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Mark Riddering Obituary

MARK LOUIS RIDDERING
1955-2008


Mark went to be in the presence of his Lord November 27, 2008. His death was due to complications of his ALS (Lou Gehrig's disease.) Mark was born Jan 15, 1955 to Louis and Delores Riddering in Evergreen Park, Illinois. As a young boy, he moved to Oxnard, California with his family. He graduated from Oxnard High School in 1973 where he excelled in swimming and water polo. Mark married his wife Sue in 1975. While working as a police officer, he completed his B.A. in criminal justice through the University of La Verne. Mark began his police career in Port Hueneme, California. He later worked for Ventura P. D. and Oxnard P. D. In 1989, he was hired by the Santa Maria Police Department, where he worked until his medical retirement.

Mark's thorough enjoyment of his career led him to being a highly decorated police officer. While working in Santa Maria, he was instrumental in starting up the DARE program in schools. He worked in patrol and as a detective, but his passion was narcotics enforcement. His love for his work showed in his often having dreams of being on the job for years into his retirement. Even more than the work, though, Mark loved the people he worked with.

Mark and Sue had four children together. It was for his wife and children's benefit that he moved the family to Nipomo, to enjoy the country life. As a father he was able to balance justice and mercy. He was also a great playmate, taking his kids to the beach and running around the backyard. Mark always put his family first and his children always knew how important they were to him. It gave him great joy to see who they became as adults.

Mark was raised in a Christian family, and he continued strong in his faith in Jesus until the end. He was a member of Redeemer Presbyterian Church in Santa Maria. God upheld Mark and his family faithfully throughout Mark's illness, which gave him the hope and the joy evident to all who knew him. Mark was passionate about showing people how good his God is. Mark's confidence in going to Heaven to be with his God was based on his belief in Jesus to save him from his sins. Mark is now joyfully with the Savior he sought to faithfully serve.

Mark is survived by his faithful wife Sue of 33 years, his children and their spouses: Sara and Ben Brigham, Rebecca Riddering, Samantha and Kevin Brandon, and Luke and Christina Riddering. He had four grandchildren: Seth and Hana Brigham, Karis Brandon and Mark Riddering. He is also survived by his mother Dee, his older brother Wayne Riddering (DeDe), his younger sister Lynn Mackereth (Jim), his mother in law Connie Foss and his three brother in laws, Ken (Jan), Andrew (Diane) and Richard Foss (Jan), and numerous nieces and nephews. Mark treasured his friends and will be remembered by many.

The family is extremely grateful for the support of the entire Santa Maria community throughout Mark's illness. Mark's many family members, coworkers and friends helped tremendously with the special challenges presented by his illness.

The family requests that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Mark Riddering fund at Rabobank. This fund will go to charities close to Mark's heart.

A funeral service will be held at 1:00 p.m, Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at First Christian Church, 1550 S. College Drive, Santa Maria, CA, with burial to follow at the Santa Maria Cemetery.

Arrangements are under the direction of Dudley-Hoffman Mortuary and Crematory.

Dudley-Hoffman
Mortuary & Crematory
(805) 922-8463

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Published by Santa Maria Times on Dec. 2, 2008.

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Pastor Rick Bloom

December 8, 2008

Dear Sue and family,
Mark was a great inspiration to us all. I will always remember the Sunday he spoke in our Church services. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Drew Standley

December 4, 2008

Matthew 5:9 Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called children of God.

I became acquainted with Mark while working narcotics. He made huge contributions as a law enforcement officer in the community he so proudly served; however, his contributions as a friend, mentor and reverent leader are beyond comprehension.

Mark was truly a peacemaker; an example for others to follow! You are all in my family’s thoughts and prayers.

Penny Minor

December 3, 2008

Dear Sue,Sara,Rebecca and Luke
We have no words to take away the sorrow of Marks passing,but may it be of some comfort in knowing how many lives he brightened and encouraged-ours were some of them.The Bible verse that I read just after hearing of Mark is found in Ps.68:2 'Oh my people trust in him at all times. Pour out your heart to him, for God is our refuge.'
Our prayers are with all of you.
Bruce and Penny Minor

Beth & Don Doot

December 3, 2008

Dear Sue & family:
We feel so blessed to have known Mark. He was always so cheerful, never compaining and an inspiration to everyone who knew him. Isn't it wonderful to know that when we see him the next time, his body won't be crippled by the terrible disease that destroyed his body, but not his soul. We love you.

Steve and Pam Burginger

December 2, 2008

Dear Riddering Family,
Mark was truly an inspiration to all he contacted. His strength and faith in God, his fellow man, and dedication to family was remarkable, envied by myself and his peers. He will be missed but has left all of us with some beautiful memories to last a lifetime. God Bless you and yours Mark, your work here is done.

Jim and Teri Hammond

December 2, 2008

Dear Riddering Family,

We are sorry for your loss. Mark was a compassionate, genuine man. He will be missed. You are all in our prayers.

David Dodd

December 2, 2008

Dearest Riddering Family,

May you have peace in your heart knowing your husband will be waiting to see you once again. Love The Dodd Family

Paul Porpiglia

December 2, 2008

Mark was a great co-worker, mentor and friend. I will forever remember the times we shared and how he would turn so many shades of red when he laughed or when playing a joke on someone..I truly will miss Mark, but his kindness and memories live on forever. I thank God that I was blessed enough to have known such an outstanding person, and that he was my friend.

Daniel Ng

December 1, 2008

Dear Susan and family,
We are sad to hear of the passing of Mark. He was a man of strong character. We feel fortunate to have known Mark. All of us send our deepest sympathy.

Daniel and Priscilla Ng and Staff

Richard Diaz

December 1, 2008

I would like to express to your family my deepest sympathy. Mark was always extremely helpful and showed a great deal of kindness and eagerness to help out new Probation Officers. He will be greatly missed and never will be replaced. My prayers are with your family.

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