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Betty Gibson Obituary

Betty June (McPherson) Gibson Passed into eternal life on January 12, 2008 at the age of 80. A tall, elegant lady, Betty lived her life with a proud and independent spirit. She was an engaging person with an earthy good humor, a kind heart, a great ear for music, and a shrewd eye for any pretentiousness. Her character is evident in her legacy, her four children, all of whom were with her in her final days. "Mommy" will be missed by her son Roger Gibson and his wife Patrice who shared their hearts and home with her in her illness; by her son Douglas (Butch) Gibson and his wife Arlene; by her daughter Deborah Neal; and by her son Charles Gibson and his wife Jona. Grandma Betty always had something for her grandchildren when they visited and is dearly loved by Terre Gibson (and Jacqueline), Kai Gibson, Charles Gibson (and Shoney), Jennifer Simon, Kathy Gibson, Camille Fowler (and Charlie), Marissa Gibson and Chad E. Gibson; and six great-grandchildren, Mikaela, Jamison, Myran, Ajhea, Khalil, and Roc Gibson. Betty is also survived by her sisters Jeanette Haley and Harriet James and brother, Cota Rice. Born in Santa Barbara, CA, on April 8, 1927 to Harriet and James McPherson, Betty spent most of her life in Oakland, where she married twice and gave birth to her four children. Her accounting skills served her well throughout her career at the Bank of America and the Girl Scouts of America. Betty's family is grateful to her kind and competent caregivers from Kaiser Hospital and Hospice. As we mourn Betty's passing, let us celebrate her life and be reminded of her whenever we see a graceful gesture, enjoy a good laugh, glimpse through the superficial to the heart, and see in others an example of her independent spirit. Betty lived life her way. So when we listen to jazz, let's raise a glass to a life well-lived by a woman well-loved. Betty, Mommy, Grandma Betty, Momma, you will be missed...until we meet again. Friends are invited to a Memorial Service on Saturday, January 19, 2008 at 1 pm at the Chapel of the Chimes on 4499 Piedmont Avenue in Oakland, CA 94611.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jan. 17, 2008.

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Dolores Reveles

January 22, 2008

Queen,
You were my confidant, my financial advisor, my friend. I have no regrets in not being able to see or talk to you in your last days. I know you knew that we loved you even if we didn't see each other. I owe you so much for helping and guiding me. I will always carry you in my heart.

Chris Casiano

January 18, 2008

I also worked with Betty (aka 'Queen' by a few co-workers) at the Girl Scouts. When she retired, I missed her 'tell it like it is' attitude and her regal spirit and nature. Queen has gone home to be with our Lord. I'll never forget you. God's Blessings to your family.

Deb Whitehill

January 18, 2008

Our thoughts are with the family during this time of great sadness.
Please accept our condolences and know you are in our prayers.

Carmelita Ruybal

January 18, 2008

To Betty,a beautiful soul.You helped so many people with your Divine inspiration and victorious additude.You will always be in our hearts to continue to guide us. Love Carmelita Ruybal(Girl Scouts)

Anne Pham

January 18, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the family.You are in my prayers.
Anne Pham (Girl Scouts)

Yvonne Smith

January 17, 2008

Our prayers are with you. Be strong in the Lord and in the power of his might.

Karla Robinson

January 17, 2008

To my wonderful Godsister, Kathy Gibson. Remember that God has not forsaken you at this time of sorrow. You loved your grandmother but the Lord loved her more. Cry when you need to cry, laugh when you need to laugh. Remember the good times and cherish her in your heart forever more.

Vere Bashir

January 17, 2008

I worked with Betty for many years at Girl Scouts.One of the many things I loved about her was that she said what she meant and meant what she said. I will always remember you Betty. My sympathy to all of your family and friends.Rest in peace . Vere Bashir

Diane Simms

January 17, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Pearl Graham

January 17, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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4499 Piedmont Avenue, Oakland, CA 94611

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