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Lawrence "Butch" Hoffman

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Lawrence Hoffman Obituary

Lawrence "Butch" Hoffman ESCONDIDO -- On Saturday, December 27, 2008, Lawrence "Butch" Hoffman, 49, beloved husband and father, passed away surrounded by his wife and three children in ICU at Scripps Green-La Jolla due to complications following a bone marrow transplant. Butch was born and raised in North Dakota. Upon graduation from UND with his degree in mechanical engineering, he was recruited by General Dynamics and came to San Diego in 1983. He worked for GD for 12 years. Thereafter, worked at Pyxis Corp. (Cardinal Health) as a manager of engineering. Scouting was a very important part of his life, as was becoming Scoutmaster of his son's Troop (638). Scouting allowed him to pursue his passion for the outdoor locales, such as Half Dome/Yosemite and Havasupi, while instilling this appreciation for nature in his scouts. An avid gardener, woodworker, chef, are but a few of his abundant talents and interests - a true renaissance man! Butch lived his life with a strong faith and complete trust in God. When people remember Butch, they will recall his cheerful manner, willingness to help, incredible work ethic, knowledge, wisdom and above all, that smile! We are numb and speechless at his passing, but know that God's plan reigns. He is survived by his wife of 21 years; Rebecca; children, Anthony, Annie and Molly; parents, Boyd and Helen Haugen; sisters, Joan Mondry, Mary Hoppe; and brother, John Hoffman. We would like to thank the medical team, nurses and staff at Scripps Green, three north BMT unit--it was quite a journey for us all. The support of our family, friends, and church community continues to be a blessing. Rest in peace Butch. There will be a viewing held between 4 - 8 p.m., with Rosary said at 7p.m, Thursday, January 1, at Alhiser-Comer Mortuary in Escondido. A funeral service will be held at 10 a.m., Friday, January 2, 2009, at the Church of the Resurrection in Escondido, with burial to immediately follow at Oak Hills Cemetery in Escondido. Sign the Guest Book online obits.nctimes.com

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Published by North County Times on Jan. 1, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Lawrence Hoffman

25 Entries

Anita Warren

May 27, 2009

Becky,
I am so sorry to just now hear about Butch's passing. I read it in the yearbook of all places. I rarely go to Resurrection because the kids go to FCC, so unfortunately haven't seen you. I know you are a strong family of Faith and this will pull you through. I am sure Annie's graduation on Thursday will be bittersweet! If you just need someone to talk to call me: 760-745-3745.

Susan Lockwood

May 9, 2009

My family and I met Butch through the Boy Scouts and through the Church of the Resurrection. I feel that three of Butch's best attributes were his incredible smile, his kind heart, and his selfless gift of service to his family, Scout troop and church community. He was a terrific role model for all the young men and women he came into contact with.

When our older son, Tyler, had his Eagle Scout Board of Review in 2006, Butch just happened to serve on his panel. Tyler was in a different troop than our younger son, Garett, and Butch did not know Tyler; therefore it was appropriate for him to serve on Tyler's panel. When our younger son, Garett achieved his own Eagle Scout rank in the latter part of 2008, Butch conducted his Scoutmaster's Conference. I believe it was the last Eagle candidate Scoutmaster's Conference that Butch participated in; so, Garett feels especially honored to have Mr. Hoffman's signature in his Scout book.

I see Butch in his children. His legacy lives on through them. Becky, Anthony, Annie and Mollie -- Please know the Lockwood family is here for you. Your friendship is very important to us.

And finally, may we all find comfort in knowing that Butch is with his Lord Savior, Jesus Christ, and other loved ones who have gone before. Butch is most likely walking, skipping and dancing along those streets of gold as promised in God's word while lighting the way with his beautiful smile.

Anthony Hoffman

April 13, 2009

Dad, soo many memories of us hanging out on campouts, the long drives getting there and me being your co-pilot as the other scouts talked in the back. The late nights watching movies. The endless yardwork and other projects where I learned pretty much everything I know today.

Life really changed last year, in one word, scary. I know you are in Heaven walking with Jesus and helping him out.

I love you oh so much, you were the ideal father, you taught me everything I know, to appreciate people for who they are and not to judge. To smile and not care what people think. And most of all, to be strong and fear nothing, for it most definitely is all in God's hands.

I Love you Dad! God Bless!

"I remember you like yesterday, and until I'm with you, I'll carry on"
-Switchfoot

Joan Mondry

January 11, 2009

Butch is my oldest younger brother (3 years younger than I). Though our youngest brother, John, told everyone at the funeral meal that I was the "mean older sister," it was only because my mother gave me the responsibility to take care of my brothers and sister so my Dad would not be mad when he came home. Though they may have seen me as "mean" in the years when I was charged with the responsibility to make them behave, I have grown to love them very much over the years. Butch was the one that was always level-headed and the peacemaker. Our whole family is going to miss him so very much. Out of the blue, he would call and leave a funny message on my answering machine. Sometimes he got me before I realized it was him. I was always so happy to hear him say, "Hi, this your brother, Butch." When I heard that, I knew smiles and happiness would ensue. As though he knew time was short, he made extra special effort to contact me in the last couple years before he got sick. When I told him it was good he stayed in touch, he humbly replied, "I try." Yes, Butch will be missed so very much. I always tell people I am so proud of my 2 younger brothers, being engineers, family men, and just all around good people. I am so grateful for the time we spent together in May during his stem cell transplant. I will treasure forever the picture of him, Anthony, and John eating watermelon, smiling ear to ear. I will also remember forever the last walk I had with him around his neighborhood in Escondido the day in May we spent just the 2 of us. Butch was blessed with a wonderful wife and family and they have touched so many lives as evidenced by the huge crowd at his funeral. I'm so glad so many loved my brother, as did I, and I will wait for the day that, God willing, I can see that smile again. God bless all.

Connie Kauffman

January 9, 2009

I worked with Butch at Pyxis/CAH for many years, what a terrific person! He always, always had a big smile on his face. He will be missed by all, I am happy to have had the opportunity to know and work with him.

Gerry Sumabat

January 6, 2009

For 18 yrs, I had one prayer every night. "Bring us home to California where we can be near the people we love." May 29, 2007, Butch Hoffman hired me on as one of his engineers. For the first time in 18 years my family spent Thanksgiving surrounded by those we loved and grew up with. God's hand worked through this noble man to bring my family home and for that I'll always be grateful. Thanks Butch.

Peter Oberg

January 5, 2009

I met Butch at UND in 1980. We both were going for our BSME so we had a lot of Engineering classes together for 2 ½ years, and we slept through several as well. I remember he would wear bib overalls to class and Ace his tests after pulling an all-nighter. As fate sometimes happens we were both hired by General Dynamics Convair in San Diego and started on the same day in 1983. So we decided to rent an apt together and the next year several of us rented the Kensington Manor were Butch met Becky at one of our social get togethers (parties). Our circle of friends he made at Convair during that time is still with us today. So over the years his friends have celebrated Birthdays, Anniversaries, Campouts, Holidays, Thanksgivings, Christmas’s together with him, Becky and the kids. His loss is too big to comprehend. Butch was the Best man at my wedding and the Godfather to my son. The memories and stories on Butch are great because he was such a fun person to be around. And always remember when you played poker with Butch, 3’s and 9’s are wild; you get an extra card with a 4 and don’t try to bluff him. It didn’t work with me. God Bless you Becky, Anthony, Annie and Molly.

Mark Narcy

January 5, 2009

In the past few (5) years that I came to know Butch through the Scouts I know that he has significantly influenced both my son Ian and I in our everyday lives. He had such a passion for life. There are many memories that I will cherish forever and will always remember him. I would dare to say even more than the smile I will remember his charactersitic laugh. Becky, Anthony, Annie, & Molly you are all in the Narcy's thoughts, hearts and prayers.

Shelley Rudolf

January 5, 2009

Dear Becky, Anthony, Annie and Molly: Although we have rarely seen you over the years, the wonderful stories that Kris and John have shared with us make us feel as though you are just as much our family as theirs. We are so sorry to hear of Butch's passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts, hearts and prayers. All of our love,
Shelley Rudolf (Kris's sister)

Tessa Watkins

January 4, 2009

We are all so blessed to have known Butch. He was such a faithful servant of the Lord--through his marriage, family and community. Becky, you and the kids are living legacies of Butch's love and kindness. As a couple you really brought out the best in each other. What a blessing! May you feel God's loving arms around you during this time of transition.
Personally, I will miss the sincerity in his big bear hugs, his strong singing voice, his presence.
I believe a faithful and loving life here on earth is a prelude to an eternity in heaven. If we learn anything from Butch's life let's follow his example and just be nice to each other! Love you,

Bob Ferenc

January 4, 2009

Years ago, Ann and I met Butch through friends at Convair. One of our enduring memories from that time are the weekend campouts at the employee club property. We learned many camping techniques from Butch, including how to build a respectable camp fire, yet keep it under control. As our children grew up, we have been deeply involved with scouting as well, and I'm sure these early campout memories are what brought us there. Becky, our thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids at this time of sorrow. Butch, thanks for the memories, you will be greatly missed by us all.

Lupe

January 4, 2009

My heartfelt sympathy to you cousin Becky, and to your children Anthony, Annie & Molly. May God bless you all in this very difficult time.

Rudy Garcia

January 3, 2009

I came to know Butch two years ago seeing him at church and at the church fiesta with the boy scouts, later I came to find out he was best friends with our former cub scout leader Pete Oberg.

I actually worked at Cardinal (Pyxis) a short time with Butch as well (under the small world category)

I will always carry with me a scene that plays over and over in my minds eye of Butch at our church fiesta. I was leaving the church fiesta after working all day at a games booth and seen Butch still working changing trash liners.

From the Obergs Pete and Deb I knew I wanted my son to join the Resurrection scout troop because of Butch. It was true what the Obergs told me about Butch that he was a good Scout leader and a great God loving man.

With God's Love we can accomplish all things.

I truly believe Butch will be a guide in heaven for us to look to for preserverance. We can pray to God through Butch for strength to preservere.

Coming to know the Hoffman family in these two years have been a blessing they show us all what Love and faith can hold for all of us who believe in Jesus Christ.

God's Love

Sal Guerrero

January 2, 2009

Becky, our thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids. Butch was and is a role model for all husbands and fathers. God Bless.

Marie Rousseau

January 2, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

noemi francia

January 2, 2009

We will miss Mr Hoffman. He was a great and dedicated Scout leader. to his family, may God give you the strenght and love on this difficult days. love joel and noemi

Michelle Blasberg

January 2, 2009

Butch was a man who lived his live morally, ethically and to a high standard. I worked with him for the last 2 years at Cardinal Health and always enjoyed out talks about purchasing vs engineeing. He was my go to guy if I had questions about my fruit trees. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the Hoffman family now and in the months to come.

Phong Tran

January 2, 2009

It is a pleasure knowing Butch, Becky, Anthony, Annie, & Molly. Butch has guided so many scouts. We cannot thank Butch enough for the guidance he had given to our son, Cam. We will miss him very much. We see Christ in Butch. May the Lord be with him. May the Lord give strength to Becky, Anthony, Annie, & Molly.
Cam, Phong, & Cam Jr.

Paul and Sheri Ocampo

January 1, 2009

We will keep the family in our thoughts and prayers during this time. Butch was a wonderful man and he will be greatly missed by all.

Mary Beth Jimenez

January 1, 2009

How Butch Hoffman lived his life should be an example to all of us and our children. He loved his God, his wife & family and his community. A good and decent man that worked hard and loved to laugh. We'll all miss him tremendously & will see his legacy live on in his beautiful children Anthony, Annie & Molly.

Bobbi Lash

January 1, 2009

Butch was truly a wonderful man. I have known Becky most of my life and I know that Butch is the love of her life. I so admire the love and respect they shared. Yes Butch, you will be missed, not only by your beautiful family, but also by so many friends. And, yes, your smile...we will always remember your smile. May God keep you safe in His arms Butch.

Rebecca Hoffman

January 1, 2009

I saw Butch for the 1st time at a party in '84. He was chatting with friends, I didn't know who he was yet, but just like in the movies, I knew he would be my husband. Our 1st date was 8/28/84 and on 4/4/87 we were married. 24 years later, I have memories that make me proud, happy, laugh & cry. "Lorenzo" you are the best part of my life-I love you always--God bless! X0 X0 X0

Linda Wilson

January 1, 2009

I worked with Butch at Pyxis for many years and we often discussed being raised in the midwest and the good times we had growing up. I know Butch touched my life. He was a wonderful human being and respected by all. My heart and prayers go out to the family at this time and I know I will always cherish the memories and having the privilege of knowing and working with Butch.

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