, San Diego, CA 92123. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of John Dowling to The ARC of San Diego, 9575 Aero Drive, San Diego, CA 92123. Please sign the guest book at obituaries.uniontrib.com

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune from Sep. 13 to Sep. 14, 2006.

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Cesarina Berrigan

September 26, 2006

I still remember his visit to Blessed Sacrament School while Maureen was principal. He struck me as a vigorous and special individual. I am all too sure that he has left his mark in every place he graced with his presence. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of grief.

Tom, Melissa, Nick, Caitlin & Adam O'Donnell

September 18, 2006

Mrs Dowling and family, We were so sorry to hear of your loss. What a great man!!!! Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mildred Scarber

September 18, 2006

Fran-

I was shocked to hear of John's death. Stay strong for your family.

jackie davis

September 15, 2006

OK Uncle Bud, you win!

We'll root for the Chargers and Padres unless they are playing the Patriots or Red Sox!!!



Love,

Jodie, Marybeth, Jeff, Judy, Jackie, Brian, Jessica, Matt & Chris

Tony, Stephanie, Ian and Luke Trolinger

September 15, 2006

Dear Fran, Dolores and family,



The world is a lesser place with the passing of Mr. Dowling. He was a great man, with a great heart, and an even greater sense of humor!

Please know our prayers are with you and your family.

Karen and Marion Hughes

September 15, 2006

Mrs. Dowling

You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Karleen Ohlendorf

September 14, 2006

Fran and Family,

I just wanted you to know how sad my daughters and I were to hear of John's passing. He always brought smiles to our faces and loved to tease Summer and Autumn. They both told me they will never forget him. He always had a smile and you couldn't help but smile yourself when you were around him no matter how badly your day may have been going. He will be dearly missed by all of us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. With much love, Karleen, Summer and Autumn Ohlendorf

Kathy Vaughan

September 14, 2006

Dear Fran and Family,



I was very sorry to hear of the passing of John. I remember him when I was a young child and attended St. Columba Catholic Church along with my parents Bob and Jean Rolli. He was a very dear, sweet, kind man and always had a smile on his face. I know you will miss him very much. My thoughts and prayers will be with you during this difficult time. God Bless You Always...



Kathy Vaughan

Lorrie Rhoades

September 14, 2006

Dear Fran and Family:

Chuck and I were deeply saddened to hear of the death of your beloved husband and father. We firmly believe he shares a high place in heaven with your two sons and God our Father. Regretfully, we will be out of town for the memorial Mass on Saturday, but will be there in spirit and prayer. May beautiful memories of a beautiful man comfort you during these difficult days. In friendship and love, Chuck and Lorrie Rhoades

Marcia, Tom, Melanie and Matthew Weir

September 13, 2006

Dear Fran, Delores, Patrick, Maureen and families,



I was so sorry to hear of John's passing. I can't tell you what a great loss this is to not only your family but for the community, your church and the many, many friends John has made over the years.



I was so young when our families first came together that I'm not even sure how old I was. In my life the Dowlings were just always there. Our families could always count on each other when we most needed any extra support.



I look back with so many fond memories of John. I hope that during your time of sorrow, you too will be able to recall many memories that put a smile on your face. I always remember John with a smile and I'm sure he's smiling down on all of you now.



May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of His hand.

Kathy Azevedo

September 13, 2006

I worked with John for years in the Supply Department at North Island. I always looked forward to St. Pat's Day when John would be decked out in his green from head to foot. He always had a pleasant smile and a cheery "Hello". He will be missed.

Sabrina Hahnlein

September 13, 2006

My heart breaks over the loss of such an incrediable man!.. Fran and family, you all know how lucky you are to have had such a loving, generous and wonderful man in your lives!! From the moment we met him he made us feel welcomed and like family. He had a gift like no other. His memory will never be forgotten in our hearts and minds. Rest in peace John.

God bless you all now and always,

Sabrina, Kimberly, Kevin and Kathryn Hahnlein

Tom

September 13, 2006

So sorry for your loss.

Amy Jorgensen

September 13, 2006

I will always remember Mr. Dowling as having a smile on his face and being so friendly. Years ago during recess at St. Columba, you could always count on him to give you donuts or nachos or some sort of treat... it was the highlight of our day! He was one of a kind and he will always be remembered in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with the Dowling Family.

Cindy Cullins

September 13, 2006

Fran and family,



I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Cindy-St. Columba Bingo

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