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Michael "Mickey" Merriam

Michael Merriam Obituary

Michael "Mickey' MERRIAM Passed away with his family by his side on December 13, 2003. Born August 13, 1957, Michael is survived by his loving wife, Jana, his two children, Haley and Ryan, his mother and father, Mary and Mickey, his two brothers, Kevin and Patrick and four nephews and two nieces. Michael will be remembered for his lively spirit and love of life. His legacy lives on in Seattle's communities as he was a major supporter of youth sports. A Memorial Service will be held on Friday, December 19th at 2:00 p.m. at the Calvary Christian Assembly at 6801 Roosevelt Way N.E. A Celebration of his Life will follow at 4:00 p.m. at the NorthShore Senior Center. A foundation has been set up for the Family of Michael Merriam. Donations will be accepted at any Bank of America.

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Published by The Seattle Times on Dec. 17, 2003.

Memories and Condolences
for Michael Merriam

46 Entries

Scott Lind

November 17, 2022

Though it´s been years since his passing. I still think of Mike and his family a lot ! I grew up a few houses away from them on 58th street in Seattle ( Ballard) in the late 60´s early 70´s . I´ve been trying to reach out to Kevin and Patrick for years . Please look me up if either of you get this message. I´m listed ( nobody looks there) lol. And I live in Greenwood ( Seattle). 88th street . I have great memories of all three brothers. Some old pictures too . I´ve been playing music professionally for over 36 years , and Kevin was a big influence and inspiration on my music when we were kids . I was so sad when I heard Mike died. Love you all , sincerely. Scott Eric Lind

Kristie Midili

January 11, 2005

Mickey you are still missed as much today as on the day of your passing. Thank you for everything you brought to our lives. Mario and Sergio still are saying "forget about it".

Jana Haley and Ryan,

We continue to keep your family in our prayers. Take care and we miss you.

Angie Rusch

January 11, 2005

Mickey unconditionally accepted me into the "USSSA Family." Thank you, Mickey. God Bless you and your family. All our Love... Angie, Rob and "Baby Easton" Rusch.

Karen Merriam

October 6, 2004

Uncle Mike and Grandma Mary were missed very much at Jenna's 6th birthday party this past weekend. It was hard for her to try to understand why they were not there this time "when they were always at all of her other parties". Jenna asked,"If I hold on to one of the helium balloons, would it take me up to heaven so I could see them?"

We all know that they are in gods great hands, but boy, all of us here left on earth miss them so much, but are so thankful that we had them in the first place. Thank god they are alive through all of our memories and deeds.

Jenna's Mom, Karen

Joe Monks

May 26, 2004

(Mickey - I was shocked and saddened to hear of your passing - the kids of Seattle will be missing a wonderfully exuberant supporter.)

To Mrs Merriam and the kids - I am truly sorry for your loss. I wanted to let you know that every Saturday morning I drive by GreenLake with the kids playing soccer I will say a prayer wishing your Dad the best - He was a fine man. That field was a special vision of his and I am honored to say that I was able to work with him on developing that playfield

Go in Peace Mickey!

Karen Merriam

April 18, 2004

To all,

It is with great sadness to have to write this announcement.

On Friday, April 16, at 2:50am, Mickey's mother Mary, passed away into the arms of her loving son Michael. She was surrounded by all who loved her and went through this struggle with her. She was and is one of the strongest people you will ever know, in life and in death, for the impact that her life and passing has made on others lives will never be forgotten. The courage she showed during this journey to her passing was truely incredible, even trying to make us all laugh in her unique way.Her kindness, generosity of spirit and her giving heart has changed peoples lives. Her love of music and sense of humor were just a pleasure to partake in, and she always strived to just make you feel good and loved. Once Mary was your friend, it was forever. Although she had three sons, she had many who considered her their mother. Her door was always open to anyone in need. She had 5 grandchildren that she loved and adored and doted over as she did her own children when they were growing up. Her sons,Michael, Kevin and Patrick, and her grandchildren,Jordan, Haley, Evan, Ryan and Jenna, loved and cherished her and will forever miss her. As always, her loving husband, Mickey, never left her side and took care of her with the gentleness, respect, and loving manner that he always had throughout their lives together. They were married 48 years, and always supported each other in every way.

Karen Merriam

Penny Mutal

April 18, 2004

My wonderful Michael

I have been meaning to write something but I can not find the words

I had not seen you for a while but have never forgotten you and your family

You have given so much love and joy to so many people over the years. Anyone who knew you was truely- blessed

Thanks for allowing me into your life and you family.

God bless Jana and your children

Love

Penny Mutal ( Brookes)

mike mirante

February 2, 2004

Mickey Mick Merriam

I miss you very much. Thanks for everything you did for us and for being such a good friend. I think about you everyday buddy.

Mikey Mike Mirante

Kelley Canan Wood

January 10, 2004

My heart goes out to Jana, her children and all of the Merriam family. My high school years would have been very different had I never met Mike and his wonderful family. I'll always remember his smile, sense of humor, ability to listen and style.

Gerry and Nyla Schwartz

December 27, 2003

Mike will be well remembered for his sense of humor, welcoming attitude, involvement with family, and sports. From first meeting him, Mike never felt like a stranger and the few subsequent gatherings we attended he was most outgoing and inclusive.

stefin mccargar

December 26, 2003

My memories of Michael are suspended like film clips flipping thru 25 years ago as if just yesterday - his grin, his swager, his side-splitting humor, his frankness. The home, the family I claimed as my own when I felt I had none. He was a big brother to me when I needed it and a loving pain in the arse. My thoughts are with his family, Mom and Pop, Kevin and Patrick I am so sorry for your loss- Jana, my High school galpal, your beautiful kids, thinking of you all.

Evan Merriam

December 25, 2003

Uncle Mike, I was very blessed to have a person in my life like you. You could always make me laugh so hard.That was one of my favorite qualities beside your compasion for evey other person in your life.I will miss you very much.I love you so much.

Your Nephew,

Evan

Gwen Merriam

December 25, 2003

We miss you Mike. Thank you for all you did for us. I will never forget the last few days in the hospital with you. You were making us all laugh and have fun even when you were suffering. You were trying to care for all of us when all we wanted to do was care for you. You showed amazing grace and dignity in the most difficult time of your life and that is the mark of a true champion. I feel blessed and honored to have had you in my life. Christmas was not the same without you.

Love, Your sister-in-law Gwen

Maynard Smith

December 23, 2003

To the Merriam Family,

Mike has certainly left behind a legacy. He and his brothers were powers to be reckoned with in the Q.A. days, with Mike being at the top of the trio. In many circles, Mike was known as the King of Q.A., an icon no doubt. We heard he was a Golden Gloves boxer. Some people, in fear, would walk (or run) the other way if they saw him coming. One way or the other Mike left his impression on people and will be remembered by all. There was a side to Mike, which I discovered later. We had a class together at QA, where I had got to know Mike instead of just hear about him. There was a side of him where he wanted to help people, set them in the right direction. In those days, it may have been subtle, keeping a reputation for being cool was first, but it was there for sure. In actuality, he helped me out and I have a debt of gratitude I owe to him. It sounds like he continued helping others in positive ways for the rest of his life in his job and personal life. In recent years I had planned on looking him up, to say thank you, but I waited too long. My condolences go out to the family for Mike’s passing.

Suzy Tarp-Thomson

December 23, 2003

To the Merriam Family, 30 years ago I was one of the lucky kids who “hung out” at the Merriam’s house until I moved to my dad’s place in Calif. Yesterday it was sad to find out about Mike’s battle with cancer but it touched my heart to read the Merriam bond with family and friends has continued throughout the years. May the special memories comfort you in this difficult time. Take Care,

Maureen Royal

December 22, 2003

Jana, Ryan & Haley,

I have very good memories of Mike from all the years we've known the Merriams. He was such a special part of our family and such a support to Kevin and Karen and Jenna, they all loved him very much.

I can remember very special times with him at all the family events.

The services were awesome,a real tribute to all that Mike has contributed,you should all be very proud. Haley you really did such a good job of portraying your Dad and all that he stood for, you should be very proud. We wish you all heartfelt memories and strong support for the coming years.

Best regards, Dan & Maureen Royal and family (Karens' Sister & Family)

Karen Merriam

December 21, 2003

Mike,

Thanks for always being "you" and being a wonderful brother I never had for the past 30 years. A person could not ask for two brother in-laws better then you and Pat. Jenna will miss her "Funny Uncle Mike", especially at Christmas, but we are thankful that you are now able to feel like the ole' Mike. You are forever alive in our hearts and our daily lives. You, Kevin and Pat will always be "three".

To Jana, Haley and Ryan, we love you, and our family strength, comfort and love will help us all to go on and live with the strength and passion that Mike exuded. Love you, Karen

Phil See

December 19, 2003

Dear Jana, Haley and Ryan,

I have a lot of fond memories of Mike. Since meeting him for the first time back in 1970 I feel I grew up with him and in many ways he was more like an older brother to me. I will always remember his wit, his generosity, his love of music and his positive way of looking at life. He was a very special person and will be greatly missed.

Coolidge Chapman II

December 19, 2003

Mike!

You were are my great buudy of mine for many years since I've known you from the old Queen Anne days including your brothers Patrick & Kevin. Also it was a pleasure to get to be friends as long as I do remember very well too. I will miss you very much.

Rest In Peace,

Coolidge.......

Nancy Puetz

December 19, 2003

Dear Jana,Haley and Ryan

Please know how internally grateful I am to you for sharing Mickey (your Dad) with us.

Dear Mickey,

As I talked to my nephew this morning to let him know I will be thinking of him this afternoon,I heard in his young 12 year-old voice tremendous sadness from loosing his beloved coach,teacher,mentor,cheerleader and friend.He will never forget what he has learned from you and what you have taught him. My niece Amy called to let me know the other day her best friend Mickey had passed away. She said how sad she is and that she will miss him every day. Thank-You for the difference you have forever made in my dear nephews and niece Bobby,Tanner and Amy LeCount's lives. Pam's sister Nancy

Greg Root

December 19, 2003

Mike, Thanks for all that you have given to this world. Today the football fields and baseball fields have a lost a great teacher, mentor, and coach, but have gained a great legacy that will live on forever. Mike taught me to never give up, and to stay focused. I owe a lot of my success to him.

Tonight I will look at the night sky, and pick the brightest star. I can see it now, and it reminds me of the spark in Coach Merriams eye.

Greg and Cindi Bruns

December 18, 2003

We were deeply saddened to hear the news of Mickey's passing. He was truly passionate in all that he did and will be missed greatly! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Allen Price

December 18, 2003

Mike, you were a true life force. I have to think that in heaven tonight there's some James Brown playing and you are getting the party started. We'll all miss you, but our lives are better for having known you. I'm so proud to be your cousin. God bless you.

Wendy Fitzpatrick

December 18, 2003

Dear Jana, Haley, and Ryan,

You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry about your loss. Mickey was truly a wonderful and extraordinary person. He always could make me laugh. I will miss him and remember him always.

Love,

Corene Spencer

December 18, 2003

Jana, My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your children. God Bless you all!

Helen Lathrop

December 18, 2003

OUr prayers are with you during this very difficult time.

Martin Law

December 18, 2003

Jana,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your kids. I was shocked and saddened when I saw the notice in the paper.

.

Cathy Greenwell

December 18, 2003

Dear Jana, Ryan & Haley -

Our time with Mickey was far, far too short. But each minute we did spend with him we recognized as blessed and special. He touched us all and will be remembered in this home as one of the truly best people we have ever known. Our hearts and prayers are with you all.

Reiko Frank

December 18, 2003

My deepest sympathy to the Mickey Merriam family. Although Mick was more involved in mens softball than womens softball, he brought a lot to the game and put WA state softball on the map, for all. I admire him for walking away from softball when he did to spend more time with family and Ryan's hockey. I truly believe Mick is playing ball at the "highest" level right now with the rest of the greats, making them all laugh and smile.

Thank you Mickey for what you did for WA state softball, from one female player's perspective...

Megan Price

December 18, 2003

Jana, Haley, and Ryan,

I can remember back to when I was 6 or 7, and we attended Grannymum's birthday party. There was a bowl of peanuts that I could not keep my hands out of, and Mike reminded me that "you are what you eat." Somewhere along the lines, I became to know him as "Uncle Peanut." I will never forget how much fun I had with him as a child, and how wonderful he was. My thoughts are with you.

Jennifer Songstad-Carroll

December 17, 2003

To Jana, Haley, Ryan, Mr. & Mrs. Merriam, Kevin, Patrick and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

Terri Rusch

December 17, 2003

Jana and kids, our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are blessed with great memories of Mickey that will last forever.

Steve Hurt

December 17, 2003

Lisa, Isaac, Aaron and I want to wish you our deepest sympathy in your loss. Mickey was a dear friend and always brought happiness with his humor, where ever he went. I just want you to know that the '92's dedicated this last weekend games to Mickey even before they were informed of his passing. They were all deeply touched and saddened when they heard of his passing, and played even harder in their last game, a victory dedicated to Mickey. All our love and prayers are with and for you. The Hurt family

Peggy Fisher

December 17, 2003

All of our prayers go out to Jana and the kids. Mickey will certainly be missed in the Evergreen Hockey Organization as he was and is an angel to everyone that ever met him, he was always there to welcome new people and always making people smile. God Bless you Merriam Family and I truly believe you have been touched by an angel.

The Fisher Family

Moana Hughes

December 17, 2003

Dear Jana,

I am so sorry to hear about Michael's illness and passing. I wish I could have been there for my old friends....seems like just yesterday we were back in high school doing crazy things and having a good time - with all of us. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and let me know if you need me - even just to talk - I miss you.

Love, your best friend from long ago,

Moana

Donna Heleniak

December 17, 2003

Mickey was one of the funniest people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. His impersonations of people were so accurate and hilarious. They will forever keep me laughing. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Merriam family.

Jimmy Gilmore

December 17, 2003

Mike:

Will always remember your loyalty and love you gave to family and friends your skills in sports especially boxing and your humor you always had the ability to make someone laugh or smile. I appreciated you coming by to see me at my gym it seems like yesterday.

To Family:

There aren’t any words I can think of to ease your suffering after losing a anchor in the Merriam family, I’ll be out of town till the 31st or would be there Friday for services.

God bless

Jana, Haley, Ryan and Parents Mom & Pop (Mary& Mickey) Brothers Kevin & Patrick.

Tina and Frank Marier

December 17, 2003

Jana and family, such sadness this weekend - Bobby Simpson called us on Saturday to let us know of Mick's passing and on Sunday we lost another good friend who was fighting a brain tumor, Chris Henning. All of our love and support goes out to your family - Mick will be so missed - our thoughts and prayers are with you - Frank and Tina Marier

Becky and Walt Busek

December 17, 2003

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Words cannot express how we feel. Michael will be truely missed by all.

Marie Shaw

December 17, 2003

I've only had the pleasure of hanging out with Mickey a few times over the years, but the little time that was spent, he was always full of energy and laughter. His eccentric character made him someone you will never forget if you meet him once and spend 5 minutes with. Mickey you will be missed much!

Danny Costello

December 17, 2003

Our deepest sympathy`s go out to

the Merriam Family. Mickey was a Great Man who loved life on the ballfield & everyday life. We miss

you Mickey.

The Costello Family

frank marier jr

December 17, 2003

Mickey was someone special to all those who came in contact with him. My family sends our love and prayers to the Merriam family. The good lord has a great pitcher for his softball team. We will miss you

Nancy Steele

December 17, 2003

Jana, please know that you and the children are in the thoughts and prayers of your Watermark Credit Union family.

Al Rutledge

December 17, 2003

Mickey will be missed by all of us here at USABA(United States Amateur Baseball Association)...we are sending our sympathy to his wife Jana, children and family.

Please know you are in our prayers at this time.

Al Rutledge Executive Director and

The Staff at USABA

Rob Rusch

December 16, 2003

We wish to extend our deepest sympathies to Jana and kids. Mickey was a dear friend and a great person. We will all miss him.

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