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Alice Tong Obituary

Alice Yoshi Tong Born on December 11, 1939 in Maui, passed away at home in Greenbrae on August 3, 2009. She graduated from Queens Hospital Honolulu as an RN. Alice was preceded in death by her son Carson Roy Hideo; mother and father Umeno and Shigeo Ishibashi; mother and father-in-law Geneveive and Roy Tong. She is survived by her husband Wyman; daughter Jennifer; sister Patricia (Mike) Isobe; brother Gordon (Sue) Ishibashi; many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. She requested that there be no service. A reception will be held on August 16th, 1:00 pm at San Rafael Joe's at 931 4th St., San Rafael, casual attire. Donations in her memory may be made to Hospice by the Bay, 17 E. Sir Francis Drake, Larkspur 94939 and St. Rita's Church, 100 Miranda Dr., Fairfax 94930

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Aug. 12 to Aug. 14, 2009.

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T. Yee

August 24, 2009

Dear Uncle & Cuz:

No words can express the sorrow and tears I have for the loss of Auntie Alice and how I was unable to be there. We realize that the goal in life is to create something that will live forever. Auntie had done just that; whether it was her warm embrace, her loving smile, or the glimmer of hope that shined bright in her eyes. The countless memories that Auntie provided will live in all of us forever.

Craig & Dona Conzelman

August 20, 2009

Wyman,
So sorry to hear about Alice. Dona and I think of you all the time and the fun we had in police work.

August 20, 2009

AUGUST 20, 2009
DEAR WYMAN AND JENNIFER
SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT ALICE....GOD BLESS HER AND FAMILY.
HANG IN THERE. TAKE CARE, HOPE TO SEE YOU IN THE NEAR FUTURE.
OUR LOVE AND PRAYERS.
JERRY AND AUDREY HARMAN

August 19, 2009

Dear Wyman and Jennifer,
Donna and I send our sympathy to you both.
Please know our thoughts and prayers
will be with you.
God Bless,
Jeff and Donna Sousa

Pamela Gilreath

August 19, 2009

Dear Wyman
I am so sorry to hear about Alice.I am thinking about you and keeping you in my prayers.

August 14, 2009

Dear Wyman and Jennifer,

So sorry to read about Alice's passing. Our thoughts are with you both now, and we send you our deepest sympathy.

Margaret Tong, Margie Tong Yup, San Francisco, California

Joey Tanzi

August 14, 2009

Wyman
It is with great sadness I feel for you and your family Its been many years but I always found you as a good friend and a nice Deputy Thanks for keeping us all safe God Bless All of you!

Joey Tanzi

Ron Henderson

August 13, 2009

Dear Wyman and Jennifer, I was very sorry to read of Alice's passing. I remembey you all so well. Please rest assured that she is at peace with your son and brother. My deepest sympathy.
Ron Henderson, formerly at Keaton's.

The Shine Family

August 13, 2009

Dear Wyman and Jennifer:

We would like to send our deepest sympathy to you in this time of sorrow and grieving. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sincerely,
Alva, Karen, Sandra and Kevin Shine

Tom Odetto

August 13, 2009

Dear Wyman

Rachel and I send our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Alice was a fine person and I want you to know that you were the most respected partner I had the pleasure of working with. God Bless, Tom Odetto

Eireann

August 13, 2009

Jennifer,

I was so sorry to see that your mom had passed on. I haven't been in touch too much since leaving the DA's Office, but I do often think of all my friends there. Please know that I am thinking of you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Mike & Karen Cividanes

August 13, 2009

Wyman and Jennifer,

It is always hard for me to find just the right thing to say during times like these. My wife is always better doing this, but I will try my best.

You are both in our thoughts and we are truly sorry for your loss. We will continue to push comforting thoughts in your direction so take care of yourselves.

Mike and Karen Cividanes

John & Gail Goff

August 12, 2009

Dear Wyman.

Gail and I saddned to learn of the passing of your

lovely wife Alice. Please except our sincerest condolence.

John and Gail Goff

Sarah Louie

August 12, 2009

Alice, you are missed and loved. I feel so privileged to have seen you walking down the beach to those waiting for you. We may have lived miles away from you, but you were always close in my heart. Take care, you are a very special and lovely lady!

Wyman and Jenny, please know our prayers are with you in your time of sadness. Know my Mom, Auntie Elsie, Uncle Ed and the others have made room at their table and welcomed Alice. And know there is always room in our hearts for you two.
Love,
Sarah, Paul, and Meghann

Curry Eckelhoff

August 12, 2009

Wyman,
We are so sorry to hear of your wife's passing. Ed passed away two years ago but we all remember when you used to drop by and talk trucks, motors and whatever with him.
Our thoughts are with you and your family and we wish you all the best as your life proceeds.
Curry & the 5 Eckelhoff "kids"

Lisa Lue

August 12, 2009

Jennifer
I am very sorry to hear about your mom.
May the love and support from your family and friends help you through this difficult time.

Daphne Tong-Yoshikawa

August 12, 2009

I am deeply sad to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you both during this difficult time.

Linda Tong-Yee

August 12, 2009

When someone loses a loved one who has meant so much to them, iIt's hard to know how to begin to express sympathy and words of comfort. I can only say that because you ( Wyman) and (Jenny) are so important to me, You're sorrow touches me deeply. And I want you to know that I care much more than I could ever find words to tell you. With my very deepest sympathyy. Love Linda

Gail Megdadi

August 12, 2009

Alice: Although, living in opposite sides of the BA did not offer us many chances to get together, it never stopped us from being able to pick up where we left off the last time we chatted. I appreciated all your support, encouragement and wisdom. You were a woman of few words, but when you did speak, it was evident that you had given it alot of thought and consideration. I never knew you to say an unkind word, even when you were angry, disappointed or hurt....you just stated the facts. (We should all remember, if you don't have nothing nice to say...don't say it)...When you found out in 08 about the cancer, you never asked "why me", but full advantage of "what you could control" and managed your treatments and decisions accordingly. You did it because of your love for your family. I was fortunate to have you in my life for 44 years. I know we agreed, it's not ending. We now have a very special angel standing watch. I've felt your presence and know you've graduated to a new life..., visiting with all of your family, and our shared loved ones. Don't worry about J, W, and M . We will take care of them. Rest in peace, God is with you always...forever.... in our hearts....Love Gail...BTW, say hi to my dad, grandma/grandpa, Uncle Ed, Auntie Elsie, Carson, Auntie Mary and the many others there with you.

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