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Paul VanDyk Obituary
02/27/1952 - 09/01/2024
Paul van Dyk of San Francisco died peacefully in his sleep on September 1, 2024. Born February 27, 1952, he was a proud graduate of Cardinal Newman High School (Santa Rosa), Stanford University and the UC College of Law. Paul's many faceted careers were spent with his own and other law firms, and major financial services institutions. He was an avid golfer and 40-year member of the Olympic Club. Paul had a keen intellect and remarkable memory. Among his many interests were a love of and support for the San Francisco Opera, playing classical guitar, translating Russian literature into English, contract bridge, American and British movies made before 1972, and taking long cruises to many foreign ports in the Caribbean, Europe, the Middle East and South America. Paul had a kind heart and a genuine warmth around friends and strangers alike. He supported many charities both financially and with the priceless gift of his time. He was preceded in death by his father, John, brothers John III and Gerrit, and his wife, Rene. He is survived by his mother, Jean (Santa Rosa), brothers Peter (Ann, Savannah, GA) and Nicolas (Jill, Los Angeles), numerous nieces and nephews, and companion, Saduman Guzel, all of whom enjoyed his infectious sense of humor. Services were private, and a Celebration of Life will be scheduled for a later date. In lieu of any specific charity, a donation in his name to any charitable enterprise would bring a smile to his face.
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Larry W. Bittner
November 8, 2024
I´m am saddened by the news of Paul´s death. He was my dear friend and partner in our 1980´s firm, The Law Offices of Bittner and van Dyk in San Francisco. I had the honor and distint privilege of being his Best Man when he and Rene were married... "I loved my friend. He went away from me. The poem ends, soft as it began. I loved my friend..." by Langston Hughes
R.I.P. dear Paul
Mike Peters
October 17, 2024
I knew Paul because of my friendship with his brother Pete. My favorite memory of Paul was when he, his brother Gary and I decided to drive cross county to Pete (and Ann's) wedding in Indiana. We drove non-stop and had a great time. A storm came through the midwest during our visit necessitating a southern Route 66 trip through sandstorms and horrible winds but made home. I remember getting to know Paul better than when I was hanging out at the VanDyk home. I'll never forget how special a person he was. Mike
Mark
October 16, 2024
I came to know Paul while we walked our dogs. He was very dedicated to Scotty. Paul was a highly intelligent fellow with a quick wit. He often spoke about Stanford while laughing at Cal. He loved golf and was happy to play just south of here. He spoke fondly of his mother and her longevity. He was incredibly happy after finding his Turkish girlfriend. He really enjoyed life in her company. It´s sad that Paul passed. I´ll retain many fond memories of engaging discussions with this wonderful person. RIP
Chris
October 16, 2024
Paul, will miss our golf, martinis afterwards and good friendship. RIP my friend; you've left many behind who were fortunate to know you.
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