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Paul VanDyk

1952 - 2024

Paul VanDyk Obituary

Paul van Dyk
February 27, 1952 - September 1, 2024
Paul van Dyk of San Francisco died peacefully in his sleep on September 1, 2024. Born February 27, 1952 in Santa Rosa, he was a proud graduate of Cardinal Newman High School, Stanford University and the UC College of Law. Paul's career was spent with his own and other law firms, and financial services institutions. Paul was preceded in death by his father, John, brothers John III and Gerrit, and his wife, Rene. He is survived by his mother, Jean, and brothers Peter (Ann, Savannah, GA) Nicolas (Jill, Los Angeles), numerous nieces and nephews, and companion, Saduman Guzel, all of whom enjoyed his warm kindness and infectious sense of humor. Services were private, with a Celebration of Life to be scheduled for a later date.

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Published by Press Democrat on Oct. 16, 2024.

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Larry W. Bittner

November 8, 2024

I´m am saddened by the news of Paul´s death. He was my dear friend and partner in our 1980´s firm, The Law Offices of Bittner and van Dyk in San Francisco. I had the honor and distint privilege of being his Best Man when he and Rene were married... "I loved my friend. He went away from me. The poem ends, soft as it began. I loved my friend..." by Langston Hughes

R.I.P. dear Paul

Mike Peters

October 17, 2024

I knew Paul because of my friendship with his brother Pete. My favorite memory of Paul was when he, his brother Gary and I decided to drive cross county to Pete (and Ann's) wedding in Indiana. We drove non-stop and had a great time. A storm came through the midwest during our visit necessitating a southern Route 66 trip through sandstorms and horrible winds but made home. I remember getting to know Paul better than when I was hanging out at the VanDyk home. I'll never forget how special a person he was. Mike

Mark

October 16, 2024

I came to know Paul while we walked our dogs. He was very dedicated to Scotty. Paul was a highly intelligent fellow with a quick wit. He often spoke about Stanford while laughing at Cal. He loved golf and was happy to play just south of here. He spoke fondly of his mother and her longevity. He was incredibly happy after finding his Turkish girlfriend. He really enjoyed life in her company. It´s sad that Paul passed. I´ll retain many fond memories of engaging discussions with this wonderful person. RIP

Chris

October 16, 2024

Paul, will miss our golf, martinis afterwards and good friendship. RIP my friend; you've left many behind who were fortunate to know you.

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