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ROBERT CHEE Obituary
Robert H. Chee
Nov 23, 1952-Aug 29, 2012
Robert Chee died peacefully at home in San Francisco on August 29 from intestinal cancer. His wife Roberta was in his presence. Robert was a graduate of Lowell High School and the University of California at Berkeley. He had a long career in commercial real estate starting with Coldwell Banker and later on his own in commercial real estate sales and property management.
Robert found much pleasure in his hobbies and interests. He and Roberta saw the whole world during their 33 year marriage. He developed a deep love of art over the past few decades, sparked by an interest in Mexican masks and culminating in an art collection with a focus on the Bay Area Figurative Movement. He and Roberta loved good food and could often be seen in the latest restaurants. An avid collector, Robert also appreciated fine wine and was quick to share his knowledge and collection with people. Robert was also an avid runner and exercise devotee. Most mornings he could be found running for miles in Golden Gate Park. He had a wonderful sense of humor that was uniquely his own.
Still in their teens, Robert met Roberta, known as Bobbie to family and friends, in 1969. They were married in 1979. Robert is also survived by his brother and sisters, Christine Trink (Anthony), Linda Chan (Bruce), Donna Chee (Ken), Warren Chee (Penny), Susan Quant (Jose) and many nieces and nephews. Robert was predeceased by his loving parents Bill and Diane Chee.
Roberta would like to thank the physicians and staff of the Comprehensive Cancer Center at UCSF for their exceptional care.
A celebration of Robert's life will be held at the St. Francis Yacht Club on Wednesday Sept. 26, 11am-2pm, 99 Yacht Rd. San Francisco 94123.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the UCSF Foundation, Eight Ball, 220 Montgomery St. 5th Fl, SF CA 94104.
Goodbye Robert. We were all privileged to know and love you. We will remember you and miss you, always.
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Memories and Condolences
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Teodora Schubbe
January 9, 2017
Dear Robert,
I cried in my heart when I learned that you passed away. You've been very kind to me. I remember that I bought two life insurance and every time you came to the antique shop where I worked on Union Street close to your office you always said"Hi Doris!" I lost my honest friend.
Sincerely,
Doris Schubbe (formerly D. Teodora Baladad)
Shirley Wong
October 11, 2012
Journeying through, I just wanted to share this msg. before I take off tommorrow. I came across a friend who spoked of Robert in their past path @ one time or another here in the San Francisco area, still a beautiful city to visit/live as they had bumped into/greeted one another, a former CCSF classmate of Robert's. We had a moment just yesterday evening via phone, October 10, 2012 touching base about our most busiest past weekend ever here in San Francisco. Our topic still remained about Robert Chee as one of his friend (classmate) went through memory lane. It is a small world, since I never knew that this person have known Robert Chee. Although this person didn't get a chance to "wave" good-bye this time around or have seen him for a long time, this is a msg. from one of your friend: Thank you very much for being a nice person while you were in my class @CCSF. Personally this is my msg. & I thought: We were nurturing our souls over the topic "Friendship" & that's who Robert Chee has been to some of us as I again take off tommorrow having more time to reflect upon what "Friendship" truly meant. Moving along here, my best regards to those who have been touched by Robert Chee. In God's Care to this delightful Family as I journeyed through learning about whose Robert's family are through my friends. Remembering Robert +
September 29, 2012
I worked with Robert at Grubb & Ellis years ago and remember him with the fondest of memories - he was a happy soul and had a lovely gentle way about him. I am very sorry for your loss - a loss for all of us.
Kathleen McGrath Crabbe
Bob Gee
September 27, 2012
Dear Roberta,
The St Francis Yacht Club setting by the sparkling bay was, indeed, the place for family and so many friends to gather to share the fond and heartfelt reminiscences by Robert's brother, nephews and long time friends. We smiled, laughed and tried not to tear, but our hearts have been so warmed by this most extraordinary human being who has enriched our lives.
Not so long ago over a gourmet hotdog lunch at Showdog's, I asked Robert to estimate his regimen of 30 years of jogging--rain or shine.. He figured 65,000 lifetime miles--or with mathemetical precision--almost 3 times the circumference of the earth at the equator! Then we touched on the Great Beyond ...beyond our comprehension. Robert observed that perhaps the time was approaching when he would be running among the stars... so prescient and poetic from your remarkable husband. And we are assured that he is doing just that...with fleet of foot!
We will strive to live up to his spirited and energetic love of life.
We all thank you for bringing us together to honor Robert...and to honor the equally extraordinary woman whom he loved so much. Our thoughts and our love are with you.
With fondest regards, Bob
George Wooding
September 26, 2012
I am so sad to hear about Robert's passing. I would always see Robert and Rod working out so hard at the Koret gym. Robert and I both had serious medical problems and Robert's spirit and strength were a great inspiration to me I always felt that if he could do it, so could I. He loved life and fought for every second. I miss my friend.
philip neumark
September 25, 2012
Rita and I send our condolences to Roberta and Robert's family. We will not be able to attend the memorial services as we are in Italy. When we travel to Tuscany next week, we will feel Robert's presence. We shared his love for that special part of the world. He certainly knew his way to a fine restaurant.
Ernest Chee
September 23, 2012
You will be missed by all those who knew you.
Harriet Chiu Wong
September 22, 2012
September 21, 2012
I met Robert and his pal Rod at the Koret Center some years ago. Robert impressed all who were lucky enough to know him there with his wit, humor and love of life (food) and incredibly casual way of persevering. He inspired us and we will not forgot him. His gym pal, Marla McGowan
Harriet Chiu Wong
September 19, 2012
I met Robert approx. the 9th grade at Chinese Central High School (Chung Wah). He sat in the back of the classroom and always shared his comic books. Then, a very shy and quiet guy. His sister, Donna, was also in the same class. Lots of laughter then. I then met Roberta in the '70's at their house. She probably doesn't remember me. He was really a nice person and will be truly missed by many friends and family. I may not be able to make it to the services but I will make a donation to UCSF Foundation.
September 19, 2012
Thankful to have known such a kind man.
Steve Sum
Lowellite '70
Lilli Sui Collier
September 15, 2012
I was shocked and saddened to see Robert's obituary in the paper. I met Robert many years ago while working as a temporary receptionist at Grubb & Ellis on
Union Street. He was very nice, intelligent and had a great sense of humor. My sincerest condolences to his wife, Roberta and his family.
Diane Freeman
September 14, 2012
Roberta,
My heart and love are with you, my friend. I won't be able to attend the funeral as I will be out of town. My thoughts will be there. Hope the birds are doing ok! Love, Diane
Sharon Rafter
September 14, 2012
Dear Roberta - You and Robert packed a lifetime of memories into your wonderful marriage. Sending lots of love to you.
sandy edinger
September 13, 2012
Roberta,
Here's to a million memories….sharing Robert and your travel adventures and photos with me, favorite restaurants, art interests and such a wonderful lifestyle and marriage!
September 12, 2012
Dear Robert,
It is with a grateful heart that you have been in our lives. You have always brightened our days with wry wit and humor. I still savor our many gourmet dining occasions with you and dear Roberta. Most of all, you have taught us the art of enduring friendship, a life well lived and loved.
Til we all meet again in the Great Beyond, Bob Gee
September 12, 2012
i met robert through his good friend and my husband frank's best friend, bill teglia. bill and robert shared the challenge of disease that kept knocking on the door and through their love of art. more importantly they shared both a sense of humor and a positive outlook on life. neither of them ever gave in to their physical challenges but instead kept an eye on the future planning activities to look forward to. bill proceeded robert in passing.
i think they are together now having a laugh, making a deal on an art object, and planning something amazing. robert will be missed by myself and my husband frank. my sympathy to his lovely wife and those lucky sibs! deirdre gollop
Tom Lee
September 12, 2012
My condolences to Robert's wife and family. I sat next to Robert at the Cumberland Church Chinese language school in the mid '60's. He was not only very sharp but was always fun to be with. We use to talk about traveling to far off places and what it would be like once we got there. I'm glad he was able to fulfill some of those dreams.
September 12, 2012
Robert was the best brother and friend I could ever ask for! He was always upbeat,knowledgeble extremely considerate and always there for me and my family. We miss you! Love Warren
Brian Fry
September 12, 2012
I met Robert at the Koret Center at USF. If I ever needed advice on travel Robert was the guy to talk to. I loved hearing his stories, his travel tips, and all about his crazy running schedule that he kept for over thirty years. He inspired me to work harder with my fitness and to get out and see the world. He will be missed. The Koret won't be the same without you Robert.
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