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Sharra Curran Obituary

Sharra Lynn CURRAN Age 54, a resident of Redmond, Washington. After an eight year battle with breast cancer, on January 20, 2010 she went home to be with the Lord. She was born on October 17, 1955 in Wenatchee, Washington to the parents of Frank and Sharon Gough. She was a devoted wife, mother, sister, daughter and friend. She loved spending time at their family cabin, the Boogala Lodge. Sharra is survived by husband Roger Curran, daughter Chandler Curran, daughter Erin Sparks, father Frank Gough, step-mother Jody Gough, her sister Lisa Silvestre, brother in-law Alex Silvestre, sister Jill Gough, sister Jan Gough, brother-in-law Dave Corn and his wife and children Gayla Corn, Leslie Corn, Amy Morley and Sydni Adams, and niece Khayla Silvestre, and nephews Alex Silvestre Jr. and Shane Fifer, her dog Zeke, and her close friends. She was preceded in death by her mother Sharon Gough and brother Alan Gough. Memorial service on Saturday, January 30th, at 11:00 AM at First Baptist Church of Kirkland with a reception to follow. Donations are recommended in lieu of flowers: Susan G Komen http://ww5.komen.org/Donate/Donate.html; Marsha Rivkin Center for Ovarian Cancer Research - (Sharra's oncologist Dr. Saul Rivkin foundation) https://www1906.dulles19-verio.com/mars39/help/do nate.php

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Published by The Seattle Times from Jan. 26 to Jan. 27, 2010.

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Bruce

January 20, 2025

I have your picture on my wall look at it often, and enjoy the memories of a fantastic friend.

Jenny, Mike & Lauren Gage

March 1, 2010

While we only met Sharra a few times through our good friends Lee and Don, we've had the great fortune to spend some time with her daughter Chandler. Not only is Chandler a wonderfully sweet and caring person, she's a pleasure to spend time with and poised beyond her years. All of these traits are surely a testament to the wonderful person and mother that Sharra was. She will be missed.

February 25, 2010

Until We Meet Again

by Unknown

Each morning when we awake
we know that you are gone.
And no one knows the heartache
As we try to carry on.

Our hearts still ache with sadness
and many tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you,
No one will ever know.

Our thoughts are always with you,
your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we love you still.

There will always be a heartache,
and often a silent tear,
But always a precious memory
Of the days when you were here.

If tears could make a staircase,
And heartaches make a lane,
We'd walk the path to heaven
And bring you home again.

We hold you close within our hearts,
And there you will remain,
To walk with us throughout our lives
Until we meet again.

Our family chain is broken now,
And nothing will be the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.

Sharon Langford

February 24, 2010

Sharra, you had the most generous heart of anyone I've known and such a sense of fun. At the same time, as Darr & Susan mentioned, you were frighteningly efficient. I admired you immensely and will miss you forever. I keep thinking of things to tell you or ask you and then I remember. Wish you were here. Love you.
Sharon

Darr and Susan Cannon

February 20, 2010

Sharra,

We treasure the time we spent with you at Moburg & Associates and in our personal lives. We are amazed at the way you could handle all the things you had to do at the office. Your handling of the reporters (including us) was wonderful, in the most difficult of circumstances or oddest of circumstances you always worked it out. All the tulips for the secretaries and all the wine and calendars for the attorneys, everything was put together with your artistic flair and delivered on time. We couldn't have done it without you! Your energy and optimistic attitude made coming to the office every day a joy.

Hey, you left your boots under your desk. The walking route from Seattle to Kirkland was all planned in case of that earthquake or big snow storm you just knew was coming, and I know we would have made it.

Because of your super efficiency in the office, there was time for you to plan birthday parties, holidays, family get-togethers, Lake Chelan weekends and many more. And as soon as the flurry of e-mails from your girlfriends started, we knew there was another party in the works. Sharon and I will continue to celebrate our October birthdays, but it won't be the same without you.

I never got to have that Grey Goose martini we planned on. When I join you, I'll bring the Grey Goose and olives.

If life is like a box of chocolates, you're the chocolate with the sprinkles.

Love ya.

February 19, 2010

Sharra,
I will always remember you and cherish our fun times together. We'll raise our glasses to the big star filled sky from the deck in Chelan to you forever.
I Love You, Lorna

Ren Nanstad

February 19, 2010

At times I thought of her as a tease, somethimes a sister and sometimes a mother. I loved her smile and the twinkle in her eye - although I also learned to be wary of those same two wonderful characteristics. She kept us all together - and she kept us all in line. She didn't hold grudges, but let you know very directly when you'd stepped too far or not far enough. She was quick to make fun but also quick with a shoulder to cry on or an ear when you needed it. She was the most inclusive person I have ever met - from the day I met her, she made me feel as if I'd always known her. Sharra, my first name is Ren - I know you know it, you just never used it; I love you dearly, I will never forget you and I will miss you every day for rest of my life. Oh yeah, do me a favor and say hi to Bode and my dad Skeeter - give them a slap up side the head and say Ren says hey.

February 18, 2010

Sharra was the most unique person we have ever had the pleasure to know. Her smile, laughter, kindness and caring were her most precious attributes. She put her heart into everything she did and she did everything to perfection. She had a kind word for everyone she knew. She was the first one to send a card or drop off a flower when a crisis occurred in our family. Sharra is an angel now in God's arms and we know she has found peace and sanctity from her many years of a heroic struggle with cancer. Sharra, we will resume our pinochle games in heaven when we see you again! We miss you. Love to you, Marla and Allen Thomas

Mary Menard

February 17, 2010

Sharra filled our lives with beauty, love, and laughter until our cheeks hurt and our sides ached. She made us all feel good and look forward to the next time together.

Sharra leaves me with so many wonderful memories I cherish. All the many trips, camping in Eastern Washington, Oregon coast, Washington coast, Reno, Harrison Hot Springs, house boating, girls weekends at Mason Lake and Lake Chelan, and so many others. And every trip having hilarious highlights we all share. Then the home gatherings such as nursery crafting in the garage with Chandler on the way, Valentine dinner, mint julep party, or just the impromptu get togethers Sharra was famous for.

I will always remember Sharra's warmth and kindness and the joy she shared with all.

Our hearts go out to you Roger, Chandler, family and friends. Our love and support will always be here for you.

We miss you Sharra. You touched our lives in so many ways. You will live in our hearts forever....

Thank you for your friendship!
Mary & Ben

Don Peterson

February 17, 2010

To those of us that had the privilege to know Sharra, also know she had a unique way of greeting people. OK… this is pretty much directed towards the “guys” in the gang. Sharra had this incredible forehand and an equally impressive backhand. Once again, to those of you that knew Sharra best also know that I am not referring to her athletic abilities on the tennis court! The forehand I am referring to was usually preceded with… “Nichols… “SMACK” (that was the forehand)…How ya doing?” or “Hergert… “WHACK” (that was the backhand)... How ya doing?” Never hard enough to hurt, but definitely enough to get your attention! Once this greeting ritual was complete Sharra would switch her focus from professional greeter to “Amateur Bartending 101”. As I recall, there was usually one party every year or so, that Sharra would create a specialty cocktail for all to enjoy. (I use the term enjoy, loosely). The drink in question, of which the contents to this day are still unknown, was garnished with mint leaf! I tried to sample the concoction but could not quite raise the glass past my chin because my eyes were watering too much! Instead, I bottled the liquid in a glass jar with a secure lid and transported it home for possible re-use as a solvent. Sharra, we love you and miss you and cherish our times together. It has definitely been a privilege. Love Forever, Don.

February 16, 2010

Sharra,
I know you are watching us and I think about you daily. Thank you for being the "consummate social activity director" of the gang. We have been editing our 50+ carrousels of slides and we realized most of them are because of you. All the camping trips to lakes and rivers were all organized by you, spending hours on redial to book Baker Lake. We have such great memories. Bachelorette parties on a school bus & your moms station wagon, Halloween barn parties, rotating Christmas get-togethers, the original Boogala party, the many years at Lake Chelan and the list goes on and on. You made life fun for so many of us. Thank you for your ability to make each person feel special, you are the only one I have met that could do that. Thank you for letting us share your life, we love and miss you.

Jim and Nancy Foltz

Jill Gough

February 14, 2010

I love my sister Sharra and feel so incredibly blessed that she was my sister. When I think of her I think of the fun we had together and some of the hard times shared.
The fun includes throwing folding lawn chairs into her car and heading to Beer Bottle Beach to lie in the sun. She used to refer to me as Ghost, but I soon learned to love lying in the sun. Of course no one could hold a tan like Sharra.
She could look in mom’s refrigerator and come up with some of the best breakfasts. I wish I would have learned to cook like her. She gave me a cookbook in 1984 and while mom and dad were on a trip, I made dinner using a chicken recipe from the book. It took me about 2 hours to make the chicken. Sharra and Lisa would never let me forget that I only made 4 chicken thighs for the three of us. They fought over the last thigh. It is silly things like this that we laughed about.
I consulted her on many decisions. She talked me into buying diamond earrings and I wear them nearly everyday for the past 20 years. I have a buffet that she talked me into from a trip her, mom and I took to Snohomish. She was there when I went on house hunting trips. She helped me furnish my family room. I know I often frustrated her with my lack of decisions, but she was always so generous with her time and her opinion carried great weight to me.
One of my favorite things when Roger worked out of town was having a sleep over with Sharra. Not that she was afraid, but she liked company. Even on trips to Palm Springs, Sharra and I often got paired on a futon or full size bed. Still it was so much fun even in tight quarters to laugh until we fell asleep. Our last sleep over was Memorial Day 2009, when Sharra learned that the cancer had spread. Lots of words unspoken, but we both knew the road ahead would be difficult. Sisters are there through the good and bad.
The summer mom had her stroke, Sharra not only worked, but she watched out for me. Lisa and Jan spent the summer in Wenatchee. Sharra and I would go to the hospital every day to visit mom. It was hard, but we made the best of it. Lots of wheelchair races in the hospital halls. This is probably where Sharra perfected her wheelchair skills, which she would later use with able-body friends and family. Sometimes we would stop by the Arboretum to lie in the sun and possibly catch a glimpse of the nude bather. Hoping this isn’t the guy that Lee and Sharra would later check out on their bus commute. We were so blessed that mom recovered. I so wanted Chandler to have the opportunity to grow up with her mom. But those of us that love Sharra will have the privilege of helping Chandler know her mom.
When our mom was in the hospital for the last time, Sharra and I spent many hours together sitting/sleeping at mom’s side. We talked about being there for each other when it came our time. We had no idea it would be so soon. When Sharra was in the hospital she would always be so positive and encouraging. But there were times when I could not understand her and I felt helpless. I’m sure she knew my heart and forgave me for not understanding.
It seems like I am missing another part of my heart. The sadness I’m feeling can’t compare to that of Roger’s and Chandler’s. Please know that you have a sister and aunt that loves you and is here for you. Our comfort at this time is knowing that Sharra is in heaven and that we will be re-united someday.
Jesus, Please give my sister Sharra a hug from me and let her know I love her. Sharra’ little sister, Jill.

Kathy Johnson/Smith

February 13, 2010

"Each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
- Anais Nin

Sharra, my dear friend, I will treasure the world you helped me create forever. Here's to our world...

* Quigley Hall
* The house we shared with Debbie
* Rodeo Weekends
* Floating the Yakima River
* Camping Trips
* Driving over the pass with a screaming lamb in the backseat of my Mustang.
* Our beautiful children
* Trips to Ocean Shores with Lisa and all the kids.
* Playing Gorilla at the cabin
* The weekend we were snowed in at the cabin and all the hysterical events.
* Laughing until we cried
* Long conversations on the phone when we were both laid up
and finally,
Seeing each other again someday.

I love you and miss you terribly!

Earline Allen

February 13, 2010

On my security walks throughout the Westlake Office Tower, I always looked forward to stopping in at Moburg's and chatting with Sharra. Even if she was busy doing something, Sharra always took the time to talk with me.
I will miss you, Sharra.

Earline,
Westlake Office Tower Security

Sue (Allen) Wall

February 11, 2010

I received the best gift EVER the Summer of 1970, Sharra gave me a family. My Dad was Sharra's Uncle Jack and starting in 1970 we would go to Kirland every summer. I was NEVER Sharra's, Lisa's, Jan's or Jill's "step" cousin, Sharra made me a real cousin and that was that. Thanks to Sharra I had a ton of friends in Kirkland because she always shared everything. My summers were spend sleeping in Sharra's bed with Lisa across the room. I never knew what it was to be a sister but those Gough girls treated me (and tortured me) just like a sister. From the time I meet Sharra I felt less like an only child and more like a member of a very big, loving and fun family. Sharra was one of the funniest ladies I ever met, we could laugh forever and usually at something very trivial. Her heart was pure gold. She taught me so much about sharing and being who you are, not what other people think you should be. I regret not seeing her for 10 years, that was a mistake I hope never to make again when it comes to people I love. She is still teaching me even from Heaven. I love you Sharra Lynn, always have, always will. xoxoxo "cousin" Sue

Lisa Ross

February 11, 2010

I've known Sharra since junior high. We had so much fun at KJH, LWHS & then off to Central College in Ellensburg. We thought we were the hottest things to hit campus in our dresses, platform shoes & nylons! One gust of that frigid Ellensburg wind was all it took to bring us to our senses. We'd hang out in our all girl dorm & sing along with our Stevie Wonder & Pheobe Snow albums. Poetry Man & You are the Sunshine of my Life were our favorites. Things got more exciting when we moved to the coed dorm Quigley. I've never laughed so hard as I have with Sharra. She was quite the match maker setting Jeff & I up on a blind date I'm sure you've all heard about. Her love of life, fearless spirit, freindship & courage will never be forgotten. Love & Miss you Sharra Lynn......Stowebelly

Debbie Woodbury

February 9, 2010

Here is Sharra, as always the trooper, just three months before she left us. When I met her in college she was already honing her skills as our den mother. The house we shared during that time was dominated by Sharra's sense of decor, hinting at the hostess extraodinaire she would become. She had a knack for keeping things alive--a jungle of houseplants, a huge tank of tropical fish, a party thrown together on a shoestring, friendships old and new. But I never would have bet money that she'd become such a fastidious housekeeper! Sharra was the one who made sure everyone got the word, that there was more food than we could ever eat, and that everyone who walked through the door was welcomed. I cannot imagine us gathering without Sharra bursting into the room and declaring the party has started. But her gift to us is that she will live on in our hearts, our stories, in a favorite dish or often-repeated phrase. And we will get to enjoy her gifts over and over in the grace, beauty, and humor she bequethed to Chandler. Thank you for being you Sharra. And thank you for being my friend. Love always,

Gordon Kyle

February 9, 2010

Sharra always saw the glass 1/2 full. I will miss her a lot

Jenny Hergert

February 9, 2010

I've never met another person like Sharra. I mean really; someone so full of love for everyone around her, and always making sure there was never a dull moment, a party without amazing food, or a game to play. I remember fondly a thousand (ok, maybe not that many, but nearly it seems like) trips to the cabin and all the adventures I’ve had there. Whether it was as simple as swimming on the lake, or something more exciting like crawling around the beach at midnight to collect oysters, there was always something going on, always someone to talk to and laugh with. I have so many things to thank her for; she taught me a lot: How to play hearts (my favorite game ever), how to hide from gorillas, how to play a real game of chess, why swap meets can be fun (and antique shops), what to do if there are extra mashed potatoes on your plate, it doesn’t matter if the lake is freezing go swimming anyway, you should always have some candy stashed somewhere, the meaning of sarcasm, and so many more. I swear half of my childhood memories have Sharra and family in them. To a loving, amazing, funny, beautiful friend and person: I love you, I miss you, and thank you for being in my life. I’ll remember you always.
-Jenny Hergert

Krista Cain and family

February 9, 2010

Karra and I are the "first children" of "the Gang". We have been so lucky to have many mothers: Lee, Lynn, Paula and of course, Sharra. I can't imagine growing up without this extended family.

They say that your friends are the family you get to choose yourself. I think our Dad made fantastic choices and I'm grateful to have his friends in my life.

Sharra - I will always remember your laugh; the fun way you always asked about our lives; camping trips; New Year's parties; and more. You always treated us like your own children. You will be so terribly missed.

Kelly Kyle

February 9, 2010

Sharra was a giver. A truly unselfish person & shinning example of how to love others. She lived her life with NO regrets & made you feel like you were the most important thing in her world.

It is rare to meet a person like her....GOD has a new angel in heaven, one to always watch over us...as we remember her & our memories through the years.

Sharra has blessed me, as a step-sister, to know the meaning of acceptance, love & dignity. I will be forever changed by her wisdom, caring & love.

I miss you....SHARRA...we all do. You & your whole family have a very special place in my heart.

Love & hugs, till we meet again.

Jill Gough

February 8, 2010

Lisa and Jan thought I should include what I said at Sharra’s Memorial. I spoke immediately following the song ‘There Will Be a Day’ by Jeremy Camp.

Sharra’s day was January 20th. That is the day when her pain and suffering ended and she saw Jesus face to face. I think our mom was standing next to Jesus waiting to give Sharra a huge embrace.

Speaking for Sharra’s 3 sisters: Lisa, Jan and myself, we loved being Sharra’s little sisters and often referred to as ‘little Goughs’ by her friends. Sharra paved the way for us with our parents, negotiating such as when nylons could be worn, legs shaved (something she later abandoned), curfews established and ears pierced. Sharra often got tasked with some mothering duties such as walking us to school or being positioned at the dinner table between Jan and I, the two youngest. Sharra helped us navigate growing up.

Her influence on us is visible when you look at each of our faces – pencil thin eyebrows. I just recently learned that our cousin Sue sat on Lisa’s stomach while Sharra plucked Lisa’s eyebrows for the first time.

In the Gough house with 4 young girls there was a lot of hand me down clothing except for Sharra. Hers were always new. Don’t worry with counseling we are pretty much over this. But I did enjoy a time in my teens and 20s where I got to borrow Sharra’s clothes and shoes and I finally knew I’d made it when she started borrowing some of my things. Her opinion and approval was very important to us. The hand me downs even applied to cars. Sharra’s 1965 Pontiac Tempest was passed down to Lisa and then to some other loving home. But it was Sharra’s 1969 red Firebird convertible I wanted handed down, but sadly it quit working and became a yard ornament. But Sharra did let me borrow it and I proudly drove it to Lake Washington High School. We admired Sharra so much how she cared about people more than things, but don’t get me wrong she loved sporting the diamonds Roger gave her, knew how to laugh and create adventure. We sought her advice on so many decisions in life. She was a sister to look up to.

Life at the Gough house was so good that three of us stuck around home much longer than most people. The rent was cheap, the food was fabulous, but it was the company that was the best. It was a little like living in a dorm. There were many winter evening where we sat around watching Wheel of Fortune and then us sisters would put on our swim suits and head to Juanita High School for water aerobics.

When Sharra met Roger we knew that she would eventually move out of the Gough house, but it took a little longer than expected. Sharra loved Roger with all her heart and we knew he loved her. Together they enjoyed life. And with Roger came his daughter Erin whom Sharra loved and helped share parenting responsibilities. But finally Sharra’s greatest joy entered the work via C section with Roger at Sharra’s side and Lisa peering into her abdomen, Chandler arrived. The arrival of Chandler changed Sharra, not so many late nights out at Hectors or other parties. Sharra wanted to be home to give Chandler her bottle and rock her to sleep. She hated giving this up be Chandler eventually got to old for a bottle.

Sharra created memories for those she loved. Never one to sit around there was always an adventure to be had or a reason to celebrate. When Chandler came along the adventures focused on creating memories with her and still she brought so many of us along for the ride: they included camping trips, weekends at Boogala Lodge with late night skinning dipping, frog hunting at midnight on trips to Ocean Shores, TPing their aunts house, water balloon fight, beaches explored, take your daughter and niece to work days at Dean Moberg and Associates, birthday parties for Chandler at hotels with lots of little girls and the list could go on and the list is different for each one who knew and loved Sharra. Sharra created a lifetime of memories for us.

They sat it takes a village to raise a child … and Chandler you have a village. But it also takes a village to fight cancer. Of course Sharra did so much of the fighting herself. She hated to be a bother to others, but she didn’t realize that we were selfish wanting to spend time with her. Sharra’s village consisted of Roger and Chandler who kept home together when Sharra couldn’t; her friends, coworkers and family that walked the Susan G Komen 5K as the Curran Comrades organized by her friend Lynn; her friend Lee walking 60 miles and raising thousands of dollars to find a cure for breast cancer … with the cure still yet to be found; to the numerous friends who took a turn bringing her to radiation appointments when Sharra couldn’t drive; and so many others who brought meals, cleaned her house and helped to keep things normal and to celebrate every moment she had. The village also consisted of doctors and nurses who cared for and loved my sister. And to Joan and Lisa who have brought Chandler to and from school. What a blessing you were to Sharra and continue to be to Roger, Chandler and our family. Sharra is truly loved!

We prayed for a miracle and though it doesn’t seem like God answered He did – just not the way we wanted. The miracle was Sharra’s release from the disease she battled, eternity in heaven with Jesus and being re-united with our mom. God knew her work was done, though we may like to argue this point, but those of us who are left still have work to accomplish and we need to be about it.

As I left Sharra’s room the night before she died, I prayed that God would not let her die alone. And Roger, Lisa and I got to be with her.

And though I’m incredibly sad, God has also given me a thankful heart.
I’m thankful Sharra was my sister and my friend.
I’m thankful she was such a big part of my life.
I’m thankful for her example on how to celebrate life and seek out adventures.
I’m thankful for the memories we shared that come so easily to mind.
I’m thankful for Roger and Chandler. Its because of Sharra your in my life. I love you both.
I’m thankful I got to be with Sharra when she left this earth and stepped into eternity. I wanted her to know how loved she was at that moment.
And I’m so thankful that I’ll see her again in heaven.

It was such a privilege to get to tell people about my sister. Love you always Sharra.

Joan

February 8, 2010

Dear Precious,
I love you. I miss you. I will never forget you. Thank you for being you and for being in my life. You are a beautiful angel.

Edna Price

February 8, 2010

One snowy weekend in the 70's, my husband and I took a car load of students back to Ellensburg. One of the girls was Sharra. We stopped in Cle Elum and treated them all to lunch. We made several trips taking the kids back to school over the years. The trip back to Kirkland was so quiet for George and me. Over the years, I got to know Sharra after she and Joan became friends. Sharra was a caring and loving person like her mother, Sharon. When I came home from the hospital two years ago, here came Sharra with a meal for us, enough food for 10 people. It was so good - we ate it for three meals, but that dear girl wasn't well herself and she goes to all the trouble for us. Another time here she comes with ice cream, such a kind and thoughtful human being. I know she has a special place in heaven. She was loved by many people. I feel special to have known her. Love and God's Blessing to you always.

Karen Hergert

February 7, 2010

When I remember Sharra visually, I always see her hands. She had the most beautiful and graceful hands. When I remember Sharra as a person, I always think of how kind and inclusive she was to everyone. Even when she was extremely ill, she always got you talking about your problems when her own were so overwhelming.

I had the privilege of spending a great deal of time with Sharra over the last 30 years. There was never a bad moment in the bunch as she was the best of friends. I miss her and think of her often.

Jim Elliott

February 7, 2010

Sharra, I love you. You have been with me most of my life. Thank you for your unconditional love and accepting me for whom I have always been. We have shared a lifetime of memories, but most important from the first day that you met Stu you have cherished our relationship. You are always in my heart.
It will be a grand day when we meet again.
Jim Elliott & Stu Lehr

February 4, 2010

How I ever became so blessed to have the pleasure, honner,& privelge to have known such a great women is somtimes beon me.Thirty years ago October 17 2010 I saw this gorgous gril at the moran family home at her birthday party, Now not knowing anyone (except Lee) there was a lot of sight investigating on their part.It did'nt take long for this stray cat to be accepted. I would never attempt to seperate myself from such high qualty friends and family without Sharra I would not have been blessed. Some of us have heros mine is Sharra.

Lisa Silvestre

February 4, 2010

My dear sister Sharra,

Oh, I am missing you so much. I can’t stop thinking about you and I keep running through so many great memories. I can’t count how many times I prayed to God not to take my Sharra. There is some comfort in knowing he has a plan for you and needed your help in heaven.

What I have learned from you is numerous. The first is how to live life and make it an adventure. There are so many adventures from our childhood through to our adult lives. You not only created life long memories for Channa, but you also created them for me and my children. Khayla and AJ loved being with you, going over to your house, and vacationing with you. They thought of you as more than an aunt, but rather a second mom.

Some of my happiest moments as a kid were sharing a room with you for 15 years. I remember tying strings from your toe to mine so we could stay up and catch Santa in the act. When you asked your friends to spend the night it was assumed I had to share my bed with them. My favorite was waiting until you were just about asleep, slithering off the bed, sliding across the hardwood floors to grab your foot and scare you. You eventually caught on and would scream, ‘I can hear you.’

On the Monday before you left for heaven, Jan and I were there visiting you at the hospital. I am not sure why, but when I was leaving I leaned over to kiss your cheek that was furthest from me, but I thank God that I did. To my surprise, your lips came up and kissed my cheek. I knew then you were saying good-bye and your time was limited. I am so glad we had that moment, it was actually the last night you were conscious.

You have taught us all how to approach a serious illness and die gracefully. You endured so much over the last few years, more than anyone should have to, but never complained. You fought until your body just gave up on you, but your spirit never did.

It is difficult to imagine my life without you. I will see you again, but until then I will miss you dearly.

Love your sister Lisa

Rich & Paula Nichols

February 4, 2010

I met Sharra in the seventh grade and Paula met Sharra in the fourth grade. I won't go into great detail but remember the Lola Papers, quibbles and lola the horse, fun times back then. High school even more fun times, I remember Sharra bought my 69 Firebird, I can still see her driving off, top down, waving.
After high school we all became more than friends, more like family. We remember when Sharra told us she was pregnant. We were all so exited for her and Roger.
Then came Chandler and three months later Paula got to take care of her while Sharra was at work, what a joy!
There are so many wonderful memories, but to name a few, towel bar Wapato, Palm Springs twin beds, sycronized swimming, Halloween nights at our house, boat trips crabbing in the wind, ice in the red wine at the bowling alley, skinny dipping in Sonoma, skinned knees at the winery concert, and the list go's on and on.
We love you, we miss you and we will never forget you.
Life will never be the same.

Bruce and Debbie Burnett

February 3, 2010

It was so nice to see all of Sharra's dear friends and family at the memorial. What a fantastic life she shared with all of us. For everyone there, the sadness of her passing was ceratinly painfull, but it's tempered by the fact that we got together to celebrate a wonderful, dear, kind and loving friend. Sharra was a once in a lifetime person who graced our lives and made us all realize how special life really is. Her laugh was contagious, her smile would take away all our troubles. Looking into her eyes we could see the life, love and compassion she shared with everyone. She had the ability to make us all feel like we were her best friend, every time we saw her. Sharra was all about everyone else, and making sure we were all comfortable, happy and had something good to eat or drink always.
My own personal experience with Sharra was one of extreme love and laughter. She was gifted with the ability to make me laugh by just looking at me, or saying something so "off the wall" that sometimes it would take me a few days to figure out what she was talking about, and then I would laugh.
In the past, we spent a lot of time together and had so much fun, that I really need to thank her for that. There were times partying with Sharra that were second to none, she was the best. Rona Barrett the "Voice of Kirkland". The camping trips, time around the camp fire, the parties at everyone's house when she would bring some gourmet party favor to the event to share with everyone. The floats down the Yakima, where I got in trouble for calling her "BATH SHEEBA, THE QUEEN OF THE NILE", confident that I would get a slap in the face from her, to my great delight.
Knowing Sharra for just this brief time was chicken soup to our soul, and we had hoped, as everone had hoped, that she would have been around to get old with us, and watch us all get old together. But it wasn't to happen. She was taken away from us way too soon. Sharra made a great and courageous fight out of her illness, and never once complained or became depressed, and continued to be an inspitation to us all.
But God must have had bigger plans for her to take her so early. HE must have needed her so desperatly, that he couldn't wait any longer. So as she sits up here in heaven, looking at us right now, we can her her laughing loudly and saying "LETS GET THIS PARTY ROLLING". Sharra, we love you, we miss you terribly, and we will never forget you. May you rest in peace and God bless!

Andy Cannon

February 3, 2010

I remember back when I was a latch key child I would be calling the office about something and Sharra was always on point. I think half the time she answered my questions and I never even talked to my parents. She always had a joke or a sarcastic remark for me that I enjoyed and I would give it right back to her and we would laugh together. She will be missed by all as I am one of the many people whose heart she has touched.

February 2, 2010

I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT SHARRA

I am so proud of her. You all know why
My heart aches for Chandler and Roger, and the Gough Family and
THE "GANG"
She was lucky to have you.

I could never comvince her to call me

MOOK

Sam Hergert

February 2, 2010

I met Sharra in 1974 at college, that was the start of a long and fun relationship. For thirty six years I was there along with everyone else in "the gang" for all the ups and downs that come with knowing people that well. Sharra was at the center of that gang and always had a part of the action. The gang will go on, but will never be the same without her. I loved Sharra very much and will miss her alot.

Marsha Henderson

February 2, 2010

Sharra was such a beautiful person! How lucky for all that shared her life. Our deepest sympathy to Roger and Chandler.
Marsha & John Henderson

February 1, 2010

I wrote this letter to my dear sister Sharra on December 9th and slipped it into a Christmas card. This was a day Lisa and I went to see Sharra and thought that there was nothing else they could do for her. While we were there though, her Neurosurgeon came in and spoke about doing another surgery. Sharra said absolutely yes, and Lisa and I were filled with hope again. I decided not to give her the letter that day and now so wish I would have. I did give it to Roger along with other items the family had given him to be placed in with Sharra.

December 09, 2009


To My Incredible and Courageous Sister Sharra,

I’m writing this letter to you to let you know just how much you mean to me, and to let you know how remarkable you are.
I am so amazed at your courage and strength through these very difficult years. You have shown me that giving up is never an option.
Your kindness and caring of others is an inspiration. You may not know this but you have touched so many people’s lives. Words cannot express my gratitude for all the love and support you provided me during a difficult time in my life.
You need never worry about Chandler and Roger, they are both surrounded by family and friends that love them dearly and will always be there for them.
I have such fond memories of our childhood. I still remember when I was twelve and you sewed me my first bikini bathing suit, it was neon green. Instead of hanging out with your friends like most teenagers do, you took the time to do this and many other things for the family. This has always been your nature, others before yourself.
If I could trade places with you, I would do so in a heartbeat. You have suffered more pain than any one person should ever have to endure. It is sometimes hard to believe there is a God when something like this happens to someone you love. I just keep telling myself that God must have a much greater purpose in store for you.
I want you to know that I am so thankful to have a sister like you. You are beautiful both inside and out.
I love you Sharra.

Jan

Terry Cox

February 1, 2010

To an amazing woman who will be deeply, deeply missed. If you look up gracious and thoughtful in the dictionary, her picture would appear. She's taught us all a lesson about selflessness. And, her cooking....my God, her cooking! Cheers, my friend.

Karra and Brian Whitmire

January 31, 2010

I find comfort in the fact that Sharra is still keeping an eye on all of us. Just a couple days after her passing, Caden chose the book, "The Tale of Peter Rabbit" by Beatrix Potter, to read before bed. He's had this set of Beatrix Potter books since before he was born, but never expressed any interest in reading them. We opened the inside cover and were brightened to read "Love, The Currans". Sharra had purchased this set of books for my first baby shower. Caden's been picking out a new Beatrix Potter book each night since (all on his own accord), and it makes Brian and me smile each time we read "Love, the Currans".
We will miss you, Sharra. We are so lucky to have had you in our lives. Take care, Roger and Chandler, and know that we are always here for you.

Valerie Seaton

January 31, 2010

I wanted to say something at the memorial but found, once I walked in and seen that beautiful face that I had seen so many times over the last 18 years, all that flew from me were tears. The reality was just too much.
In 1991 Sharra interviewed me at Dean Moburg & Associates. It’s funny because if there was a second interview with an “owner,” I don’t remember it. We all knew who the boss was, owner or not. It was always such a treat to go into the office to take care of some business knowing Sharra was going to be there. I can still hear her as I walked in: “Oh, god. Did I schedule you in here?” and then she’d laugh.
There were numerous times when I would call to let her know I was backed up and needed off the calendar. By the time I hung up, she had given me a job for the next day and my need for time off had somehow vanished. Or it would be slow and I’d call up to say I needed to work and she’d convince me that I needed the day off and give a suggestion of what I should do.
Sharra just had this extraordinary way about her that let you know she cared about what was going on in your life. She always asked about my extended family. It could be something that maybe I mentioned one time in passing, but yet the next time she’d see me, she would show her concern and bring it up. “Self-absorbed” was definitely not a character trait of Sharra.
I was thrilled that Sharra was willing to stay on at Moburg as my employee in July 2008. That was like hitting the lotto, to know that I didn’t have to be the “boss.” Sharra would be there and things would continue without a hitch. Turned out that wasn’t to be for Sharra, but it sure was not due to lack of effort on her part. She would come to work while on chemo, undergoing radiation and still keep things running as if nothing was wrong. I never once saw a quitter in Sharra. She was all fight. She left me in awe so many times. Like when she had to schedule radiation and chemo, checking my schedule first! Even discussing her cancer (which she never initiated herself), her attitude was like, eh, stubbed my big toe. She never gave in to it. She even called from the hospital to apologize she couldn’t answer phones when she ended up there unexpectedly.
One of the funniest things I remember towards the end of her time at the office was the first time I seen her without her wig. I walked in and the first thing she says, “Do I look like Uncle Fester or what?” That’s her; always lightening up the situation and making you feel comfortable.
There is a photo album and a VHS tape at Moburg & Associates of one of our office parties when we all went bowling. That was the one and only time I ever “partied” with Sharra, and let me tell you, it was one to remember. I would be glad to make copies for anyone who would want one.
Sharra will always be a part of Moburg & Associates and hold a special, special part of my memories there. If there’s no objection, her voice will remain on our after-hours voice mail. Cheers to the most amazing person I have ever known.

Lee Peterson

January 31, 2010

I met Sharra in High School. I can’t recall the day I met her, it just seemed like I’d known her all my life.

What I do remember is the phone call…. It was Sharra, home from College. She said, hey what are you doing this week-end, Do you want to go out? So we did, and we did so every week-end thereafter for the next 10 years. Hectors, Waldos, Hectors & Waldos…

Then there were the summer vacations in Hawaii. We use to lay out in the sun, for as long as we could stand it, until she would toss her head from side to side and declared she was delirious. Sharra would become this golden tan goddess and I would be as red as a lobster.

We both worked downtown Seattle and on occasion would meet for a late lunch. These would sometimes turn into happy hour and we would have to call our bosses and tell them we weren’t coming back. We were having just too much fun.

For years we commuted together across the 520 bridge. I think of her every time I go by the Arboretum. Not because of the traffic, but because she was always straining her neck looking for the nude sunbathers that frequented that area. It still makes me laugh.

She could make anything fun. We took up aerobics once. Time to get in shape. First day, she calls and says meet me at the bar, then we’ll go to class. She would make sure she was lined up in back so she could use the dance rail to hold herself up. Then we joined weight watchers. No meeting in the bar. We would go straight to class, weigh in, listen to all the weight loss advice, then go out for dinner and drinks.

We eventually got married and settled down, but the fun never stopped. There were Birthday parties, Halloween parties, Valentine’s day parties, bowling parties, wedding dress parties. Yes, wedding dress parties. Sharra planned the most fabulous wedding dress party ever. Everyone had to wear what they wore when they got married. It was quite a site. She served wedding cake and actually had all the couples renew their vows.

Then they built Boogala Lodge and the parties started getting longer. She planned one of Chandler’s birthday parties there, with 9 other girls. She made them all sleep outside in a large tent. She arranged colorful air mattress for each, lined up like a can of sardines. The girls loved it. At night we would play spoons. When is the last time you played spoons? I recommend it. It makes you laugh.

Last year, we were planning a small BBQ. It had been about 90 degrees all week. On the way over Sharra and Chandler stopped and bought a plastic baby pool and we all sat around with our feet in the pool. I remember thinking; are we really all sitting around this pool looking and talking at each while soaking our feet. Who does this?

Well the answer is Sharra. She lived life to the fullest and brought fun and laughter to everything. I feel blessed to call her my best friend and I miss her.

Holiday Party 2006

Lynn Moran

January 31, 2010

Dear Sharra,
Three years ago this photo was taken at a holiday party. Looking at your radiant smile and joyous expression one would never know that you were not yet recovered from your first surgery. It speaks volumes about you.

Throughout the years it was you who was always the first one to show a kindness to a friend or a family member of a friend who was ill by delivering one of your fabulous dinner dishes. And as we, your many friends, learned by your example I remember that we literally overburden you with meals, flowers, and visits that October.

You taught us many other things to by the example you set. How to be inclusive with others - one reason for the number of people who attended your memorial. You always made it easy for friends and family, new and old, to be a part of the whole. You taught us that not only quality but quantity of time spent with people you love is important. And so it was you, many many times instigating a night out. One phone call from Sharra and like a stampeding herd of buffalo we would gather.

I can't possibly share today all the things you gave to us or taught us by the way in which you lived. So selflessly, and in the end with such grace and in true Sharra style.

I love you, and as difficult as this is, I wanted to say good-bye and to thank you. You will always be-Beautiful in name... Beautiful in spirit.

Khayla Silvestre

January 29, 2010

Auntie Sharra-
It’s only been 9 days since you left us. Each day that passes I think I’m getting better in accepting that you’re gone, but then I hear someone speak your name and my world crashes around me. I know you wouldn’t want me to be sad; you hated seeing me cry, but I can’t help it. I don’t want to picture my life without you because I’ve never known the world without you in it.
I also wanted to apologize. I should have pushed myself to go swimming with you. It was the only thing you asked of me, but I felt I was too weak. But in reality, your body was weaker than my mind, and yet you pushed yourself for me. I will never be able to forgive myself for this or for the fact that I didn’t visit you in the hospital. I just didn’t know you wouldn’t come out.
You were so beautiful inside and out. I automatically gravitated to any room you were in. Your positive energy could make anybody get in a good mood. Your smile was contagious. And I know you might disagree with me, but I thought you rocked the heck out of that shaved head!
I hope to God that you can read this, because if you can’t I just spilled my heart to a bunch of strangers, making me look like a fool. What I wanted to say most of all, to you, is that I miss you. I love you more than you know, and I regret not telling you that more often. The hole you left in my heart won’t be filled by anybody, because I put up some red velvet rope so everybody knows not to mess with your territory. And, hey, don’t worry about Chandler. I’m gonna take care of her. We all will.
I’ll see you again.

January 29, 2010

Dear Roger and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We want you to know that you are in our prayers and will be making a donation to the Susan G. Koman fund in Sharra's name.
Love, Kenny and Peggy

Sharra, your smile shines eternally bright, we have all been blessed.

Stan Smith

January 29, 2010

There are not adequate words to express how deeply sorrowful we feel today. Truly, the world has lost a great soul in Sharra, who touched every life she encountered during her short time with us here on earth.
Roger, Chandler, Family & Friends, try to find some comfort in knowing that Sharra was truly an exceptional life force and had an impact on the lives she touched, and she touched everyone.
Sharra meant the world to me, and I feel a deep void within, I will miss her vivacious laugh, beautiful smile, sense of humor, her caring words, that warm hug and so much more.
I believe that Sharra made each one of us feel as if we were her best friend, she had a way of making us feel connected, loved, cared for, and it was the real thing. That was what made her such a beautiful person.
I have never met another individual who touched so many lives in the way she did. Sharra made you feel as if you were the most important person in her life and to her, you were.
I have been blessed by having had the honor and privilege to have had Sharra in my life during the past twenty-five + years.
Sharra my dear friend, I will miss you forever, think of you always, hold your love close to my heart and see you another day.
But most of all Sharra, I want to Thank You for sharing your life with me. I will love you forever and a day.

“If rain can melt snow,why can't tears melt sorrow ?”
~ Stan R. Smith

Daniel & Jennifer Todd

January 28, 2010

We always look forward to see our friends Sharra, Rodger, Chandler and Zeek come to their Boogala Lodge. It brought a very deep sadness to hear of Sharra passing. We know she is with our Lord and many loved ones waiting for us to join them in heaven. Sharra was always welcoming to all of us at the lake. We will miss her. The Todd Family

January 28, 2010

My heartfelt sorrow and sympathy go out to Sharra and her beloved family and friends - especially to her daughter and husband. I only had lunch with Sharra once, but i have talked with her on the phone for over 20 years at Dean Moburg. She was always so fun, funny, kind, generous and never put me on hold! Okay once! We chatted like we'd seen each other every day. Thanks Sharra for all those awesome Mariner tickets and all the nice Christmas gifts! I pray that you are at peace and God is holding you tightly in his arms. I now volunteer at American Cancer Society and will light a luminary in your honor at the relay for life in July. Thank you for being you. I miss your friendly voice, Carol

Claudia Tieken Dodel

January 28, 2010

I am so very sorry to read of Sharra's passing. I recall a very confident young Sharra and was very impressed by her. She was always so nice to me. I really appreciated that. My prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

Lisa Silvestre

January 27, 2010

To my beloved sister Sharra, I will miss you forever and I will cherish every minute we had together. May the memory of your face, your touch and your smile never fade. I love you so very much and words can't describe how much I miss you. You and mom better be waiting for me. I love you.

Sally Lesher (Hamilton)

January 27, 2010

Sharra was the best person I have ever met in my 71 years. A better friend could not be found. I am so grateful to have known her and to have been able to call her friend.

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