1934
2018
Born 1/4/1934 – Died 4/26/2018
Brendan died peacefully and in the loving care and comfort of the community of St. Anne's Home in San Francisco. Brendan is the son of the late Chief Michael A. (SFPD) and Mary Cashel (Whelan). Brendan was a graduate of St. Paul's Grammar School, St. Ignatius High School and USF. He spent many years in sales in the steel industry. He is the treasured brother of Michael J. Gaffey†, Mary G. Hutchings (Dr. John J.†) of Millbrae, Dennis D. Gaffey† (Barbara†) of St. Helena , Rev. Fr. Kevin P. Gaffey† of San Rafael, William W. Gaffey of Sutter Creek. He is survived by nephews and nieces, Michael J. Gaffey (Pauline), Patrick J. Gaffey (Anne), Mary F. Quinn (Robert), Daniel J. Gaffey (Karen), John J. Hutchings (Helen), Mary I. Tuli (R. William), James A. Hutchings (Penny), Roseann M. Perez (Rene), Mark J. Hutchings (Linda), and by twenty-four grandnephews and nieces. Brendan's family wishes to express their deepest thanks and gratitude to the Sisters, staff and caregivers along with the student nurses of USF School of Nursing for the loving care he received in his declining years. Private Services were held at St. Anne Home under the direction of McAvoy O'Hara with interment at Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery. Donations to Little Sisters of the Poor, St. Anne's Home, 300 Lake Street, San Francisco,To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Family dinner - Brendan back row, 3rd from left
M. Gaffey
September 2, 2019
At home with family - Brendan front row left
M. Gaffey
September 2, 2019
Brendan and niece Megan and nephew Brendan
M. Gaffey
September 2, 2019
Brendan and niece Clare
M. Gaffey
September 2, 2019
Roseann Perez
May 11, 2018
Thank You for the messages and remembrances of Brendan.
Susan Cunningham
May 11, 2018
I grew up across the street from the Gaffey family. Brendan was a close family friend for many years. He was a kind man who loved his dogs and cars and his big family. Rest In Peace dear Brendan.
Sue Cunningham
Hugh champagne
May 10, 2018
Brendan and I were classmates at St Paul's as well as St Ignatius. He will be missed by all who knew him. May he rest in peace, Huey
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