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Lily Jacob Obituary
December 14, 2001 - July 11, 2013
Resident of La Selva Beach
Lily Gail Jacob died Thursday, July 11, 2013. She was 11 years old. Lily unexpectedly passed in less than one day after the entire family was suffering food poisoning while vacationing in Costa Rica. Lily is survived by her parents Sargon Jacob and Juliana Touney Jacob, sisters Summer and Ashley Jacob, maternal grandmother Winifred Touney, fraternal grandparents Martin and Gail Jacob, and 11 uncles, 8 aunts and 30 cousins. She was born in Sacramento, CA on December 14, 2001. At the time of her death she was living in La Selva Beach, CA and attended Valencia and Rio del Mar schools.
Lily was a very bright and happy girl who loved spending time with her family, music, playing the piano, baking, knitting, singing, swimming, reading, and soccer. She was a joyful and active girl. She was an exceptional student and had planned to attend Stanford University when she grew up. Lily had so much pride in herself and tried hard in all that she did. Lily was very grown up and wise for her age, and was an eager and able helper at school and at home. She was a faithful friend and nurturing sister. She had an infectious laugh, a smile and big hug for all. One of the ways she was unique was her many personal relationships with adults (many have told me this). The size of her heart was immeasurable. She was never afraid to stand up for what was right and support those that needed a voice. She was just starting her pathway into becoming a beautiful young woman, with an uncommon amount of both grace and humility. She will be sorely missed by everyone who knew her but especially her two younger sisters and parents. Lily was the best daughter anyone could have dreamed of having and we are thankful to God to have been blessed by her presence for 11 years.
We will never understand this, but take solace in her lack of suffering. She was short changed in time, but the time she had was full. We will miss her always.
A visitation will be held for Lily on Friday, July 19th, 2013 at Benito & Azzaro Pacific Gardens Chapel, 1050 Cayuga St. in Santa Cruz from 6-8 pm. The Funeral Mass will be on Saturday, July 20th at Resurrection Church, 7600 Soquel Dr. in Aptos beginning at 10 am. A Reception will be held after the funeral, at 12:30 pm, at Seascape Resort, 1 Seascape Resort Dr. in Aptos.
Donations can be made to The Lily Gail Jacob Education Fund C/O Assyrian Foundation of America, PO Box 2660 Berkeley, CA 94702 or visit their website, www.assyrianfoundation.org.
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Memories and Condolences
for Lily Jacob
Bonnie
July 11, 2025
Sweet Lily,
Please feel all the love being sent to you in Heaven!
Bonnie
July 11, 2023
Lily´s spirit continues to radiate love from the beautiful Heavens.
Douglas Kyle
July 11, 2022
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July 11, 2022
I took some time today to go to school (Rio del Mar Elementary) where Lily was in my class. I checked on a tree there that was planted in her memory. I noted that it looked good and then I gave it a good long drink of water. I still think of Lily whenever I pass this tree on my way to class each day. Lily will never be forgotten and she will always be loved!
Bonnie
July 11, 2022
As time goes by...our loved one´s memories become more precious.
Sweet Lily will forever be loved and missed.
Sydney Ghiglione
July 12, 2019
It's been 6 years since Lily passed, and still every day I miss her dearly. Lily was and still is the best friend I ever had. Memories of our play dates and times spent together still play in my head. Lily was a light of both my life and of all those who she met. I cannot thank God enough for giving me a friend for those 11 years, and for an undying love for this girl. You're with me forever and always Lily, my prayers go out to your family at this hard point of the year. Love you all.
B
July 12, 2014
Forever, and ever your sweet spirit will in the hearts of all.
July 9, 2014
Thinking of you. You are super special Lily.
Your spirit is super strong and powerful. You profoundly influenced the lives of the persons whose lives were connected to yours
Thank you for touching my life.
Love,
Sue Borba
Y Redler
April 24, 2014
Beautiful girl residing in Heaven
Joann Brighi
December 23, 2013
Thinking of you Julie and family...
George Sophia Sargina Victoria Danielle Carella
Sargina Carella
September 22, 2013
Your Grandpa Martin is my mothers 1st cousin Joann Petros (Evon) from Turlock,Ca. I am her daughter Sargina Carella. My mom had just found out in a newsletter about what happened and called me.. I live in Helena, Montana with my husband George, twins Victoria & Danielle and baby Sophia, We all pray for you and your family God Bless you little Angel. Love your Family In Montana
Carellas
Jenny Wiley & Family
September 14, 2013
Our hearts are breaking for Julie and Sargon and Lily's sisters. We remember Lily as a beautiful, sweet girl and as a wonderful big sister. We were fortunate to know Lily and her family at St. Andrew's Preschool and cherish our time together there and at the pool where we would often run into them. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We will always remember beautiful Lily.
Alexis Dequine
August 22, 2013
I miss you lily you were a great friend.
Aaron Meyer
August 22, 2013
Our families hearts are broken. Our thoughts are with you Lily.
Sherrie St. Clair
August 19, 2013
The Jacob Family,
I was so sad to hear of Lily's unexpected passing! I hold you in my thoughts and prayers!
Sarah Legions
August 15, 2013
I did not know Lily, but reading about her and seeing what an exceptional person she was has been very touching. I could not imagine experiencing a loss of a child. I send your family much love and strength during this. She had a huge impact in such a short time.
Colleen
July 30, 2013
What a beautiful angel Lily is.
She was fun to have around especially at school. She was the greatest friend and I will miss her so much
Ashley McLay
July 29, 2013
Christine Ferrero
July 28, 2013
I only knew Lily briefly, but in our short time I enjoyed her in the classroom @ Rio Del Mar. I recall Lily as a great student, nice girl, friendly, anxious to please and help out. I do not know her parents, but as a mother of 2, I send my condolences in this unexplainable loss.
Nora Lacey
July 25, 2013
Dear Martin and family, think of Lily as living in your hearts forever for nothing loved is ever lost; and she was loved so much. My sincere sympathy in your sorrows. Nora Lacey
Rita Lew
July 25, 2013
Lily we don't know each other but today we met at a very special spot. We talked and shared the beauty around you. I shall visit you again. You were so special.
Cindi Naber
July 22, 2013
Our hearts are breaking for Lily's family. Our daughter was fortunate to participate in soccer, basketball and gymnastics with her. We pray for a peace beyond all understanding for her family.
Cindi and McKenna Naber
the Pintner family
July 22, 2013
We will always remember Lily as a lovely girl and a great basketball teammate - Amy and Sophie had loads of fun this past season playing on Lily's and Summer's team. Our hearts go out to your family; our thoughts are with you.
Jennifer Nowark
July 22, 2013
I'm so sad to hear of your loss and your sweet Lily. I just heard of your news and cant believe it. So many memories from St. Andrews and your friendship, Julie as Moms helping in our childrens schools. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Jennifer Nowark and family
We Love you Lily!
The Ely Family
July 22, 2013
Lily's service was so beautiful. Aly said Lily was such a good friend and a sweet girl. A fantastic teammate on the Kryptonite softball team. Aly loved the way Lily sang Titanic songs and shared 2nd base with her. Our prayers are with your family.
July 20, 2013
Dear Sargon, Julie, Summer and Ashley,
The service for your sweet, loving Lily Gail today was beyond awesome. Her spirit for justice, love and knowing God were evident at every word. What a sacrifice it is to have her go before you to Heaven. What a blessing she was to all who got to know her on earth. May God fill your hearts to overflowing measure with hope and love. May he continue to uphold you daily in your grief. The words that Sargon shared were so generous and life affirming. God Bless You All. Love, Julie Harris and family
July 20, 2013
Our family is heartbroken to hear of the loss of your beautiful daughter and sister. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
Much love,
The Gaeckle Family
July 20, 2013
my condolences are with you and know that this time will be the most difficult to bear
I believe that Lily has graced the earth and forever will be in the hearts
anyone that she touched
A precious gift and angel
gina
Larry Laurent
July 20, 2013
Larry Laurent
July 20, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Lily was one of the sweetest, nicest girls I ever had the pleasure of interacting with. Some of my favorite moments in coaching the girls was the way she always looked after her sister while playing games and in practice.
amelia lovell
July 20, 2013
lily was a joy to be around one memory with her is what we called four musketeers
Rochelle Saxton and Emily David
July 19, 2013
We are so very sorry to hear of Lily's passing. Emily remembers Lily as a very determined and strong soccer player who always played hard. She will most certainly be missed and always remembered for the amazing young lady she was. Our whole family is praying for peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Rachel Star
July 19, 2013
Dear sweet Lily, I loved knowing you. I talked about you many times last year and about how I'd never met a kid like you before. You truly were an angel here on earth and these things were said before your passing. So wise, intelligent, talented, friendly, helpful, hard-working, sweet and kind beyond words. I loved talking and running with you during P.E. on our fitness days. I loved the way the children in your class admired you and always wanted me to give you star student almost every time we had P.E. I believe that you were so close to God that he took you home early to watch over the rest of us. You inspired many to be better people by role modeling calmness, compassion, confidence. You were such a bright light, a warm smile, a happy, open heart. My heart breaks for your family and your close friends. I will never forget you.
Ashley McLay
July 19, 2013
Lily was a great friend and role model for some people icluding me. I will miss her dearly.
Chloe
July 19, 2013
Lily was a very special girl and a great friend to me always. I will always remember her and love her.
Christine Camicia
July 19, 2013
We love you all very much and will miss her silly laughs and beautiful smile. I'm going to miss her screaming SHANNON....followed with a suttle "can I have a sucker"? At times I wonder why God presents such challenges for us to over come, find peace knowing she is safe and with God.
Linda Albrecht
July 19, 2013
I don't know the Jacob family, i work at a locsl hospital & just wanted to say. My ? is saddened Lily will forever shine bright even to those who didn't get the opportunity to meet her.
Megan McGuire
July 18, 2013
We are so sorry your family is suffering such a devastating loss. You were great neighbors to us and we remember Lily as a curious, darling little girl who became a wonderful big sister. You are a strong family and you raised a delightful young lady. With our prayers and deepest sympathies, John & Megan McGuire and family
Hillary Brizell-DeLise
July 18, 2013
Dear Jacob Family,
I wish I could have met Lily. Allison always spoke so highly of her and her sisters. She certainly sounds like a special girl and I am so sad for the family at this time of loss. I hope all of you will heal quickly and smile with love for Lily often. Hillary
To The Jacob Family from Sydney T.
Sydney, Harvey and Pete Thompson
July 18, 2013
Lily we will miss you! You were a great friend and neighbor. It was fun to chase around the beach, scooter, play badminton, gymnastics, and especially swim! We learned a lot from you, especially about the beach animals. Sargon, Julie, Summer and Ashley, we are sorry we cannot be with you now, please know that we are sending hugs to you and energy and love from The Appalachian Trail. We planted a tree in your memory in VA at a farm and the people at the farm said they would take care of it and decorate it for Christmas.
Ineke and Daniel DeKelaita
July 18, 2013
Dear Sargon, Julie and family,
We are devastated about the loss of your precious little daughter and our hearts go out to you. We have been thinking about you every day and wish you strength in this time of sorrow.
With all our love and prayers,
Daniel and Ineke DeKelaita and family.
Mike McLay
July 18, 2013
Lily was such a beautiful and sweet young lady who was truly a joy to be around. She was an incredible friend to my daughter Ashley and brought smiles and laughter and many cherished memories to her. While my family will miss her dearly, Lily will always hold a special place in our hearts. Please know that you have been and will continue to be in our prayers.
Tracey and Sydney Gannon
July 18, 2013
We are so deeply saddened by Lily's passing. Sydney enjoyed being a girl scout with her and always wanted to get to know her better. She was a beautiful and talented girl with a kind heart. We will always remember her sweet smile and nurturing spirit.
July 18, 2013
i heard the sad news from my sister mariana smo, i am very very sorry, alah basemel rishkhon , shlam alokh mrtin, min khio al khiokhrn, shmirn shabbas huwe.
Our Heartfelt Sorrow
Mariana & Romeo Samo
July 18, 2013
Dearest Sargon, Juliana & Family,
It is with heavy hearts we express our deepest sympathy for the loss of your loved one LILY.
"The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God".
Donna Gritton
July 18, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family during this difficult time. I am deeply saddened by your loss.
July 18, 2013
Julia was lucky to have Lily as her friend. Lily had such a beautiful, kind way about her. We will always remember her musical talent and her awesome talent show performance of Titanic. Our hearts are heavy and we will keep Lily and her family in our thoughts and prayers. Wishing you peace and comfort during this difficult time. Love, Cindy and Julia McCahill
Robin
July 18, 2013
I do not personally know Lily's family. I just want to send heartfelt sympathy and my prayers.
Adam & Ronda
July 18, 2013
Adam and I had the pleasure of coaching Lily last year. She was such a joy to be around. Lily is the reason we coach. she was always eager to listen and learn. She was a joy to be around. We are deeply saddened by her loss. Our prayers are with the Jacob family.
Sarah
July 18, 2013
She was a really great friend and I will miss her very much. I enjoyed having her in my classes and in girl scouts.
Ashley McLay
July 18, 2013
Lily was my friend and I will miss her so much.
Ashley McLay
July 18, 2013
Lily was the greatest friend anyone could ever have because she always made you smile.
Joey Coddington
July 18, 2013
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family, Sargon.
Our precious Lily will live in our hearts and minds everyday. May God bless Julie, Sargon, Summer and Ashley.
Rene, Rosette, Rick, Ela, Inanna Eshoo
July 18, 2013
Lisa Bird
July 18, 2013
WIshing you strength and courage as you all move through each day without Lily. With time, may your heavy hearts be lifted with the sweet memories of your precious girl. She lives on forever in the hearts and memories of all who loved her. God bless.
Martha White-Kelley
July 18, 2013
Praying for the Jacob family to find peace.
Cheryl Johnson
July 17, 2013
Your family has been in my every thought these past few days. It is beyond sad that this has happened, and I wish for you all strength and peace as you heal.
With Summer, Ashley and cousins Jonathan and Megan at Jack London Park in Sonoma
Ashoorbell & Sherli Moradkhan
July 17, 2013
Lily was such a special girl. We were blessed to know her for 11 years but we wanted so much more. She had an ethereal quality and anyone that spent even 10 minutes with her knew that she would soar to incredible heights. There is no explanation for what happened, but we can take some solace in knowing that she is soaring above us as she was always meant to. We send all of our love, prayers, strength and hope to her wonderful parents, our dear cousin Sargon and Julie, and her beautiful sisters.
Lampman Family
July 17, 2013
Our prayers are with you during this time. Lily will truly be missed.
Mary & Ralph
July 17, 2013
Sargon and Julie, may you have some comfort knowing your angel Lily is at peace now. Your Sutter family has heavy hearts feeling your pain. We love you so much
July 17, 2013
This beautiful little girl was a precious gift upon this Earth. She was the sweetest of sweet.....truly a blessing from God.
Goodhue Family
July 17, 2013
I've had the pleasure of knowing Lily and her family since her sister Summer and our daughter Grace started Kindergarten together at RDM. I was always incredibly touched how she held her sister's hands while walking up to school, ensuring their safety. How touching and what a responsible young lady. She will very much be missed, however her kind loving spirit lives on in the example she set and the angelic presence she surely now holds.
Pam & Rich
July 17, 2013
May the love of all your friends and family give you strength at this very difficult time. We are so very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers
Athena Maraldo
July 17, 2013
Lily was an absolute joy to have in my class. I will always remember her sweet smile and kind heart. She will truly be missed. Many hugs to your family.
July 17, 2013
I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. My deepest condolences go out to your family during this tragic and difficult time. My prayers are with you all.
Kelly Mennie
July 17, 2013
Lily was on my AYBA basketball team in 2010 and she was such a joy! Always positive and gave her all at every game and practice. Although I didn't know her well, it was a pleasure knowing her for that short time. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family. God Bless You Lily!
Kelly Mennie
July 17, 2013
Lily was on my AYBA basketball team in 2010 and she was such a joy! Always positive and gave her all at every game and practice. Although I didn't know her well, it was a pleasure knowing her for that short time. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family. God Bless you Lily.
Ramon, Sara and Katelyn Fernandez
July 17, 2013
Our hearts are with your family during this hard time. Lily was a sweet girl and her bright happy smile will never be forgotten.
Dolly Shackleton - Harper
July 17, 2013
Lily was a sweet girl and was cousins best friend. She always helped her out.
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The Harpers
Patty Burke
July 17, 2013
Our thoughts are with you on the loss of your beautiful Lily. She was a joy to be with when she helped me with our dog Lucy when I was injured. Such a loving, responsible, dedicated young girl who brought joy to Ron and I whenever she came over. Our heartfelt sympathies to you and your daughters.
Sargon and Nano Yelda
July 17, 2013
We are devastated by the sad news. Lily was always an angel and will always live in our hearts. We will continue to pray for God to give the family the strength to get through this very very difficult time. Love you always!
Easter Party at St. Andrew's Preschool
Stephanie Hocom
July 17, 2013
Lily was such a wonderful, precious soul. We all feel blessed to have known her since we met at St. Andrews Preschool and have enjoyed watching her grow into such an amazing person. Our strength goes out to Julie, Sergon and their whole family as they cope with their loss.
Stacy Mueller
July 17, 2013
We are heartbroken by this news. Lily was such a sweet, special girl. We send our love and condolences to everyone.
Tiffany Chapman
July 17, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you constantly.
Forever Love,
Tiffany and Josh Chapman
Rob, Lety, Samy and Roby Moore
July 17, 2013
May her memory be the hope of reunion in the kingdom of heaven.
Kegham & Patsy Keremian
July 17, 2013
Our Deepest condolences for the loss of your beautiful Baby..She is in heaven in the Lords arms..
We will always have her in our prayers.
Meredith Nohrden
July 17, 2013
I am so saddened by your loss. I remember Lily during your early years here in Santa Cruz as a inquisitive well adjusted youngster.
Margaret and Derek Rosa
July 17, 2013
Sargon,
We are devastated to hear of Lily's passing. What a precious, beautiful child. We send you and your whole family strength and prayers.
Malek-Zadeh Family
July 17, 2013
Words cannot even begin to express our deep felt sorrow. Our Hearts are saddened by the loss of our angel Lily. She will Remain in our memories and hearts forever.May God give you strength to find peace during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you,and may God bless her soul.
Jacob, Remouz, Luke, and Mark
July 17, 2013
We are deeply saddened by Lily's sudden passing. We will always remember her and miss her. Our sympathies are with you Sargon and Julie. Love, Eric and Shany
Moyer Family
July 17, 2013
We are indeed sorry that this tragedy happened
Gabby and Kelsey Mackle
July 17, 2013
We will always remember Lily as a wonderful friend and how she was so kind to everyone.
Donatella Yelda
July 17, 2013
God needed an Angel and he picked a most perfect and beautiful one.
Erin Miccichi
July 17, 2013
Lilly will be greatly missed, she was a beautiful young girl. Her smile and happiness radiated around her. Always so polite and kind. Heaven has a new angel.
July 17, 2013
I do not personally know Lily or her family but just want to send prayers to her family. My heart goes out to her family and god bless Lily.
Douglas Kyle
July 17, 2013
So much love, ambition and humility, Lily, you will always be remembered. I learned so much from you and will be a better person because I got a chance to be your teacher and friend.
Cathy & Rami
July 17, 2013
Lily was as beautiful on the inside as the outside. Our hearts and prayers go out to the Jacob Family.
Casey and Joe
July 17, 2013
Lily brightened every room she walked into. I always felt like I was around an old soul with Lily. Our lives are all so much better for having known her. Praying for you guys.
Sydney Ghiglione
July 16, 2013
Lily was my best friend since preschool. Her hugs always made me smile. I will never forget her.
Sydney
Lana Ghiglione
July 16, 2013
Lily was a lovely girl and we will miss her. We feel very blessed to have known her. She was a wonderful friend to our daughter and will forever be in her heart and ours.
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