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John Estes Obituary

John Howard Estes John Howard Estes died unexpectedly on June 27, 2020 in San Luis Obispo, just a month shy of his 16th birthday. He was an energetic boy with a heart of gold who struggled in his all-too-short life. John was born in Tver, Russia in July 2004 and was placed in his parents' loving arms in April 2005. He started his new life in West Point, New York, and moved to San Luis Obispo, with his family in December 2006. He attended Los Ranchos Elementary school, where he was identified as a special needs student. He completed second and third grades at Sinsheimer Elementary School before spending the fourth grade at the county-run Chris Jespersen School. John attended a residential treatment program at the Intermountain School in Helena, Montana for 5th and 6th grades and transferred to the Heritage School in Provo, Utah for 7th and 8th grades. John returned home to San Luis Obispo in 2018 where he attended Morro Bay High School in their therapeutic learning classroom for six months before transferring to the Chris Jespersen School. John played AYSO soccer for two seasons in SLO and was an active member of the First Presbyterian Church youth group. He loved playing video games, shooting baskets with his friends, and boogie-boarding, hiking and bicycling with his family. John loved animals, especially horses and dogs. He was fearless when meeting strangers, incredibly sentimental, and very empathetic to those in pain. John is survived by his mother Peggy Estes, his father Allen Estes, and his sister Jacqueline Estes. They all miss John terribly and hope that he finds the peace in the next world that he could not find in this one. John's ashes will be interred at Old Mission Cemetery in San Luis Obispo, California. There will be a memorial service at the First Presbyterian Church when conditions allow. In lieu of flowers, donations to the First Presbyterian Church San Luis Obispo or the Family Care Network (FCNI.org) are welcome.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Jul. 12, 2020.

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Ian Matos

February 15, 2022

I went to Heritage with John, he was a close friend and I've been thinking about him a lot lately. He will be missed. I hope he is in a better place.

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wayne Mcneill

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Kristin Drees

July 27, 2020

for the Estes Family,

John will always be a light in our lives. His spirit and sense of humor would light the room! We wish you peace.

the Drees Family
Charlie, Loreley, Friedrich, Kristin & Ostian
Helena, MT

Jim Thomas

July 27, 2020

This news breaks my heart. John was a fun kid to be around and to have in class at Intermountain. He was fun loving, mischievous, eager to learn new things, and loved his sports. His laugh was infectious and he loved jokes and pranks, even if they were at his expense. He made so much improvement in the short time we had him around us, this is such a sad loss. My heart goes out to his family.

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Sienah Pablo

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Marc

July 24, 2020

I met John 1 month ago and he was such a kind hearted person, we played basketball at French park with him a couple days. He talked about how he always wanted to see the world if we could, he was a really good kid and I’m sorry for your loss. All of his friends from the basketball courts miss playing basketball with him.

Andrea Lopez( lopez family)

July 22, 2020

Dearest John
My heart is hurting from this tragic news, we all have fond memories of John playing with the kids on the street of Goldenrod. He came over often to play and have a snack. With tears In my eyes I send my deepest heartfelt prayers to John,Peggy,and Jackie. May John RIP and fly with the angels. You will always remain in our thoughts

Eric Johnson

July 19, 2020

I knew John from Heritage School. We would always play basketball together and talk about anything and everything. He was one of the funniest kids there, always cracking jokes. He was one of my best friends from the moment I got there to the moment I left. Now seeing that he is gone deeply saddens me. I loved that kid like a brother. Never stop trying buddy I love you man.

Benjamin Mikaelian

July 19, 2020

He was a great kid. I lived with him for a little in Utah. Condolences to Johns family. RIP John

Andrea Lopez ( lopezclan)

July 19, 2020

Allison Huegel, Jim Sergi and Lee Sergi

July 19, 2020

Our family is deeply saddened to hear of your loss. We remember John's impish grin and hope you can keep that picture in your hearts. Please accept our family's condolences.

leesung sergi

July 19, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

lee sung sergi

July 19, 2020

he was like a brother to me and we were like almost best friends

Jessica French

July 18, 2020

I had the privilege of John's assistance in serving the 1st Pres congregation last year and was impressed by his energy and work ethic. I was happy to see that he enjoyed being a server, and felt he wanted to look into it further as a work opportunity later. He was eager to help and strived to perform well. My heart is very sad to hear of this unexpected loss. John and his parents will be on my mind. I will remember him very fondly!

Bryan

July 14, 2020

Me and John had ups a downs and he was a great dude he always wanted to hangout with me and my friends and my brother and we also had our backs

Norris Family

July 14, 2020

John was a barrel of energy. He and Aaron were church buddies. They had lots of fun together. We send of sympathy and peace at this hard time. Peace to John in the hands of heaven.

barbara wright

July 13, 2020

Dear Estes family,
My grandson Noah and I were saddened to hear about your son. Noah was a neighbor, and a student with John in P.E. class at Morro Bay High School. He said that he would have enjoyed video gaming with your son. As you said, may he find the peace and smiles in his new Heavenly Home. Kindest regards,
Barbara and Noah Wright

barbara wright

July 13, 2020

Dear Estes family,
My grandson Noah and I read about John. We were both so saddened. Noah told me that John was his neighbor at one time and they both were in the same PE class at Morro Bay High School. He said that he would have loved to played some video games with John. Kindest and gentle regards, Barbara and Noah Wright

Liz Estes

July 12, 2020

Peggy, Allen, and Jackie, thank you for sharing this beautiful obituary for John Howard. Each time I met John, he was full of joy and empathy. I thank God for all the love and care you shared with John. Every day I pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you with comfort. John Howard could have had no other family as committed and loving as you three. As you blessed Johns life, may God bless you and keep you and strengthen your love for one another. Grace + peace.

Marylou Gooden

July 12, 2020

So sorry to read this. John was bright and approached life with such intensity. Heartfelt sympathy to your family.

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