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David Schlessinger Obituary
David was born to Paul and Sook (Kim) Schlessinger on August 12, 1957 in Houston, Texas. He graduated Jefferson High School in Bloomington, Minnesota and went to Crown College in Saint Bonifacius, Minnesota where he studied liberal arts. After college, he pursued his musical interests in Boston, London, and San Francisco.
His favorite childhood memory was drawing and science fair projects. At a young age, he learned to play the cello, then played drums for various bands. He continued to play the guitar and was a music instructor. David also loved photography, collected vintage eyeglasses, and could play over 150 Beatles songs.
He is survived by his sister, Gail (and husband Dennis), Aunt, Judy, and very special friend, Diana Penasa. He was a friend to many, who will be fondly remembered and greatly missed.
He was preceded in death by his parents and grandparents, Daniel and Ruth (Smith) Schlessinger.
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Memories and Condolences
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Judith Johnson Elavsky
February 2, 2023
Oh I'm so sorry to see David has passed on. I knew him form Bloomington as his family lived on the same street for awhile. He was friends with my brother. He was so very nice and kind and had the best infectious laugh. My condolences to you all, I'm sure you miss him so!
May 25, 2017
Gail our deepest sympathy, we honestly still can't process David passing away. He will truly be missed and we will always remember his great smile:)
Sylvia and Raquel
The Smile Center
his dental office
May 21, 2017
Martain was a nice polite man to talk with...When I went o Cat Club he would all ways shake my hand and we would have a conversation for a while.
Strangelove at Cat Club, April 5, 2013
Steph Tember
May 20, 2017
I had noticed Martin for years at the SF nightclubs. I finally went up to him in 2012 or 2013 and told him he was an anchor to my reality - that I always expected to see him, and that if a day came when he were no longer visible, then something was horribly wrong in the fabric of reality.
Martin told me it was the nicest thing anyone had said to him, and we became friends.
Oh Martin, something is horribly wrong in the universe... you are no longer here. I miss your presence.
Tal
May 19, 2017
Kristine & Tal
May 19, 2017
Martin was like a big brother to me and a dear friend to Tal. We hung out, corresponded through email and called each other talking extensively about music, movies and art. He always offered his seat to me when I was in a lot of pain and couldn't walk or stand for very long. We always gave him rides home after the clubs talking about his favorite movies Valley Girl and Pierce Brosnan as James Bond which he would watch over and over. "I watched Valley Girl again today! It's my favorite movie!" "I know Martin, it's one of mine too!" And of course comparing our Joy Division tshirts. Martin, we miss you dearly.
Bheti A
May 18, 2017
I met Martin in the late 90s at the SF clubs. He was such a fixture that I always looked forward to seeing him while I was out. He was such a nice guy, truely nice and fun to talk to. I regret that I didn't get to see him since I came back to the area.
I have so many funny memories of him.
RIP Martin! I will miss you.
Betsey Low
May 17, 2017
RIP, Martin!
You were a part of the Lower Haight community in my twenties. I looked forward to running into you on the streets, parties and our times spent together when I cut your hair. Thank you. You are missed.
Steve Indig
May 17, 2017
Martin was well known and very well liked in the San Francisco nightlife community. We are all saddened at his passing, but very glad to have spent time with him.
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