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Spiros Nicholas "Bud" Papadakis Jr.

Spiros Papadakis Obituary

Spiros Nicholas "Bud" Papadakis, Jr. At rest on March 10, 2009, age 56. Survived by his wife Lorrie; son Spiros (April); daughter Giana; grandsons, Spiros IV and Ben; his loving mother Ann; sister Marie (Vince) Russo. Visitation Sun., March 15 from 4-7 at Crippen & Flynn, Redwood City.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Mar. 15, 2009.

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September 8, 2009

I am deeply saddened to hear about Buddy ( as I knew him) from my childhood . We went thru elementry school and our high school years at Terra Nova High School...I would like to send my condolences to his family and am so sorry for your loss.
I remember hanging around with Buddy and Gary Price... I use to deliver the Pacifica Tribune newspaper early in the morning before shool...Buddy always laughed at me...I remember his smile and always being so kind and smiling always....I am so sorry he died such a painful death and left such a lovley family.

Love, His childhood friend from Linda Mar Pacifica
Mary Kalabolas
P.O. Box 97
Wallace, CA 95254

April 9, 2009

Giana Papadakis

April 7, 2009

Dad,
Not a day goes by that I dont think of you and miss everything about you (even the things I used to hate about you). You were the most caring man I have ever met, and I know I will never meet anyone who has touched as many lives as you did. No one can ever make me feel more comfortable as you did. Not only were you my dad but you were a role model to so many people. My life will never be the same without you! Sometimes I wonder how I will go on, and then I remember how strong you were. That means your strenth is somewhere in me and I try to bring it out. I wish more than anything to have you back, but I try to think positive and I know you are no longer in pain. Thats one of the only things that makes me happy. I hated seeing you in so much pain. I love you more and more as every day passes and you will always be in my heart. I love you forever and always!

Alynn Delisle

April 2, 2009

April 02, 2009
My son Danny had wanted to play baseball for a long time and as a single working mom commuting to SF every day I didn't see how I could ever manage getting him to practice, games, etc - I will be forever grateful to Bud for making everything so effortless for me when Danny made his team - he never minded if I was a little late and he was great for my son -- Danny didn't start playing until he was 10 or so and Bud took extra time to teach him the basics and still have fun. He always made the games fun - all the kids loved him - and I think Tony was on the same team. Danny played for a long time and I credit his skill and continued love for the game to Bud, his first coach! I am so very grateful - what a great guy, my thoughts, prayers and love are with you all..

Gayle Collins

March 29, 2009

I remember Bud fondly as my son's baseball coach. Brent had a temper and his use of colorful language was handled by Bud in an amazing way. I never forgot it and will remember him for that. He will be missed.

Sue Mcclure-Alessi

March 26, 2009

I will always think of Buddy as my 3rd brother. He was always so full of life and laughter. He watched over me many times and now someone is watching over him. Im sure he is putting together a great team up there! I will forever cherish all our memories of growing up in Pacifica with Bud and Lori and all the good times we had. He will never be forgotten and he will always be remembered with a smile! Thanks for the memories! Love to all the Papadakis Family. (Susie Mac)

Ryan Morris

March 25, 2009

Bud was a kind of coach that I will never have again. He made the game so much fun in so many different ways and made sure we were never bored in the dugout. His enthusiasm for life, baseball, and the lives of his players will never be forgotten and will always be much appreciated. This summer on the Post 105 Blues was the best summer of baseball I have ever had because of the fun that we had as a group. Bud was a huge part of that. Thanks for the calls at college Bud and making sure I am always doing ok. Much love Buddy,
Ryan

Chelsea Lewis

March 24, 2009

Dear Lori, G, Ton, and my loving Godfather Bud-

I love you all unconditionally. You have all been in my life since i was a little girl, and i have shared so many wonderful memories with your family. Bud- you will always be in my heart. You were my godfather and a second dad to me, and a best to my father gerry and my mother jamie. We miss you terribly. Our prayers our with you all. Lots of love,
Chelsea Lewis **

Sherry Matarrese

March 22, 2009

Bud was one of a kind. I know I won't ever know another person like him..he was special to me as he was to many. A real friend for a long time. I have so many great memories. When I first moved to CA, 2000 miles from home at 23 y/o I hardly knew anyone. Lorrie was the first person to befriend me & I felt like I'd known her all my life. She & Bud were such a huge part of my life..always there to support, love & care. No one could make me laugh like Bud & he had the best expressions but he also had a deep side, a side of real compassion & caring. He loved his family, his friends, his players with all of his heart. I will miss him terribly and my love & prayers go out to my dear Lorrie, Tony, Gianna. I pray that your memories and the love he had for all of you will keep you strong. You're in my heart & I love you.

Tim Curtin

March 22, 2009

Bud, Pap, Hacket, Budman, Joyboy,
We all had names for this wonderful human being that touched our lives. You want to be on Bud's team, because you usually won. But for sure you were going to have more fun. A look, a comment, a gesture. A leader, a larger then life figure. They talk about people who can take over a room by their presense and still look at you and make a connection, as if you were the only one there. That was our Bud. He could be serious and give out the best advise in the world, but that wasn't his job in life as much as making you laugh and never get down for long. He fell down sometimes, we all do, but Buddy could pick you up with his tools for life "Laughter and Joy". What a friend, a husband, a son, a brother, a father, an uncle, a teammate, a coach. Let's do the best job we can the rest of our lives, so we can meet up again and be on Bud's team and spread a lot of laughter and joy.
God Bless you till we meet again.
Tim Curtin

Scoma Family

March 16, 2009

Dear Lori, Tony, Giana, and Mom (Ann),
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Bud left is mark in the San Carlos baseball world and all the boys loved playing for him. My heart goes out to you all. I know he will be dearly missed by many.

Gary Hernandez

March 15, 2009

You have left us too early, Bud. I have fond memories of our baseball days in Pacifica, and will always be grateful for the confidence you had in my son Dan. You were his favorite coach, by far. Our family's thoughts and prayers are with yours at this difficult time. God by with you.

Renee & Tom Sims

March 15, 2009

Thank you for all the wonderful memories Bud. We had such great times at Sequoia. Thank you for your time and love not only for our son (Justin) but the time you spent with so many other young men. We are truly grateful. May God bless you and your family as they walk without you for awhile. Love, Renee & Tom Sims

March 14, 2009

Buddy was like a brother to me. I have four but if one of them was not around to look after me, there was Bud. He made sure I was safe, kept an eye on me. Our families were so close growing up that it seemed like we were all related. The blend of family and friendship went hand in hand with us and our parents. I will cherish the "good ole days" at the baseball fields and tournaments where we grew up and came to love each other as family. Though we did not see each other enough as time went on and our own families grew, I enjoyed every gathering we spent together. Bud, always positive, smiling through his pain and his great sense of strength and courage will be my memory. You will be missed by all the Downing's. You are with two very fine men, your dad and mine. Love,like a sister, Pammy(Downing) Lechleitner

RICHARD HART

March 14, 2009

My Brother, you always were there for everybody. Thanks for all the laughs. Bud said to me two weeks ago, "RICHIE MY LIFE WAS ONLY TEN MINUTES LONG" I get it my brother, I will see you on the other side Bro, LOVE AND
RESPECT, RICHIE

March 14, 2009

Bud always brought us so much joy when he came around. Ed and I will truly miss him..He was a wonderful man that was taken from us way to soon. I am sorry we did not get to see him more often.

Bud and Giana

March 14, 2009

Giana and Mike

March 14, 2009

Papa & Benjamin

March 14, 2009

Papa & Nicholas (Spiros 2 & 4)

March 14, 2009

Tony & April

March 14, 2009

Marie Russo

March 13, 2009

Bud was my little brother, but always acted like a BIG brother, always looking out for me and protecting me. We may have fought as kids, but we always protected each other from others. I am only sorry that I couldn't protect you from this horrible desease. My heart is breaking. Family celebrations will never be the same without you.
I LOVE YOU and will MISS YOU FOREVER.
With all My Love your sister, Marie

Leslie McGarry

March 12, 2009

Buddy has been just like my brother since I was 9 years old. When Lynie and I were little, he would let us take turns beating him up and we loved it! I'll never forget the first day I saw him - he came over to meet the family - and I couldn't believe how tall (and skinny) he was! And that slicked back hair!
And speaking of his hair! Remember the afro at the wedding? He was definitely about his hair...but I digress.
Over all these years our 2 families have blended into one big family. I feel truly lucky and blessed to have Buddy and all his (our) family in my life. All of our holidays, birthdays and celebrations are definitely enriched when we are all together!
So here's to Buddy - my brother - the man who walked me down the aisle at my wedding - the man who almost drowned me (in-joke) - the man who would say ANYTHING to ANYONE. I am so glad you are no longer in pain but all of us are going to miss you. All my love...

Mike McGarry

March 12, 2009

I have known Bud for 26 years. He has been a great example of family. We grew very close over the last 10 years. He is my friend, my brother and my family. He was the stand-in father at our wedding and has been a great example to my kids. Baseball and softball season will never be the same. We love you, Bud. Mike, Leslie, Kevin & Alayna McGarry

Paul & Jan Mazzotti

March 12, 2009

We first met Buddy shortly after our wedding in 1975. When ever I think of him it makes me smile. We have so many memories of the early years with Bud and Lorrie when the guys played ball together. The four of us went on countless tournaments. Lorrie and I would sit in the stands and cheer on our guys and their team. Bud passed through the pearly gates too soon but he has left us with love and laughter in our hearts that we will cherish always. Love & friendship, Jan & Paul

Gerry Lewis

March 12, 2009

I met Bud the day his son, Tony, was born. He was the best man in our wedding and is the godfather of our daughter, Chelsea. He was a great friend and will forever be in our hearts. We love you, Spiros...Gerry, Jamie & Chelsea

Maureen Marshall

March 12, 2009

I have known Bud since he was 7 years old, quick with a smile and a joke. He will be missed. Not too many people can leave behind a long list of accomplishments like Bud did. He had such a positive effect on the young ball players from the peninsula. A loving Son, Brother, Husband, & Papa, they just don't get any better than Bud. I will miss you my friend. Love, Maureen

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